The love between a father and his daughter- three part series- part 2
A fathers love
As I stated in the first chapter of the series that a father is the “first love of his daughter’s life" this term comes with extremely deep emotions ties to it and it is important to understand.
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A fathers voice
When a baby girl is born and the father begins the process of raising his daughter, the sound of her father’s voice transcends even into the mother’s womb during the nine months of pregnancy.
Usually the baby will recognize the voice of her father and there has been numerous studies done where a man’s voice can be very soothing to a baby with the low octaves and slow pace of words or humming. This is the male voice that she will get used to the hearing, the volume, the accent, the intent, the tone.
Fathers who speak to their daughters in natural soothing tones, volume, as opposed to a father that is loud or screams much at his daughter, she will get used to that voice. She will also get used to the patience or impatience of how her father speaks to her.
How well does her father listen to what she has to say or the importance of what she is saying. Does her father encourage her through positive language or through negative language? Does her father lift her up with his words or put her down with name calling or judging her. Does her father treat her mother with kindness, respect, love or does he disrespect her mother, put her down or boss her around. All of this will shape the type of woman that she will become one day and the type of man that she will be attracted to and eventually marry.
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Father that are affectionate with their daughters, in words and touch will have a lasting affect on her life. Words that show he loves her, that he thinks that she is smart, funny, strong sweet and beautiful. A Fathers affection with touch, hugs, kisses on the forehead and cheek, pats on the back, picking her up and holding her when she is tired, scared or lonely, crying, she will keep that with her the rest of her life. If she hurts herself and daddy puts a band aid on her cut or encourages her to get up and be strong. Does he spend quality time with her, taking her to the park, the zoo, reading books, making picnics, building things, fixing things, doing homework with her, just hanging out and talking, this will all impact her life?
Girls tend to adore their fathers and look up to them, want to feel protected by them, safe, nurtured, loved. Treated like a girl, have a tea party, play games, be silly, wrestle on the ground. all of these things girls will remember when they grow older.
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