Does size of breasts matter to men, and size of a private part matter

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   Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years ago

   to a women? I couldn't fit it in the subject box. No pun intended, sure. H

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      thooghunposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Breasts: If I'm in love they don't matter, If I'm not -- they do.

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         Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

         I was surprised to find out how high school girl's view each other or themselves. Guys don't look down. That was off topic. It's not love for me, like helps. H

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            couturepopcafeposted 12 years agoin reply to this

            No.  Yes.

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               Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

               I see things a little differently. Some women can't handle large, some want to know it's there. H

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      Daniella Lopezposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      As a woman I can say that the size of a man really does matter... despite what those crappy magazines might tell you. As for breast, I suppose it depends on the man. I've known guys to like a variety of sizes. So eh...

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         Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

         Daniella, Some women really do fell pain, when it's to large for them. Most guy are just happy if they get laid. Size has disappointed me at times. Say I went out with a lady that looked to be good sized. Then I find out they were pushed up and together. H

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            couturepopcafeposted 12 years agoin reply to this

            Yes, it's the pain of picking the wrong...well you know.  I guess there will always be an exception to the rule.

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               Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

               cout, Who can argue with what you said. H

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      Borsiaposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      We all have different things, fetishes if you will.
      Personally it matters to me but many of my male friends don’t care.
      I am most attracted to a beautiful face and especially eyes.
      But given several women with equal faces I will usually go for the one most endowed. I don’t like fake breasts though.

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         Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

         Bor, I think most guys would agree. But when you feel the warmth, that thought goes away. H

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      dannyjohnson1027posted 12 years agoin reply to this

      luxuriance is attractive.

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         Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

         danny, If t doesn't t in our pants or hirt,  that's a problem.  H

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   Pearldiverposted 12 years ago

   I'm sure the size one's nose is most important when it comes to having a good nose for business!
   
   Where one sticks it though is a far different matter isn't it

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Pearl, Keep it out of your hand! H

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   mistyhorizon2003posted 12 years ago

   From a woman's point of view, the male 'member' size does not matter unless very unusually tiny, (I hubbed on this ages ago and ran poll's, but deleted it due to HP stopping Ads on it after it had been up for a year or two). As for breasts, I guess men vary, some like small, some like big. Women assume men like 'big' even though this is not always true.

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Misty, I'm sorry Hub did that to you, they simply unpublishment mine. I can't disagree with anything you've said. I've spoken to many about this during my many decades on earth. H

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      habeeposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      I totally agree about a man's size. Men seemed to be more concerned about it than women are.

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         Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

         Habee, What me worry, could you lend me your magnifying glass.H

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      couturepopcafeposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      A little know secret that will now be made public on HubPages.  I've seen hundreds of them.  Honestly, they are all measurably about the same with about 3-4% exception so the odds are in our favor. 
      
      And men are smart enough to not try to change it to please women, unlike women who go to great lengths to try to change theirs.

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         Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

         cout, May I ask what profession you are in? H

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   Greek Oneposted 12 years ago

   we can only hope so!

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Greek, Just don't say, "HOPE & CHANGE" to me. H

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         couturepopcafeposted 12 years agoin reply to this

         Hey, maybe that too will come with the 'healthcare' package.

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            Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

            cout, No, it's the "STIMULUS PACKAGE." H

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Greek, Is that "HOPE & CHANGE? H

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   marieclaptonposted 12 years ago

   personally no size doesn't matter.  It's what in the persons heart that does matter.  But, that is just me.  I think most people would disagree

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      marie, You have to admit, sometimes you just go at it. H

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   mistyhorizon2003posted 12 years ago

   It is what they do in the bedroom that counts, not the size of the instrument used!!! I know this from the poll results on the hub I deleted, and that had over 12,665 views when it was published, so the poll results were a pretty good indicator of women's opinions overall.

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      habeeposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Yes, yes, and YES!!

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      misty, Is that how many you've seen, wow? It's basically the same the other way around. No guy wants to hear; Is that a crack in the ceiling, Are you finished yet, Is it really in, etc.  H

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   paradigmsearchposted 12 years ago

   The questions in this thread have never been an issue for me....
   
   As she lay there dozing next to me a voice inside my head kept saying, "Relax, you are not the first doctor to sleep with one of his patients."  But another voice kept saying, "Howard, you are a veterinarian."

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      habeeposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      ewww...was it consensual? Don't laugh - I had a student who was found guilty of raping a dog.

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         paradigmsearchposted 12 years agoin reply to this

         Now that is tacky! I'd be inclined to toss that person into a mental facility as opposed to a prison though. I mean really, what kind of guy could even get it up for that.

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            habeeposted 12 years agoin reply to this

            True. It really "grossed me out."

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               couturepopcafeposted 12 years agoin reply to this

               Yes, I met a friend of a friend who 'gave' foreplay to his female dog.  When I commented on its grossness, he said she likes it.  True story.

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         Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

         Habee, I hope it wasn't a Maltese! H

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      para, That's an old one, but still good. H

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   Kurant82posted 12 years ago

   I as well totally agree that... YES! Breast size does matter to men. Also as habee mentionioned how men seem to more concerned about their personal size than woman are I would also like to state that woman are pretty darn self-conscious and concerned about their own breast size, or lack there of, that is why breast implant surgery is a multi, multi million dollar industry in our present economy. Also women with fake breasts seemingly even out number woman who are built exactly the same and have natural breasts that are the same size as their female counterparts with fakebreasts. But this is simply my opinion here.

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Kurant, A friend let me hold her silicon iomplants when they were taken out, she went smaller. I can't understand how a woman doesn't fall foreward with a '"D" implant. It's like lifting weights. But in clothes, it does add to the figure.
      
      I think the moment matters. When in an oral mode, one doesn't think of size. If so, you might as well think of your favorite cartoon. H

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   stclairjackposted 12 years ago

   i can certainly agree that size does indeed matter. it just deoends on the size of what. i personaly am very interested in the size of the brain,... ifyou cant hold a onversation beyond french fries and beer,... this not going to be a relationship beyong the life span of the 4 shots it took to make you look good.
   
   i've always said that i'd rather have a good mechanic with a pair of pliers and a scre driver,... than some idget with a 6 foot tall tool box full of tools that he has no clue how to use,...
   
   better to know what your doing with a 1/2" wrench,.... than to be caught using a 3 foot pipe wrench for a sledge hammer.
   
   as for me personaly,.... i dont have tons to offer in the breast department,.... but if thats tops on your list of things to require,.... our requirement lists probuly werent going to match up well anyway.
   
   of course the requirements for mr right are far different than the requirements for mr right now! ha!

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      stclairjackposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      obviously my requirements in a keyboard just got changed.

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      stclair, Something the ladies should knoww if they don't. A guy can be verry small when soft, and very large when erect. Some that appear large , don't grow. It's wonderful for a man to hear, I had no idea it was so...... H

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         stclairjackposted 12 years agoin reply to this

         once more i must say,.... skill set vs tool kit.
         
         and yes,... first looks can be decieving,.... i've known more than one man why was atractive at first glance,... then he spoke.
         
         i hate it when they do that.
         
         har dee har har!!

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    blondepoetposted 12 years ago

    It all depends on whether he has little or big hands. Plus it does matter if he is also a cross dresser and wants to borrow Norma's bra at nights haha

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       SomewayOuttaHereposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       hey...good to see ya back....it's been awhile...

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          blondepoetposted 12 years agoin reply to this

          Hey hey oh look at you on the bike can u come pick me up, lets go on a outback road trip, wind in my hair, yea lets rock. Missed u x

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       blonde, I don't want to borrow your panties. When I sold lquor to many gay bars , (years ago) I was asked to participate in a beauty pagent. I think it was a compliment. H

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          blondepoetposted 12 years agoin reply to this

          Oh my......why not I say Harvey...I am a makeup artist ...ooo could have primped up your hair real dandy and I have just the gloss for you haha

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    LeanManposted 12 years ago

    Breast size is not that important - as long as they have a nice shape and are firm and .......... dream, dream, dream....
    
    As to the size of the "instrument"; an ex of mine once said that she wished that I had 9inches ---- but I said I'm not cutting it in half for anyone!!!

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       couturepopcafeposted 12 years agoin reply to this

         It helps to have a sense of humor, King Snake.

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       Lean, That name makes one wonder if you're telling he truth. H

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    CyclingFitnessposted 12 years ago

    Men are very simple creature and I know to many size does matter.
    
    I had a few male friends growing up whose slogan when out on the town (and the "pull") was 'More than a handfull is a waste"
    
    However I think if you asked a man individually he would give a much more civilized response when compared to when he's out with the 'lads'
    
    Regarding men's obsession with breasts. boobs mammaries, bazooka's, chests, fun pillows etc, etc, etc. I have previously written a hub regarding this matter (sadly I can't post a link to it due to forum rules I beleive!)

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       cycling, So were simple, huh. Men know what they want, and usually go for it. Such as as marriage. A man wants the woman he married. Many women want to change their man.
       
       We all know the saying, "more than a handful........" Women can go crazy, I'll give an example.  A woman see's a guy on the street, and wants  to stay away because he's ugly. At night she see's him in a band, and wants to go to bed with him.As they get older, all women say they  never did that.
       
       I sang in clubs, and was fairly popular in my small pond. Let's just say, I had a choice, if I wanted them. There is nothing more infuriated than a woman that is turned down. Which gender is stranger?
       
       I know I got off topic, but I was compelled to. H

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          stclairjackposted 12 years agoin reply to this

          agreed,... an ugly man can learn to play guitar,.... an ugly woman had better have a ripping good personality,... you can LEARN guitar,... you cant LEARN personality.
          
          i myself am at least better looking than quasimoto,.... and i also play guitar,... i also own my own home, have my own shop full of tool, yes i know how to use them,.. and i clean fish and butcher my own meats,...
          
          so i may be a bit hard to date for most men,.... i realy only need a man for three functions,... conversation, sex,.... and,... well,.... ok two functions.

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             blondepoetposted 12 years agoin reply to this

             Men are like fine wine.  They all start out like grapes, and it's our job to stomp on them and keep them in the dark until they mature into something you'd like to have dinner with."

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                Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

                Blondie, I'll bet you have been the submissive one at times. I see a lot of willingness in you at times. H

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             Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

             stclair, You just need to fnd the guy that will put you in your place. H

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    WD Curry 111posted 12 years ago

    I went to KMI (military school). I left this level of thinking back there with the 25 cent peep shows in Louisville.

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       WD, You look to small to understand all this.Wait, I'm back on topic. H

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    GirgisAgeebposted 12 years ago

    it is not the body that man should look to i think that the real love is more important than the body
    i don't say that sex is missed but love + sex is better than sex only.

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       Gir, I think the older we get face, and mind sys most of it. H

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    TLMinutposted 12 years ago

    It's not the same for everybody of course. One of my friends is totally flat-chested and she hates it. But I see her husband looking at her all the time and the guy quite clearly does NOT feel shortchanged!
    
    About men, there is such a thing as too small but it isn't something women seem to find too often. One guy and his wife just used toys to help and they've been married over 25 years now. (He's the one who told me this, TMI, I don't even know them very well!)
    
    I do know two women at least who have walked out on men who were abnormally large, looked more like a weapon than an instrument of pleasure supposedly.

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       TL, A fraternity brother always said, little, but educated. H

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       TL, Pain hurts! I knew a girl that had trouble getting a Tampax in, anyone would be big. H

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    klarawieckposted 12 years ago

    Everything matters! And I mean EVERYTHING!

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       klara, Are you nitpicking? H

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    Pearldiverposted 12 years ago

    I don't give a rat's butt about guys or the size of a woman's chest.  However, I would have to say that if my tattooed giraffe was for some strange reason unable to reach their leaves... then I would be quite concerned
    
    And for the 2 minute terriers out there...
    Size Makes No Difference!
    At the end of 120 seconds...
    Irrespective of how you see yourself - you're Still Too Short on the Back 9   :

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       blondepoetposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       I say eh???? What you talkin' bout Willis xx

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          CyclingFitnessposted 12 years agoin reply to this

          If that's the case- There's NO back 9!!!

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             blondepoetposted 12 years agoin reply to this

             'BP scratches her head'.....I apologise but I am a blonde....what is a back 9...is that a perfume like Chanel 10......I need a translation lol

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          Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

          blondie, Everyone should talk about you, that would be nice and interesting. H

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             blondepoetposted 12 years agoin reply to this

             Hell yeah Harvey.....'one minute got to go apply my fushcia red lippy first' LMAO

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                klarawieckposted 12 years agoin reply to this

                Oh My GOD!!! Prepare everyone!!! Blondepoet's back!!!

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                   SomewayOuttaHereposted 12 years agoin reply to this

                   ..yeah....i think it's cool she's back

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                      blondepoetposted 12 years agoin reply to this

                      Yes the double D's are back yahoooooooooooo

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                   blondepoetposted 12 years agoin reply to this

                   Hell yea I am back@@@@@ But I am still waiting for my mojo LMAO
                   
                   HEYYYYYYYYYY BUDDDYYYYYYYYYY XXX

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                      Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

                      Blondie, How many inches of mojo do you need? H

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       pearl, Any tattoo would turn me off. I'm too old to change. Think what the tat will look like years from now. H

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    blondepoetposted 12 years ago

    So while we are on the subject what about man boobs .....ooooo.....does this matter to women....personally I prefer a bloke with a chest smaller than mine.....

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       blondie, He doesn't excite you, good. H

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          blondepoetposted 12 years agoin reply to this

          No he is not my type but ....well he might be a very nice man.....I bet he would be fun to mud wrestle

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       stclairjackposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       like visual salt petre,.... uhg

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          blondepoetposted 12 years agoin reply to this

          I only recognised the last word here ugh, ooo....and I second that notion

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    CyclingFitnessposted 12 years ago

    I know a big number of women who are concerned about a man's size! However most of those women also have adverts on  your 'Adult Meetup' sites requesting men who are well endowed and requiring proof of it too.

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       blondepoetposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       Haha how did we go from breasts to a man's whatsit ohhh...golly gosh this is all going downwards....from now...and I am not responsible LMAO

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          logic,commonsenseposted 12 years agoin reply to this

          That's usually the way I go, downwards that is!

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             Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

             logic, That's great, get things started. H

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             blondepoetposted 12 years agoin reply to this

             Only way to go Logic......'I raise my glass of midori to that lol x

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       Cycling, They want pics in advance? H

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    Tom Rubenoffposted 12 years ago

    Personally I prefer small breasts.  If I had large breasts, I think that would not look so good on me.  As for my private part, yes, thank you, it still matters.  Thanks so much for asking.

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       blondepoetposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       I just knew you would say that Tom xx

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    blondepoetposted 12 years ago

    Seriously I dont think the size of a mans tallwhacker matters

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       blondie, The look on some women's faces is worth it. H

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       logic,commonsenseposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       This must be a Freudian slip, a "tallwhacker".
       If a man's equipment is a tallywhacker.  Then the women's equipment must be a tally?  nest pa? 

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    blondepoetposted 12 years ago

    
    
    And my friend Brock Lee agrees (next door neighbor)

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       klarawieckposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       Can I have his number?! oh, wait... what does he agree with again?

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          blondepoetposted 12 years agoin reply to this

          I have no idea hahaha...what was it?......chipmunks?????......bugs bunny....ohhhhhhhh

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          Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

          klara, I woud think he's big on oral, ouch. H

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    femiryposted 12 years ago

    Size and all of that comes to play depending what you want. Is it love or just a flint? Personally, i prefer small breast, I don't mean minute. A friend once said "Big tits, Big problems" lol... I don't believe that anyways.

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    mega1posted 12 years ago

    I believe I must have missed this whole thread - size of the private? what? your place or mine?  I mean exactly what, if you know what I mean!
    
    and shall we just have a nice cup of tea then?  spot on!  chip chip! and as for a talleywhacker, I've never met one I didn't like.  That is, size of eh?

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       mega, Meet you in the park, guess which one. H

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    mega1posted 12 years ago

    I feel so flustered now!  and I do believe I will blush! 

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       mega, By your name there is no need to blush. H

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    mega1posted 12 years ago

    

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       mega, At least you know what direction to look. I can reach you from here, can reciprocate? H

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          mega1posted 12 years agoin reply to this

          could reciprocate but your little poodle is in the way! 

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             Harvey Stelmanposted 12 years agoin reply to this

             mega, That's my neighbors Maltese. We have one being delivered to us in 2 weeks and 5 days. She's even cuter.
             
             40 years ago I would have.......... H

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