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Having more than one Partner.

  1. Lady_E profile image82
    Lady_Eposted 7 years ago

    Some Countries in the world allow men to marry more than one wife. It is perfectly acceptable.

    Single Men Hubbers - Could you cope with more than one wife?
    Single Lady Hubbers – Could you deal with being a second wife?
    Married Hubbers – Any views?

    1. accofranco profile image76
      accofrancoposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Double-dating right? Sounds adventurous but looks insane too! I would have to reason first;Tina,Chioma,Nnenna,Christy,Chelsea,Anne,Julie,Rosy,Gina,Funmi,Aisha,Rhobo,Ibiye,Ufok,Tanya,Sabrena,Lila...o no, i rather choose one so my peener can rest...

      1. goldentoad profile image59
        goldentoadposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        work dat peener ACCO, it needs to get stronger!

        1. accofranco profile image76
          accofrancoposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          My careers and engagements won't permit me Goldent.

      2. blondepoet profile image80
        blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Wow you are a real stud accofranco no wonder I am your biggest fan

    2. usmanali81 profile image59
      usmanali81posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Yes, i think i can handle with more than one wife upto 4 smile

      1. VENUGOPAL SIVAGNA profile image59
        VENUGOPAL SIVAGNAposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I very much appreciate the question of Lady_E... For men, it is "can you cope with more than one wife". For ladies, it is "could you deal with being a second wife" and not "can you deal with more than one husband". Really surprising.

        For Usmanali, there is no limit for greed. You can have any numbe of wives, if you can keep them honorably. But you cannot give that privilege to your partner. It is better to do what we expect from others.  (In Hindu myths, Emperor Dasaratha had 60000 unofficial wives and four official wives. But his son Rama was devoted to one wife only, called Sita.)

        1. usmanali81 profile image59
          usmanali81posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          No, Muslims have the limit upto 4, not any more

          Regarding giving privilage to women ... well ... Firstly you should realise, that man is more sexual than the woman. Biogically, a man can perform his duty as a husband, even after he has more than one wife… which a woman, if she has more than one husband, she will not be able to perform her duty, as a wife, enough and satisfactorily. Medical Science tells us that… ‘a lady… during her menstrual period, undergoes certain behavioral and psychological changes… in which she is mentally disturbed and therefore… the majority of the quar¬rels that take place are during the menstrual period.

          Further if a man who has more than one wife, if he marries and if he has children, the identification of both the parents is possible - The father can be identified, and as well as the mother can be identified. In the other case, if a wife has more than one husband, you will only identify the mother, not the father. Islam gives utmost importance, to identification of the parents. And Psychologists tell us that… ‘If a child cannot identify his parents, he undergoes mental trauma’. No wonder the children of prostitutes, they have a very bad childhood. And if the child goes for admission in the school, and if he is asked… ‘What is the name of the father?’…  You will have to give 2 names - and you know what the child is called.

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            Blackngoldbananaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I agree that a male "role model" is important to a child's self-esteem, but it does not have to be the "birth" father...many people have been quite happy and successful with men who have acted as "surrogate" fathers.  Also, nowadays, at least in the US, there is such a thing called DNA testing.  Scientific proof of who the father is...just swab the inside of the cheek of all parties involved and there is no question.

            As for men wanting and or needing more sex, that is absolutely not true, especially when a man gets older or a man has medical problems.  Bigamy is merely an excuse for a man to screw around without having to leave the house.

            1. usmanali81 profile image59
              usmanali81posted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Sorry, you are totally wrong about it, men whether old or young always have greater sex drive as compared to women. You can do a poll on it and see the results.

              1. Shil1978 profile image88
                Shil1978posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Hmm - so you have proof of that? Polls aren't used to prove or disprove, so its pointless to have polls!!!

                1. usmanali81 profile image59
                  usmanali81posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  then you can do a research

                  1. Shil1978 profile image88
                    Shil1978posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    Why should I --- you made a claim, the onus of proving is up to you. So, go ahead and prove!!

              2. chukra G profile image61
                chukra Gposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                hello number of female incresing and the male cromosom shrinking do anyone knew this, thats why islam urge a man to marry with 4

    3. alekhouse profile image81
      alekhouseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Don't think I could do it. But now, having two husbands, that's a different story. Might be able to handle that.

    4. TrinaLynne profile image74
      TrinaLynneposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      In Islam it is acceptable to have more than one wife but only by certain terms. And it is also prescribed that if you find one who is true to stick with that one. While this is my religion, I am not comfortable with polygamy.

    5. chukra G profile image61
      chukra Gposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      i am actually fANtacying( i dont know the spelling) a married gal smile

    6. Davinagirl3 profile image60
      Davinagirl3posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Could a woman have two husbands?  I think it should be fair.  Personally, though, to each his own.  I don't like to see women being turned into chattle, but if that is not the case... and the man can afford two women... Go for it.  It works for Hef.

  2. wychic profile image79
    wychicposted 7 years ago

    I'm somewhere between single and married, so I'll chime in wink. Personally, I'm a very jealous kind of person and wouldn't be able to "share". However, I'm sure a large part of this is because of the culture I was raised with as well as the views on marriages in the US. In some countries and cultures (both past and present) marriage has had many uses other than the joining of two people that love each other. I suppose if I weren't in love with my husband, there would be the possibility of comfortably co-existing with the other wives. As is, heck no!

  3. Dame Scribe profile image60
    Dame Scribeposted 7 years ago

    There is only a tiny percent of monogamous relationships around the world...but don't think I want to handle more than one husband or be 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife to anybody tongue lol

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      badcompany99posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I am way happy with 4 pulses smile

      1. Mark Knowles profile image59
        Mark Knowlesposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I agree. 4 is good. Too much chance of them to gang up on you with only 3. big_smile

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          badcompany99posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Lol nice reply Mark ; )

    2. tony0724 profile image60
      tony0724posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Dammit Dame I wanted to ask you out !

  4. Dame Scribe profile image60
    Dame Scribeposted 7 years ago

    lol Bc99, of course, lol

  5. Dame Scribe profile image60
    Dame Scribeposted 7 years ago

    Woesy to the man with discord in that sort of marriage wink lol

  6. countrywomen profile image59
    countrywomenposted 7 years ago

    It is perfectly unacceptable for me. I get jealous even if he starts praising some of his pretty female colleagues. It just doesn't seem fair for women to have to deal with that kind of situation on a daily basis. I read somewhere that even in US there are some sects which practice polygamy (and women's role becomes subhuman where except for child bearing/rearing no decision making is granted to them). Well anyway that is my view.

  7. cindyvine profile image86
    cindyvineposted 7 years ago

    I wouldn't mind having two husbands but don't think I'd like to share my man with another woman

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      badcompany99posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Lol talk about having yer cake and eating it. Is it just me or is that a stupid saying, like cmom of course yer gonna eat yer cake or else why get the damn thing, life is strange, doncha think ?

      1. RooBee profile image83
        RooBeeposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I always hated that saying - it's about time someone called it out for making no sense! smile

        As for the sharing thing: I'd say I'm not for it smile - I definitely couldn't share a guy (hubscore be damned lol) and having a bunch of men to pick up after? I did that when I had male roommates back in the day, nah. I'll pass smile

        1. saherneeno profile image59
          saherneenoposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          im am also agry with u usmanali

          1. usmanali81 profile image59
            usmanali81posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            why

    2. countrywomen profile image59
      countrywomenposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Even that thought didn't cross my mind. You sure have very bold thinking, Cindy. Btw in our class on world cultures we read that there are some Tibetan groups where polyandry is practiced. smile

      1. Teresa McGurk profile image59
        Teresa McGurkposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I guess it might be a product of demographics -- where there are way more men than women, say, polyandry would make sense.

  8. Teresa McGurk profile image59
    Teresa McGurkposted 7 years ago

    I wouldn't mind having two husbands.
    I wouldn't mind sharing a guy with someone else either, though.  I could disappear to write whenever I wanted to, and he wouldn't feel neglected.

    1. Inspirepub profile image85
      Inspirepubposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I'm with you, Teresa - I am very happy for someone else to accompany him on those infernal camping trips where you have to carry in all your own food and water, and dig holes in the ground to poop ... I'l be off with someone else in a 5-star hotel, thank you very much!

      Jenny

  9. Teresa McGurk profile image59
    Teresa McGurkposted 7 years ago

    Look, girls!  Saying I wouldn't mind sharing a guy made my hubscore go up one point!

    1. Aya_Hajime profile image61
      Aya_Hajimeposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I always knew that the Hub Score algorithm was made up by a guy!

      As for monogamy vs. polygamy I think that any kind of arrangement can work out well as long as people are honest with each other and with themselves.

      1. Teresa McGurk profile image59
        Teresa McGurkposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Makes sense.

    2. Eaglekiwi profile image74
      Eaglekiwiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      youre so naughty lmao  lol

      1. Teresa McGurk profile image59
        Teresa McGurkposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        But the second I posted the comment the score changed --

    3. Frieda Babbley profile image79
      Frieda Babbleyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      In that case, I don't mind either.  LOL.   No ideas Paper Moon!  I know where you live and I'm not afraid to distroy your pillows!

      1. blondepoet profile image80
        blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Mine has not changed yet either and I suggested five grrrr

        1. Paper Moon profile image83
          Paper Moonposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          my wife said she would share me and I went up TWO!  (not that I am getting any ideas)

          1. blondepoet profile image80
            blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Mmmm you and Frieda came at the same time not that I noticed or anything, I am blind with all the steam here...

            1. Paper Moon profile image83
              Paper Moonposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              we got into a tiff over a comment I made on her hub, so she posted on mine so I followed her here.  She would give me away for a hub score!  But I am not falling for it.

      2. Paper Moon profile image83
        Paper Moonposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        as if I could handle more than one of you.  Hmph.

        1. Frieda Babbley profile image79
          Frieda Babbleyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Double hmph!

          1. Paper Moon profile image83
            Paper Moonposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            No not double Hmph.  I already said two of you would be too much! 
            Hmph.

    4. kmackey32 profile image82
      kmackey32posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Ok Ill try it. I Have shared a guy. LOL

    5. R. Blue profile image60
      R. Blueposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Teresa....a gaggle of guys just might hit you the century mark.

  10. blondepoet profile image80
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    Hey Teresa maybe my score may go up one point too. Yes I want 5 husbands but I only want to be one wife. Can you imagine picking up 5 lots of dirty jocks off the bathroom floor everyday, the toilet seat would be forever up, they would all have to go see Cindy first so she can house train them.

    1. Teresa McGurk profile image59
      Teresa McGurkposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Good grief it would be like being married to a frat house. . .

  11. thranax profile image60
    thranaxposted 7 years ago

    I know religion doesn't allow it, but I think that if a husband can treat all of the wifes equally, then it should be allowed. With so many problems as it is with abuse of women in relationships, I don't think it is a great idea unless somehow that changes.

    ~thranax~

  12. LondonGirl profile image92
    LondonGirlposted 7 years ago

    I would mind sharing a lot. And I don't care if my score goes down a point!

    1. Rochelle Frank profile image89
      Rochelle Frankposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Yes, but you have points to spare.

  13. moposan profile image60
    moposanposted 7 years ago

    poor children

  14. blondepoet profile image80
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    Think about it 5 husbands
    1. an accountant to work things out
    2. a doctor to act out the doctor/nurse thingy
    3. A checkout operator to press the right buttons
    4. A trawlerman to bring home lots and lots of prawns everyday
    5. A musician to make some sweet music with
    See it all makes sense

    1. Rochelle Frank profile image89
      Rochelle Frankposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You need someone to repair and maintain your car

      1. blondepoet profile image80
        blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Oh Rochelle that is a great idea ok lets make it 6 husbands we need a mechanic too.

      2. mydreamsRtrue profile image60
        mydreamsRtrueposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        dON'T NEED FIVE MENS WITH ONE IT'S FIND FOR ME AND WOULD NOT LIKE TO SHARE MY MAN! IF I NEED A NEW MAN I WOULD RATHER HAVE SOMETHING ELSE TO SATISFIED MY NEED (YOU KNOW WHAT i MEAN) MY TOYS lol

  15. Shadesbreath profile image90
    Shadesbreathposted 7 years ago

    I would not share a wife with anyone; I insist on being adored and held as the center of the universe.  However, as the center of the universe, it is only natural that many heavenly bodies be in my orbit, so I'm totally in support of me having multiple wives.

    1. Nanny J.O.A.T. profile image90
      Nanny J.O.A.T.posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      typical - you expect us ladies to revolve around your needs - what about the other 23 hours and 45 minutes of the day?? Do we get to shop using your credit cards? LOL!!!!!!

      1. Shadesbreath profile image90
        Shadesbreathposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        You are free to amuse yourselves after my needs are met as you like (barring contact with other men), and yes, feel free to use my credit cards.  However, you may not leave me without my permission once they are maxed out, and I do prefer that you are gainfully employed so you can pay them off.  That'd be great, and I do appreciate how we are on the same page here.  I feel like we've really connected just now.

        tongue

        1. AEvans profile image70
          AEvansposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Shade you are so naughty, can you send the credit card..lololol:D

          1. Shadesbreath profile image90
            Shadesbreathposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Credit cards are handed out post-honeymoon.  big_smile




            Did courtesans really "choose" or did the work to create circumstance in which they were chosen?

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              Leta Sposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Some choose, I'm sure...  Ever see "A Dangerous Beauty?"  Great stuff, lol.

              Anyway, I've chosen every guy I've had, why would I stop if I become a courtesan?  Didn't say I'd give up my day job, wink.  Women have soooo many choices these days, Shades!

              1. Shadesbreath profile image90
                Shadesbreathposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Yeah, I did see it.  That was good.  Rough way to make a living though.  lol.

                And the choices thing, yeah, I think we've already discussed the end of male dominance on that robust women hub.  The only thing guys ever had was brute strength and the ability to "provide."  Women can provide for themselves, and brute strength is not a means of securing mates anymore now that the whole club-her-over-the-head-and-drag-her-to-the-cave thing is over.  We got nothing left.



                Oh, so you like it rough and in control.  Nice.  You'll fit into my universe nicely.

                1. Nanny J.O.A.T. profile image90
                  Nanny J.O.A.T.posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  Some guys... will do anything to live out their fantasy!!! Shade you are just too much!!!!

                  I may just have to put you on my list of things to try - once.

        2. Nanny J.O.A.T. profile image90
          Nanny J.O.A.T.posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Shade....Dear...Honey - have you read my profile? Go look - I'll wait....

          Now about connecting with you? I can see parts of my anatomy connecting with parts of yours - but not in any intimate way!!!

          You work - I lead the shopping and if you're really good - I'll let the ladies bring you back some "toys" to play with on us.

    2. blondepoet profile image80
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I feel the same way such wisdom you speak. There is no way anyone is putting their hands on my 6 husbands.

      1. Teresa McGurk profile image59
        Teresa McGurkposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Think of all those salaries coming in, too, BP: you would never need to work again.  Six is a good number.

        1. blondepoet profile image80
          blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I never thought of the dollar signs til now oh this gets better all the time. All resumes I gladly accept....

  16. AEvans profile image70
    AEvansposted 7 years ago

    If the men can have two wives which many countries have it , I believe then it should also allow women to have two husbands. It is only fair, what is good for the man should be good for the woman.
    As for me personally I would not share my husband with another woman as I like for it to be all mine. smile

  17. Nanny J.O.A.T. profile image90
    Nanny J.O.A.T.posted 7 years ago

    NO sharing - As a Leo - I need one on one adulation as well as give it.

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    Leta Sposted 7 years ago

    I wouldn't do sloppy seconds for anyone!  Yuck. 

    However, if that's the way its gotta be, easier to be a courtesan and choose what you want, wink.

  19. cindyvine profile image86
    cindyvineposted 7 years ago

    Well, I was amazed when I went to Xi'An and visited an old stone age village to see that the ancient Chinese culture was a matriarchal one, where one woman had many husbands, each with a special duty or job as Blonde pointed out.  You see Blonde, we're just two stone-age women!

    1. AEvans profile image70
      AEvansposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      We are three lolololo big_smile

      1. blondepoet profile image80
        blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Yahooo of course AE is in. Well there are three of us so we got to multiply 3 x 6 =.......hang on I will go grab my calculator

    2. blondepoet profile image80
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I knew there was wisdom in my words woo hoo now Cindy we got to find those six men

  20. cindyvine profile image86
    cindyvineposted 7 years ago

    Hey AE, three of us can start our own commune, just us and a herd of men like stud bulls.  We'd have to have so many men as with so many men to please we wouldn't be able to do any work, all the men will have to take care of the chores while we are busy pleasuring!

    1. Teresa McGurk profile image59
      Teresa McGurkposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Em. . . can I play, too?

      1. AEvans profile image70
        AEvansposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Yes !!! Now we have four anyone else want to play??? I do love Cindy's idea. smile

      2. blondepoet profile image80
        blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Wooo hooo Teresa the belly dancer wants in ok girls we now need to multiply 4 x 6= ....got to go and work this out on paper...where is my accountant????

    2. blondepoet profile image80
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Oh Lordy bring on the herd I am packed ready to go..

    3. tksensei profile image61
      tksenseiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You realize of course that these men would eventually kill each other and the few remaining survivors would invent ESPN and expect you to fetch them wings and beer on a regular basis.

  21. Eaglekiwi profile image74
    Eaglekiwiposted 7 years ago

    One guy do to be the handyman ( electrical repairs, techie stuff,kill cockroaches)
    One to be a driver, and man enough to ask directions
    One to dig the garden, clean the pool
    One to humor, entertain,escort  etc
    One Spare who doesnt like sports (therefore will not hog ,or switch channels when moi goes to pee, or let dog out.

    Yep five oughta do it ,but ok economys down , we all gotta cut back so never let it be said I was greedy , three will be fine.
    lol

    1. blondepoet profile image80
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      That is now five in...oh this is turning into a massive orgy. smile

      1. Eaglekiwi profile image74
        Eaglekiwiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        BP..five with drive lol

  22. cindyvine profile image86
    cindyvineposted 7 years ago

    yeah, the four of us with twenty men!  Omigod, what pleasures might lie ahead!

    1. blondepoet profile image80
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      My mouth is like the sea beneath the golden skies, it is foaming.....

  23. Teresa McGurk profile image59
    Teresa McGurkposted 7 years ago

    Did anyone's hubscore go up at the idea?

    1. Eaglekiwi profile image74
      Eaglekiwiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      not mine ,but I suspect somethings on the rise teresa..lol

    2. blondepoet profile image80
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      No not yet Teresa am just sitting here waiting for the Hub people to press the button, gee they take their time hey?

  24. Eaglekiwi profile image74
    Eaglekiwiposted 7 years ago

    psst would it be alright if I can be one with the headache tonight lol

    1. Teresa McGurk profile image59
      Teresa McGurkposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      See?  Now, see that's why I wouldn't mind sharing a guy with another woman, either -- tag team.

    2. blondepoet profile image80
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Yes sure we will look after your share while you rest ROFL

  25. goldentoad profile image59
    goldentoadposted 7 years ago

    I can barely handle my weekly two minute session. I am way past my prime and I can't imagine doubling my time. My poor wee wee.

    1. Eaglekiwi profile image74
      Eaglekiwiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      aww GT well swap shifts with the pool guy for a couple of nights, we have good benefits too lol

    2. AEvans profile image70
      AEvansposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You are not way past your prime, you and I are the same age. You can do it GT , you are not ready for Viagra yet. LOLOLOLO :::smile

    3. blondepoet profile image80
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You are too modest toad sorry too late us girls have already kidnapped you....we going to get your engine going again against all your protests

  26. cindyvine profile image86
    cindyvineposted 7 years ago

    Gee, we scared all the men commenting in this forum away!  Lol, they want more than one women but have problems when we want more than one man!

    1. tony0724 profile image60
      tony0724posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I am not scared of anything !

      1. AEvans profile image70
        AEvansposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I didn't think you would be.smile

    2. tony0724 profile image60
      tony0724posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I am not scared of anything !

      1. blondepoet profile image80
        blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Do you want in Tony...do you know how to press buttons? If so can you handle five of us ? ROFL...

  27. goldentoad profile image59
    goldentoadposted 7 years ago

    I'm just playin, I am the energizer bunny still and more than one partner sounds like a great idea for me. Can someone convince my wife it would be fantastic?

    1. blondepoet profile image80
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I am calling her on the phone now.
      "Hello Mrs Toad"
      "Hello"
      "Can we share your hubby Mrs Toad"?
      "Yes sure BP."
      "Oh thankyou very much it was nice to talk to you "
      "You too BP"

      See GT I just asked her

      1. Teresa McGurk profile image59
        Teresa McGurkposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        She sounds nice.

        1. goldentoad profile image59
          goldentoadposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          She must have stolen my weed again to answer so politely. Normally she walks around the house with a machete.

          1. blondepoet profile image80
            blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            ROFL well GT pack your bags now for the weekend she also said she will give you some spending money. Yes Cindy I agree we got to add Pest in to this massive gang bang. Hey he called me up the other day after all this time. I was so happy to hear from him.

            1. goldentoad profile image59
              goldentoadposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              I threw her a bucket of Kentucky Fried Chicken, she said I could scram!

              1. blondepoet profile image80
                blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Mmmmm please save me a piece of chicken preferably the breast, I will come pick you up in my Porche and drive you out to the others. I will have a Dora Explorer mask on so noone gets upset at your pad.

        2. blondepoet profile image80
          blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          She was lovely about it all, so nice and polite I was a little nervous asking but you got to tackle the bull by the horns and all that.

  28. getpaidtopost profile image60
    getpaidtopostposted 7 years ago

    Muslim Men can have 4 wives at the same time, however each wife must be treated equally.

    I for one think one wife is enough for any man.

    No where in the world is it legal for a women to have more than one husband. Women can only have 1 man. Sorry girls, I dont make the rules.

    1. Lady_E profile image82
      Lady_Eposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I agree with you.  One wife is certainly enough for one man. (They should both be the centre of each other's universe). Your comments about Muslim Men - having to treat each wife equally, I think is impossible for men to do. For starters, what happens on Valentine's day?

      May I use this opportunity to thank every one for their interestng, funny and wise comments. Overall, Hubbers don't want more than one Partner.

      1. Inspirepub profile image85
        Inspirepubposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        You book a table for three, of course ...



        Overall, people can't imagine how having more than one partner could possibly work, unless they happen to know someone who is happily living that way. And even then, even walking into the home and watching the loving interactions, some people still can't get their heads around it.

        Until there is the poly equivalent of "Will and Grace", we will never know what proportion of the population could and would have more than one partner by their own inherent inclinations, because we are all so ruthlessly indoctrinated that monogamy is the only healthy relationship structure.

        Jenny

      2. usmanali81 profile image59
        usmanali81posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Impossiblity is not the dead end, it can be possible.

  29. Capable Woman profile image79
    Capable Womanposted 7 years ago

    I'm insanely jealous of my girlfriend...but I am expert at hiding it, which helps me stay in the drivers seat, for the most part.

    relationships are weird and complicated...I wish there were no games, but there are so the key is to be the winner of the game(s).

    Short answer: hell to the NO, I wouldn't be in a relationship with more than one partner (hers or mine or both).

  30. cindyvine profile image86
    cindyvineposted 7 years ago

    BP we can round up Pest as well, he can be the handyman as he has big thumbs.  GT can be the cook boy and beer fetcher.  Tony, what are your skills?

    1. tony0724 profile image60
      tony0724posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I am good with tools and I can cook pretty good too !

      1. blondepoet profile image80
        blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        This is looking better by the minute ROFL

      2. goldentoad profile image59
        goldentoadposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        You can assist me Tony, when I need a break.

        1. blondepoet profile image80
          blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Woooooo hoooooo no time for Kit Kat breaks GT, we got to return you in 24hours...

          1. goldentoad profile image59
            goldentoadposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Labor laws say that after every four hours I get a fifteen minute beak, at that point, I think Tony can handle it.

            1. blondepoet profile image80
              blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Fair dinkum, fair suck of the saveloy, you are so legalistic,, trust you GT to know all these laws and regulations...okie dokie pig in the pokie I am happy with that. Done deal....It will bonza..

            2. tony0724 profile image60
              tony0724posted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Are coffee and beer provided or Is Is BYOB ?

              1. blondepoet profile image80
                blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                I think it is a BYO will go check with Cindy. I am bringing some Midori and my bag of tricks

                1. tony0724 profile image60
                  tony0724posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  damn I am officially excited !

                  1. blondepoet profile image80
                    blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    You are back did it get all too steamy in here ROFL

  31. cindyvine profile image86
    cindyvineposted 7 years ago

    That's great then GT, can you pick up Pest on the way?  Maybe we should bring CC as the stud manager?

    1. blondepoet profile image80
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Agreed and Tony is in too ..

      1. tony0724 profile image60
        tony0724posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Right on BP !

        1. goldentoad profile image59
          goldentoadposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          CC is the old bull stud, we have to stand in line to take what he gives us. I'll pick up Pest in Tony's ride, oh yeah Tony will be DD too.

          1. blondepoet profile image80
            blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Wooo hooo Pest, GT,Tony and Pearl and C.C......my toes are tapping with anticipation ROFL

        2. blondepoet profile image80
          blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          this is so exciting I think I am going to faint

  32. Eaglekiwi profile image74
    Eaglekiwiposted 7 years ago

    Now if one woman can do allllllll those things!! ,how come we need five??? guys.
    We need a meeting lol one of those need a bucket team meetings
    wheres the barman? lol

  33. Eaglekiwi profile image74
    Eaglekiwiposted 7 years ago

    Pearl is good at diving he told me.

  34. blondepoet profile image80
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    Teresa has passed out with ecstasy of it all can someone go take her smelling salts....

    1. Teresa McGurk profile image59
      Teresa McGurkposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      zzzzzzzzzzzzzz

      zzzzzzzzz

      zzz

      z

      1. blondepoet profile image80
        blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Oh Teresa wake up wake up you don't want to miss this one

  35. cindyvine profile image86
    cindyvineposted 7 years ago

    This is going to be an amazing commune, we'll have to set up a thumb-screening check at the entrance

  36. cindyvine profile image86
    cindyvineposted 7 years ago

    Yeah, tell Pearl to join us Eagle, we always need a good diver!

  37. HealthCare Basics profile image81
    HealthCare Basicsposted 7 years ago

    I have many friends who have taken on an open relationship. If that is what makes them happy or at least perk their curiosity, then so be it. I found it to be more romantic to remain in one relationship and continue to create wild sexy interests. Spice is something most do not dare try because they think it's "not me" or "that is stupid".

    I like wild things, or at least excitement when you least expect it, like going out and fondling one another during a rather boring gathering with friends at pub. Staying home with dinner around the fireplace, candles lit, dining in the nude. Why would a loving couple need a third party to spice it up ??

    1. blondepoet profile image80
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Oh indeed I believe in this after I have my rendevous here of course

    2. goldentoad profile image59
      goldentoadposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Because they want to get their freak on!

      1. blondepoet profile image80
        blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        ROFL

  38. cindyvine profile image86
    cindyvineposted 7 years ago

    I'm going to bring a few crates of South African wines and some of that gold medal camembert the French are so pissed about at the moment.  Can you believe it, they are upset that a South African camembert has just beaten them and won the gold medal as the world's best camembert cheese?  Those silly French.  Okay, have to get ready now and hop into the shower!  Catchya later!

    1. blondepoet profile image80
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Oh Cindy sounds divine yes I got to have one too.

      1. goldentoad profile image59
        goldentoadposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Oh, now we are talkin'!

        1. blondepoet profile image80
          blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          let's save water are you a economist???

          1. goldentoad profile image59
            goldentoadposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I as brought up here in Southern Cali, where they tell us we are always in drought and must conserve. I'm all for conservation.

            1. blondepoet profile image80
              blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Oh well I was brought up in little sunny QLD where my mom always used to say,you got to share the water before it all runs out in the hot water tank, so yeah I guess that is settled then. Can you pass the soap over when you are finished?

              1. goldentoad profile image59
                goldentoadposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                oops I dropped it, who should pick it up?

                1. blondepoet profile image80
                  blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  I got it...whoops I just dropped it too damn slippery thing...

  39. homes88m profile image60
    homes88mposted 7 years ago

    I couldn't have two wives, i feel like you don't have a lifelong soulmate one on one kinda connection with 2 people, by the way, im new to the site, everyone should check out my stuff, its very random and i think pretty unique

    1. goldentoad profile image59
      goldentoadposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      soulmate? who the hell cares? people just want to do it!

      1. blondepoet profile image80
        blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        ROFL

  40. blondepoet profile image80
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    There are no towels here so we got to use our tongues.

    1. goldentoad profile image59
      goldentoadposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Tell Tony not to lick me, I think he needs directions.

      1. blondepoet profile image80
        blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Tony Tony I do say,what are you doing there. This bathroom is so fogged up I can't see a thing

  41. goldentoad profile image59
    goldentoadposted 7 years ago

    Oh No Hide the Plates!

    1. blondepoet profile image80
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I am going to have to feel my way

      1. goldentoad profile image59
        goldentoadposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        last time they went at it, I had a plate thrown at me.

        1. blondepoet profile image80
          blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          No plates here just jugs GT smile

  42. HealthCare Basics profile image81
    HealthCare Basicsposted 7 years ago

    Blondepoet,
        Oh c'mon girl!! You love someone and you want to share that with someone else? I don't think so. If I love a person in my life then I am going to do everything to make that person happy. I'll cook in the nude, which I have done many times. I will rub their body in scented oils, as long as I can lick every part of the body. My goal is to make that special person feel good and relaxed being together. Oh, yeah, there was this time in the 70's when I did a groupie thing, but I blame it on the weed.... smile

    1. blondepoet profile image80
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Lol no way if I find the right one I am not sharing,I just don't want any woman sharing my 6 husbands.

      1. blondepoet profile image80
        blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Nothing wrong with a threesome

    2. goldentoad profile image59
      goldentoadposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Now you are talkin sense! Get back to that seventies mentality! Feel the love vibes man but don't sit next to me.

    3. 0
      Leta Sposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      This is cyber-reality, I'm afraid, on a Fri., wink

      Yeah, there was that one time in the 90's when I did this band thing...I also blame it on the weed...  good times! wink

  43. blondepoet profile image80
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    Anyway guys I just made some hot spicy noodles, the house is as quiet as a mouse, am going to spread myself on my fluffy couch and watch a cool movie on my widescreen TV, oh a woman's work is never done. I shall daydream about my rendevous growlllll. See youx0x0

  44. HealthCare Basics profile image81
    HealthCare Basicsposted 7 years ago

    G'night Blondepoet. Enjoy the movie and noodles. You are talking about pasta? Right?

    1. blondepoet profile image80
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Lol yes pasta those two minute specials. It was my lunch I had a little afternoon siesta and I am all energised again I watched Resident Evil 2 and dozed off. Saving my energies for tonight hahah

  45. 69
    logic,commonsenseposted 7 years ago

    multiple partners sounds facinating!  If I had 6 women, I would have no problem sharing them.  I'd probably live longer that way! smile

  46. Shadesbreath profile image90
    Shadesbreathposted 7 years ago

    If I had 6 women, I'd share them with each other.  That seems like perfect middle ground here.  No need involve some other disgusting human male.

    1. Laughing Mom profile image59
      Laughing Momposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      always the peacemaker, shades.

      1. Shadesbreath profile image90
        Shadesbreathposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Yep.  This is why God or Fate etc. or whoever it was put me at the center of the universe.  It is up to the rest of you to recognize it.

    2. blondepoet profile image80
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Great way of thinking...

  47. 69
    logic,commonsenseposted 7 years ago

    Great idea!  Course it would be all right to share with 2 or 3 at a time. smile

    1. Laughing Mom profile image59
      Laughing Momposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Share what?

  48. 69
    logic,commonsenseposted 7 years ago

    Whatever your imagination will let you share!  And mine will let me share a lot! smile

  49. 69
    logic,commonsenseposted 7 years ago

    I don't know if I am your biggest fan, blondepoet, but sometimes I am a huge fan. smile

    1. blondepoet profile image80
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Awwww you say the nicest things !!!!! Tell me more,more, just jk. smile

  50. cindyvine profile image86
    cindyvineposted 7 years ago

    talking about fans, this air conditioner doesn't appear to be working and its hot as Hades here, so would love a couple of young studs wearing man-kinis to stand on either side of me and fan me with some big palm fronds.

    1. blondepoet profile image80
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Oh sounds great Cindy. Gee I am down tonight,got to pick myself up.

 
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