5 most effective steps to build self confidence of your son

use powerful inspirational and motivation quotes to give your son an effective self esteem
use powerful inspirational and motivation quotes to give your son an effective self esteem

Every mother wants to make his child a confident and successful person, its good that you want too and searching for tips to build your son’s confidence. It’s not as complex as some people consider it; you don’t need any special thing to make your son confident.

How to build my son’s confidence?

That’s the question you have in your mind and other questions like this

Will my son become a confident person or not?

Are these tips really works?

I am going to tell you that these steps really works and these are the steps which are applied by my mother to build my confidence. Doesn’t matter that I am a specialist or not but I had experienced all these, I know that these are much effective for a son.

My mother help

My mother helps me to write this hub and I can say that this hub isn’t written by me it’s written by my mother, I am proud to be her son and I love her so much that she makes me a successful and confident person.

I again assure you that these steps are really effective to build your son’s confidence.

Now come to my mothers recommended five steps

Positivity, appreciation and responsibility are the main factors to build your son's confidence
Positivity, appreciation and responsibility are the main factors to build your son's confidence

First give your son some material to learn about building confidence

Give him some articles to read out, so you can make some awareness in him about building his confidence.

Also give him concise and simple books on “how to build self confidence?”

Tell him about the stories of historical confident and successful personalities such as rulers, fighters etc

Purpose of the step

Purpose of providing all this material to your son is to give him awareness about the need to build confidence, to give him interest of building such a thing which he need lead a successful life.

As he become interested in all this, you feel much easier to go to next steps.

2nd order him to go to school alone

It’s much difficult for you and your son to apply this step but you have to do it because its works more then any other thing, may it look like such a crazy thing but its effective.

You have to choose a short distance of about 300 to 500 meters where you have to drop your son and then he walk for the school alone, try it for 15 days you will see the results automatically in your son.

If the school is near or public transport can access it then I suggest you let him go on his own, it become more effective to build your son’s confidence.

Purpose of the step

This will enhance your son’s experience and the way he observes things, may he feel free and relax. This all works effectively in building his confidence. It’s an unusual thing and it helps to prepare your son for every situation.

3rd step tell him to shop himself

Tell him to buy his books, clothes and other things he wants to buy, let him get confident that he can buy himself all the things.

Even let him to shop for home, tell him things you need and observe how he buy them, which things he choose to buy first and why?

Purpose of the step

This will also help to build your son’s self confidence, he learns to buy, learn bargaining and learn to talk and deal with local and professional people.

It’s the tip to grow your son’s personal powers.

It’s just to give him responsibilities.

4th step manage companies for him

Company affects your son more then any other thing you can imagine, try to give him good supporting environment and company so he can grow up while you rest or feel free that he is with some good ones.

Keep your son away from odd ones who tease him and lose his confidence, choose good and wise friends for him, its badly needed to build your son’s confidence.

If possible give him company of some mature and experienced people frequently, create interest in him to meet those peoples who are successful and positive.

Purpose of the step

Simply I can say that your son becomes good or bad, positive or negative, confident or unconfident just because of company he gained. It’s not tracking your son its just determining goals and aims of his life.

It also creates a good self esteem in your son.

5th step build his confidence by your appreciation

Now the final step is to support him yourself, appreciate him on every activity, no matter how minor it is, judge him positively, always support him.

Appreciation by you and other family members build his confidence effectively and in less time he will become more confident.

Point out his properties on which he can feel proud, build courage in him to do every thing.

Purpose of the step

Main purpose is to show him his outstanding properties and skills, if they aren’t outstanding make them outstanding by your talks.

Its also creates your better relation with him.

God bless you and your son

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111 Wonderful Ways To Build Children's Self Esteem & Confidence Everyday

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Mohammad Mohsin 5 years ago from Lahore, Pakistan Author

thanks for the comment... yes i believe that my mom is great, I love her the most


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Temirah 5 years ago

Sounds like you have a great mum! I like the 'purpose of the step' part - it's a good addition for clarity.


restyawan 5 years ago

nice post for my son


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Mohammad Mohsin 5 years ago from Lahore, Pakistan Author

thanks butterfly


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butterflystar 5 years ago from A Place of Success :)

Very nice and informative hub, I agree its important for mothers to build their son's confidence, its very important that boy's and really everyone has a good self image and self esteem :)

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