Dealing with Bipolar Disorder

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Top 5 Ways to Cope with Bipolar Disorder

Dealing with having a mental illness like bipolar disorder takes so much more than going to the doctor and getting a prescription. It is a condition that you have to live with every day and it requires developing a new set of skills to handle it. Fortunately, there are ways to cope that are successful and keep your mood swings at more manageable levels.

What is Bipolar Disorder?

Bipolar disorder is a mental illness that causes unusual shifts in mood, energy, activity levels, and the ability to carry out day-to-day tasks. It used to be called manic depression. Many people think that this means that people swing from being happy to being sad and back again. But the reality is much more complicated than that.

The manic side is much more than being happy. In fact, someone who is manic may not be happy at all. He may be more nervous, agitated or irritable. He may be restless and have grandiose ideas. Someone going through the manic phase may start rearranging furniture and belongings, shopping and spending excessively, gambling, and make impulsive decisions. Sometimes there are hallucinations and delusions as well.

The depression side is much more than being sad. It may show as lacking energy and motivation, having suicidal thoughts, or simply feeling that even the simplest tasks are difficult to accomplish. It may be hard to maintain focus on any one task.

Bipolar disorder is a treatable condition and help is available. Here are six things you can do to cope with your illness.

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1. Learn About Bipolar Disorder

The most important thing you can do to cope with bipolar disorder is to learn everything you can about the subject. You will learn many things that will help you understand your illness and learn tips and strategies on how to deal with it. For starters, here are some basic facts.


Bipolar Disorder Facts

  • Bipolar Disorder is a mental illness. A mental illness is a physical illness that deals with the brain. Go to the doctor or other professional to get it treated just as you would any other physical condition.
  • It is a treatable condition, but right now there is no cure.
  • There is a strong genetic connection, but right now, scientists do not know what causes it.
  • It creates a chemical imbalance in the brain that can be treated with medication.
  • Although moods can be somewhat in our control by meditation and stress management techniques, not being able to control your bipolar moods does not make you a weak or incompetent person. While thinking positive thoughts can certainly help, getting outside help in the form of medication and counseling is often required.

2. Work with Your Doctor

As already stated, bipolar disorder is a treatable condition. There are many different medications that can help treat you, but since each person is different, your body may react differently to certain medications than anyone else. This means that you will have to keep working with your doctor and try out different medications, and different dosages to get the right combination of therapy that works for you.

Make sure you keep your appointments and take your medications exactly as prescribed. Many people with bipolar disorder tend to stop taking their medication when they are feeling well, but taking the medicine regularly will help keep the moods on a more even keel.

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3. Stay Aware of Your Moods

One thing that makes bipolar disorder difficult to deal with is the fact that certain moods are completely normal and should be a regular part of your life. Sometimes it is difficult to decide when your moods are out of the "normal" range.

Another thing that makes it difficult is that it is often difficult for you and others to recognize that you are venturing outside of the "normal" range until you are in the extreme range, especially if the swing is gradual.

You must learn to identify your symptoms, and determine what kinds of actions and behavior you had so you can try to get help immediately before you reach an extreme. Figure out what kinds of things trigger an episode so that you can avoid those types of triggers.

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4. Build a Support System

While you may want to avoid telling everyone you know about your mental illness to avoid the stigma, you will have to tell your close friends and family members so that they can support you when you have an episode.

Your loved ones need to understand that this condition cannot simply be treated with willpower and positive thoughts. Be sure that you tell your friends and family what you have learned about your condition, so they can be more understanding when you have an episode.

Also let them know about your trigger signs and symptoms, so they can get help on your behalf when you cannot take care of yourself. Be sure that you write down the name and contact information of your doctor, insurance information, the names and dosages of your medications, allergies, and whatever other information your loved ones will need when they take you to get help.

In addition to friends and family, be sure to find a doctor that works well with you, and consider talking to a counselor to help you deal with the problems associated with the condition. Your mood swings will likely cause interpersonal issues. Being able to talk it out and learning how to communicate, manage your temper, and develop other interpersonal skills will help you manage the results of episodes better.

You can also join a support group so you can talk with people who truly understand what you are going through and have developed strategies of their own that may be able to help you.

5. Reduce Stress

While this is much easier to say than to do, learning how to reduce stress is very helpful in dealing with bipolar disorder. If you can avoid the triggers of your episodes, you will be able to avoid the episodes.

Creating routines will help make sure that you are taking care of yourself and will keep your life more manageable. Having a schedule will make sure that you get enough sleep, but not too much sleep. Getting up every morning and taking care of your basic hygiene will help refresh you and get you ready for the day. Eating healthy will make sure that your body gets all the vitamins and minerals that it needs. Exercise will help relieve excess energy and also keep you healthy.

Engage in activities that help relieve stress, such as:

  • Quilting or other crafts that help you express your emotions in a more healthy way.
  • Yoga and meditation
  • journaling
  • talking to friends and family
  • participating in or watching sports
  • walking in a park or other calming environment

Do you personally know anyone who has bipolar disorder?

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Coping with Bipolar Disorder

Having a mental illness such as bipolar disorder can really affect your life in so many ways. It affects everything you do, and can take a toll on your relationships with your coworkers, family, and friends. Following these steps will hopefully help you manage your condition and keep your moods on a more even continuum.

  • Learn about your condition.
  • Work with your doctor.
  • Stay aware of your moods.
  • Build a support system.
  • Reduce stress.


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Comments: Dealing with Bipolar Disorder" 9 comments

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Millionaire Tips 22 months ago from USA Author

Thank you Mark. People with bipolar disorder or other mental health issues have to overcome the stigma and their own shame just to get help, even though they have a physical illness. So many people think it just has to do with willpower, which couldn't be further from the truth.


Mark Walter 2 years ago

I enjoyed reading your hub on dealing with bipolar disorder. I am a new hub author, and wrote my first hub yesterday. I was elated to find out it was the editor's choice for the day. I couldn't believe it. My hub also deals with living with bipolar illness. Your hub was very informative, and explains just what this disease entails. I hope that more people will read articles like yours. I believe it will help them to understand what we have to deal with on a daily basis. I also liked how you explained the ways that medications can help to stabilize our daily lives. Thank you for sharing this with the world.


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Millionaire Tips 3 years ago from USA Author

Thank you for your input Solaras. You're right, helping your loved ones who have bipolar disorder by watching for signs and intervening right away is the best way to avoid episodes.


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Solaras 3 years ago

I have seen the bipolar manic anger first hand. It is very uncomfortable to deal with and very effectively pushes people away. It's important for caregivers and friends to recognize it as a symptom and a sign that something is going wrong (stopped taking meds etc...) and to intervene rather than ignoring it or walking away.


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Millionaire Tips 3 years ago from USA Author

Thank you Bill. Finding the right combination of medications and taking them regularly does seem to be a big key in managing this disorder.

Oh Denise, that would be difficult to have two children with bipolar disorder. You are taking the right approach to learn all you can about the disease.

Thanks for the additional tips Tamara. I agree with all of them, even though some are pretty difficult to do.

Thanks Michael. A big problem with bipolar disorder is that people who have it are not always aware that they are having a problem, so they aren't willing to get help. It also causes some paranoia, so they may not be willing to trust others to guide them to get the help that they need. Sometimes they are willing to accept help when they are at an extreme in the cycle, or when they are at the "normal" state. Be calm, patient and persistent. Also, watch your wording. Don't say, "You're a psycho and you need a pill!" because you are frustrated. Say, "I want to help you. Can I take you to the doctor?" When they realize that you are only trying to help them, they may be more willing to accept the help.


Michael Milec 3 years ago

Hello millionairetips.

Very helpful. We're dealing with an adult relative who is in state of total denial of the condition, refuses to talk about and meet the professionals.

Any good advise is more than appreciated. Thank you.

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tamarawilhite 3 years ago from Fort Worth, Texas

Tips from observing someone with bipolar disorder:

1. Family members need to know that mania can also manifest as rage or anger. If this is the case, remove all potential weapons from the house.

2. If someone is on a mania high, don't let them go shopping or making financial decisions.

3. When someone is down, ensure that they are eating and drinking enough.

4. Don't let someone on a high refuse to take their medication or their future mood swings will be worse.


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denise.w.anderson 3 years ago from Bismarck, North Dakota

I have two adult children with bipolar disorder. I am always searching for a better understanding of it and how I can best help them. One is currently living independently and the other has additional issues that require her to live at home. Both were diagnosed in adulthood and have developed the disorder after age 20. It has been a learning experience all the way around!


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billybuc 3 years ago from Olympia, WA

This is a tough one. I know several people who have it and they have struggled for years until they found the right combination of meds. Thanks for a well-written and informative hub.

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