An E-Mail from My Brother, The Inventor

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E-Mail From My Brother

You may have met my brothers, Joe is the Musician, and Butch is the Inventor. If you haven't met them yet let me tell you, you have missed a lot.

When I was born Joe was 3 and a half years old, while Butch was already ten. That right there should have separated us forever. By the time I was in fifth grade, Butch was entering the Army under the draft.

This letter he sent came from a friend of his, and after you read I am sure you will know what the hub is about.

Copied from the Body of the E-Mail.

One day I had a date with friends for lunch. Mae, a little old "blue hair" about 80 years old came along with them---all in all, a pleasant bunch.
When the menus were presented, we ordered salads, sandwiches, and soups, except for Mae who said, "Ice Cream, please. Two scoops, chocolate.

I wasn't sure my ears heard right, and the others were aghast. "Along with heated apple pie," Mae added, completely unabashed.
We tried to act quite nonchalant, as if people did this all the time. But when our orders were brought out, I didn't enjoy mine.
I couldn't take my eyes off Mae as her pie a-la-mode went down. The other ladies showed dismay. They ate their lunches silently and frowned.

The next time I went out to eat, I called and invited Mae. I ordered lunched on white meat tuna. She ordered a parfait.
I smiled. She asked if she amused me.
I answered, "Yes, you do, but also you confuse me.

How come you order rich desserts, while I feel I must be sensible? She laughed and said, with wanton mirth, "I'm tasting all that is Possible.

I try to eat the food I need, and do the things I should.. But lifeis so short, my friend, I hate missing out on something good.
This year I realized how old I was. (She grinned) I haven't been this old before."
"So, before I die, I've got to try those things that for years I had ignored.
I haven't smelled all the flowers yet.. There are too many books I haven't read. There's more fudge sundaes to wolf down and kites to be flown overhead.

There are many malls I haven't shopped. I've not laughed at all the joke s. I've missed a lot of Broadway hits and potato chips and cokes.
I want to wade again in water and feel ocean spray on my face. I want to sit in a country church once more and thank God for His grace.
I want peanut butter every day spread on my morning toast. I want un-timed long distance calls to the folks I love the most.

I haven't cried at all the movies yet, or walked in the morning rain. I need to feel wind in my hair. I want to fall in love again.
So, if I choose to have dessert, instead of having dinner, then should I die before night fall, I'd say I died a winner, because I missed out on nothing. I filled my heart's desire. I had that final chocolate mousse before my life expired."

With that, I called the waitress over.. "I've changed my mind" I said. "I want what she is having, only add some more whipped cream!"

This is my gift to you - We need an annual Friends Day! If you get this twice, then you have more than one friend. Live well, love much & laugh often - Be happy.

Be mindful that happiness isn't based on possessions, power, or prestige, but on relationships with people we love and respect. Remember that while money talks Chocolate Sings!


Work like you don't need the money. Love like you've never been hurt.
Dance like nobody's watching. Sing like nobody's listening.
Live like it's Heaven on Earth.

Live like your dyin', We all are, after all

The point

I know sometimes my work has numerous points, sometimes no point at all. Well this one is from the heart.

A friend told me, at a very low point in my life, her philosophy and I have used it ever since as my own. We were out after work and she told me why she'd never remarried. She had been young enough when her husband passed away, and she was a truly beautiful inspirational person, inside and out. Her name even was, Joy. To be so beautiful, so loving, and so helpful... And then to have been christened with that name at birth. I will never forget her, I am sure she is out there somewhere.

I was afraid. I had lost everything. I had no future at all. My dream of writing some great American novel was gone as was all hope. I asked her if I had missed my chance at happiness. If I was ruined for good. In the parking lot, underneath the street lamp, she turned to me and laughed. I was crying, and she was laughing. She said:

"Don't be silly. You're still alive aren't you? Of course you haven't missed your chance, or we wouldn't be talking, because you'd already be dead. I can't tell you if you will ever write that novel, or even if you were supposed to in the first place. Or if you do if you'll ever get rich off of it. What I can tell you is what I believe."

What Joy Told Me

I believe that when we are born, a book is opened. On the first page are the details of your birth, the time and the date, the weight and all of the things the Doctors did, and the parents said. On the last page is the date and time of your death. These details of the first and last page are known only to those whose lives are touched by those pages and it is not for us to know our own.

In between the first page and the last are many pages. Some of these pages have already been written for us, or perhaps even by us before we came. Your first day of school, first kiss, car, even your marriage and first child if it is your fate to have these things, you will have them. They are preordained and no matter what you do, or don't do, you will get to these things.

In between there are many blank pages, on these you write the story of your life. Some may accelerate you to those other pages more quickly, sometimes you spend so much time filling in blank pages that you slow yourself from reaching these things. You never lose what you are meant to have, you will get to where you are supposed to be, sometimes you are just on a detour.

It is because we do not know what is on these predestined pages that we must strive to fill the blank ones with every hope, every dream, every aspiration. We must use acts of kindness, good deeds and joys of life to sustain us. We will find our way to those good and bad things that are written no matter what we do. So in between, we might as well fill as many pages with good things as we can. there is enough bad in the world already.

In this way we may direct our energies to attain something we want to have, that is not predetermined. That said, if it is your destiny to be that writer that changes the world you will be, even if you do nothing more. It may be something you have already written, that will not be discovered until after you are gone. If it is not your destiny, but your dream, then you must work harder and fill those pages.

Perhaps your dream will change, you do not know what is written on those other pages, one day you may suddenly see, and say "Oh, that was it all along." You might find you were only a writer so that you could teach someone else along life's highway.

Whatever your destination is, you have not, indeed cannot miss it. No one gets to skip to the last page and read the end of this book. Because we don't know how many pages we have, we never know how close we are until the end.

While you're here, fill up those pages, don't leave any blank with inaction, don't wait idly for life to come to you. Perhaps the novel in you, is you. Don't let it get boring and drag in the middle. Keep the story moving.

In Summary

We all have to take the chance that maybe our dream is not our destiny, that we have to make it happen for ourselves. Still I don't believe anything happens by coincidence, so sometimes fate will lend a hand. Do not wait for fate, sometimes fate is not kind. Yet maybe, when fate was unkind, it was only so I would find my way. Maybe it was so today, when I received this e-mail, I did not read and delete, I connected the two, and gave them to you.

Maybe that was why I have been given them both, to begin with.

If this has helped you on your journey then it was worth the strange twist of fate that caused me to lose everything, in the first place.


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Hokey 7 years ago from In the energy.

This is truly breathtaking!! I couldn't stop reading. I'm gonna read it again! Thanks for sure!!

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Faybe Bay 7 years ago from Florida Author

Thanks Hokey, you are too sweet. I am glad you liked it. :)

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Sandyspider 7 years ago from Wisconsin, USA

This is a sweet hub.

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Faybe Bay 7 years ago from Florida Author

Thank you! I just put it up, this is so sudden! I was looking at your recipe collection Sandy.

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StormRyder 7 years ago

Great job Faybe Bay...I loved it. It made me happy to read it, thanks for that! :)


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Faybe Bay 7 years ago from Florida Author

Thank you StormRyder, I e-mailed him to thank him for the idea, as he didn't know it would end up here.

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skyfire 7 years ago

Nice one faybe bay :)

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Faybe Bay 7 years ago from Florida Author

Thanks Skyfire, that means a lot to me.

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Sa Toya 7 years ago from England

AWESOMENESS the highest degree :)

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Faybe Bay 7 years ago from Florida Author

Thank you Sa Toya, you know what your opinion means to me. You gave me a voice, one to speak without fear. :)

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MyWebs 6 years ago from Sheridan, WY

That is one of the most motivational articles I have ever read. Truly inspiring with a great message for everyone.

Very well done. I will defiantly be sharing this on Twitter and with friends and family via email.

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Faybe Bay 6 years ago from Florida Author

Thank you so much, MyWebs! It doesn't work when I try to import my addresses, so I am unable to spread them around like that. I don't even know how to tweet.

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MyWebs 6 years ago from Sheridan, WY

Faybe I just copy paste the URL into the email and send it to out like that.

Twitter is easy and can be good to get some short term traffic once you have some followers there.

There are many hubs here about twitter.

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Faybe Bay 6 years ago from Florida Author

Thank you again!I have to learn all of these things. I am leaving the link so that others may find it too, who have the same problems as me. Funny comment, I sent out a link that didn't work! My e-mail went down and the letter went into drafts. When I sent it I forgot that folder disables the link, and so it didn't work. LOL

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Justine76 6 years ago

I had a friend, who was a nurse. Once an old woman who was dying grabbed her arm and said.." If I could do it over again, I would have burned my candles before the sun melted them."

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Faybe Bay 6 years ago from Florida Author

That is so true, so true. It may have been that she was supposed to tell that to that nurse, that may have been what the nurse needed to know.

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pinkylee 6 years ago

i absolutely love this hub faybe ... you are so talented and such a wonderful person and amazing friend. thank you for sharing all or your thoughts and stories! **HUGS**

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Faybe Bay 6 years ago from Florida Author

Don't forget you are an amazing friend, bringing out the best in all you touch. ((HUGS))

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Justine76 6 years ago

yup, she needed to hear it, and to tell me too. I will never forget that.

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Faybe Bay 6 years ago from Florida Author

Yes Justine, I thought is might have been something you needed to hear. Keep you candle burning. We all have moments when fate and destiny are as clear as the hand in front of your face.

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Ann Nonymous 6 years ago from Virginia

OMG...what a delightful, entertaining and challenging hub! I thoroughly enjoyed it and I can see why you have reached 100 fans in such a record time! I loved Mae and your points...Great job!

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Faybe Bay 6 years ago from Florida Author

Thank you Ann! It is amazing when threads come together to form a tapestry, and then more incredible when you can show that tapestry to your friends. I was supposed to pass the e-mail on. I felt it was better here, so I could share it with all of you.

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Sage Williams 6 years ago

Faybe Bay - A truly remarkable hub with so much hidden meaning. You've done an amazing job writing this. Thanks for sharing the body of the email it was truly an inspiration.


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Faybe Bay 6 years ago from Florida Author

Thank you Sage. I was so inspired by the story. It's ironic that the only diet I ever created that worked for permanent weight loss would be called the "Hot Fudge Sunday" diet. Maybe I will write a hub on that, some time.

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dpfitzell 6 years ago from North Dakota

Wow! That was a wonderful Story. Thank you very much for the pleasure of being able to read it.

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ladyjane1 6 years ago from Texas

This hub brought tears to my eyes because you are so right, we have many pages to fill and we should fill them up with love, laughter and life a full life, to try to do as much as we can because we shall only pass this way but once. I tell my children, like the song says, "I hope you Dance". Thanks for a wonderful hub.

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Faybe Bay 6 years ago from Florida Author

Dpfitzell, Thank you, I am so glad you enjoyed it, and I am following you. Anyone who has such a passion for perfect coffee is aces in my book!

Ladyjane1, it is my pleasure to write about the good stuff, wherever and whenever I find it. I am glad you hold the same philosophy. "I Hope You Dance" is another one of my favorite songs.

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