Right choice? Hopefully the person you choose creates you love, then I would say it's the right person. If not, then obviously you're with the wrong person. You choose and then have enough understanding of your own limitations, as to what you can provide for to begin with. Never have more children than you can handle physically, mentally, emotionally or financially. What other people think about the choice you made is nothing more than ego on steroids(if negative) or good(positive). And, should not be relevant to your happiness. This depends on the choice being made.