What to do when your boyfriend is really rude and blames you?

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   schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years ago

   It's maddening, and you almost feel it is your fault.
   What do you do?

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      Susana Sposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Go out and have fun and let him stew in his own misery until he's ready to have a grown up discussion about the problem.

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         saleheensblogposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         agreed

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      shazwellynposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      It's called vasectomy|!

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      Stories Inc.posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      You dump him. End of discussion...
      Good luck

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      Paul Wingertposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Dump him! It'll only get worse.

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      tritrainposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Talk to him about what is bothering you.  If he doesn't respond positively and act to change his behavior then move on.
      
      It's not worth it if your boyfriend is rude and blames you.

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      Uninvited Writerposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      He would become an ex-boyfriend.

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   CMHypnoposted 13 years ago

   Upgrade to a politer more responsible model!

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      travelespressoposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Agreed.  Get out quick!

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   Pearldiverposted 13 years ago

   If Self Respect is important to you...........
   
   Ditch The Bitch!

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      Pearldiverposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Correct! 

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      schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      

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   Beth100posted 13 years ago

   First, end the relationship.
   
   Second, reflect whether this has happened in previous relationships with other partners or friends.
   
   If you see a pattern of behaviors, and you are the common factor, then you must look at yourself truthfully and decide what is causing their reactions.  A question to ask yourself:  what am I doing each time to receive this response.
   
   If you do not see a pattern, then you are not the cause of the problem and ending the relationship was a good decision. 
   
   From what I have seen of your writings in your hubs and in the forums, I would have to say that this is not your fault.  Let him go.  He has issues and must resolve them with his own will without hurting others around him.  You will feel all the better once you have cut the ties with him.  Be strong and take a step towards a future which holds a happier relationship for you.  Best of luck!

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      Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      yeah, i think after reading everyone's responses here, i would say that beth has offered the best advice thus far. it sounds like the guy is just a straight up jerk, to me, and if i were you, i'd dump him immediately.  sure, breaking up with someone is never easy, but it'll only get harder the longer you wait though...

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   sd98posted 13 years ago

   Know it will only get worse...trust me!

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   Anna Evanswoodposted 13 years ago

   Get a new one... no one deserves being treated like that!!

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   KCC Big Countryposted 13 years ago

   Life is too short to waste your time with someone like that.  Move on.  NEXT!

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