Bipolar Disorder: I Think This Is As Close To Serenity As I'll Ever Get

A walk along the river on a winter day...
A walk along the river on a winter day...

A Winter Day Begins

I went for nice leisurely walk early this morning. I don’t usually take my walks in the wee hours of the day. Especially this time of year when the air is crisp, and there is a chill in the air. I decided to walk a few miles through the backwoods along the icy river. I stopped at a huge pile of rocks resting along the river bank. As a child, with my siblings and friends, we swam at this very same spot. It is now so unbelievably quiet, peaceful, and eerily serene. Not to mention chilly beyond tears.

The river however, has receded many feet since I was a child. The grass and the woods surrounding it has grown lush and a very bright green in the warm months. In winter however it is desolate and lonely. Sitting at the bend of the river, it is still a murky chocolate. But it still carries the hopeful feeling of my childhood. The water barely flowing past as it bubbles over the fallen trees and rocks, the overwhelming chatter of birds fluttering throughout. Either forgetting to fly south or more comfortable at this river known to me. This is not just another winter day.

I think that is as close to serenity as I will ever get. Having bipolar 1 disorder, it is a gift when I have moments like this. The storms come often with bipolar, and when peace enters I am always grateful. Before I was medicated, I was so much better at describing my feelings about my surroundings. I just know sitting on that pile of rocks along the river bank was a feeling I don’t want to forget. Trying to describe things in a fog of medication is much harder than not. So I do my best to remember what I can, as vividly as I remember.

In this super fast paced life, living with bipolar and OCD, I tend to get lost in a storm of chaos. Finding equilibrium is not something that comes easily. But sitting out in the middle of nowhere on a freezing pile rocks along a long ago forgotten river brought out emotions and a calmness I rarely get to feel. I imagine people take this kind of feeling for granted.

Waking up in the morning feeling normal. I only feel that way occasionally. Across the road from the river is a field. A big nothingness. A field of vast brown frosty nothingness. You can feel safe and free, forever lost in a cloud of safety. So I continued my walk along the gravel road listening to the birds rolling along the river like race cars dashing for the finish. Apparently these birds are here to stay.

Whether I missed this because I didn't walk in the morning, or I woke up in a good mood doesn't matter. What matters is I found a chunk of peace I can treasure always, and there is hope I will have more days just like these. These are the normal days that bipolar robs, these are the normal days that I will continue to wish for.

Nature in winter often has that calming effect
Nature in winter often has that calming effect

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crazybeanrider 5 years ago from Washington MI Author

Hi lovaza- I appreciate your kind words. I am always thankful for the moments of clarity. As always some days are better than others. :)


lovaza 5 years ago

Hi crazybeanrider,

I know, they don't come as often, however, I enjoy myself when my brain isn't going every direction so that I can think more clear and feeling "with it" in my world. It's a nice feeling to be "balanced" at least for a while(maybe a few days)...I hope so!

And you're welcome! I enjoyed your article (:


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crazybeanrider 5 years ago from Washington MI Author

lovaza- They don't seem to come often enough do they? But they are sure appreciated when they do. Thank you for commenting :)


lovaza 5 years ago

I do understand about those peaceful moments that I can capture and appreciate when my mind is calm from the chaos of thoughts and emotions. I appreciate your sharing this because it makes me feel like I'm not a lone suffering with Bipolar Disorder.


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crazybeanrider 5 years ago from Washington MI Author

Thank you pinkdaisy, your compliment means a lot :)


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pinkdaisy 5 years ago from Canada

You are not alone. So many people suffer from Mental Health issues and the statistics are increasing.

I am so glad that you have a place where you can enjoy the peace and serenity of nature.

Keep writing - Your Hubpages are awesome!


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crazybeanrider 5 years ago from Washington MI Author

Yes Tammy it is a place of comfort. The quiet and peacefulness is a great refuge for me. Thank you for your lind comment.


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Tammy L 5 years ago from Jacksonville, Texas

You have such a beautiful place to go to escape the harshness of the rest of the world. I hope the whole scene remains just as peaceful for future generations as it is for you.

God Bless


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crazybeanrider 5 years ago from Washington MI Author

Thanks so much for a kind comment. Yes that is the river I swam in as a kid. It is kind of a shame they don't swim in it much anymore. But there is peace there that I hope always remains.


blogggerone 5 years ago

This is a GREAT blog. The picture is perfect and fully explains why I choose to live in the country. I am happy for you that you have found such a wonderful place and envy the fact that you swam in that river as a child.

Thanks for the writing.

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