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Arrogance & Ignorance...

  1. Rafini profile image87
    Rafiniposted 3 years ago

    My nephew recently informed me that my sister described me by saying:

    Arrogance and Ignorance go hand in hand.

    Okay, okay, I can admit it.  I am a confident person, and I really don't know everything.  Aside from this truth, what does this quote mean?

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image66
      prettydarkhorseposted 3 years ago in reply to this

      Hi Rafini. I really don't know what does it mean. "Silent water runs deep", is all I can think about that.

      1. Rafini profile image87
        Rafiniposted 3 years ago in reply to this

        deep thinking?  hmmm...I don't get it.

        1. prettydarkhorse profile image66
          prettydarkhorseposted 3 years ago in reply to this

          It is about humility and knowing when to speak with wisdom smile

          or

          Most often those who are noisy are the ones who are shallow.

          1. Rafini profile image87
            Rafiniposted 3 years ago in reply to this

            gotcha.  thanks pdh  smile

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    Beth37posted 3 years ago

    True wisdom brings humility, not the opposite as ppl would suppose.

    1. Rafini profile image87
      Rafiniposted 3 years ago in reply to this

      Hi.  What do you mean?

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        Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

        When you understand what is most important, what is good and right, when you realize how short you fall from the mark... it humbles you.

        When you have the answer, but don't raise your hand, it is because you have learned *your voice isn't necessarily the voice most needed at the moment and sometimes your silence leaves room for something or someone else to speak. Not because you are fearful, or wrong, but because humility teaches us that the loudest speaker isn't always the speaker best heard.

        Wisdom in each situation is recognizing whether your necessity to be heard in that moment benefits you or the listener more. If it is filling a need in you, then it is probably not filling a great need in the listener.

        My husbands grandmother was a deeply loved woman. Her children, all 5, were very controlling ppl. There was little they weren't opinionated about. They were not quick to forgive. They often found themselves at odds with their own children... but why was the one who raised them so beloved? She held her tongue. She kept her opinions to herself. She opened her arms to all, and let go of hurts and regrets. Wisdom isn't being right, loudly. It's knowing when to be silent for the benefit of others.  At least, that's my best guess... I have a lot left to learn. smile

        1. Rafini profile image87
          Rafiniposted 3 years ago in reply to this

          "Wisdom isn't being right, loudly. It's knowing when to be silent for the benefit of others"

          beautifully said.  thank you.  this must be what I was supposed to learn - think I failed....  or, maybe I learned part of the opposite lesson - speaking up when necessary instead of when I "know" the answer....

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            Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

            I s'pose so. To be a bit cliche, life's a journey. Hopefully, we never stop learning.

            1. Rafini profile image87
              Rafiniposted 3 years ago in reply to this

              smile  yup, agreed.

  3. Rafini profile image87
    Rafiniposted 3 years ago

    Spoke with my academic adviser today and asked her too.   Her interpretation:

    Someone who thinks too highly of themselves - without reason.


    Quite interesting, my sister projecting.  lol  Thanks, both of you, for your help.  smile

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      Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

      Interesting. smile

 
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