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   Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

   I didn't believe this at first but yea it's true and I was just hit by this too.
   
   
   First Papa (grandpa) dies, then the stuff with bro-in-law and sis-in-law, and NOW...talked to my cousin who is helping us to look for a place to move in to (condo or townhouse for now) and he is telling me that I'll have to give up one of my 3 cats. So do not need all of this at once!
   
   I will not give up any of my cats and will be doing more research about the pet restrictions on those places. Last resort will be giving one cat to our best friends. But come on universe STOP PICKING ON ME!!!!

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      alexandriaruthkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      things arent doing well for you crazdwriter, just keep your head up and if ever choose a person who will take care the most of your cat,

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      Stimpposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Okay....One cat, three cats....who's gonna know.  Tell 'em you have two....unless your third cat can bark...I doubt they'd find out.  Just a thought. 
      
      Just understand you are not alone.  Alot of people are on the rollercoaster...if not yours, some other one and it sucks everywhere right now.

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         myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         I agree with Stimp! cheer up CW...all is not lost! you still have us!!!

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            Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            I do hope that not all is lost. I love my babies

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               myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               and what about us???

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                  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  You know I love you guys too. just worried about my cats right now...I can't seperate from them. I have raised them all since they were young and I won't get rid of any of them. I need them in my life in person know what I mean?

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                     myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     Thanks...I was only kidding... I know what you mean about your cats...and I hope you get to keep them! Sending love and hugs your way.....

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                        Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                        thanks MOW I need the hugs now.

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         Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         lol no my cat can't bark but he doesn't run when ppl come so he would be seen most definitely. so if I said I had an all black cat and a tortie...and they see a tabby? lol i can say we're pet sitting but doubt that would work. And seriously places should be more accimdating for ppl with pets. not everyone has just 1 or 2 pets. I hate it!

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   Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

   ain't that the truth alexa....I am researching the pet restrictions right now. I hope I can find something that works for house. I won't give up one my babies. they are my kids!

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   ryankettposted 14 years ago

   I hope that you get some good luck soon, it seems like most of the planet is going though a bad luck stage

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      Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      You going through the bad luck too, ryan? I hope not!

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         ryankettposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Ive been going through bad luck for about 5 months, I had lots of good luck before that, but I can see light at the end of the tunnel. My issues have not been things that I can share on a public domain using my real name, but hopefully are all negatives which can be turned into some great positives. I sympathise with the cat thing, you know my cat got run over I am sure that you can find a way of keeping, or staying close to, your cat - the most important thing is that he enjoys a high quality of life.

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            Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            aaa ryan I am sorry you are dealing with a lot of bad luck and do hope that it gets better for you soon like TODAY would be nice! and sorry about your kitty. that is horrible.
            You are right...I already know who to give him too if I asolutely HAVE to. But it's hard...he's my baby.

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   NaomiRposted 14 years ago

   Don't give up your cats. Chances are, if you bring all of them, no one will even notice. Cats are usually so quiet.... we had cats in our last place and they technically weren't allowed, but no one cared.

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      Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      true but if we are caught we will have to pay a daily fine until we get rid of one...$50-250 fine I can't give up my baby

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   prettydarkhorseposted 14 years ago

   hi crazd, hope you can find a place without restrictions, hmm remember what Lynne said the other day, hope as time goes by things will be better for you friend

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      Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      thanks PDH I'm going to be looking for pet friendly places and hopefully it'll all work out. If not I'm going on a rampage!

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         prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         smile friend, whats the name of your cats?

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            Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            my cats are Sasha (tortiseshell -girl), Shadow (all black-girl) And Tiger (gray, tan, white tabby-boy)

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               prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               I would definitely love tiger, like the sound of the name of the other two also

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                  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  they are all angels and they are all troublemakers. it's in their feline genes but I wouldn't have them any other way. have hubs up with pics too if you ever want to go look at them. the cat angel stories

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                     prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     ok thanks

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   Ultimate Hubberposted 14 years ago

   Crazd, think of the time when all this will end and you will get a good news every single day, you have had your quota of bad news.
   I know its easy to tell others to see the light at the end of the tunnel and hard to do it yourself, but still, you got to cheer up and go through all this like a brave girl, which you are!

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      Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      yea...I may be strong but donn't feel it now. not when I am being told I have to give up one of my babies.

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   lynnechandlerposted 14 years ago

   Oh man so sorry CW and I don't even think a "that's nice" would fix this one.
   
   It's true though seems to come in three and we are just waiting for the third one here. Three died before or shortly there after Thanksgiving here, then a family issue, and another most disturbing death so we are waiting to see what the third thing will be.
   
   The last death was insane. My 2nd cousin was getting the Christmas tree out of the attic. He lost his footing, tried to brace himself and fell breaking his neck in the fall and died instantly at his granddaughters feet. It was very traumatic and hard for everyone to take.
   
   I hope things get better for you real soon as I do everyone else that is feeling the karma bus overload right now.

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      prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      OH LYNNE< your second cousin in front of his grandchildren must be very sad, huh, and for you too I hope things get better for all of us,

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      Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      WOW lynne i am so sorry for your loss. that is definitely what we call a freak accident. I really hope that things get better for you.  *HUGS* to you lynne! millions of hugs to you and your family

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   Lady_Eposted 14 years ago

   I really hope things turn around for you and your family. It's been a Tough December for you. Hope you can keep all your cats.
   
   Take Heart. The New Year has to be a Happy one and for the rest of this year, I have my Fingers crossed for you.

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      Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      thanks Lady I appreciate it and so hope that you are right.

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   lynnechandlerposted 14 years ago

   Thanks guys it has been a tough couple of weeks. It all but stopped my writing because I haven't really been home all that much.
   
   You will find a place that doesn't charge extra for the cat I'm sure of it. I know you are feeling the pinch right now but something will turn up. Christmas will come and go without a hitch and you will be able to sit back and reflect on Papa the day after in quiet bliss.

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      Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Thanks lynne...you are a very strong and sweet friend to have. I do hope that all gets better for you as well.

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    habeeposted 14 years ago

    Crazd - girl, you are due for some good luck! I believe you'll see a better 2010. If you truly reap what you sow, you'll get lots of smiles and sunshine soon because you always spread that around here!

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       Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I hope so habee I need some better luck...still searching for a job and now all of this stress ontop of searching for a place to move to. UGH! I need a vacation from my life!

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    Uninvited Writerposted 14 years ago

    I hope you can find a more pet-friendly building. A friend at work has a chihuahua and she had such trouble finding a place even though her dog is litter trained. It is so unfair. In my opinion and experience, pets cause far less trouble than children

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       habeeposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       As much as I love children, UW is correct. Pets don't draw on walls - unless they're really, really gifted. lol

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          Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          lol thankfully my 3 cats aren't that talented

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       Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       yep UW pets are definitely less trouble than kids lol and they lower stress and blood pressure. so why can't more ppl be open to pets? it's not fair! I hope your friend found a good place to live.

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          Uninvited Writerposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          She did eventually

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             Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             that is good to hear...I hope I get to find a good place for all of us...it's not nice to break up a family.

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    wyanjenposted 14 years ago

    Crazd:
    I'm having good luck today.
    It is rare!
    
    I'm sending some along to you  >>>>>>>>>(LUCK)
    
    Try to smile. We're all thinking of you.

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       Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       thanks jen I could use some good luck. Glad you are having good luck jen!

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    sooner than laterposted 14 years ago

    give me a cat.

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       Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       aaaa sooner you want a kitty?

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          sooner than laterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          yes, I'll send you pics of your feline in tropical paradise.

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             Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             you are sweet sooner but I need to fight first to keep my kitty. he and the others mean the world to me

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    sooner than laterposted 14 years ago

    how do I upload a photo?

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