How to Improve Well-Being with Play

We do not quit playing because we grow old; we grow old because we quit playing. (Author Uncertain1)

Trailer for the Patch Adams Movie

“There’s a clear relationship between play and how much joy and fulfillment people experience in their lives,” states Brené Brown, research professor at the University of Houston Graduate College of Social Work. “It’s a health issue, as important as exercise or taking vitamins.”2

Dr. Patch Adams3 also subscribes to the health benefits of play. Physician and clown, he travels the world spreading love and healing through treatment which includes clown performances. He visits war zones, refugee camps and natural disaster sites—places where play would be the last thing on people’s minds. His play has positively affected the lives and health of people in more than sixty countries.

Play is as important as exercise or taking vitamins.

Clown care group at the Bambin Gesù Hospital in Italy.  Photo by  Kurosawa and Frack
Clown care group at the Bambin Gesù Hospital in Italy. Photo by Kurosawa and Frack | Source

What Do We Mean by Play?

Somebody told us, in our early adulthood, to act our age. Perhaps we thought it meant that adults do not play. However, sometimes when we feel frustrated and not sure why, or when we are tired but cannot sleep, play could be what we need to improve our well-being.

Here are some of the characteristics of the kind of play the experts4 recommend:

  • It is not work.

We are not obligated to do it. We are not trying to fulfill a commitment. We abandon the seriousness with which we approach work and accommodate our childlike, playful side.

  • It is solely for enjoyment.

We do not have to win in a game with other people. We do not have to burn any calories if it’s a physical activity. We simply enjoy the moment.

  • It engages (without taxing) the mind or body—or both.

It requires conscious thought or action—not like staring at the television screen without following the movie plot, not pushing the swing without noticing the child’s responses.

Street Handball in Zaragoza, Spain.  Photo by Sergio.
Street Handball in Zaragoza, Spain. Photo by Sergio. | Source
  • It makes us lose track of time.

That is because we are having so much fun, we neglect to look at the clock. We do not rush to get to the end of play.

  • It takes away self-consciousness.

We are not afraid to laugh, or scream. There is no need for any pretentious airs to impress. We are comfortable with ourselves and that makes our playmates comfortable with us.

This list of characteristics does not require us to check off each one when deciding to play. It simply suggests an awareness and an approach that will help us enjoy our play.


What Games Do We Play and With Whom?

You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation. ― Plato

One important aspect of play is that it builds relationships; we get to see different character aspects of the people we play with, and we learn more about them. What games we play depend on with whom we play. Here are some easy choices:

  • Play with a child.

Most adult-child interactions require the adult to teach communication skills, social skills and anything that helps their healthy development. However, there are many opportunities for intentional play and the child incidentally learns cooperation and creativity. For example:

  • Build Lego blocks and color with crayons together.
  • Build jigsaw puzzles.
  • Keep the ball bouncing for as long as you can.
  • Put on imaginary wings and fly.

As the child grows, the games change with opportunities for different kinds of play: shoot hoops, jump rope, play board games.

  • Play with our mate.

Chances are, mates were both very playful when they first fell in love. True, life is busier now, but they both need some relaxation time. Bring back the early memories and strengthen the relationship by playing some of the games they used to play. Playing together enhances the sense of growing together.

  • Play with our co-workers.

At Googleplex in Mountain View, California, employers understand the importance of play to relieve stress during the workday. There are swimming pools; ping pong, billiard and foosball tables; video games; and like several other play-provider companies, a gym full of equipment.

Google employers even get to play in the restrooms with codes and puzzles provided above the urinals and on the doors of the restroom stalls.

At Google, employees can access the dining room by a slide.  Photo Credit: joe-ks.com (#1 humor site on the "net.")
At Google, employees can access the dining room by a slide. Photo Credit: joe-ks.com (#1 humor site on the "net.") | Source
  • Play Alone

We do not always need partners for play. When we feel burnt out, play can help us relax. When we feel stuck, it can tap our creativity. In our space, there are more opportunities for play than we realize.

  • Draw or paint a smiley face, a house, a pet. Use the child’s crayon. It does not have to be perfect and it may become a conversation piece, later.
  • Play some upbeat music and dance with or without rhythm—like nobody’s watching.
  • Pretend to be someone you admire and imitate his or her gestures before the mirror.
  • Dress up your pet and take pictures.
  • Just start playing, and more creative ideas will come.


Sailors relax by playing football.  Photo by Carl E Gibson.
Sailors relax by playing football. Photo by Carl E Gibson. | Source

Summary Benefits of Play

HelpGuide.org5recommends that play is better with, at least, one other person; and that we avoid the sensory overload of electronic gadgets. They summarize the benefits of play to our well-being in five points:

  • Play relieves stress.

The fun triggers the release of endorphins, which makes us feel good and provides an overall sense of well-being.

  • It improves brain function.

Puzzles and other games like chess can improve brain function and prevent memory problems. The social interaction also keeps stress and depression at bay.

  • It boosts creativity.

Play stimulates the imagination, and makes us better at adapting and problem solving.

  • It improves relationships.

People who play together become friendly. They loosen up, and often, share their stories and emotions. They laugh, develop trust and enjoy each other’s company.

  • It keeps us feeling young.

It boosts our energy and vitality, improves our resistance to disease, and makes us feel better.

All work and no play makes Jack an old man. Let's not grow old for lack of play!


© May 2014 by Dora Isaac Weithers. Click MORE for other articles by MsDora.


So, how are you likely to respond if someone asks you about your play schedule?

  • I have too much work to do. How do you expect me to find time for play?
  • I’m an adult; playing is for kids.
  • I do not even think about play except just now when you mentioned it.
  • Now that you mentioned it, play might be just what I need.
  • I do have play on my schedule and I engage in some sort of play regularly.
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References

1. Hall, G.Stanley: The Quote Yard (George Bernard Shaw, Benjamin Franklin and Oliver Wendell Holmes, all receive credit for the quote; it is not certain which one is the owner.)

2, 4. Bertsos, Magrita: Eat, Play, Love; Redbook, Hearst Publishing Vol.219 No 2, August 2012

3. Adams, Patch: Patch Adams M.D. and Gesundheit! Institute, Me: A Short Biography, (visited 06/01/2014)

5. Robinson, Lawrence et al: HelpGuide: Why Play Matters for Adults, (April 2014)

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ologsinquito 2 years ago from USA

Great article. We need to have fun, relax and enjoy one another's company.


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epbooks 2 years ago from Las Vegas, NV

I believe that it is necessary to incorporate some play time into one's schedule. Too much work is taxing on both the mind and body; it's necessary to have some fun as well!


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

Ologsinquito, you put it nicely. Thank you.


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

EP, thank you for weighing in. We really need to put play on our schedule.


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word55 2 years ago from Chicago

Having fun is my favorite past time. This hub explains the truth of why we like to have fun in the first place. It puts the boost in our lives and it should not matter whether you win or not. If I race someone it should be for the fun of being able to participate and contend. It shows energy had to burn. That's fun in itself. I tell you, I wished my old job had a sliding board however, at the firehouses we had sliding poles that were just as much fun to slide down (two and three stories). It's playtime when you're sometimes on the happy dance floor too. We should always take time out for play. It was fun reading and commenting here. Now I'm going to dive into bed :-) Thank you MsDora :-)


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

Word, thank you for delaying your bedtime to read my hub. So glad that you have fun on our agenda. You are healthier and happier living the play principle. Thank you for sharing.


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denise.w.anderson 2 years ago from Bismarck, North Dakota

It has been a long time since I have done something for just the pure enjoyment of it! Most things in my life have meaning and are done for a specific purpose. I'll watch a movie once in a while, just to relax, but here that doesn't count! This is going to take some thought!


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Frank Atanacio 2 years ago from Shelton

Playing not only keeps the heart happy, but the soul too. I think this should be a must read hub.. and hub of the day if I were to select voted awesome as per usual Frank :)


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

Denise, we DO all the time; we ought to BE sometimes. Relaxing IS a specific purpose.


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

Frank, thank you for your affirming input. I always appreciate you.


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ignugent17 2 years ago

Very true. We need to play and enjoy life. Playing is also good for our health.

Have a nice day!


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Ericdierker 2 years ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

Dora, I cheat, I make my 4 year old play with me. We did all your suggestions yesterday - except kick ball and running around instead of jigsaws. I was definitely an evil dragon for awhile.

I was depressed so I did not play,,,, and then I remembered I was depressed because I did not play.

Wonderful piece here, thank you for the reminders.


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billybuc 2 years ago from Olympia, WA

I'm with you all the way on this one, Dora, and we do play on a regular basis at our house. Great for the health, great for the attitude....yes indeedy, I love to play, and Bev enjoys it even more than I do. :) Great topic.


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

Ignugent, we are in agreement with each other. Thank you for your comment.


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

Eric, I'm sure your four-year old has a great time playing with his clown-dad. Enjoy it and thanks for your input.


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

Bill, so great that both you and Bev enjoy playing. More play power to you, and thank you for sharing.


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FlourishAnyway 2 years ago from USA

I love to play word games during dinner. It gets verbally reluctant teens and grumpy spouses talking ... nicely. Most of them I have made up, and they're rather off-the-wall.


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Efficient Admin 2 years ago from Charlotte, NC

If I worked at Google I would be using the slide every day! That looks like a super fun thing to do in a "corporate" environment. If I had to be serious 24 hours a day, 7 days a week I would be depressed and grumpy. Having fun adds brightness to the hours. Very interesting and detailed hub. Voted up and across.


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

Flourish, you're doing something really good, getting those teens to talk. More power to your creativity,and thank you for sharing.


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

Michelle, I think the same about that Google slide. Good that you have fun on your schedule. Thanks for your comment.


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Faith Reaper 2 years ago from southern USA

I believe my grands are keeping me young with all the playtime we have and never a dull moment, all pure joy. However, I do need to incorporate more play during those times when they are not up to visit. Great tips here. It is so important that our lives have a healthy balance, especially including play time!

Thank you for another great write!

Up and more, tweeting, pinning, google+ and will try to share on HP, but it has not been working for me here of late

Blessings always


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

Faith, I have also tried to share and without success. Hopefully, our patience will soon pay off.

Thanks for your input on the play principle. Yes, grandchildren are a great inspiration for play, but they're not always around. Anyway, you seem like a fun person who can create play, so play on when the need arises! Blessings to you, too!


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DDE 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

Life should be treated as the gift we have been given. Your hub shares a light of life indeed.


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

Devika, you're so right. Playing is one way to show appreciation for the sweet gift of life.


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Ann1Az2 2 years ago from Orange, Texas

MsDora, now that you've written about it, I've decided I need more productive play in my life. I do exercise and take care of my cats, but I need to play with them more.

In the fall, I love volunteering at our Christian school because it gives me time to play with the kids. And you're right - play keeps us young.

Voted up and well done, my friend!


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

Ann, you're privileged. Sometime cats,sometimes kids. Keep right on playing. Thanks for your comment.


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VVanNess 2 years ago from Prescott Valley

This sounds like fun. Even adults need a break from being so mature and responsible all the time. lol I know I do.


sheilamyers 2 years ago

Great hub! My two favorite quotes are "I may grow old, but I refuse to grow up" and "Life's too short to be serious all the time". The games I play may have changed over time, but I still love to play.


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

VVanNess, good for you! Take break and go play. Thanks for reading and commenting.


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

Sheila, thank you for sharing those wonderful quotes. I love your attitude.


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marieloves 2 years ago from Canada

What a great article, Dora! Thank you for illustrating how important play is for adults.


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

Marie, nice meeting you. Glad you enjoy my article. Yes, we need time for play to keep us balanced.


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Maggie.L 2 years ago from UK

Hi Marie, A really interesting article and so true. I think that's one of the things that's so enjoyable about having children as that we get to play with lego and dress up dolls all over again.

Voted up!


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

Maggie, you're so right about the joy of playing with the kids. Thanks for your input.


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Glutathione PRO 2 years ago

Love this article! People underestimate the profound effects of positivity and "play" in their lives. It is easier to understand how beneficial play is when you understand how detrimental stress is.


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mothersofnations 2 years ago

Definitely made me realize I don't play nearly as often as I used to. I became so consumed by work & personal projects that I barely play any more. This served as a reminder of how much fun I've had playing games with my kids (not to mention how much they've had as well!) I need to do this more often than I have in these past months. Thank you for posting so many helpful articles. Your insight is a blessing!


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

Glutathione PRO, you make a big, big point in your last sentence. Thanks for your valuable input.


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean Author

Mothers, it is so easy for us to fall back on play, but it is also never to late to resume the fun. The bet to you as you get back into stride.

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