Most important quality of a guy

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   garrettdixonposted 12 years ago

   I was wondering, what do you guys think is the most important or needed quality of a man in a relationship?

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      AEvansposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      The most important quality in a man is.....
      
      
      Understanding and they need to be able to give and take. A relationship is 50/50 not 80/20.

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         garrettdixonposted 12 years agoin reply to this

         But do you really think most guys actually can completely understand what some women talk about?  Everything is relative so they can only apply it to what they actually know.

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      BRIAN SLATERposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Always has and always will be... a big bank balance.

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      mathiraposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      The most important quality of a man is care and good listening skill as women like to be listened to.

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      yolanda yvetteposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Honesty

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      Dave Mathewsposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      I'm expecting most women to say the size of his bank account.

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         AshtonFireflyposted 12 years agoin reply to this

         lol I've noticed that most men think that about women...I've always wondered why   ?

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      teamelite21posted 12 years agoin reply to this

      I would have to say that he was real.  I think women need someone who is who they say they are.

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      Inspired to writeposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      The most important quality for a guy is...ready for this...........
      TO BE HIMSELF.
      
      He has not ever have to prove anything to anyone else man or woman just to impress.
      
      He has to first accept himself as he is.
      
      Making mistakes, realising them & rectifying them along the way learning & adapting as he goes along........
      to make him the man he is today!
      
      A man is a man & he makes of himself who he is right now!

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      wonderful1posted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Empathy.
      
      It's about as rare as finding a four-leaf clover. In fact, I've found a 4-leaf clover in my life, but I've yet to find a man who "gives a sh*t" enough to stick around when the going gets tough.

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      couturepopcafeposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Integrity.

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   loveandsexposted 12 years ago

   He has to be a skilled communicator and also an excellent listener.

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      garrettdixonposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      By skilled communicator, do you mean that you would just want him to tell you how he feels about things?

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   mega1posted 12 years ago

   a man needs to be smart - commonsense smart - if he is then he'll be gentle, and if he's gentle he'll be loving and understanding, and if he's loving and understanding he can get just about everything he wants!

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      garrettdixonposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you

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   Cagsilposted 12 years ago

   Honesty.

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      garrettdixonposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Very true

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   passthejellyposted 12 years ago

   What women say they want and what the actually want are two entirely different things.

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      garrettdixonposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      How do you tell the difference?

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         passthejellyposted 12 years agoin reply to this

         I think its a life long process to figure out the difference my friend.  It all comes from experience.  The most important quality women look for in men is not that his is nice and sweet it is that he is dominate and manly.  Women want assertive guys that take change for the most part.  The do not desire needy men, or desperate men.  They desire driven men with purpose and self value.  They desire leaders.  Leaders that improve the quality of those around them.  Basically trust what makes you a man and rid yourself of any insecurity and there will be masses of women wanting a relationship with you and it well be very successful.

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            garrettdixonposted 12 years agoin reply to this

            Thank you very much!  You are very intelligent on the subject!

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         Cagsilposted 12 years agoin reply to this

         Hey Garrett,
         
         Here's a hub written by a woman... http://sholland10.hubpages.com/hub/What … bout-Women

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            garrettdixonposted 12 years agoin reply to this

            That hub was extremely appreciated.  Thank you for finding that for me!

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   loveandsexposted 12 years ago

   well, by skilled communicator, i mean always giving room for discussions and his wife's opinions on issues. He doesn't always have to be 'bossy'..

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      garrettdixonposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Okay, that does make sense. Thank You!

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   Rosie2010posted 12 years ago

   Rich... just kidding!   
   
   Faithful

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      garrettdixonposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Rich helps though right?

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   Pcunixposted 12 years ago

   Big muscles, small brain, very handsome, tall but not too tall and a few mill in the bank.
   
   Able to talk about sports trivia for hours on end (you KNOW you love it!).
   
   Has lots of male friends he can invite over to keep you from loneliness.
   
   Knows where all the best porn sites are.
   
   Snores loudly (sexy, am I right or am I right?)
   
   Isn't bound by convention - burps, spits and scratches when and where he damn well feels like it.
   
   That's at least the START of a perfect man.. or a perfect something..

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   zoey24posted 12 years ago

   A great sense of humour

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    loveorlostposted 12 years ago

    Be smart and may be dont listen to women lol

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       garrettdixonposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       What do you mean?

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    brieliseposted 12 years ago

    There are many important qualities I look for in a guy, but right off the bat I look for a sense of humor.
    
    "After awhile you just want to be with the one that makes you laugh."
    - The most important thing I learned from Sex and the City!

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       garrettdixonposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       Haha nice!

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    AshtonFireflyposted 12 years ago

    Honesty and care.

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    GoldenBirdposted 12 years ago

    Can a thoughtful man ever marry someone? Don't get it in the wrong way, but marriage may be a by-default faulty idea to some people. Old age may change the view. Then too, bums can manage!

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    Emily Sparksposted 12 years ago

    There are many, but the first for me would be.....he must be saved and living for God!

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    SanXuaryposted 12 years ago

    I am all these things and it has not worked yet. In fact I have been criticized for being all those things at the same time. These things have all been used against me even, you can never win.

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       chicco82posted 12 years agoin reply to this

       He must  possess a great sense of responsibility

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    Shanna11posted 12 years ago

    In my experience, as long as he's not a douche (pardon the french...although douche means shower in french if I'm not mistaken....) and he has drive and motivation to succeed and be happy in life, he's good enough to me.
    
    If he's not terribly attractive, for me, honestly a really great personality easily makes up for it. Trust me, I'm not saying that just because it's what you're supposed to say. I've really liked guys who were rather unattractive just because they had great personalities. Charismatic and all that.
    
    And he's got to be completely obsessed with me. In a non-stalker way, preferably.

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    LMKaplanposted 12 years ago

    A man that's willing to be a man. A REAL man. One that takes care of his family, steps up to the plate when necessary, can make decisions and knows what he wants.

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       wonderful1posted 12 years agoin reply to this

       "Takes care of his family"... that has to be the end all, be all of manliness. Just sayin.

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    lorajane624posted 12 years ago

    The man must love, obey, and serve God!!!!

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    Disturbiaposted 12 years ago

    H O N E S T Y!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    
    I'm open minded enough to accept a great many things in a relationship, but the one thing I will not abide is dishonesty.
    
    If a guy has issues, addictions, problems, fetishes, what have you, if he wants to have an open relationship, whatever... I need him to be open and forthright about it.  I can cope with and work with any truth, but I can't stand the sneaking around behind my back, keeping secrets, telling lies, game playing, and all the rest of the garbage that comes with dishonesty.

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    Kangaroo_Jaseposted 12 years ago

    The Most Important Qualities A Gentleman Must Have -
    
    1. Honesty
    2. Integrity
    3. Truthfulness
    4. Considerate
    5. Caring
    6. Motivation
    7. Financially Stable
    8. On Time
    9. Clean Living
    10. Healthy
    
    The Most Important Qualities A Woman Must Have -
    
    1. Breathing......
    
    

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