What would you want in a man?

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   toys-everywhereposted 12 years ago

   I'm working on a hub about women's fantasies, what they'd want in a partner, etc. This is open to everyone, men and women alike, but it has to be something about a WOMAN's fantasy... what they imagine the perfect man to be like, what they would like their own man to be like-- Men, what does your woman ask you to do all the time, tell her dinner was good, listen to her yak, or do the dishes? What does she say about the hot guys on T.V. (other than that they are hot, obviously), that he's very sweet, or he's badass, he's a good dad (or he's not a dad), he sings/he's a musician,...or that he's just plain hot?
   
   -- Women, what do you imagine the perfect guy to be like? What does he do for you, what does he look like, what kind of guy is he? I.e. I dig the sort of hot nerdy guys; what's your ideal guy?
   
   I would like to find out what qualities of a man can be found in most female fantasies. Please be aware, this will be a hub about female fantasies, NOT sex, so keep your posts R-rated at the most. No XXX-rated, please! I'm looking forward to anyone's answer to this; thank you

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      wonderful1posted 12 years agoin reply to this

      You asked for it, you got it:
      My fantasy "hot guy" would be an eyeful to look at, have bedroom eyes (only for me), write beautiful words about me and about life (and about "us" in life), he could create works of art in the kitchen (and clean up after himself), inspire me to be the best that I can be in life, make me laugh til my sides ache, and make me burn with passion in the bedroom, a bonus if he could play the guitar and sing me a ballad. Extra bonus if he's handy around the house and can build things. He can make us a tree house to have fun in when we're feeling frisky.
      
      Hey this is getting me all wired up this morning... I better stop now.

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         Greek Oneposted 12 years agoin reply to this

         How about someone who had similar attributes... what if he could make you laugh... in the bedroom?

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            wonderful1posted 12 years agoin reply to this

            Hey, I'm all for laughter in the bedroom. The feeling it produces is very similar to an orgasm. Similar attributes? Sure, I'd be impressed to find a guy more like me.... I did, actually, or he found me. But he's married. Bummer.

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   Greek Oneposted 12 years ago

   a picture is worth a 1000 words...
   
   

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      couturepopcafeposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Stone cold fox.

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   sassydeeposted 12 years ago

   Someone completely opposite of my significant other.
   Honest,  fit, clean, hard worker, good with his hands, smart, family oriented, spiritual,   honest, respectful, considerate, common curtious, protective and sweet  at times,  productive, appreciative, adventurist a lil, dances, not more than a social drinker, need i write more?

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      Longhunterposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      "Someone completely opposite of my significant other."
      
      AUCH!!!!!

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   Emily Sparksposted 12 years ago

   What I look for is what I found in my boyfriend.  Here is a list (which is not an exhaustive list) :
   
   Born again
   Living for God
   Active in the church
   Honest
   Hardworking
   Truly cares about me
   Notices the little things(hair,clothes,etc)
   Listens to me (not as in "obey")
   Spending time together
   Communicates (honest, open talks)
   Sweet
   Stands for what he believes in
   Defends and protects me
   Good relationship w/ parents + pastors
   Wise with his money
   Respects authority
   Gentleman(opens doors, lets me go1st)
   Good, strong build
   This is not a requirement, but he happens to be very handsome and goodlooking as well!
   
     The Lord has truly blessed me with such a great boyfriend.  He means sooooo much to me

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