Join the new kindness trend - be kind! You will be happier if you are nice!

I want to tell you about something that happened to me the other day when I was in Gothenburg, a town on the Swedish west coast. I had been on a very interesting seminar about floods and had a spare moment before the bus was leaving. I passed a small cafe which looked so inviting and warm that I went inside to buy a cup of coffee and sit down for a while. It was a cold day so I thought that I might as well spend the time there inside where it was warm.


But when I was going to pay for the coffee I was told that the coffee was already paid for! I looked stupidly at the cafe waitress and a thousand thoughts went through my head. I felt even a little suspicious, and wondered what is the catch this time? What do they want to get out of this? Is someone trying to joke with me? This was something completely new and I was very surprised because I know that nothing is free in this world. But the waitress assured me that there wasn’t any thing strange about it, and I saw nothing unusual in the cafe. So I smiled and said to the waitress while I put the wallet back in my bag; “Thank you so much, that was very kind of you”. Then the waitress told me that it wasn’t her or the company that offered me the free coffee, instead it was a customer who had just left the cafe. That customer had paid for a cup of coffee to the next person who wanted it!

I sat down with my coffee, and felt the warmth spreading trough my body. It wasn’t just the hot coffee, it was more from the nice gesture from the unknown donor. The gesture made me happy and it made me smile while I wondered what kind of man the unknown donor was.

That day was a very good day for me and I went back home in a good spirit!

To give will make you happy!
To give will make you happy!

The members of the Anonymous Club

A few days afterwards when I read the newspaper, I got an explanation to why I got that free cup of coffee! I had been given one good deed from one of “the members of the Anonymous Club!

What’s that?

They call themselves; members of the Anonymous Club, and their goal is to make people happy, but those who are the subject of joy should not know who the donor is! They pay for example for an extra cup of coffee, and say to the cafe clerk to give the cup to anyone who wants it. Or they buy a rose in the flower shop and hope that the next customer will be happy to get it. Or buy a parking ticket to the next car. The idea is that the gift should come from someone unknown. And the new kindness trend is spreading across the country.

The trend is originally from France. There a person paid road toll for the car that came behind. Those who sat in the car behind were so happy that they did the same thing, and so it went on!

Now I have become a member of the anonymous Club, and I try to do good deeds as often as I can! I know how good it feels inside to get such a gift, and it isn’t about the money. The important thing is that someone in this world had a good thought, and good deeds spread like ripples in water. And by doing something good for others, I feel warmth inside, as a pleasure experience. I think we will be happier by being good and also a bit good by being happy

I think that this way of spreading kindness is wonderful and that it is needed as counterbalance to all evil! People are both good and evil, but sometimes it seems as if we focus on only the bad things. I try  to remember that even those who do evil acts have something good inside them, even if it is well hidden. Maybe they just need to be reminded.

There are many people talking and writing about being kind!

The scientist and author Stefan Einhorn has written the book; The art of being kind! He says that compassion is something that spreads. People who have been generous and kindly treated have a greater tendency to be generous and kind to others. What if kindness could become a popular movement – it would be good for society and for each one of us. This is a very good book, and after you read it you can’t wait to be good to others.

This is another great sentence taken from the book; Made for Goodness, by Desmond Tutu

Goodness changes the way we view the world, the way we look at others, and, most importantly, the way w e look at ourselves. Complacency affects everyone’s quality of life. What constitutes quality of life on this planet? There is nothing more than the sum of our daily interactions. All acts of kindness will increase the quality of life. All viciousness reduces it.”.

Other quotes;

“ Compassion is the best calming medicine” from Dalai Lama

Be nice to people on your way up, because you meet them on your way down!” Jimmy Durante.

“It’s nice to be important, but it is more important to be nice” Melissa Hahn.


A true act of kindness!

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carrie450 6 years ago from Winnipeg, Canada

What a beautiful hub thougtforce and The Anonymous club is amazing. T's such a little thing to do and it can make someone's day a little brighter. rated up.

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thougtforce 6 years ago from Sweden Author

Carrie, I am so glad you came by! And you are so right, that cup of coffe made my day both warmer and happier! Thanks for your comment and the rating up!

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acaetnna 6 years ago from Guildford

This is a wonderful story. I so agree with you a little kindness would just make this world a completely different place. Just like a smile, kindness can be so contagious and really makes a person feel good. What a wonderful idea that customer had, imagine what a difference this would make if we all went around with that great attitude. Gosh I think this has given me inspiration to write another poem. Thank you so much Thougtforce - have fun and enjoy your day. Take care.Definitely voting this one up and pressing your tabs.

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Happyboomernurse 6 years ago from South Carolina

I personally try to spread kindness every day and I've often thought how different the world would be if everyone spread kindness.

I love the idea of an Anonymous Club, and it was also good to see the current stories in the news about the How Good Grows campaign.

Thanks for sharing this inspiring hub.

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MartieCoetser 6 years ago from South Africa

Beautiful hub! Well written. Spreading kindness will definitely make people more aware of their fellowman, and experiencing the joy of giving, may embed the practice of love your fellowman as you love yourself. Great hub, thoughtforce, voted UP and UP.

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katiem2 6 years ago from I'm outta here

I'm so on board. I'm looking forward to heading out in the morning and buying a cup of coffee or tea for the next person coming along. I love this thanks for sharing the new kindness trend be kind you will be happier if you are nice, is so true. Love, Peace and Joy :)

Kylie Doak 6 years ago

Hi Thougtforce

This is a beautifully written hub and I'm right behind you with the Kindness Trend! :)

I love the idea of an Anonymous Club too!

I love to do nice things for others and I enjoy making a difference, even just a tiny one, to someone else.

Thank you for sharing your inspiration with us. :)

~ Kylie ~

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thougtforce 6 years ago from Sweden Author

Acaetnna, I do agree, a smile can make the difference for someone, and it costs nothing! And it is the same with kindness! These small things are contagious and it would make such a difference. Thank you, for the pushing up, and I look forward to that poem from you. I am glad to be able to inspire you! Best wishes to you!

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thougtforce 6 years ago from Sweden Author

Happybomernurse, Nice to meet you! It is good that there are some people out there, who try to make a difference, and hopefully goodness will increase! There is a need for kindness and good deeds! I am glad you liked this hub and thanks for reading and for your kind comment!

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thougtforce 6 years ago from Sweden Author

Martie, my dear friend! To give, gives a nice feeling inside, and if you feel good yourself, you will automatically be nicer! So, it is a win situation for all! To spread nice comments like you do, is also a way to increase kindness! When I think of it, hubpages is also a great place where people can spread kindness! I am so glad you came by, and thanks for the voting!

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thougtforce 6 years ago from Sweden Author

Hello Katie, How good of you! Now we are one more spreading kindness! And it is so easy, once you have started, you will come up with many more good and kind ideas! But you certainly already do your bit here on hubpages, spreading your wisdom and kind thoughts of love! Thanks for coming by! Take care!

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thougtforce 6 years ago from Sweden Author

Hi Kylie, nice to meet you! And its good to hear that you make a difference with spreading kindness around you. Fortunately there are many kind people who give to others. If we continue it will spread like ripples in water! Thanks for stopping by, take the time to read and leave a kind comment to me!

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kashmir56 6 years ago from Massachusetts

Hi thougtforce, I treat everyone i meet throughout the day has i would want them to treat me.And the Anonymous Club is such a awesome idea thanks for sharing it!

Merry Christmas!!!

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thougtforce 6 years ago from Sweden Author

Hi Tom! I am sure you do! If everyone spread so much kindness as you do here on hubpages, the world would be a better place! I am pleased that I could give you some more ideas on how to be kind, there could never be to much kindness! Thanks for your nice comment and a very Merry Christmas to you too!

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Bel Marshall 6 years ago from Michigan

I live in Michigan and have done a lot of traveling back and forth over the Mackinac Bridge. On occasion I when I have extra money, I leave enough for the person behind me. I have also been the recipient on that bridge of the same kindness. It truly does make your whole day.

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thougtforce 6 years ago from Sweden Author

Hi Bel, How nice to see you here, and I am happy to hear that you have experienced the Anonymous club too. It seems to be a world wide movement, and it gives so much value to both giver and reciever! It sure makes your day! Thanks for coming to my corner and share kindness from Michigan! It adds value to this hub!

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6hotfingers3 6 years ago

Great, Great Hub! I think I will join the club. I did something similar to this once before and it made feel good inside. I will do it again and spread something good.

Thank you for this reminder.

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thougtforce 6 years ago from Sweden Author

6hotfingers3, Good for you, it really gives you a nice feeeling inside. I am glad to see the Anonymous club expanding! Thank you for your comment that radiates both optimism and kindness! I hope you may receive kindness too!

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Becky Puetz 6 years ago from Oklahoma

I very much enjoyed reading your Hub, and your right in saying that "if kindness could become a popular movement – it would be good for society and for each one of us." I feel inspired and plan on doing a good deed a day for a stranger. I guess I will be a silent member of the Anonymous Club! Great Hub. Thanks for sharing.

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soozeqsh 6 years ago from Boyertown, PA

I love your hub on kindness. I was thinking of writing a hub on the same topic, seems you took the words out of my mouth. The world would be a much better place if more of us would take this adivce and become members of the Anonymous Club. What a great idea!

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thougtforce 6 years ago from Sweden Author

Becky Puetz, nice meeting you here! I am happy everytime a new memeber join the anonymous Club! And we are all silent members:). That is one of the special thing, we don´t know who the donar is, and we don´t need to say thanks to anyone.

Humans are both good and bad and it is time to put some focus on the good sides! Thank you so much for your kind and supportive comment!

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thougtforce 6 years ago from Sweden Author

Hi soozeqsh, so glad you came by! There can never be too many hubs about kindness, the messages is worth repeating and we can show kindness in so many ways! So I think you should write what you thought anyway! If you do, I will read it with joy! The thing I like the most with the Anonymous club is the annymity! I like giving without the feeling that someone feel they must return the favour to me! Thanks for reading and for your positive comment!

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Ask_DJ_Lyons 6 years ago from Mosheim, Tennessee

That was a really touching video. I also love the concepts you shared in this hub. Thanks, thoughtforce! Great job! It reminds me of the "Pay It Forward" movie.

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thougtforce 6 years ago from Sweden Author

Hi Ask DJ Lyons! What a kind and supportive comment! Kindness needs to be practiced more and your comment made my day brighter today! Thanks for your great comment and for your visit here!

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Mrs. J. B. 5 years ago from Southern California

Hej: I karlek du novell. Du vanskap att ha roligt. Vi ses.

OH YES MORE!!!! drom, farg, fest, istapp, Jon Blund, kiss, klader, lurad, makt, onda and the best one tjejmiddagen!!!!

Anyway loved the hub and kind quiet gestures are so rewarding

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thougtforce 5 years ago from Sweden Author

LeeAnn, It is always nice to see you, and today you have been very busy and left so many marvellous comments that now I am in such a good mood! You are doing great with the Swedish language by the way:) And I think you already are a member of the anonymous club, you spread so much joy around you!

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Dee aka Nonna 5 years ago

I discovered you while reading another hub where you left a comment. This is the first of your hubs I read, I will read more, but I love the thought of this. I try everyday to do something for someone else, even if it is a smile. And, yes I do feel better for even trying to be kind.

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thougtforce 5 years ago from Sweden Author

Dee aka Nonna, I am so happy to meet you here! You are so right, a smile can do wonder for the receiver and it doesn't take so much effort to smile even if you don't feel so cheerful yourself. In fact when we smile we feel better too. Thanks for stopping by and for your great comment!


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funmontrealgirl 5 years ago from Montreal

Kindness and making others happy are both so important in this world. Pleasure to look through your hubs!

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thougtforce 5 years ago from Sweden Author

Hi funmontrealgirl! You are so right, it can never be enough kindness in this world. Sometimes I feel we are loosing humanity because evil, power, and ruthlessness is more and more dominating in our society!

Thank you for stopping by, I so appreciate your visit and the comment!


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thesailor 5 years ago from Seven Seas

This is a very kind story. I have a similar story when I rode a bus from Bicol, Philippines to Manila. I kept urging the bus conductor that I should pay for my fare, but he kept on ignoring me until I stopped at the destination in Manila.

When I asked about my fare, he just smiled and said that I was already taken care of?

I don't know what kind of emotion I will be expressing. I'm still thinking who paid my trip. But thanks anyways.

A simple act of kindness makes this world a better place to live in.

Thanks for sharing, Ms. Tina.

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thougtforce 5 years ago from Sweden Author

Hi thesailor! It must have been someone from the anonymous club or something similar! If so, the one who paid isn’t expecting any thanks. It is so good to know that kindness in this way can occur all over the world. It means so much to get a small gift from someone and that it is unexpected adds to the great feeling. Thank you so much for your story and for reading!


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Gypsy Rose Lee 4 years ago from Riga, Latvia

Voted up and awesome. What a wonderful story. The Anonymous Club sounds interesting. You know it is kindness that will open doors more than rudeness or anything else. Thanks for sharing this. Passing this great story on.

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thougtforce 4 years ago from Sweden Author

Hi Gypsy Rose Lee! We could really use more kindness in this world. For some reason, it made my day brighter even if it was kindness from a total stranger. Thanks for reading and for the comment!


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