What is it women want most from a man?

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deanjc1970posted 14 years ago
write only ONE thing thats you desire most
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  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Love
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  deanjc1970posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  thanks
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  Journey2244posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  To know that they can trust you.
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  sandylongmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Spending time with them
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  alexandriaruthkposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  listening and romance
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  WildIrisposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Total adoration.
  
  I need to know that even at my frumpiest that he will chaise me around the house.
  
  What I want from a man is good sex. Not just romance, but the kind of sex that binds and entwines lives. I want to be the last mistress and lover.
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  Davinagirl3posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  R-E-S-P-E-C-T!
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  People spell 'penis' is so many ways nowadays
  
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  Davinagirl3posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Did I spell it wrong?
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Have you read my hubs? Does it look like i know how to spell? lol
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  Lisa HWposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  That's the one I was going to say. and I don't mean "respect" as in "respect for being a nice person" or "respect for being a good mother" or any of those. I mean plain, old, respect so when we say something it isn't assumed we're pulling some fluffy idea out of the blue; and that we don't know what we're talking about.
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  politicsdayleeposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  You ask all the hard questions lol... I love my woman very much She means every thing to me. I say trust with no trust there can be no love .
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  Valerie1013posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  RESPECT,,,,for each other!!!
  this means being faithful, listening, understanding, friendship and compassion....BOTH WAYS....it's a 2 way street and if ya both aren't traveling on it all the time and in the same direction....nothing will fit
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  sushant143posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Satisfaction
  (about everything )
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  talitz2550posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  SINCERITY (carries all)
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  ITSecurityAnalystposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  trust and love.
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  myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  breathing space...
  
  (It seems I'm the only woman who wants this.. )
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  Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  nope. your not alone. what a woman wants can change based on the parameters of a relaitonship, and what's available to be given.
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  myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  trust you to understand!
  
  btw. did you read my analysis of your pic in that thread 'judging by looks'? wonder if I got it right..)
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  Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  HA HA HA!! I read it and was going to respond but realised the thread probably was on its way out. that wasnt fair as you already know me... thank you.
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  myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  and which means I was spot on...! you're just as easy to read as an open book....
  
  (ok..let's not hijack this one...)
  
  so yes, people, isn't there another woman (apart from justine) in this world who wants some breathing space from her man?
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  Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sorry about the hijacking...
  
  ummmmm, if I could have the perfect man he would be honest, loyal, and funny. He would care about me, but not more then himself. He would listen and maybe wash the dishes and take out the trash once a month. ALSO I woud like it if he had friends and let me have friends too.
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  myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  go on dreaming darling....and try not to burn the dinner!
  (you should have added: a man who'd occasionally cook for you too! ok. see you around...)
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  TheGlassSpiderposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Yeah, if you're gonna dream, dream big, right?
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  myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  ask justine... I can smell the onions burning now!
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  Kathryn LJposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Oh yes, with mine 24/7 and he's driving me nuts and visa-versa. Your own space is essential for a healthy mind. I'm having to stay up half the night in order to secure mine Space, give us space guys!
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brianzenposted 14 years ago
Is it cruel to say nobody knows what they really want?
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  deanjc1970posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I think there sre some men out there that do, I guess thats why some relationships are better than others
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Ghost32posted 14 years ago
My wife's sleeping, so she can't answer right now, but it's okay for me to say this for her--actually for the both of us.

Namely, the thing she treasures most about me is that I've got her back. Anybody talks smack, it's all over. Get physical? Not a good plan. Steal? Betray? You name it, I'm on it.

Smack example: We hooked up in late 1996. In the spring of 1988, Pam was living sort of "away" from me for a while--in a high rise for the elderly and/or disabled--and my family apparently thought we were "split for good". Which we never were; I was at her place more days than not, but the relatives didn't read the signals right. An aunt made a smart crack about Pam. A brother in law laughed. So did a few others. I was present when it happened; Pam was not.

To make sure the word got spread to EVERYBODY, I let my Mom know (still alive then; she passed in 2002)...that any and all family members who thought that was funny...right down to one of my sisters if the shoe fit...were dead to me. Period. Cut 'em off, that was it. No prisoners.

They came around. Most of 'em made nice, and the aunt that made the original crack actually came to appreciate my gal. Even the few who still don't like her DO know enough to keep their lips zipped.

THAT, my Pammie treasures more than anything.
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  deanjc1970posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  ok thanks. so if you had to write one thing what would it be?????
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  Rafiniposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  yup, that's what I would want.
  
  defensive-protection
  
  (does a hyphenated word count as one?)
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  Rookie70posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  You are absolutely right, Ghost32, you must definitely have your woman's back. If it boils down to it, say "no" to your job before you say no to your wife. Women need that security.
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Fluffymetalposted 14 years ago
trust and respest
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  brianzenposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hey thats two things!
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  deanjc1970posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  thanks so much
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brianzenposted 14 years ago
Sadly for me its attention.
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  brianzenposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I don't think I exist to her anymore in any real way. It kills me.
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  brianzenposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Oh well "this too shall pass"
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  deanjc1970posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  pain is not a nice thing, however without out it how could we ever improve as humans? hang in there
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  deanjc1970posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  dont think its sad, Its normal in fact needed!
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  Aley Martinposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  In the Canterbury Tales there is a part of the Wife of Bath that asks this very question! And the answer was "power over men"...and I think ...it is pretty true. Many women want to be the boss! LOL
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  poetlorraineposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  you are breaking my heart.... i feel your sadness... love your cap..
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donotfearposted 14 years ago
Words of affirmation.
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moondiveposted 14 years ago
Just truly love:)
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KCC Big Countryposted 14 years ago
Understanding (simply to be understood)
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blondepoetposted 14 years ago
The love of a really good man.
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  logic,commonsenseposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  How about the love of a man that's just pretty good?
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  That will do the trick for me Logic.
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cashmereposted 14 years ago
Understanding.
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TheGlassSpiderposted 14 years ago
Nothing, anymore.
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  earnestshubposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Great answer at a couple of levels.
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  TheGlassSpiderposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hehehe. Thanks Earnest...I was kind of in a crud mood when I wrote it, but it's true...and succinct.
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starme77posted 14 years ago
Love
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  Richieb799posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I notice many people are saying 'love' but lots of peoples perceptions of what love is changes on different occasions, I think that is quite a generalised term which gets tossed around easily.. I think the intention of the question may be seek an answer more distinctive
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Anamika Sposted 14 years ago
trust
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china manposted 14 years ago
A GOLD CARD
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I don't think so !
  
  A black one more likely !
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quicksandposted 14 years ago
Piggyback to popularity, lions share of the munney, and a thundering bang!
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Disturbiaposted 14 years ago
I can't imagine.
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Gina Cooleposted 14 years ago
Chocolate
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Prawns.
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  cosetteposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  haha!
  
  i would have to say R-E-S-P-E-C-T
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Yea I agree Cosette respect and prawns. Three cheers yip yip hurray!!!!
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  logic,commonsenseposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  What! No sushi!
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  Rookie70posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Gina Coole, I agree with you, every woman wants chocolate, or lactate.
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Greek Oneposted 14 years ago
It's always about my penis
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waynetposted 14 years ago
A laugh... and a cobra sized ding dong!!
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  princess gposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  definitely...but not at the same time
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srwnsonposted 14 years ago
You know its DIAMONDS.
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AEvansposted 14 years ago
Understanding and Patience
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princess gposted 14 years ago
incredible sex
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  Rajab Nsubugaposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Would you tell that in my face!!!
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Cagsilposted 14 years ago
Common-sense
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defenestratethisposted 14 years ago
Someone who doesnt expect me to be anything but exactly who I am.
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Purple Perlposted 14 years ago
His Attention !
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myvirtualhomeposted 14 years ago
One of the number one reasons that there are so many problems in male female relationships is that women have forgotten what it is they want / need from men.

Then when women tell men what they think they want we are getting bad information so whatever we do to try to be / provide that "thing" is not going to produce the result we all want.

If you choose to hear these words they will change your life.

The one thing that ALL women want more than anything else from their man is "security", emotional, physical and relationship security.

Every single item listed in this thread from the ability to make a woman laugh to listening even to the somewhat snide comments about money are all about meeting a womens subconscious need for security.

Making a women laugh is providing her with security - its telling her subconscious that it is safe - men don't sit around telling jokes to women when there was a threat outside the door ( unless it was to ease tension )

Women's minds just like mens have evolved over 1000's of generations in a dangerous world from real world threats usually caused bu other men : ) to disease to the threat of abandonment - including having their partner fall victim to these threats

A women's mind is wired to seek security above all else.

Understand this and you will understand all women provide her with security and she will be happy and fulfilled.

Feeling safe and secure is why women love to

Dance, shop, laugh, socialise, chat with friends

You dont do these things in times of danger or threat and so doing them initiates feelings that all is well in their world.
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  myvirtualhomeposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  PS a word of advise in my experience most women will struggle to agree with this, dont try to tell her that the reason she likes a man who makes her laugh because it triggers feelings of security in here subconscious, just use this thread pull on it a see where it takes you. good luck : )
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skyfireposted 14 years ago
Money, attention, tolerance,security in relationship. Maybe there's more i've to experiment for longer time... Lol.
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virginiabeautyposted 14 years ago
Honesty and if he still wants to be a player go ahead and tell us. That way we (women) wont get played and we can date others too. You got to honest.
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logic,commonsenseposted 14 years ago
I heard it was just 50 bucks!
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Lady Roseposted 14 years ago
A woman wants everything about a man, including the man himself.
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leatherjackets99sposted 14 years ago
Love....
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Wendi Mposted 14 years ago
A really good sense of humor.
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Will Apseposted 14 years ago
As if women (or men) ever know what they really want...
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  Aya Katzposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Knowing what you want and wanting it are two different things!
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Bambinoposted 14 years ago
All i want is to know that my lover loves me as much as I love him..but unfortunately he doesnt !!
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  Art 4 Lifeposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  acceptance
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OneCuteCookieposted 14 years ago
Honesty,Faith in one another,sincerity,security.
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RecoverTodayposted 14 years ago
I would have to say trust.
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Anathposted 14 years ago
Adoration and nothing less!
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sagbeeposted 14 years ago
I guess its love and trust.. what else she will ask for?
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THE Butterscotchposted 14 years ago
Love, trust, and...yeah, actually, I think you covered it.
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gramon1posted 14 years ago
Even though so many people say love and respect, those are the things that we can all give every day. However, the one thing I know that sets our love apart is when things get tough. In my experience, what a woman wants more than any thing else is for her man to stand up for her under any circumstances, no matter what the consequences are or to whom he must stand up for her.
Women want a protector, no matter how tough and strong the women are.
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kimberlyslyricsposted 14 years ago
his bank account number
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  logic,commonsenseposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  which one?
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  kimberlyslyricsposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  just use your commonsense and I promise to use my logic then we can.....pair up, ya, that's it
  
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  logic,commonsenseposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  We can't pear up, as you are too peachy for someone as berry berry bad as I. But you are the apple blossom of my eye.
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  kimberlyslyricsposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  OK that did it, I love you, just accept it.
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  logic,commonsenseposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  With infinite joy!
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stephensaldanaposted 14 years ago
Women wants a dream from every men.. they fantasizes and live in their own world.. sometimes it very hard to know any women that what exactly she wants from a man..
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  poetlorraineposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  oh really...... sex from your man can be nice sometimes... how about that...
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poetlorraineposted 14 years ago
there's lots of things i like about my man.... but i sure do love all the money he gives me..... next time i will marry for money... life poor can be hell

an element of truth here, i am not cold blooded, but i get tired working hard, hi everyone..
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CASE1WORKERposted 14 years ago
soft skin
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Buffertlyposted 14 years ago
sense of adventure

aren't these the same things men want from women?
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Justine76posted 14 years ago
well, time to go, potatoes and onions won't cook themselves!! see ya later.
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elayne001posted 14 years ago
True friendship.

my husband does cook for me too.
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JulesGeromeposted 14 years ago
Women want our power and our Credit Cards. Black if possible LOL
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calpol25posted 14 years ago
As a gay man I have loads of women friends that I love so much and they are never happy with their partners over something or nothing but when you actually sit down and listen between the lines you realize exactly what they want.

You to love them for being themselves and not a pin up on a calendar

You to understand that they need their own space, as crowding them is not the best option all the time.

You to be patient and understanding and a shoulder to cry on when they are having a hard time, and tell them its going to be ok.

And most of all you to be trustworthy and faithful to them.

This may look difficult but it is really only the beginning, from here on in, you are on your own, but following these rules is a good start lol
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Why can't men be like you, gay guys ! Everything would be so much easier !
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  calpol25posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hello tantrum its been ages xxxx I agree but then women would be bored lol but i wouldnt be hahahahaha
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  LOL ! why would I be bored ?
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  calpol25posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  no straight man left all gay lol
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I hate the word 'straight' man, makes the gays look crooked or bent !
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  calpol25posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I like that one
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  We don't have that words in Spanish. We use hetero & gay.
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  calpol25posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Oh xx so you live in spain or south america?
  
  Tropic of Capricorn is one long line? lol
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Argentina
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  calpol25posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  In English their is loads of words mind you I like any one who can have a laugh with me lol
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  LOL! And when you translate, it's funnier
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  calpol25posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  What a lovely part of the world to live im very envious lol I always wanted to go there when i was a kid and I will some day lol
  
  I always watch total wipeout on the tv here coz its filmed in argentina and I love to watch the discovery channel just to see argentina and brazil etc lol
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  You will be welcome whenever you're ready !
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  calpol25posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  thank you tantrum xxx I will defo come over now just to meet you and see the sights lol
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I would love it !
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  calpol25posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Imagine the fun and trouble we could cause lol
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Yeah !!
  so much fun !!
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  calpol25posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I bet your weather is a lot better than ours over here, If it stays like this most of the british will be moving to argentina lol
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I love UK. I used to go every year. I have friends there. The last time was on 2007
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  calpol25posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Next time you come over let me know and we can meet for shopping and coffee and annoy people that would be hilarious
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I'd love to !
  but we're hijacking the thread ! LOL
  I will e-mail you later
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katiem2posted 14 years ago
COMPATABILITY

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