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Need help asking girl out! before its to late!

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    they dont knowposted 7 years ago

    I have been talking to this girl for about 1 month. I have already tried asking her out like the first week but she told me no and said she dosnt want to be with anybody right now! So I kept it cool and still talk to her like friends but I just don't want to be a friend! I really like this girl I can't stop thinking about her! FYI we are both 18!  And I work full time so I don't really get to see her as often that I want to! Only on weekends! We have also gone on a couple of dates! But I just can't find the right time to ask her to be my girlfriend!!!!!   PLEASE NEED HELP!

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      PinkBubbleposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      If you have already made it clear to her that you want a relationship, and she said no, then pushing the matter isn't going to help. Just be her friend for now. If things are meant to be, then she will let you know. The ball is in her court.

      Also, you are not running out of time, so calm down! smile

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        they dont knowposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        okay! thanks i will see how it goes from here!

  2. artificialhaze profile image61
    artificialhazeposted 7 years ago

    ignore her!! That will get her wanting you more than anything.  Their is nothing a girl loves more than a complete a#s hole.  If your mean to her, and ignore her, she will come...

  3. Kid_A profile image59
    Kid_Aposted 7 years ago

    Maybe you are punching above your weight?!

  4. Dame Scribe profile image59
    Dame Scribeposted 7 years ago

    My sons are very popular with the girls. They are so laid back and do a lot of running away lol lol ... but the specific girls they like...they stand aside and flirt with her n dont let on they like her ...but she does get VIP treatment and they poof if *she* is near and they are surrounded with other girls, lol lol

  5. waynet profile image47
    waynetposted 7 years ago

    I am the definitive expert in these situations...just dress up like the Fonz and go eeeeeeh in her face!!

  6. tksensei profile image61
    tksenseiposted 7 years ago

    She said no. Don't be her friend and don't be her stalker. Go away and meet some other girls.

  7. sheenarobins profile image81
    sheenarobinsposted 7 years ago

    You got plenty of time, you know. You're just 18 perhaps it would seem like we don't understand you but believe me, we've been there, done that.

    I got married at 18 because I was very impatient now that I am 30 I realized it was one of the stupid decisions I ever made. Except for my kids. I did things the other way around.

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    they dont knowposted 7 years ago

    Thanks for all the replys I just asked her out and now to find out she has been feeling the same way about me! smile now I just need some advice on how to keep this lasting! Thanks!