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could i be pregnant

  1. profile image60
    kenna joposted 9 years ago

    Ok so my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex te day afte m period could i be prennt??

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      ttreiddposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      i would say get a pregnacy test to be on te safe side and in the near time to come be safe not sorry take care

      1. mandybeau profile image59
        mandybeauposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        This is a humorous Hub and I knew it was old, but I think we better listen to Misha enuf is enuf.lol

    2. mandybeau profile image59
      mandybeauposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Kenna Jo is high on my list of plonkers, her boyfriend is just below her.

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        badcompany99posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        You sure he wasn't on top of her lol.

        1. mandybeau profile image59
          mandybeauposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Got a point there, it was a tacky little pun, spose I should be serious about such a serious question  lol. But honestly is she real?

    3. lawretta profile image72
      lawrettaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Hi kenna Jo,you have to be very careful,having unprotected sex can be very dangerous .
      <snipped-do not post links to your hubs in the forums, except in the Extreme Hub Makeover section>

  2. Marisa Wright profile image93
    Marisa Wrightposted 9 years ago

    Kenna Jo, this is not a question and answer site like Yahoo Answers - but yes, you could be pregnant.  Unprotected sex is never a good idea at any time of the month, because sperm can survive for several days.

  3. CrystalSingleton profile image61
    CrystalSingletonposted 9 years ago

    Get a pregnancy test at the local grocery store. Then you will know. Check out my advice column. You will most likely need that in your future.

    http://hubpages.com/hub/Dear-Crystal-I-need-your-advice

    ps, AIDS, HIV AND other STDS are much worse than bringing a child into this world. Please be careful.

  4. prasadjain profile image22
    prasadjainposted 9 years ago

    Sperms cannot survive for more than 24 hours.There are pills which, if taken within 72 hours of intercourse, dissolve the zygote, even if it is formed. They can be consulted at emergency. But unprotected sex is always bad. Avoid it.

  5. sunstreeks profile image83
    sunstreeksposted 9 years ago

    Sorry Prasadjain I have to correct ya a little.

    Actually, sperm can live for 5 to 7 days in the uterus. the "life" of a egg is 24 hours from release from the ovary.


    Now, I do not know if the morning after pill actually dissolves the zygote and I'd like to know where you found this info because I could not and would like to see it for a future hub I'd like to do.

    What I do know is that the morning after pill, or Plan B pill can prevent the release of the egg, prevent fertilization, and can prevent the fertilized egg from attaching to the uterus. Once the egg is on the uterus wall you got yourself a pregnancy.

    Keyword  for the morning after pill is prevent. The pill is effective UP TO 72 hours. Soon as the sperm is released, the clock is ticking. smile I can tell you from experience that even taken excatly as directed in just under 48 hours MAY be much to long.  I have a 3 year old to prove it.

    oh ya smile  one more and only because i HAVE to..... unprotected sex is not always bad...
    unprotected sex has a much higher success rate then protected sex for couples TRYING to concieve. wink

  6. prasadjain profile image22
    prasadjainposted 9 years ago

    Dear sunstreek,
    I have seen about the pill in Indian advertisements.It has a different trade name here. I shall inform the company and brand name when I come across the ad. next time.
       I said unprotected sex is bad, for those who are not willing to conceive and from the health point of view, not for those who want to conceive form their life partners.

    1. sunstreeks profile image83
      sunstreeksposted 9 years ago in reply to this

      I knew what you meant. Was just giving you a hard time. All in fun. smile


      stephanie

      1. Mas Teddy profile image59
        Mas Teddyposted 9 years ago in reply to this

        I wonder about the purpose of your question, Kenna Jo. What is it that sattisfied by your question? Fear or joy? Guilt or great? Or simply a state of floating off the ground upon conceiving the consequence of your experience? Whether or not you are willing to take responsibility, pregnancy is not as 1+1=2. Maybe 1+1=0 or 1+1=3...so relative. Means it depends on all relevant aspects that you both have (integrated in your being).
        Talking about the sovereignty of the sperm, we often forget about the sovereignty of the egg & womb. The womb have a defense system that's so sensitive to avarice, disgust, resentments, and any fine expression of defense. Unless the cultural process in the growing time of the female has disables it, that nature is a prominent phenomena of the sovereignty of the womb. And then later, suppose that the sperm (only one or few out of billions cells) can reach the egg, there are still certain conditions needed to confirm the continuity of the geststative process.
        Traditionally the Javanese culture acknowledge the sacred power of character & emotional qualities of the ego, and the sentiments (emotional attachements) that infuence the quality of the egg (constructive or destructive) that determine the success of a gestation process. Well. At least my grandmother taught me about this when I was learning about traditional health care in Java.
        So, in seeing pregnancy, I prefer not to ignore the love or sympathy and the continuing life processes that influence the interaction between the sperm and the egg and the womb.
        In order to find peace with yourself in accepting your experience, just remember that how ever that was a choice of meaning you've take to respond to that moment & space of life. It must be the dignifying beauty of love in that space & time that make you resonate to be inspired with that meaning (to have an unprotected sex) amongst abundant inspirations that always flows endlessly. In that case it will be good to acknowledge how your organic being, mental being & will to stay alive was integrated in that experience. Then keep to be aware about this integration in which you are a sovereign being. So that when you decide to go on, you will moved by the joy within.
        Or when you decide the other way, you are NOT moved by disintegration of your persona that will cost you alot.
        What ever you choose, keep integrate yourself. Be blessed. smile

  7. acs1122 profile image60
    acs1122posted 7 years ago

    Why play roulette with your health, it's just not worth it dear. Take a pregnancy test sooner than later. This is no laughing matter as an innocent child involved, possibly.

  8. VENUGOPAL SIVAGNA profile image60
    VENUGOPAL SIVAGNAposted 7 years ago

    Ms.Kenna Jo should read a news item this week, related to Pakistan's North-western province.  A 17-year old girl was beaten by local authorities for going with a man. Things happen like this also in this same world.
    But I dont find any wrong in the Pakistani-news item.  I should only blame you and the tradition which allows you to leak out such critical things.

    1. Maddie Ruud profile image82
      Maddie Ruudposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Are you saying you condone violence against women who are sexually active?

      1. VENUGOPAL SIVAGNA profile image60
        VENUGOPAL SIVAGNAposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Sexual activity should not be like animals... there should be some difference... that too, asking questions whether she can be pregnant is the best joke of the year!

        1. Maddie Ruud profile image82
          Maddie Ruudposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          First of all, I don't know the circumstances of this case, but I don't think "going with" one man is necessarily out of control, animalistic behavior.

          In any case, you are of course entitled to your belief, I think it's pretty obnoxious (and dangerous) to take that belief to such an extreme that you think violence should be done on those that do not hold that belief, or do not live according to it.

          1. VENUGOPAL SIVAGNA profile image60
            VENUGOPAL SIVAGNAposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I will never advocate violence on women.  They are like flowers.............. they should behave like flowers...
            Whether it is woman or man, violence should not be used on anyone. There are other ways.
            There is a law in India forbidding illicit relationships with married women.

    2. LondonGirl profile image91
      LondonGirlposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I sincerely hope you are trying and failing to be funny. Because otherwise, it looks as if you think beating the living daylights out of a woman is OK.

      1. mandybeau profile image59
        mandybeauposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Sadly I think she is serious.

  9. sunstreeks profile image83
    sunstreeksposted 7 years ago

    This topic is old, by now she knows if she was pregnant or not.

    VENUGOPAL SIVAGNA.. Rarely do I feel the urge to be an out right bitch when I can understand that because of cultural differences, not everyone is going to be as open minded as others. Your opinion however is repulsive and ridiculous. I really think it is in your best interest to not openly speak about your opinion in this matter.

    1. VENUGOPAL SIVAGNA profile image60
      VENUGOPAL SIVAGNAposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      First I thought this was a wrong forum for me. I thought it was very ugly that one had some sex and asks whether it will lead to pregnancy. Then I wrote something that can bring some sense. If you think it repulsive and ridiculous, I really think that it is in your best interest not to openly speak your opinion in this matter.

    2. Misha profile image76
      Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      LOL I thought every sane person on those forums long ago stopped talking to this - umm - gentlemen lol

      1. Maddie Ruud profile image82
        Maddie Ruudposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I'm not sure how people find and decide to reply to old threads, but once they do, it's hard to resist replying, especially when someone says something provocative...

      2. VENUGOPAL SIVAGNA profile image60
        VENUGOPAL SIVAGNAposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Sorry Misha, I did not notice the date of original post.. I replied to a 5-day old post.  But it is not a sin.

        1. Maddie Ruud profile image82
          Maddie Ruudposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Unlike extra-marital sex, right?

          Gah.  Somebody stop me.

          1. Mark Knowles profile image60
            Mark Knowlesposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Is that the same as marital sex but with an extra partner?

          2. Misha profile image76
            Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I'm trying, really hard wink

    3. mandybeau profile image59
      mandybeauposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Yeah If she's early she will have had it .... Stupid question, she hasn't even said pregnant shes prennt, maybe that is something different Oh what the hell we will stone her anyway.

      1. VENUGOPAL SIVAGNA profile image60
        VENUGOPAL SIVAGNAposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        What can I do otherwise?.... except keeping quiet, in my best interest? 
        No one need restrict my opinion.
        There are and were cultural differences between east and west. But the east is always best. We take corrections in the right sense. Arguing that a repulsive thing is ridiculous is the way of the west.
        Pre / extra marital relations may be there everywhere. But no girl will have the guts here to say it publicly and ask whether such thing will result pregnancy.

        1. packerpack profile image60
          packerpackposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Wait man wait. You talk about east and the cultures there. I'll tell you what, my roots goes back to India and we still follow the Indian tradition and cultures. But I don't think speaking about pregnancy makes a girl a bitch. Maybe accordingly to you getting pregnant is a sin that is why one should not speak about it. I have read your reply at a number of places they are all crap.

  10. Misha profile image76
    Mishaposted 7 years ago

    Guess I did not make myself clear - I did not mean the thread, I meant Mr. VENUGUPAL smile

  11. Mark Knowles profile image60
    Mark Knowlesposted 7 years ago

    Well?

    Was he/she pregnant or not?

    The suspense is killing me............ big_smile

    1. Teresa McGurk profile image61
      Teresa McGurkposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      looks as if we'll never know. . .

      1. Maddie Ruud profile image82
        Maddie Ruudposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        What we do know is that I'm not pregnant...


        *crosses fingers*



        Just kidding.  About the finger-crossing, not about not being pregnant.  I mean... Nevermind.

  12. Misha profile image76
    Mishaposted 7 years ago

    Maddie, it's nice to have you back on forums smile

    1. Maddie Ruud profile image82
      Maddie Ruudposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Thank you, sir.  It's good to be back.  (Things in my personal life have kept me mostly MIA from the fun stuff, mostly focused on keeping the site cleaned up and people *relatively* happy... At least the people who matter.)

      Who knows, I might even start publishing hubs again...

  13. LondonGirl profile image91
    LondonGirlposted 7 years ago

    I'm not pregnant either. Far as I know (-:

  14. skydiver profile image76
    skydiverposted 7 years ago

    I believe that is how babies are made! What's the outcome?

  15. bgpappa profile image86
    bgpappaposted 7 years ago

    Misha,

    Smart guys like you and me know to stay far away from this conversation.

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    badcompany99posted 7 years ago

    Bet the boyfriend isn't worried, hmmm unless he was a one night stand. Besides why would someone join Hubpages and post no hubs but look advice on pregnancy, answers on a postcard please.

  17. Lisa HW profile image82
    Lisa HWposted 7 years ago

    If anyone is interested in "who-may-be-pregnant" drama, go to the Pregnancy section on Yahoo Answers; where people can play Magic 8 Ball and guess who's pregnant and who isn't.  (Of course, you have to be a person who is willing to "pay attention to detail" - incredible, boring, bit by bit, amazing, detail.)  smile

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    badcompany99posted 7 years ago

    Jeeeeez I can't believe how long this topic has gone on. Could I be pregnant?  Did the guy cum in you, well then yes you could be, does one need to be a brain surgeon to work this one out, please !!

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      ladyvenusposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Hehe I can't relate cause I'm  still virgin wink*

      1. VENUGOPAL SIVAGNA profile image60
        VENUGOPAL SIVAGNAposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I will be happy if venus gets married soon and ends her virginity. Goodluck... (but dont ask others whether you are pregnant.)

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          ladyvenusposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          haha thanks. But getting pregnant is I think not my destiny lol. Maybe  I wanted to get marry or marry a single dad to have instant child. hehe what do you think?  Well we never know.

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        badcompany99posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I have a cure for that wink* wink*

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          ladyvenusposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Perhaps now we can already put a tag on hubber with their common mannerism me it maybe a wink and you is a cheers lol.smile Now tell me that cure for my funny wink. lols

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          Janettaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          HAHAHA  That response made me laugh out loud. thank you.

  19. blondepoet profile image79
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    Oh heck yes what was the outcome of that maybe or maybe not pregnancy, so I can swallow this drink in my throat.Am too much in wonder here

  20. frogdropping profile image86
    frogdroppingposted 7 years ago

    Am having a giggle at this seemingly old, incredibly dumb post.

    Welcome to HubLand, where truth, misinformation and plain old in yer face-ness comes free with the sign-up lol

 
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