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What do you do if you have an unsupportive, unloving family?


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LongTimeMother says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    Some time it is not that easy you can not turn away from the love you want from your own family a love that should have left in the first place it makes you start asking if it was you were the reason the don't love you...


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Dr. Rebecca Sanders (DrRebeccaSanders) says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    your right you need to distance yourself. Depending on how bad this person is, you need to take a step back. Remember, if you are extremely stressed, and your own mental health is at stake, don't have anything to do with him. I know it's hard.

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Rohan Rinaldo Felix (rohanfelix) says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    Sometimes, a short intervention to provide technical support by an international partner or by a neighbouring friend is a very good thing

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Sri T (the mystic) (Sri T) says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    Love of God grows as you mature in life. We become grateful for all his gifts, such as the beauty of creation and our family and friends even in bad time we should seek him for guidance

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Derrick Bennett (soconfident) says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    When it comes to motivating and pushing yourself, it's usually filled with cliché advice. Don't give up, Get over it or Always look on the bright side of things

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Dorothy Cooper (dorothy0328) says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    It's not about me it's just a question I was asking.

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lburmaster says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    I agree with you motivation is an internal process that makes a person move toward a goal no matter what it is.

When Your Family Is Just NOT There For YOU86

When Your Family Is Just NOT There For YOU

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    Emotional abuse has been associated with parents’

    own histories of maltreatment and experience of less

    than optimal relationships with carers The experience of

    emotional abuse hasbeen noted to affect

    ability to cope with and manage stressful situatio

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Lavender Jade says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    Rejection is terrible, no matter who is rejecting whom. When rejection comes from family it is a doubly bitter pill - these are the people who should be a main stay in your life, but sometime you just have to let go step back and live your life.

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Suzette Walker suzettetaos (suzettenaples) says

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Grace-Wolf-30 says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    To find your inner strength, you need to come to terms with who you are and learn how to value your unique contributions to the world but that's not easy and some people just can't handle rejection.

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kaiyan717 says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    But would that feel the void of your family and love ones

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LensMan999 says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    LensMann99 Well said I agree with you I would also try but there are times when trying is not enough then what do you do being turned away when your trying is going to be a hurting experience each and every times.

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savvydating says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    I think people should stop anger and actually be nice to someone, no matter how mean they have become. You can become "one of the nicest people" you'll ever meet, but bear in mind that you are the only one who can make this significant change in you.


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Moronke Odugbesan (moronkee) says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    Some time you just have to do just that and that's hard when your wanting hat fay love hat your longing for.

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PoeticPhilosophy says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    Unfortunately, negative people may not be concerned with the effect their behavior has on others; they simply want to get rid of their own uncomfortable feelings ...

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Jawad (seoexprtm) says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    Well that's your opinion but o one should et anyone walk all over you or take advantage of you some time you have to voice your feelings.

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EmmieCarmi says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    When friends become like family, they're framily. closer than close, they may know you better than your own family.

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AMAZING THINKER says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    Believing that things happen to you puts you in the role of victim; then it’s easy to be negative because it’s convenient to give up that power so you must be strong with in your own self to move forward.

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ANIL KUMAR UPADHYAY (AUPADHYAY) says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    God has promised each and every one of us that we will face difficulties and The real test for us is how we deal with these trials. However difficult the hardships may be, God always helps the believers and intends good for them.

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ctbrown7 says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    I believe everyone in your family plays a vital role in helping to build or reinforce Family Assets, and everyone benefits from a strong family but it takes more than just you it has to be a group effort .

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Joanne M Olivieri says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    I think being able to maintain oneself or itself without outside aid is something we all strive for but there are those who can no do that for one reason or another that were the support of family and or friend comes in to play.

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rexy says

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    Handicapped Chef 3 years ago

    True but you can't take it to dinner and a movie and it will never invite you out on a date....ect...it's more to life than cyber beings.

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