How To Create That Perfect Life For Yourself



Do you want to know how to create that perfect life for yourself? I know I do, but as you know there is nothing exactly perfect in anyone's life, but we sure can try as hard as we can to get the closest as possible to making that perfect life.

First and foremost we must live our life clean and sober each and everyday of our lives. I am not saying to never have a drink of alcohol in your life, but I know many of us, including myself, can not have just that one drink, so those that are in this category just must not drink at all and that include me.

Living the clean life is the one of the best ways to create that perfect life for yourself.

Just think about it for one moment and ask yourself a few questions that would spoil living that perfect life. Mine are as follows and maybe you might find a couple that relate to your life.

  • Drinking and using drugs would certainly not let you enjoy that perfect life.
  • Continuing to be in some sort of trouble in your life.
  • Having hatred towards others.
  • Lying to others and to yourself.
  • Not giving yourself enough credit in whatever you do in life.
  • Not respecting yourself and other.
  • Thinking negative thoughts each and everyday.

These things will not make you have that perfect life as we see it. These things above will make you have one horrible life that you would not be very proud of. All the above can be avoided if you really want to at least try to have the perfect life that you can be proud of and share with those who love and care about you.


The way I see it if you wish to have the best life you can is to love yourself first and then transfer that love you have for yourself to others. Let others, such as your spouse, children, family and friends know that they are special in your heart and praise those that have warranted such.

  • Keep a positive attitude in your life 24/7 and never be negative.
  • Enjoy your time and spend quality time with your spouse and children. This quality time will be something they will never forget.
  • Do things that are productive and rewarding which will make you proud of your accomplishments.
  • Cherish every moment in your life.
  • Learn to love God because as he love all of us and will never leave your side no matter what happens. The presence of God in your heart and soul will brighten your life if you let him in.



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cherrycrime26 4 years ago from NY, Now Living in Atlanta Ga

wonderful Uplifting hub, 2 thumbs up, voted up :-)

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Taleb80 4 years ago

It is a short cut way.

Thanks for sharing.

I voted up & useful & shared with followers.

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Ardie 4 years ago from Neverland

I agree with what you say and with what you are doing. Drugs and alcohol do not lead to happiness - they just fool one into thinking the happiness comes along in that manner. Strive for better things in your life, be honest with yourself and those around you, and choose to remember every single tiny wonderful moment! :) You are an inspiration to so many - keep up your work.

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incomeguru 4 years ago from Lagos

To live a perfect life,we must believe in God, the angels, the messengers of God, books of God, and the last day.

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the clean life 4 years ago from New Jersey Shore Author

cherrycrime26 Thank you so much for your kind words and I am glad you enjoyed this read. Thanks also for the Vote Up!!

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the clean life 4 years ago from New Jersey Shore Author

Taleb80 Thanks for your comment and the Vote Up and shared. Enjoy your Easter Holiday !!!

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the clean life 4 years ago from New Jersey Shore Author

@ Ardie - Thank you Ardie for your kind words to me and for reading. All I want is to make people realize there is a great life out there for all of us to have and share being clean and sober. My goal is to help as many people as possible by my writing.

Have a wonderful Easter Holiday Ardie!!!! :)

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the clean life 4 years ago from New Jersey Shore Author

incomeguru Thank you for your comment and yes we all need to continue to believe and we will see the power of God. Happy Easter to you as well.

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sunkentreasure 4 years ago from RUIMSIG, SOUTH AFRICA


Look for the beauty

in everything you see.

Walk in peace

showing kindness


The secrets of success

are motivation

and dedication

Happiness is

what you make happen

for yourself.

Caring is

going to the ends of the world

for a stranger.

Be useful with your life.

Whatever you are doing

put your whole

being into it 100%

Loving is

pleasing your loved one everyday

in a 1000 different ways.

Control your mind

you are its master

Be in control.

Live your life

without hurting or


Believe in yourself.

Have respect for yourself.

Walk through life

always with a song.

© Bernard Levine

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the clean life 4 years ago from New Jersey Shore Author

sunkentreasure, Beautiful and every word of it is SO TRUE. Now if people would only follow these things the world would be a happier place. Thanks for reading and commenting.

God Bless and Happy Easter to you!

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ImKarn23 4 years ago

You have learned so much in your quest for your 'perfect life', Mr. Clean...You have an inner strength and understanding that many do not. You should be very proud of your accomplishments and your commitment to 'the clean life'. I love your using the term 'perfect life'. I believe the perfect life is something we never attain-but continue to strive for each and every day! Great hub!

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the clean life 4 years ago from New Jersey Shore Author

ImKarn23, Sorry it has taken so long to reply to your comment. I have been very sick, but I'm back :) I want to thank you for the bottom of my heart for your kind words to me. It really means a lot to me. Thank you for reading and and fro being a friend.

God Bless


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Made 4 years ago from Finland

Thank you for writing this hub. I like the thought of always keeping a positive attitude. Voted up!

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the clean life 4 years ago from New Jersey Shore Author

@ Made - thank you for commenting on this hub. It took a long time for me to realize that living in a negative world I did will never get me or anyone for that matter anywhere in life. Positive Attitude from here on out !!!!

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