6 things to motivate yourself to build your confidence instantly

What is motivation?

Motivation is just a driving force, if use properly and gently can change the lives; world history is proof to tell us that by motivating humans everything becomes possible. Motivation can gives positive and negative results depending upon its use.

How motivation helps to build my self confidence?

I am researching on the confidence building topic since 3 years I had recommended many of the simple steps and ways to build confidence. My aim is to help every type of person to improve and gain confidence, I am still searching for simpler and easily applicable ways for this, I am not just doing all this to earn but I want to increase my knowledge and research more and more.

Use of motivation to build confidence is as easy as any other method I had studied so I want to share it with my readers. You just have to complete some simple steps and your confidence will automatically build.

Try it if you find my research useful just pray for me.

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how to build confidence, how to gain confidence

Configure yourself that you are the one

Do you know that?

No one in the world came like you and no one will come like you”

It’s the greatest miracle God has created in humanity, if you don’t believe it see the history, see around you, have you ever find a person identical to you by look, by education, by thinking. If no one then you may agree with me.

Do you know how you born, after many battles, many reigns, many floods, earth quakes, many disasters faced by your fore fathers form generation to generation, you are protected by God because you have to born after many centuries and your fore fathers survive in those horrible situations just because of you.

Isn’t it sufficient to motivate you to build your confidence, can you feel great by motivating yourself this way, no one is like you, no one can think and act like you?

“Who has confidence in himself will gain the confidence of others.”

Believe that you are capable to handle any problem

"The best way to gain self-confidence is to do what you are afraid to do."

Its just look simple to say that I can do everything, but sometime we are internally afraid, of doing those things, which we consider close to impossible. Make your self believe that you can do every thing, try to do the things more as much they afraid you, just handle yourself it is the only way to handle your problems, only way to build your confidence and self esteem.

“Go out in the world and work like money doesn't matter, Sing as if no one is listening, Love as if you have never been hurt, and Dance as if no one is watching”

Believe on God

Believe on God is necessary to build your confidence, if you believe that no one can heart you and no one can give you benefit, until God want. If you believe on the supreme power who created you is strong then automatically you will become stronger in your decisions, will become bold in your activities and thinking. The only thing you need to build your confidence is that you are protected by God and nothing matters if God is on your side.

Love the thing you see in the mirror

Are you losing your confidence just because you don’t like your look, physic or color?

Do you think you can build your confidence if you become more pretty or handsome?

Then the question is that

Is there any way to become prettier or more handsome?

If you have the solution then it’s good if not, you then have to admire that fault in you, instead don’t make it your fault try to make it your uniqueness and source of attractiveness. Just admire focus on your good things, stand in front of mirror motivate yourself and start counting what you got good.

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how to build confidence, how to gain confidence

Analyze how you matter, what is the reason of your confidence

Now if you are satisfied a little by your look the next step to motivate you is

If I will be rich I will be confident? If I will be independent I will be confident? Etc

On this question I can say that

Make yourself believe that confidence doesn’t depend on any thing, so build your confidence without materialism and make your confidence independent.


Pretend to be confident

Confidence is just to pretending to be confident

The last thing I can say to motivate you to build your confidence instantly is that just pretend to be confident and you get the self confidence. Just behave like a person whom you consider as confident and your confidence will automatically boost up.

"Confidence is a habit that can be developed by acting as if you already had the confidence you desire to have."

-Brian Tracy

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Mohammad Mohsin 5 years ago from Lahore, Pakistan Author

thanks deepu3

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deepu3 5 years ago from Kochi, India

great you just motivated me, will spread the hub.

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