How A Positive Attitude Helps With Fulfilling Your Dreams And Goals In Life

Each and everyone of us in the world have dreams and goals in life. Some of us work hard to reach our goal or fulfill that one dream in life we have. Many others give up because they may think it is too much work to achieve that dream or goal in life they have, so they just quit trying.

Here is how a positive attitude helps with fulfilling your dreams and goals in life. You just can not give up on a dream or goal in life. It may be the biggest mistake you had ever done in your life.

So many people continue to think negative and they think, "why I am even trying to fulfill this dream I have in life?" They may say, whats the use, my dream will never come true."

Thinking in that manner is the wrong thing to do. You haven't even given yourself a chance to fulfill that dream because you given up too early.

Anything in life is possible if you just give it a chance and give it time. It takes hard work and pure determination to fulfill that dream or goal you have. It won't happen overnight, unless you are very lucky.

This Was Our For 30 Years

My wife and my dream and goal were to live at the Ocean.  Even though it took 30 years to fulfill that dream, we never gave up until we made that dream a reality.
My wife and my dream and goal were to live at the Ocean. Even though it took 30 years to fulfill that dream, we never gave up until we made that dream a reality. | Source

Keep Trying And Never Give Up!

Continue trying to fulfill that dream or goal in life you have, because if you keep at it and never quit, your dream will become a reality as my wife and I dream came true.

See, we never quit and continued to keep that positive attitude even though at times we did want to throw in the towel and just say forget the whole thing about living at the Ocean. Nothing ever seemed to go right no matter how hard we tried to make our dream a reality, but as I said, we never quit dreaming and wanting that dream to come real.

Sure, it took 30 years of marriage, but between the both of us thinking continuously about just how we can make this dream work, it finally was real and here we are now married 32 years and living our dream at the New Jersey Shore were the Ocean is right up the street.

Are You A Positive Person?

Has a Positive Attitude helped you in life to fulfill a dream?

  • Yes being positive indeed helped me fulfill my dreams and goals.
  • No being positive in my life never helped me one bit.
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Keep That Positive Attitude

We continued to keep that positive attitude even though many times we thought we were beating a dead horse. We said to each other, " lets not think negative and keep trying to fulfill our dream."

Everyone in the world are only here on Earth but one time so lets all try to keep that positive attitude and go after those dreams and goals in life that you have. Life is too short to throw in the towel so early.

Holgate Long Beach Island. Driving my truck to the Inlet. Amazing that tree is under the Ocean water at High Tide.
Holgate Long Beach Island. Driving my truck to the Inlet. Amazing that tree is under the Ocean water at High Tide. | Source
Me and my Grandson cruising the beach at Holgate, Long Beach Island.
Me and my Grandson cruising the beach at Holgate, Long Beach Island. | Source

If You Really Want To Fulfill Your Dreams

If you really want to fulfill dreams and goals in life you need to do the following to help:

  • Never think negative and tell yourself it is too hard and I will never be able to fulfill my dream.
  • Continue to work hard at achieving that dream or goal in your life.
  • Continue to tell yourself that I can and will make my dream come true.
  • Think positive at all times and never take no for a answer.
  • Keep at it and never quit.

These things helped me to achieve my dream of living at the Ocean, although it took 30 years as I said, but we never gave up hope and our dream and goal in life DID come true.

What Are You Doing To Fulfill Your Dream?

Can you really say you are trying your best to fulfill that dream or goal in your life? What are you doing to achieve that dream and make it a reality?

Can you honestly say that you are giving it your all to make your dream happen in your life?

Just think about those questions, and then ask yourself, " am I really doing all that I can do to make this dream a reality?"

If you answered by saying, "no I am not giving it 100 %, then you have to work harder and not give up until you achieve that dream in your life. It took us 30 years and we never gave up because we had it in our heart that we wanted to fulfill our dream and live at the shore.

So dreams and goals in life take time, and will not happen overnight, unless you are a very lucky person. Like I said before, nothing good in life happens without hard work and determination.

© 2013 Mark Bruno

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Faith Reaper 3 years ago from southern USA

Oh, what a beautiful and insightful hub here you have presented. Yes, staying positive no matter what and whatever are our dreams, let us never stop in pursuit of such dreams, for life is fleeting and if we make those necessary steps towards those dreams, then they will come true.

I love your photos here and so glad to know your dreams have come through and that you never gave up! Great advice here.

Voted up ++++ and sharing

God bless, Faith Reaper


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the clean life 3 years ago from New Jersey Shore Author

Faith- Thank you so much for your kind words and for taking the time to read this. Like I said it took 30 years but we never gave up and here we are now living our dream.

God Bless you Faith and thanks again my friend :)

PS Thanks for the Vote up++ and for the share too.


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bravewarrior 3 years ago from Central Florida

This is so true. A positive attitude is necessary in order to not only achieve your dreams, but to always see the beauty life has to offer. I was raised with a mantra: PMA, which stands for Positive Mental Attitude.


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Nancy Owens 3 years ago from USA

Congratulations on achieving this goal! You have taken the time to share some hope, strength, and experience. Thank you.


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tamron 3 years ago

How encouraging I remember nothing got me down. Now it seems everything is a struggle. Your hub inspired me to do better and get better. Thanks!


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the clean life 3 years ago from New Jersey Shore Author

bravewarrior- Thank you for your comment and I think that being raised with PMA is wonderful. I think in today's world many children are not taught those things which makes it hard for them in the future. I was a very negative person when I drank, but since being sober I am a very positive person no matter what may go wrong in my life.

Nancy _ Thanks for your comment and for taking the time to read this. I hope this will help some people realize dreams and goals can be achieved . Thanks for the Congrats too :)

tamron- don't be so hard on yourself and don't let anything get you down. Life is too short not to be happy. I learned this only since I became sober. Keep trying to smile my friend okay!!

Mark

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