Being Positive Is Your Choice

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Let's get right into the nuts and bolts of why being positive is your choice. To begin with, here is a word I'd like you to write down three times. Perception. You're going to learn how important this word is and just how it connects with being positive.

I'm going to throw a thought at you in the form of a question. How would you like to live in a state of uninterrupted peace and bliss? Of course you would. This is what everyone is looking for. Do you know that this is your true nature? Author,Eckhart Tolle, (The Power of Now), writes that we already have intense joy inside of us. He further states "You have it already (intense joy). You just can't feel it because your mind is making too much noise."

No matter who you are or where you are you can learn to free yourself from enslavement to the mind and enter into an enlightened state of thinking which is being positive. It is your choice.

You have the power to interrupt a negative thought.
You have the power to interrupt a negative thought. | Source

How To Stop Negative Thinking

Choosing your thoughts will control your inner-dialogue. It is this "self-talk" that cements either a positive attitude or a negative one. Try the following strategies:

  • Interrupt the negative thought. When we learn how to interrupt the negative inner-dialogue, we are taking the first step to choosing a positive thought over a negative thought.
  • Shout out loud - Stop! You'll be surprised how fast the negative thought will vanish. Do this whenever you have a negative thought or inner-dialogue going on. If you practice this enough, you will come to the point where you can do this in your mind.
  • Using a shhh sound works well for me. The sound is quick and deliberate.
  • Sing. Yes, that's right. As soon as your mind begins to dwell on a negative thought or an unhappy past experience - start singing. Sing anything, just to interrupt the present thought.
  • The final step is to replace the negative thought with something pleasant. It can be anything that is not related to the negative thought. Visualize a baby laughing or see yourself relaxing on a tropical beach.

Negative thinking is a habit that has been developed over time. We can stop this behavior and replace it with positive, empowering thoughts. Being positive is your choice.

Guard your thoughts.  They are your treasures.
Guard your thoughts. They are your treasures. | Source

Perception and Positive Thinking

What does perception have to do with positive thinking? It has everything to do with how we think and how we interpret experiences. This is what Douglas Adams had to say about perception. "Everything you see or hear or experience in any way at all is specific to you. You create a universe by perceiving it, so everything in the universe you perceive is specific to you."

In other words, you create your own reality beginning with your thoughts. If you don't like the way your life is going, change it. Change your thoughts to change your life.

What you perceive becomes your reality. This might be a bit to take in, but as you practice controlling your thoughts, you will come to realize that this is true. Author Wayne Dyer has a quote that serves me well. "When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change."

One of my favorite authors is the late Stephen R. Covey. One of his most famous quotes is, "To change ourselves effectively, we first have to change our perceptions."

This quote clearly indicates the power that exists in making good, positive choices.

Exercise your imagination.  Explore the path along the way.  Discover the beauty and the positive.
Exercise your imagination. Explore the path along the way. Discover the beauty and the positive. | Source

Your Imagination Will Change Your Perceptions

One of our most treasured gifts is our imagination. Most of us fail to use this remarkable tool in such a way as to change our perception of things. Our imagination is a powerful mind-brain function. We can even use mental imagery to reduce pain in the body. I know from personal experience that by using my imagination I am able to divert the feeling of pain by focusing on positive, beautiful and happy thoughts and imagery.

The imagination is so powerful that according to scientists at the Karolinska Institute in Sweden,future research will be done on brain-computer interfaces for people who are paralyzed. Their imaginations will control virtual and artificial devices. How amazing this is.

Emotion - The Body's Reaction To Your Mind

The mind, in the way I'm referring to the word isn't just a thought. It also includes emotions. Where your mind and body meet, emotion will arise. It's the body's reaction to the mind. If you cannot feel your emotions and you are cut off from them, you'll eventually feel them on a physical level.

An example of this is people that carry a lot of anger inside without expressing it, are more likely to be attacked either physically or verbally by another angry person.

Feel your body within to focus on your emotions. Allow them to be expressed when you are in a comfortable, safe and personal place. Most of us grow up being made to control and hold in our emotions. Feelings must not be judged. Feelings 'just are.'

A Book That Helped Me Through The Hardest Time Of My Life

The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment
The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment

Tolle introduces readers to enlightenment and its natural enemy, the mind. He awakens readers to their role as a creator of pain and shows them how to have a pain-free identity by living fully in the present. The journey is thrilling.

 

Being Positive Is To Be In The Moment

When you allow yourself to be in the moment, you are being your deepest self. The noisy 'chitter-chatter' that goes on and on in the mind will come to a complete stop. This is a powerful way to switch from negative thinking to more positive thoughts.

We live in fast times with fast food and fast thoughts. How many times do you really taste the chocolate flavor, texture and smells of a chocolate dessert or snack? We wolf the delicious food down, not even remembering we ate it. We don't even live in the moment as we enjoy one of life's greatest pleasures - eating.

Author, Eckhert Tolle, describes 'being' as "Being can be felt as the ever present I am that is beyond name and form. To feel and thus to know that you are and to abide in that deeply rooted state is enlightenment."

Meditation Quiets The Mind

Meditation is a personal creative experience. As you practice meditation you begin to understand that there is another way to view reality than the way you have always taken for granted. You come to learn that your problems are based on fear.

These first insights only occur when you are in your most quiet and self-collected moments. The clarity and reassurance you're beginning to feel will pour out into your daily tasks. You'll find that you're not s sensitive as before, not so defensive and not so rushed and anxious.

You will discover inner joy, inner gladness and inner light. You give up one way of being and grow into another. Meditation is a choice just as being positive is your choice.

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How to Quiet The Mind

Good coping skills lie in the self-talk and the differing ways of interpreting events over time. It might be useful to recast our various assumptions about the nature of self-talks into four positive statements. These are:

1. Only I can upset myself which I do with my self talk.

2. My self talks are learned so I can learn new ones.

3. Although it may be difficult to change old patterns, with effort and persistence I can change.

4. Ultimately I can regulate the nature, intensity and duration of my emotional responses.

With these assumptions as a foundation we are ready to begin addressing specific patterns of self talk and replacing any dysfunctional and stress-producing thoughts with functional and health-enhancing thoughts.











Points To Remember For Being Positive

As we learn to use some of these techniques for choosing positive thoughts over negative thoughts, we may even run into a miracle now and then. Don't be surprised if this happens to you.

Here are some key points to take with you:

  • Living in a state of uninterrupted peace and bliss is your natural state.
  • You can learn to free yourself from enslavement of the mind.
  • Practice the list of strategies to interrupt any negative self-talk.
  • Negative thinking is a habit and can be changed to positive thinking.
  • Your perception influences your thoughts and interpretation.
  • Use mental imagery, (imagination) to change your perception.
  • Focusing on your emotions is your body's reaction to your mind.
  • Avoid judging feelings.
  • To be positive, be in the moment.
  • Quiet your mind, (the chit-chat.)
  • Practice meditation each day to quiet your mind and to transform your life.
  • Ego is our false self and blocks who we really are. We can only see clearly when we are without ego.
  • When you have a choice to be right or be kind, always choose to be kind.

Focus on all that is good. One way to do this is to keep a daily gratitude list. And allow plenty of patience as you practice these new concepts. You will forget from time to time. That is perfectly okay. You will eventually grow to the point where your choice to being positive will move you to Divine Love.

Resources

www.psychologytoday.com/ June 28, 2013

The Power Of Now - Eckhart Tolle - Namaste Publishing and New World Library, Novato, Ca.

7 Habits of Highly Effective People - Stephen R. Covey

Manifest Your Destiny - Wayne W. Dyer - Harper Collins Publisher

My lovely 'daughter-to-be' ~ Jennifer Halenar, Violinist and Creator of Fine Violins.  The inspiration for this article.
My lovely 'daughter-to-be' ~ Jennifer Halenar, Violinist and Creator of Fine Violins. The inspiration for this article.

© 2014 Audrey Hunt

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Sunshine625 2 years ago from Orlando, FL

Amen to this fabulous hub! There is no other way to be, except positive. I always say, no matter what the situation is ... It could always be worse.


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AudreyHowitt 2 years ago from California

I also have to say amen!


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Lady Guinevere 2 years ago from West Virginia

Oh Yes!! I have caught myself slipping a negative thought in and then stopping it and asking myself where the bleep did that come from? LOL I have also learned that being sick, not the really hard stuff, is also a negative thought. I have shouted out loud for that to stop too and it did. I have also told myself to stop thinking about being sick and stop the madness and it did. We are spirits in a body that is similar to being a puppet. It is in this body that we learn what and how to control it (the mind). Now that I do know about these things and learned them by experimenting does not mean that I have total control...and I do not think that I ever will. This is a wonderful article and of course I am going to share it just like I did with your crying article.


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billybuc 2 years ago from Olympia, WA

I'm sending PIPO to you on this fine sunny afternoon. A lovely message, and one I live my life by.

love,

bill


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DzyMsLizzy 2 years ago from Oakley, CA

I have been so struggling to learn and apply these principles. I know them to be true; yet when faced with seemingly insurmountable challenges in life with one's health, or the failing health of one's partner, it is difficult to remember to be happy by choice, or that we even have a choice.

Your photo illustration at the head of your article is a perfect example. I recently posted this old bit on Facebook, with the following tongue-in-cheek commentary:

The pessimist says the glass is half empty.

The optimist says the glass is half full.

The existentialist says "it is what it is."

The engineer says the glass is twice as large as it needs to be.

Many people voted that up and funny; but I also got the following additional comments:

The opportunist drinks it.

The gamer drinks it and says, "how will this affect me?"

and finally, The realist says, "The glass is completely full; half with water; half with air."

Food for thought, indeed. Voted up, useful and interesting.


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FlourishAnyway 2 years ago from USA

I'm a big believer in your message here. We cannot always control what happens to us but we can adjust our perceptions, control reactions and our interpretations. We can change our environments and our place in the world. Voted way up +++.


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

Sunshine625 - Thank you so much! Linda, you are a positive ray of sunshine spreading joy to everyone here in our Hubpage family.

Audrey Howitt - Thank you lovely lady!

Lady Guinevere - It would sure be fun to sit down and share thoughts on this subject. I find that it's easy to get distracted and of course when that happens, there goes trying to 'be in the now.' Thanks so much and I appreciate your sharing this.

Hello, dear Bill - What is PIPO? If it's covered in dark chocolate I'll take it:)

Thank you great friend and do enjoy this sunshine.

Love,

Audrey

Dear Liz - Oh, I agree that this is a challenge and even more needed when surrounded by pain and declining health.

Thanks for sharing your "glass is half empty, half full" remarks. I got such a kick out of the existentialist and the gamer. LOL!

Thank you wonderful lady for the vote and ratings. Hope "everything" is working okay for you.

FlourishAnyway - You really have the 'big picture' my friend. Great! I love hearing this. Appreciate the vote and ratings - Audrey


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Jackie Lynnley 2 years ago from The Beautiful South

I think I am a glass half full kinda girl, lol. I may get some downs; we all do but I never bring them on myself and manage to get through somehow, so far! Great encouraging article; hope many will listen. ^


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ChitrangadaSharan 2 years ago from New Delhi, India

Great hub and I do believe and practice this in my life as much as I can. Though its not easy but as you said, you must choose to be Positive.

Thanks for sharing this motivating and thought provoking hub! Voted up and shared!


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Jodah 2 years ago from Queensland Australia

Beautiful and important message Audrey. Everyone needs to read this and implement your suggestions. Great accompanying pics too. Voted up.


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Meisjunk 2 years ago from Pennsylvania

One of the biggest things that helped me become more positive was to get rid of the chronically-negative people out of my life. I know that sounds harsh to those who haven't accomplished this before or to those who have and then experienced extreme guilt.

But let me share something with you.

When a person makes you feel less YOU each time you hang out with them, even with you giving hints (or even if you don't give hints and are just extremely uncomfortable), and this happens repeatedly without that person adjusting to your needs in the friend- or relationship? That person does not care about your needs. And you don't need that in your life.

Since I've stopped talking to a non-friend in January, I've had such a positive outlook on life, such a happier disposition. And you know what? I FEEL like things are working out for the better for me. I may not be where I want to be, but I'm on the way to it! And I can just FEEL this, it's not just a reminder I have to keep giving myself.

I know that some of us don't have the opportunity to get rid of the negative people because they're blood relatives or roommates that we live with, and I sincerely hope that you come up with ways to limit their presence in your day-to-day activities. That's what's going to clear your head.


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always exploring 2 years ago from Southern Illinois

Wonderful suggestions Audrey. I am in the process of clearing any negative thoughts and i must admit i have many creep in. Meditation is helpful. I have never said out loud, " Stop " A very good idea, and i will try it. Thank you for sharing this...


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manatita44 2 years ago from london

Great positive ideas, and well-chosen or rather nice holistic topic. Much peace, My Sister


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bravewarrior 2 years ago from Central Florida

Audrey, I'm a pretty positive person - most of the time. We all have our moments when we slip and let that chitter chatter take over. I love your advice of simply telling the mind to shhhhh. I'll have to try that the next time I find myself slipping.

Great article, Audrey. Oh - your 'soon to be daughter' is beautiful!


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denise.w.anderson 2 years ago from Bismarck, North Dakota

It is totally possible to change negative thinking patterns to positive ones. You have listed some great ways, and I have found all of them work for me in my life. Life is much too short to spend it in unhappiness!


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Lisa Luv 2 years ago from Conneticut, USA

EXCELLENT!!! Sharing


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

Meisjunk - Purging negative people in our life is so very important. As you have pointed out, this is not always easy to do, especially when they are part of your family. I have lived with this my entire life and for most of it, I paid a very high price. When I made the decision to let go of this person, I felt a sense of relief and freedom. She is still in my life, but I no longer get caught up in her drama. I changed my thinking and it changed my life. Thank you!

Hello Jackie - Yes, we all sooner or later fall into feeling down. The important thing is to take immediate action by replacing the thought. I'm so glad you found this hub to be encouraging. I do hope many readers will find their way here. Thank you so much!

ChitrangadaSharon - With each hub that you write, it is obvious that you practice a positive life-style. I am attracted to your articles because of this. I seem to feel 'lifted' as I ponder what you have written.

I agree that positive thinking and living in the now is a challenge. But while we continue to work in this direction, our lives are happier. Thank you for your vote and especially for sharing. Others will be helped because you have taken the action to share. ~ Blessings ~ Audrey

Hello Jodah - How nice it is to see you here. You are such an active writer and supporter of others, I am always honored when you come to visit. Glad you liked the photos. Thank you and enjoy your day.

alwaysexploring - Hello my friend. I want you to know how very much I have enjoyed your poetry. You have a tremendous gift. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with me. If you've read other comments here, you've noticed that ridding our thoughts of all negativity is a huge challenge. I, myself have worked very hard (and continue to) on sweeping negative thoughts and people from my life. But, oh, what a liberating feeling it is. You, dear Ruby, deserve this. You are a jewel!

manatita44 - So pleased to see you here, my friend. I appreciate the hubs you write. Thank you for the lift your messages bring to me. Also, I appreciate the 'peace' you send my way and I do the same for you. Namaste ~


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manatita44 2 years ago from london

I will write you a poem soon.

(Lost my surprise now). I see so much beauty and simplicity in your face? I better stop. (smile) LOL


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

bravewarrior - Your positive attitude always comes through in your marvelous hubs. Yes, we do slip on occasion and that's natural. Some days I am "sushing" more than others :) By the time I reach 99 years of age, I'm hoping to have a good handle on it. Thank you for mentioning my new daughter-to-be (Jennifer.) She is very special and stole my heart the first time I saw her. I knew she was the one for my Randy. Sometime I will share their story with you. Thank you Sha ~ Hugs - Audrey


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Eiddwen 2 years ago from Wales

What a wonderful hub Audrey ;your obvious hard work has certainly paid off. I so believe in being positive and by now I am programmed to be so I think. I do not stay down for long ;life is far too short. Voting up, across and sharing my dear friend. wishing you a wonderful weekend.

Eddy.


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ESPeck1919 2 years ago from Minneapolis, MN

Great suggestions! It's always good to see a practical article about positive thinking out there. Thanks for sharing!


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Nell Rose 2 years ago from England

This is great Audrey! I have even started to say Stop! now that I get bad thoughts, and I will keep doing it, we have to keep reafirming the ideas, but I will take all this onboard, wonderful! voted up and shared! nell


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Faith Reaper 2 years ago from southern USA

Such a great message here dear Audrey! You are one insightful person and I hope many take this to heart. Yes, it is certainly our choice and always a good practice to count our blessings in lieu of what we do not have!

Up and more and away

Blessings always


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

denise.w.anderson - You are exactly the kind of person I enjoy hanging out with :) Thank you for supporting my hub and also thank you for your positive attitude!

Lisa Luv - It's so great to see you here Lisa. Thank you for your very nice remarks. I can tell that you live these principals. My best to you!

manatita44 - Oh wow - a poem for me? I am flattered. And I see beauty and simplicity in your face as well. Sending you happy thoughts!


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

Dear Eddy ~ Thank you for your very sweet remarks. Your positive thinking comes through with every magnificent poem you write. Your photos are full of joy and bliss. And those two adorable children bring you so much happiness.

I'm blessed to be your friend. My Todd would have loved you! - Audrey

ESPeck1919 - I'm just delighted today to see you here. I want to thank you for liking my suggestions and appreciating my article. May joy dwell in you. ~ Audrey


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always exploring 2 years ago from Southern Illinois

Audrey i had to come back to tell you that i have used your technique several times today and it works, each time a negative thought started to creep in, i would say, " Stop " Finally i had to laugh, it seems so silly, but really works. Thank's again...


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prasetio30 2 years ago from malang-indonesia

Very inspiring hub, Audrey. I always being positive and never thinking negative, because it influences my daily work. Open mind is part of being positive. Thanks for writing and sharing with us. Voted up!

Prasetio


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Anamika S 2 years ago from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India

Awesome Hub! Thank you. My life has changed ever since I realized that only I can make a difference to my life and negativity can only pull me down from succeeding.


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abbaelijah 2 years ago from Nigeria

Thanks for the info.

It is worth reading and I've gain a lot .


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rajan jolly 2 years ago from From Mumbai, presently in Jalandhar,INDIA.

Excellent write, my friend. I have seen the power of perception and positive thinking and firmly believe perception is the first step to being positive.

Voted up, useful and awesome and sharing.

Have a wonderful weekend, Audrey!


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fpherj48 2 years ago from Beautiful Upstate New York

Audrey...This hub is a winner from beginning to end. I am always dealing with that infamous half-full/half-empty glass of joy when going through each ordinary day (Great image on which to focus)....

Chasing away any possible negatives and welcoming that which is "positive," becomes easier, the longer we practice. The rewards are worthwhile.

Love the common sense strategies to help halt negative thinking.....I have put a few of these into action ....they work. For me, just interrupting a negative thought by saying to myself, "For heaven's sake....stop thinking the worst and turn it around, right now!" We just have to hope that few people catch us talking to ourselves!! LOL

Eckhart Tolle is an interesting and brilliant author of enormously helpful b0oks. I watched his intriguing interview with Oprah.

I have had "The Power of NOW" since it first hit the book stores. Mine is highlighted and filled with book markers. Thank you for reminding me to pull this book down from the shelf and refresh!!..UP++ pinned & tweeted


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glynch1 2 years ago

Following your suggestions may help one in some temporal ways; however, they do not resolve the issue of sin against a holy Creator. New Age "thinking" will never give one peace because it is built on the wrong foundation.


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mckbirdbks 2 years ago from Emerald Wells, Just off the crossroads,Texas

There is a reason that you are such a success in life and it is in part because of your right mental attitude. Great advice.


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DeaverTex 2 years ago from Austin, TX

Oh dear. I'm afraid that before I accomplish anything else I need to get rid of the one person in my life who is unfailingly the most negative, can't-do, you're-making-a-fool-of-yourself person I've ever known. That would be me, and I suspect that to be the case for many or even most of us. Getting rid of that person (relax -- I'm speaking metaphorically!) means changing so many of the things I've been taught and have learned in the last 63 years that it's a daunting task.

I'm not even certain it's achievable at this late date.


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carter06 2 years ago from Cronulla NSW

This is fantastic vocalcoach..learning to change your self talk is the key for sure and changes perceptions.. and lifts the weight of negativity and cynicism..really helpful to include ways to go about this as well, good job..

Cheers


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WillStarr 2 years ago from Phoenix, Arizona

Excellent, Audrey. Dad was always big on positive thinking, and this book was on our shelves:

http://books.google.com/books/about/The_Power_of_P...


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AliciaC 2 years ago from British Columbia, Canada

This is a very inspiring hub, Audrey. I love your suggestions for banishing negativity! Thank you for sharing all the great advice.


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Meisjunk 2 years ago from Pennsylvania

Aubrey, are you going to monitor these two commenters? I ask because the comments on here changed very quickly to negative with their purposeful goading. Now I don't want to visit this page again, when before I kept coming back to see how others' lives had been helped.


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

Nell Rose - I'm glad you like the idea of saying "stop." I use this word a lot to interrupt my thoughts (especially of the past.) It takes some practice but it does work. Thank you for voting up and sharing.

Hello dear Faith Reaper - It's always so nice to hear from you and to receive the blessings you send my way. Each day seems to bring a new challenge and therefore a new blessing. Thank you for adding to mine.

always exploring - Oh, I'm just thrilled that you have been putting this form of interruption into your thoughts. And it's working! Yeaaaah Ruby!

prasetio30 - Hello my friend. We have been hub friends for 4 years now. I have always known you to be very positive and most kind. Thank you so much!

Anamika S - Thank you for sharing your thoughts my friend. Yes, it is through our own thinking and actions that make our life what it is. A powerful lesson to learn. Thank you!

abbaelijah - Thank you for seeing the truth. And thank you even more for appreciating what you have learned here. My best to you!

rajan jolly - It took me time to realize that I could change my life through my perception. It is a powerful thing. I am not at all surprised that you live with this belief. You are an amazing person! Thank you for the kind votes.


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Genna East 2 years ago from Massachusetts, USA

Our choice…absolutely true! “What you perceive becomes your reality.” At times, it is challenging to rid ourselves of a little negativity on the really hard days, but we can overcome this with staying positive “in the moment.” This is a wonderful hub! Voted up and sharing. :-)


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Neil Sperling 2 years ago from Port Dover Ontario Canada

The glass is twice as big as it needs to be based on the liquid therein. ;-)


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

fpherj48 - When I read your comments Paula, I always feel a ray of sunshine on my shoulders. Your words add validity to what I've written which puts a big smile on my face.

Love what you've said about how interrupting negative thoughts takes practice - but does become easier in time. I find that relationships, whether family, friends or business, provides us with a daily opportunity to practice kicking negativity in the butt!

Thanks so much for being such a positive and good friend. I appreciate the generous votes too. Hugs, Audrey


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Rusticliving 2 years ago from California

Enters.... the daughter to the rescue.....

First of all, let me say this to vocalcoach; Knowing you as I really do, you have written another wonderful insightful hub that I have no doubt will be a great inspiration to some who read and apply it. With that said and done, I need to reply to the conversation between glynch1 and Lady Guinevere.

I LOVE reading comments when people have so much passion in what they believe and stand for. Isn't it wonderful that we live in today's society where we can voice our own thoughts and opinions? The sad thing is that when it takes a very positive message and turns it into a negative experience to all the others who visit the page in hopes to read something inspirational.

The conversation between you both has sadden my mom greatly in so that I have encouraged her to delete the conversation just between the two of you, but not your original comments to her regarding the hub.

For the record, this hub has not touched anywhere on religion OR new age thinking at all. It is SIMPLY a positive way to help ourselves delete those "negative" thoughts that we as humans tend to get occasionally (Some more than others) and suggestions on how we can do this. Meditation is one way (by the way... meditation is very healthy for the mind & body, a great stress release and yes, a form of communicating with nature, that higher power of which you may believe in) singing is another way and other ways that have been duly noted in this hub.

I believe that if two people have a strong opinion with each other which finds them attacking one another, it's best to address each other in private.

Lady Guinevere, I have loved your writings forever! and glynch1, I hope to learn more about you through your hubs.

Please let us all be mindful of our thoughts before we put them to paper... I know.... Let's SING!


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

glynch1,

Thank you for your comment. God Bless you :)


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glynch1 2 years ago

Rusticliving,

You wrote: "For the record, this hub has not touched anywhere on religion OR new age thinking at all. It is SIMPLY a positive way to help ourselves delete those "negative" thoughts that we as humans tend to get occasionally (Some more than others) and suggestions on how we can do this. Meditation is one way (by the way... meditation is very healthy for the mind & body, a great stress release and yes, a form of communicating with nature, that higher power of which you may believe in) . . .

Your comment says the hub has nothing to do with New Age philosophy at all; yet you call meditation "a form of communication with nature, that higher power . . . " First, seeking to communicate with nature is right out this philosophy/religion. Second, nature is not a "higher power" unless you equate nature with God. That belief amounts to pantheism. The true God created mankind to manage and rule over the rest of His creation. Third, the authors the hub cites (namely, Tolle and Dyer) are either New Age spirituality, self-help, self-actualization, or New Thought writers/speakers.

I did not personally attack Lady G; I only pointed out that following these New Age meditation methods will not obtain eternal salvation for her or anyone else who subscribes to them.

However, she did criticize Christianity, the Bible, and me; I was merely trying to convince her that she needed to acknowledge these attitudes. She also never sought to refute my argument that Christ is the only way to God; no method of positive thinking or meditation can deal with the issue of sin against a holy Creator.

My friend, you needed to read my comments more carefully.


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Rusticliving 2 years ago from California

glynch1,

I will not get in the same back and forth he said she said.. as for my comment.. I read my statement again and it should have said ...nature, OR that higher power that.. so that was my typo bad.. as for your back and forth comments to lady G. I perceived it as both of you attacking one another , again my perception as the conversation between you both did get heated. Either way, it was throwing a negativity light upon something that is a very positive thing. I have read and re-read your comments, however, this is not about what you, Lady G, myself, or anyone else believes, or whether anyone is right or wrong...this is about respect for the author and the those who do come to read the hub.

as for rereading hubs.. this hub needs to be reread as well. Have a great day my friend! ♥


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glynch1 2 years ago

Your perception of my conversation with Lady G is in error. I did not attack her (personally); I disagreed with her beliefs. She, on the other hand, denigrated the Scriptures and me.

I have no doubt that you believe your mother's hub was a "very positive thing." She included some helpful comments; however, the basis for her philosophy is very serious spiritual error. I do believe "this" is about truth. I believe in absolute truth; New Agers do not. If I read spiritual error, I must correct it with the truth of Scripture for the sakes of the author and of those who read it.


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Rusticliving 2 years ago from California

Woo hoo... I just won $5 bucks!.. thank you glynch1!


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

mckbirdbks - Thank you so much. Your kind comments warm my heart. I appreciate you.


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

mckbirdbks - Thanks so much for being here my friend. Your kind words warm my heart and make me smile. I learned to cultivate a positive attitude from my Daddy. He used to say "Nothing is good or bad, it's thinking that makes it so." The pay-off for being positive is attracting wonderful, positive friends like you!


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

DeaverTex - Oh, my friend, it's achievable at any time. You've most likely been 'brain-washed' with negativity most of your life. It takes a strong desire, along with courage to begin changing our way of thinking. You are still young enough to begin an exciting path to positive thinking. I read a quote recently that I'd like to share with you. "Success is a little like wrestling a gorilla. You don't quit when you're tired - you quit when the gorilla is tired." This is kind of how we go about changing our thoughts.

I want to thank you for reading this hub Deaver. If I can help you in any way at any time just let me know. - Audrey


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

carter06 - I'm very happy to hear that you liked my hub. And I love this - "learning to change your self talk is the key for sure and changes perceptions - and lifts the weight of negativity and cynicism." Excellent! I'm so glad you dropped by and hope you visit again real soon. And "Happy Mothers Day." - Audrey


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

Hello WillStarr - I like your new avatar. I'm so glad to see you here. This hub has certainly ruffled some feathers. Your are like a breath of fresh air. Your Dad and mine were both big on positive thinking. Thanks for the link to Norman Vincent Peal's "The Power of Positive Thinking." I allowed someone to borrow my copy. I will order another for me. You are the absolute best Will!


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

Hi AliciaC - How are things in British Columbia, Canada? It's great to see you here. Thanks for finding my hub inspiring and for liking my suggestions for banishing negativity. It's my pleasure to share this advice and to help you live a happier life.


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Jodah 2 years ago from Queensland Australia

Hi Audrey. I fail to see how this hub attracted any negative comments. Just take heart that 99% of your readers agreed with the statements made here and the thoughts expressed. 13 Awesome, 13 Useful, 9 Interesting and 7 Beautiful so far says a lot. I wouldn't worry about one person's negative comment.


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

Meisjunk - My answer is absolutely yes! I also deleted much of the dialogue between these two commenters. This is no place for this type of negativity. It underminds what my whole purpose is about. I'm grateful to you for speaking up and do hope you will return again. Thank you!


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

Dear Genna East - I thank you for your positive comments. I know it can be quite challenging, but the practice is well worth the time as we learn how to interrupt negative self-talk. Staying in the moment is the secret to success. Thanks Genna for voting up and for sharing!


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

Neil Sperling - It is? I hadn't noticed. Thanks for clarifying this. But what has the size of the glass to do with being negative or positive?


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travmaj 2 years ago from australia

Thank you for this, it's exactly what I needed to read today. I intend to implement your positive suggestions immediately. You inspired me and I shall be bookmarking and re reading. Voting.


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

travmaj - Hello dear lady. I'm delighted to see you here and to find your uplifting comments waiting for me to read. To know that my hub as inspired you is so much more than I had hoped for. Thank you and may peace and joy go with you. ~ Audrey

Jodah - Oh, my sweet friend - how can I thank you for coming to my rescue? My eyes are filled with tears of gratitude. I send you a heart full of thanks for writing and reminding me of the obvious. You are a treasure!


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

Dear Rusticliving - "Thank you" just isn't a big enough word to show you my appreciation for what you have done for me here. The degree of support both for me and for the principles of my hub is beyond commendable. I am so very blessed! I honor and respect you both as my daughter and as my friend ~


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Lady Guinevere 2 years ago from West Virginia

I want to tell you that I did use your positive thoughts and wrote my last hub about gardening instead of using negative thoughts towards the person here who attacked me. Thank you so much for this hub. It does work and I did enjoy writing my gardening hub very much. It took my mind off of negative things. HUGS!


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Lady Guinevere 2 years ago from West Virginia

"However, she did criticize Christianity, the Bible, and me; I was merely trying to convince her that she needed to acknowledge these attitudes. She also never sought to refute my argument that Christ is the only way to God; no method of positive thinking or meditation can deal with the issue of sin against a holy Creator."

That is only your perception and I did neither. Positive bring positive period and it has nothing to do with you as such in my or anyone else's life.

All this hub is saying is that if you stop the negative thoughts that come to mind such as: I doubt myself and I hate others and others are not as perfect as I am and also that I do not feel qualified to express my opinions or even as simple as I do not think that I can do such and such. Now replace them with FAITH and hope and visualize you doing those things that is bringing in a positiveness to your life. Those are hard to do once someone gets into others heads that they are always going to do bad and they must ask someone outside of themselves to do something that is totally within that person or individual. I will not banter scripture because this is NOT what this hub is about.

Love one another as thyself and do unto others as you would have them to unto you.....well that is in scripture but it is not only in that one book that is read.

Attitude begins within the person or individual. It does not come from something outside of oneself. Having a positive attitude for oneself is not being selfish.


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Rusticliving 2 years ago from California

Well said Lady Guinevere!!!!!! You hit it right on the head!

Hugs!!!!!!


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teaches12345 2 years ago

I like your points to remember section, very much what will keep one in check. Also, I do sing around the home when I need a boost in spirit. Thanks for the advice.


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

Lady G - I agree with Rusticliving - "You hit it right on the head." Thanks for your support.

teaches12345 - Singing works every time! So pleased to see you here and thanks for your kind comments. Happy days ~


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LadyFiddler 2 years ago from Somewhere in the West

Waw i am learning the violin also is it your daughter-in-law to be you mean? does she have a website?

Thanks for sharing such a detailed hub about positive thinking. It's true the way we think affects our physical and mental. I use to be very negative but in 2014 God has helped me to turn my negativity into positivity and whenever i get discourage I remember "Joseph Scriven" the man who wrote the words to the song. WHAT A FRIEND WE HAVE IN JESUS, OH WHAT PEACE WE OFTEN FORFEIT ALL BECAUSE WE DO NOT CARRY EVERYTHING TO GOD IN PRAYER. I wrote a hub on it, its very interesting.

Have a bless day Vocal


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

LadyFiddler - I'm still playing your lovely voice in my mind. I am America's Singing Teacher and have heard millions of voices in my life. Yours is pure, clear and right on key. I'm so glad to find you here and thank you for sharing your kind comments. Blessings - vocalcoach


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MartieCoetser 2 years ago from South Africa

Eckhart Tolle's "The Power of Now" has changed me radically. And I haven't even read the entire book due to his ponderous writing style.

Excellent advice on "How To Stop Negative Thinking" - I have practised it all and still do. As punishment for a negative thought, I had to replace it with 2 positive thoughts. That's when I've learned how to appreciate the feeling of sun rays on my bare arms.

Negative thoughts are the thieves of our peace and joy. We have to kill them before they kill us!

Carpe diem!

Excellent hub, Audrey.


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suzettenaples 2 years ago from Taos, NM

Audrey, what a wonderful hub. I am familiar with Eckhart Tolle and his philosophy and works. Meditation is part of my life and it does wonders. Also, your suggestions and tips on thinking positive are spot on. I like your suggestion of just the word, stop! to get rid of negative thoughts. I had to chuckle at that because it is so simple to re-direct our thoughts. Thanks for reminding us what is important in this world and how to think only positive thoughts.


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no body 2 years ago from Rochester, New York

I have often wondered how a person could be a "James Bond" and grow old and retire like some people I have read about and seen in magazines and on television. As well as people like the old west sheriffs and law men would know how to handle physical and mental stress on a moment's notice and then be cool and calm in the next. I know that stress mounts in the body and must be dealt with. I understand that mental rehashing or future envisioning cause the body to be overloaded. Yet in life things come at you in milliseconds and if you are to survive you have to be in a state of readiness. You have to be aware of your surrounding and ready to react if that change means danger. So a certain amount of adrenaline will be at the ready. That has to be damaging but I know when I am in a state of relaxation, I am in my good place with God. I am praying or singing or whatever the Spirit moves in me. If someone were to attack at that time or there was an emergency at that time, I am too "far away" to react to save myself or others. So I have to believe there is a "safe place" as far as stress factors go so you can be on the alert and yet be constantly sloughing off the excess stress out of your mind/body. I am not sure that is completely clear but it may be the only way I can say it. "A State Of Relaxed Readiness." What do you think?


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Lady Guinevere 2 years ago from West Virginia

Hey no body I think that is a cool way of putting it.


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no body 2 years ago from Rochester, New York

Thank you Lady G. I haven't spoken to you in a while. Hope all is well. I will have to catch up sometime to see what I have missed in the months I have been gone. Bob.


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Lady Guinevere 2 years ago from West Virginia

Hey Bob, I have been gone myself and almost left here but an back now. So you have not missed much. On a positive note I have written a few new hubs and am working on one right now. Have a great day! Debbie


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no body 2 years ago from Rochester, New York

Lady Debbie, I have been back long enough to write one article. I am working on another and working to get my Commenter level back up where it was and maybe a little more. It is nice to be around all my friends again. I love you all. Bob.


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

MartieCoester - I always light up like a sun beam when you come to visit. It doesn't surprise me to hear that you also are a fan of Eckhart Tolle and I have to read through his book more than once to absorb it all. :)

I like your "replacing two positive thoughts for every negative thought."

Some days I walk around using the mental "stop" all day long. Those are the times I grow the most. It's an on-going process.

I agree that negativity is a thief of our peace and joy and thank you for adding this.

Thank you Martie for adding your own wisdom to this hub. I love your "carpe diem." Gives me such a boost for the day.

Enjoy the moment my dear friend ~ Audrey


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

suzettenaples - You are just the kind of person I enjoy hanging out with. Wonderful attitude! It's pretty amazing that by using a simple word like 'stop' how we can replace a negative thought with a positive thought.

How and when do you use meditation? Is it a daily thing or just when you think you need it? Thanks in advance for answering my question and a big thanks for your great comments. ~ Audrey


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suzettenaples 2 years ago from Taos, NM

I meditate on a need to basis. Right now it's everyday I'm trying to meditate. The amount of meditation I do is in direct proportion to the stress in my life. It helps to keep the positive thoughts flowing.


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

no body - Very well stated and I agree. My reference is geared to those who live with a negative attitude - those who's perception is mostly negative.

I like your "state of relaxed readiness." Very well put. When I pray and give thanks to my Maker for all He has given me, I have no reason to be anything but positive.

I am hoping that my hub is somehow beneficial to those of us who are put in a negative environment from time to time and choose to remain positive.

Thank you Bob for being here and taking time to read and post your comments. I appreciate all that you have said.

Looking forward to reading your hubs and have a magnificent day. ~ Audrey


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Vellur 2 years ago from Dubai

Great hub, after reading your hub I feel more positive than ever. Being positive makes life a breeze! Great write, voted up.


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Lady_E 2 years ago from London, UK

Being positive - a very healthy Choice. Thanks for the inspiration and thanks to Vellur for sharing on Twitter....or I wouldn't have found it. :-)


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TotalHealth 2 years ago from Hermosa Beach, CA

Excellent hub! Too often people lose sight of personal perspective. Although is it human to covet that they do not possess, unfortunately this can be an effort in futility that leads to demoralizing and destructive emotional outcomes. Thus, be appreciative of everything you have because there is someone wishing they had the basic desires of life - food and water, a safe place to rest at night, and people who care about them.


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

suzettenaples - Thank you very much for sharing your meditation with me. This is pretty much how I use meditation. It's nice to share this with you.:)

Vellur - I get the feeling that you are positive most of the time. Your wonderful, light, personality, along with your magnificent hubs, reflects this. Thanks for voting up!


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abbaelijah 2 years ago from Nigeria

Thanks for this wonderful hub.

I enjoyed and have learn a lot from it !


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

Lady E - Hello my friend. I am glad you found my hub on Twitter. How nice of Vellur to post there.

Thank you for enjoying this.

Vellur - Just want to thank you for posting my hub on Twitter. Lady E found my hub there. I really appreciate your sharing my post!


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Kathryn Stratford 2 years ago from Manchester, Connecticut

What a beautiful article on something everyone can identify with! I always like to change my way of thinking when I start feeling down. We really can make ourselves feel better, and I like that you have given us some suggestions of how to do it.

I am bookmarking this to read again, and sharing it on Facebook and here on HubPages. Voted up!

Thanks for sharing this with us, and have a wonderful week.

~ Kathryn


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Dim Flaxenwick 2 years ago from Great Britain

This is a brilliant, all-encompassing hub and one l sorely needed to read.

Voted up up all over the place. Thank you.


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

TotalHealth - I like the way you think. We seem to be so busy thinking about ourselves, we fail to consider those that have no shelter, food or someone to care for them. Wonderful comment from you.

I spent quite a bit of time in Hermosa Beach growing up. I imagine I wouldn't recognize it now. How nice that you live there.

Thank you for stopping by and will visit you soon. ~ Audrey


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Happyboomernurse 2 years ago from South Carolina

Dear Audrey,

Wow! I came here expecting to be uplifted and to learn new pearls of wisdom about the benefits of choosing positive thoughts and have to say you delivered both in this informative, upbeat hub.

I recently finished Dr. Wayne Dyer's "I Can See Clearly Now," and have read the other books you listed as resources and can see that you've taken some things from each of them, but also added your own unique viewpoint and tips about choosing positive thoughts and banishing negative ones.

And the last picture of your daughter to be, Jennifer Halenar, whom you dedicated this hub to, made me smile. She's beautiful and it's great that she shares your love and joy of music!

Am voting this up and sharing.

Sending a Bouquet of Blessings, Hugs & Love,

Gail


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Crissylite 2 years ago

Great article! & Thanks for sharing the resources.


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moonlake 2 years ago from America

I try to be positive and at times that can be hard. I really hate being around people that are not positive. I think when you are not positive it does cause things to get worse. Voted up on your hub.


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brakel2 2 years ago from Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

Hi Audrey - What a positive hub. It is so true that we must do self talk to get us out of any negative feelings. Sid Kemp, in his hub, says we can even look at an inspiring photo or painting to make our minds quiet. I do this all the time to make bad thoughts go away. Who wants bad thoughts? You brought all these ideas together in one hub with beautiful pics and video. You are an amazing lady, Audrey. It is so nice to know you. Sharing this hub that you shared with us. Blessings, Audrey


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

abbaelijah - Hello my friend. Thank you for enjoying my hub. I'm happy to find that you learned from this.

Kathryn Stratford - Being able to 'help ourselves' by changing our thinking is a wonderful gift. I'm so glad you feel this way.

Thank you for sharing my hub on Facebook and with HP followers. Bookmarking is something I like to do as well with hubs of interest to me. You have great and happy days ahead. ~ Audrey


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mylindaelliott 2 years ago from Louisiana

Those are all wonderful tips. We decide and can use a variety of tools to help our attitude to be positive.


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Peggy W 2 years ago from Houston, Texas

I would never have thought to shout STOP if negative thoughts enter my mind. I may not shout it but will certainly think it for future use. You have made some excellent points in this hub and it offers empowerment for those people who wish to banish negative thoughts which all come at times to most people sooner or later. I also enjoyed reading most of the comments made on this post. Sharing this and pinning to my health board.


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Tom Rubenoff 2 years ago from United States

Thinking positive is choosing happiness. Why not choose happiness? Thank you for writing this wonderful article.


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

Dim Flaxenwick - Hello dear lady. Thank you for both your 'positive' comments and for voting up and sharing 'all over the place.'


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rasta1 2 years ago from Jamaica

Living in the moment is the best option because that moment will be gone shortly. And the only thing left will be the present moment again.


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Hackslap 2 years ago from Sydney, Australia

While its good to have a goal and plan ..don't obsess over it as things rarely will go according to when you want them to happen ..i.e. the universe knows best. .its best to take life as it comes and do your bit in terms of hard work


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Torrs13 2 years ago from California

So very true! We have the power to control our thoughts and put positive thinking at the forefront. Sure, sometimes that is going to be easier than others, but it is possible. I like to wake up each morning and name out some things that I'm thankful for, such as having a roof over my head and a job that allows me to take care of myself. By starting the day off in a positive mindset, I find that I'm more prone to continue with that positive thinking throughout the day. Great hub!


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

Happyboomernurse -Thanks so much for reading my hub.I study at length, these other books and interpretate the message that fit in to my main message, I'm ordering :I can see clearly now and excited about reading this new book of Dr, Dyer. I learn so much good stuff from him. Thanks my friend for being here. I appreciate you kind support. - Audrey


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mdscoggins 2 years ago from Fresno, CA

Hi Vocalcoach - great hub. Being positive is truly a choice even in the midst of something bad happening. Life becomes easier to manage and your heart is light when you work hard at warding off negativity. Thanks for the reminder of skills to use. Voted Up.


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

Crissylite - You are so welcome and than you for being here.

Hi moonlake - Yes, it's not easy to always be positive - in fact it's impossible. And like you, I don't like being around negative people and I have one in my immediate family. It's tough when the most negative person is related to you. Thanks for your vote up!

brakel2 - Hello dear lady. Very nice to read your comments. I like your idea of looking at paintings and inspiring photos to replace bad thoughts. A walk through a gallery is also calming. Your personal comment lifts my spirit and warms my heart. Thank you Audrey and blessings to you too.


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moneymindit 2 years ago from California

Excellent hub! You have a new follower. I like the resources you mentioned with one exception, Eckhart Tolle. He says so much without really saying anything. And that voice. Ay, ay, ay. LOL!!! On the contrary, Wayne Dyer gets to the point. He offers solid information one can use.

I look forward to reading your other hubs.

MM


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LadyFiddler 2 years ago from Somewhere in the West

Sure right we are confined only by the WALLS we build around us. I use to be very negative and complaining always but the Lord has done something for me and i am being more positive and trying to say everyday today is going to be a good day etc no matter what. I am instilling that positive vibration and yes i am feeling much up spirited.

Thanks for sharing .


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

LadyFiddler - You have taken responsibility for living a happier life. I believe the Good Lord wants us to have joy. Keep those positive vibrations going. Thank you!


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midget38 2 years ago from Singapore

I love this and will send it to my mum, who is prone to negative thinking. I love the "shh" measure! Simple yet effective!!


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ThatMommyBlogger 2 years ago from The Midwest

That picture of the girl with the violin is so beautiful.


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

mylindaelliott

Yes, I totally agree with you. The most powerful tool is our own mind. Appreciate your thoughts.

Peggy W

The word 'stop' works wonders for me. It's really quite amazing how just one word can make such a big difference.

Thank you Peggy for sharing and pinning my hub - Audrey

Tom Rubenoff

Hello Tom and how are you? Yes, I agree that as long as we have a choice, happiness is a better way to go. Having said this, I am convinced that some people actually prefer the negative. I have a relative like this. Regardless of how I try to help her see the positive side of things, she always wants to argue in defense of the worst outcome. Thank you Tom.


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

rasta1

Your message is one to remember as we live our lives. Live in the moment! Thank you.

Hackslap -

Your point is well taken. Thank you for contributing this wise advice.


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midget38 2 years ago from Singapore

We choose to be positive, no matter how hard our circumstances are. Well said, Audrey! Shared!


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

torrs13

You have the secret to a happy life down pat my friend. By waking up with gratitude on your mind you've actually thrown yourself a life preserver for whatever may come. I love it!

mdscoggins

You have a marvelous, positive attitude. Feeding your mind nutritious thoughts will always lead you to a happy, healthy life. Thanks so much.

moneymindit

You gave me quite a chuckle reminding me about Tolle's voice. LOL. I have to agree with you as I have caught myself wincing more than once :) Dr, Dyer, on the other-hand speaks with a soothing delivery.

I'll be over to visit you soon. Thanks.

midget38

I do hope your mom enjoys my hub. I've learned that some folks just prefer to be on the negative side. The "shhh" affect really does work. Thanks so much.

ThatMommyBlogger

Oh thank you. Her name is Jennifer and she will soon be my daughter-in-law. She makes and plays the violin. I love her so much!

midget38

Yes, my friend - being positive is always a choice. Thank you and happy thoughts!


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PurvisBobbi44 2 years ago from Florida

Hi,

It is 12:03 am and I finally made it back. I feel empowered in my heart but my tired body says no.

I will try to return to watch the video tomorrow. Have a wonderful night.

Bobbi Purvis


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janshares 2 years ago from Washington, DC

Oh, vocalcoach, this is such an important article. It's a tutorial that anyone could benefit from on finding peace by taking control and being positive. It really is a choice, so true. You've done an excellent and comprehensive job with so many helpful hints and techniques. I will need to refer back to this hub for myself and for my clients. Voted up, useful, and awesome.


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

Dearest Bobbi

Please take your time - the video isn't going anywhere. I'm just so happy to see you here. Your body must come first. If it doesn't, nothing else will. Sending lovely, healing thoughts your way sweet Bobbi - Audrey

janshares

How wonderful to find you here. I admire your writing and your poetic nature so much. Thank you for supporting my hub with your positive comments. Come back anytime my friend. Meanwhile, remember that you are a beautiful diamond. Your sparkle and light touches everyone including me. - Audrey


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stricktlydating 2 years ago from Australia

Great advice and I agree!


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vocalcoach 2 years ago from Nashville Tn. Author

strictlydating

It's great to see you here. Being positive is so much easier than going around with a negative attitude. There is something good that comes from every bad situation if we just look hard enough. Thanks.


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Kristen Howe 21 months ago from Northeast Ohio

Great hub, Audrey. It's so real useful and knowledgeable. As for meditation, I've began to do mini meditations and one walking one to church, since I've been having a dry spell in the writing world of having no creative ideas to write a new novel. It's been this way for six months, since my mother died last March and when I had Shingles last summer. Any ideas on meditation and such?


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vocalcoach 21 months ago from Nashville Tn. Author

Kristen - I'm sorry about the loss of your mother. This is very hard and you have my sympathy. When you meditate, try to completely empty your mind and just focus on the sound of OM as you breathe in and out. Visualize yourself writing easily and effortlessly like a non-stop fountain of water. Picture yourself as an ever-flowing waterfall full of sweet energy. The words pour from you on to your writing tablet. It's like you can't stop the words from flowing one after the other.

Do this repeatedly. Let me know what happens.

Create in your mind exactly what you want. Be precise and consistent.

Hugs to you Kristen. Thank you.

Audrey


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Kristen Howe 21 months ago from Northeast Ohio

Thanks Audrey for the tips. I'l give it a go after church today. It just might work. Thanks for the condolences, too, my friend.


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Claudia Mathews 21 months ago

We all struggle with this. You have created a wonderful resource of information here. Thanks for writing such a helpful article.


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vocalcoach 21 months ago from Nashville Tn. Author

Kristen Howe - My best to you my friend. Let me know how it goes. My thoughts are with you and thanks.

Claudia Mathews - I appreciate your comments so much. Thank you Claudia!


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healthylife2 10 months ago from Connecticut, USA

So often people say just be positive but it is easier said than done. This is an excellent article because it offers some very practical tips that are easy to follow. I am going to put these tips into practice and see what happens.


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vocalcoach 10 months ago from Nashville Tn. Author

healthylife2

Thanks for taking time to read my hub. I'm thrilled to hear that it packs value for you. (I keep reading it myself:)

Hurrah for you and your desire to use the tips in this article. Let me know how you're doing.

Audrey

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