First, your attitude and philosophy is an essential ingredient, if you hope to change or modify your child’s actions and words. If your child speaks to you with disrespect, and you expend the energy to try to get them to change their attitude, you are, in essence, teaching them that the world will really care about their attitude.
I engaged my children for respectful, calm, and appropriate interactions. Smile, look at them, and compliment them from time to time on their mature behavior.
This kind of behavior will help them in their whole life and their manners will give me chance to proud on them. Love your children, nothing is more than them.