Positive Power of Words and How to Enhance Your Power
Words can Hurt
Words Have Power
“Your words have power. Use them carefully.” ~ Dr. Bill
Do the words you speak shape who you are? Besides how your appearance, you are judged on who you are by the words you pick to speak. You may not think that others really listen to intently you words but they do. Many famous people have lost respect from the general public by words they have spoken.
Spoken words have a lot of power. Words can be very powerful, powerful enough to start global change, create a connection, gain respect, begin a war between nations, destroy strong relationships, kill a reputation, crush a personality and even break a heart.
Do word define how you are seen? For sure! The words that you utter out of your mouth determine how you view yourself. Words influences your degree of self-confidence as well as the perceptions and opinion of others about you.
The words in general that you speak don't get the recognition that they deserve. The words actually create who you are as human. Words strongly alter and influence your own perception. Words determine your thoughts, behaviors, and how you emotionally react to every life situations. In fact, you are what you speak. Not enough focus or credence given to the power of words and the major role they play in your life as well as the major function they play in the formation of your identity.
Power of your words?
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Be Viligant of What You Say
You certainly need to take stock in the words you speak whether it is about yourself, because words may come back to haunt us, even if we were just kidding or attempting not to be conceited. The words that you use to describe yourself could deform or distort your identity for years to come. You may minimize them by others may not. Be ever vigilant of the language you express to others. Focusing on the unflattering words that come out of your mouth about yourself or others and you should be conscious of them.Little is known that if you change your words you transform our identity and whether you are perceived as positive or negative.
Words are Powerful
Words Form How You See You and are Seen by Others
You really need to be very mindful of the content of our words and the words you use toward yourself even if you are attempting to be humble. Humble in fact is giving away what you have already accomplished or acquired. I have learned that “the words that come out of our mouths go directly into your ears unfiltered” because they are yours.I word with many people that share with other people how negative they feel, their fears and worries. This casts a negative perception on them but also push more positive people away.
So when the brain registers the words that are spoken, the brain responds with “if that is how you want it to be then it will be so”. Understand that the human brain is a non-judgmental and is a non-emotional organ The brain believes what you say period, and it becomes your truth. So speaking negative your words or your beliefs about you become who you are. For example if you say “Oh I am stupid", then your mind will manifest. If you say "I am.ugly " your brain will make you believe it, Saying "I am no good or worthless” your brain will make that your value of yourself, even though you did not intended to be a fact (“I was just kidding” or “I did not really mean it”), will become part of our “true” identity over time and others will take it as who you are..
Influence of Words
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Tips for Transforming Self through Words:
Tip #1 Recognize
You can't change what you do not know. To start write down all the negative words, beliefs and statements that you utter a lot about you over a four day period. Number each one.
Next to each word belief or statement note the feeling you had during the situation in which you them (Example: "I am stupid". Note: I felt embarrassed.
Then the situation: I did not want the person I was talking with to feel less than, I did not want to appear self centered, I did not like me then).
Tip #2 Re-structure
Once your list is completed then on another piece of paper write a positive word, belief and statement to each negative word, belief and statement on your first list. Then assign a new emotion you would like attached to each new negative word, belief or statement. Imagine and write down in what situation you would use the new word, belief and statement. Lastly visualize and feel yourself using you them.
Tip #3 Rehearse
In order for your to integrate your new positive words, beliefs and statements and make them become a part of you, you have to rehearse them over and over again. Rehearse is simply consciously practicing. To integrate these positive words, beliefs and statements into your daily language you will have to be focused and mindful of what comes out of your mouth. Initially it will take persistent conscious effort to “catch the old negative habitual descriptive words, beliefs and statements along with the old feelings associated with each" and put them into the right context and situation. The effort will be well worth it. With consistency, discipline and time you will transform your self into an new person.
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