What is it that men need from women most?

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   AEvansposted 14 years ago

   Love and respect!

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   Ivorwenposted 14 years ago

   Lots of respect, good food, great sex and clean cloths... or maybe that is just the recipe for a happy marriage. 

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      drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      agreed...on all accounts!

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   Eaglekiwiposted 14 years ago

   Approval
   Praise
   Patience
   Respect
   
   Not much really
   
   Heres another one
   
   Martha Stuart in the kitchen
   and Pamela Anderson in the bedroom
   
   (then he wokeup)

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      Ivorwenposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Just don't get those two switched around!

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         AEvansposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         One could only imagine! lololo

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            drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            hey, watch it!! Martha Stuart might be amazing in the sack!

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               cheaptrickposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               She is ...

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      Ghost32posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Not bad, except I think I'd much rather have Rachel Ray in the kitchen and Martha Stewart in the bedroom.  And no, that's not really an attempt to be facetious! 

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   B.C. BOUTIQUEposted 14 years ago

   trust and companionship

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   pioneer_writer5posted 14 years ago

   FOOD!

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   earnestshubposted 14 years ago

   Children!

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   Leta Sposted 14 years ago

   Oh, I knew how this one would go!
   
   But guys are different.  Mine:  sex...sex, money (lol, true) and somebody to talk about art and politics with.

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      drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      haha, Lita...very nice

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         Leta Sposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Oh!  I'm half kidding...though all above is true.  Respect and love go with the territory.  Respect can be shown in many, many ways...like caring enough to take care of the finances when it is needed.  Or being best friends who share similar interests.

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            drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            All joking aside, I think you did make a very good point. Although it is a simple concept, it is very hard to find a companion who is also your best friend. Although love and respect are essential in any relationship, in the end, you must  be genuinely interested in them.

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   Michael Willisposted 14 years ago

   Interesting. Most replies from women. 
   #1 thing a man will want from a woman, well other than the obvious...is accepting us AS WE ARE when you first meet us!!!!
   DO not try to change us.
   If a woman is attracted to a man when she meets him, it makes no sense to try to change him after dating a long time or especially after marriage. If you do not like his ways...then do not go out with us to start with.
   I am sure ladies will feel the same way when a man tries to change her ways.
   I have dumped dates and girlfriends instantly for this motive. It ends a relationship instantly. To me the woman has been dishonest with me from the beginning when this happens.
   Be who You are and I will be who I am...period.

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      wychicposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Personally I think that's part of respect, if you truly have respect for who someone is then you won't try to remake the person into who you think they should be rather than who they are.
      
      My own man needs respect, support, and understanding from me...and lots of snuggles! When he hasn't already been too drug out by the people at work talking to and around him all the time, stimulating conversation is also important to him...and otherwise, he really appreciates when I know to be quiet.

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      Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      what happens if the guy is faking or hiding something when you first meet?

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         Michael Willisposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Then you dump him! Same goes for women who are hiding something or faking it. That is why I wrote after dating a long time or after marriage in my post.

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            Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            I get that. Missed that part of it before. I never wanted to change my man, I do love him just as he is. He doesnt belive me. He had this goofy idea about what he thought I wanted when we got together, so he tried to be that, all on his own. Now I have no idea what he wants...

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   Hanna Bambinaposted 14 years ago

   Wtf?

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    topgunjagerposted 14 years ago

    truth is we'll do and put up with anything as long us you feed us, fck us and shut the fck up=)

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       wychicposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Oooh la la, you must get all the girls with that line . Truthfully...my issue would only be with the last one, I'm far too opinionated to keep it all to myself...but my other half knows where to find great deals on ear plugs .

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          topgunjagerposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          sorry, prefer to say the truth=)

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    Poppa Bluesposted 14 years ago

    Respect, I think everyone deserves respect until they do something that shows they don't deserve it.
    
    No, I think what men really want is support, someone to be there for them, to encourage them when they doubt themselves, to console them when they fail and praise them in their success. Men want a woman that will let them be, themselves and will love them as they are.
    
    Actually, I think women aren't any different really. To be there for each other when needed while allowing each other to be.

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       prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       very correct, HI POPPA

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          Poppa Bluesposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Good morning gorgeous!

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    prettydarkhorseposted 14 years ago

    love, loyalty and commitment

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    Pearldiverposted 14 years ago

    Enjoy your meal... Leave the dishes.... And Put the Seat Up!

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       Jane@CMposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Smacking Purl

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    hubby7posted 14 years ago

    Intimacy, Companionship, and Femininity.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago

    Friendship, strongback and back rubs.

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    tantrumposted 14 years ago

    Sex & Approval

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    Women as Objectsposted 14 years ago

    space, love and nurture and sex ;-)

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    Will Apseposted 14 years ago

    Romantic love was invented in the 19th Century, relationships arrived with D H Lawrence and then Cosmo told women what men wanted... We are lucky to live in an enlightened age.

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    Brian Leightonposted 14 years ago

    L O V E . . . You can choose the acronym best suited beneath:
    
    Legs Open Very Easy
    Look Observe Verify Enjoy
    Let Our Voices Echo
    Listen, Overlook, Value, Encourage
    Lots of Valuable Energy
    Let Our Values Endure
    Living Our Vision Everyday
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    Life Of Virtual Euphoria

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    rebekahELLEposted 14 years ago

    they want to feel needed in every respect and category of a relationship.

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    Ron Montgomeryposted 14 years ago

    

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    habeeposted 14 years ago

    Sex, good food, good conversation, laughter, and beer!

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    B.C. BOUTIQUEposted 14 years ago

    I wont even bother to say, what I know by life and experience is wrong, so it doesnt matter what I say...
    who knows..I know what mine needs but why bother discussing it or even making a joke.

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    prettydarkhorseposted 14 years ago

    support, love, understanding and some great S_X

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    ralwusposted 14 years ago

    great sex and control of  my goddamn remote.

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       prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       LOLOL< g'am ralwus!

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    lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago

    commitment

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    lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago

    more women

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