Love Dreams Interpreted: What Are Your Personal Dreams Trying To Tell You?

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Dreams can tell us what's happened, what's happening, and what is going to happen. They connect us to the other side and offer us insight that we couldn't get anywhere else.

Your dreams will never lie to you as long as you know how to listen to them!

I've been studying my dreams since I was young and I've gotten pretty good at lucid dreaming, meaning I can 'wake' myself up in a dream and tell myself that it's a dream and then do what I want - fly, see an old friend, or ask an important question. It's a huge part of my excitement for going to sleep at night!

Every morning I remember my dreams and try to figure out if they meant something important, or if they were just random and fun little movies for the night. Sometimes I am conscious in my dreams and understand exactly what they are trying to tell me.

And sometimes my dreams offer me the best relationship advice or personal advice that I could ever ask for.

We've all heard of great stories about dreams like Albert Einstein whose theory of relativity was inspired by a dream...that's how powerful dreams really are!

Your Dream Interpretations Are Unique To YOU

Everyone looks at imagery or places and associates something different to them. We do not all view things in the same way.

For example, you might associate the lake with peace while your friend associates it with partying. So when you dream of the lake it most likely represents peace in your life whether you are striving for it or currently receiving it.

The lake is a symbol for peace.

Sit back and think about what you associate certain things with. Don't overthink it! Just write down what comes to mind first.

For instance, I would associate the following things as follows:

  • Darkness = calm
  • Water = Peace
  • Parent's home = conflict or turmoil
  • Grandpa's home = comfort
  • Red = love


When you are interpreting your dreams, keep all of your own personal symbols in mind. Remember the truth will resonate with you when you see or hear it.

Following are some general interpretations in regards to feelings, sights, and emotions regarding relationship related dreams.

Common Dreams and Interpretations

Sometimes we have dreams about things regarding relationships and we take them for face value - but a lot of the time they are really pointing to some other area of your life.

Brides, Elopement, and Marriage License

Note: These two first ones have to take place at weddings.

Bride - To dream of being a bride, whether it's yourself or someone else, means you are coming into an inheritance.

Man Kissing Bride - This can mean a joyous get together between family and friends.

Now, outside of weddings here are some possible dream themes and interpretations.

Elopement - This may mean unfavorable events that will or are already occurring in your life.

Partner eloping with someone else - Watch out! You may soon learn about your partner being unfaithful. Alternatively this could mean you have insecurities or questions about your relationship.

Marriage License - You may make a bad alliance that ends in you being hurt or humiliated.

How about feelings of joy and happiness?

Happiness - This may be pointing out the obvious but this probably means being happy now or in the near future.

Ecstasy - You will have a visit from a long absent friend.

Joy - To dream of feeling good means there will be harmony among all your friends.

Pleasure - If you dream of gratification you will have many financial and personal gains of enjoyment.

Cheerful - This means that joyous events and activities will soon prove profitable.

Delight - This is letting you know that your life is going well or going to be well soon. Everything is going work out.

Dreaming Of A Baby?

You may be having a thought or idea that is growing inside of you!
You may be having a thought or idea that is growing inside of you!

Common Dreams

There are some very common dreams that we all have. Chances are you have had one or more of these things in your dreams at some time or another. Remember your symbols and listen to your inner self when trying to interpret your dreams. Take into account colors, feelings, time of day, who is there, and everything else when you are trying to interpret your dreams.

Baby - It may mean that an idea or thought is growing and getting ready to be born. An obvious interpretation could be an impending birth. It can also bring to your attention a dependent behavior or need. If the baby is alone it can represent your independence.

Breasts - Of course they may represent sexual desire. It can also represent becoming a mother, need for nurturing, or if you are running around naked a fear of exposure.

Kissing - This may suggest romantic involvement. It can also be a symbol of you and someone making up or a reconciliation coming about. It could also mean kissing the past goodbye. Married people or couples kissing means everything is going smoothly and happily and full of harmony. What time of day is it? If it is during the dark it may represent danger or an inappropriate situation. If it's sunny out it may represent good intentions and well meaning.

Pregnancy - It could indicate a desire for a child or not knowing that you are pregnant - but I dream of this a lot and I don't want children! It could also mean something new beginning or coming into your life. Maybe an idea or thought that is getting ready to come out.

Veil - If you are walking around with a veil over your face it may not just be an upcoming marriage. It may mean that you are looking at something through the veil or someone looking at you that way.

Adultery - This can signify your sexual urges and desires that are wanting to come out. It can also indicate disloyalty from your subconscious. You may soon find yourself or already be finding yourself in something shady or disloyal. It probably won't end well.

If your partner is cheating on you it may being showing you your insecurities and your fear of being dumped. It may symbol your feelings of your partner being less attentive and 'there' in the relationship. It may also be your guilt coming out and show you that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others.

Are you dreaming about sleeping with your spouse's friend? This doesn't necessarily mean you want to cheat with them. It may mean that you are feeling neglected by your spouse.

Cheating - Are you dreaming of cheating on something or someone. This may mean you have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or not making the most of your time and your energy and putting it towards bad decisions and activities. Taking it literally it can bring to life your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality.

To dream that you are cheating at a game, suggests that you are not being honest with yourself.

Lovers - A lover appearing in your dream show your acceptance, self-worth, and recognition of your true value. It may also indicate integration of both your masculine and feminine traits meaning you are feeling complete or whole. You may also dream of your 'dream person' which may indicate that your relationship is not satisfactory to you or it is unfulfilling.

To dream of an ex can symbolize unfinished or unresolved issues that relate to that person. I think we've all dreamt that at times. This may happen when you are in a good relationship and it's waking up your inner issues and memories.

Sex - This may mean you are missing aspects of the person you are having sex with and you want to incorporate them into your own character. It also may just be your desires way of telling you that it's been a long time since you've had sex. If you are trying to find a place to get it on then the dream may be represent your search for a certain intimacy and closeness that you can't find.

Are you having sex with a well known public figure? It indicates your drive to be successful. What do they represent to you? For instance having sex with Angelina Jolie may mean you want to help other people and have the drive to do it.

To dream that you are having sex with an ex may just be showing you that you have some hesitation about getting into a new relationship or situation. Normal!

If you are heterosexual and you dream that you are having sex with someone of the same sex don't spend all day thinking about it. It may just be an expression of being more comfortable with yourself and letting others know you do not affect them.

Do You Meditate? If Not - You Should!

Meditation is simply about being in a relaxed state. In short, you calm your mind (usually into an alpha state) during meditation, just as you do before you go to bed or when you daydream or when you are really relaxed sitting in front of the ocean - or wherever else your mind naturally calms down. Meditation has so many benefits for your health, but we are talking about dreams here - right?

If you want to interpret your own dreams, then meditation can help you do that. Why? Meditation gives you more self-awareness and allows you to find answers that you cannot find when your mind is buzzing and going from one thought to the next.

If you meditate in the morning on your dreams instead of instantly jumping out of bed to get ready for your day, you will have a much easier time remembering and interpreting your dreams.

Moreover, if you meditate before bed, you can focus your attention on things you want to dream about or find answers to - and you will have an easier time influencing your dreams.

Dreams have the power to give you answers, help you sort through issues, and give you insight into your future - and meditation has the power to connect you to your dreams and help you understand them.

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You Are The Only One Who Can Really Interpret Your Love Dreams

Remember that whatever resonates as the truth to you is what your dream means.

I get a lot of people asking me what their love dreams mean but, as we discussed, certain symbols mean different things to different people. For instance, darkness for me is calming whereas it might be depressing or scary to you.

I can give you my interpretation of your dream and even let my tarot cards guide you towards a theme or situation, but inside you know exactly what your dream meant - you are the one who had it! So, you need to learn how to interpret them yourself.

We are all built with an inner guidance system. Meditation is a great tool to help you get access to that inner guidance system. The information is in you, in your cells, waiting for you to find it - so start looking inward instead of outward.

Happy Dreaming!

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peachpurple 3 years ago from Home Sweet Home

Wow! You have written a very good hub. I like the part where you explained what each dreams are meant and seems to be quite true. Once I dreamt that i received a letter from a person called "Alan" and true enough, in the same year, I met a friend called "Alan" just after the dream ! Awesome !!!


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Relationshipc 3 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

That's cool peach. I love dreaming, and I feel like every dream can tell you something about your life, your fears, or your future.


jennifer 3 years ago

I had a dream where i made out with a super attractive boy with nice eyes. The next day i was with my friends and i saw him and told him he had nice eyes. He recognized me and slowly started leaning into me to see if i recognized him. I did. We made out again. Can you tell me what this means?


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Relationshipc 3 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

Do you know the boy? If not, then it probably means that you are desiring to date and you are playing out your fantasy of what it will be like to meet a nice looking boy and get together. Really pay attention to the way you felt during the dream. Did you feel good? Weird? Happy? Uncomfortable? Those emotions will play a big part in what the dream meant. For instance, if you felt uncomfortable, then you may be uncomfortable about getting into a new relationship or moving too fast.

Because the focus is on the eyes, it may have something to do with seeing things clearly. For instance, you may be looking for a boy who is genuine and nice, and his 'nice eyes' were a sign to you that he was they type of boy you would like to date.

It may also be prophetic, so keep your eyes open for a boy that has those nice eyes that you dreamt about!


sexyp6801 3 years ago

I just woke up from the most wonderful dream I've ever well one of them I was happy and kissing my boyfriend but his face is like a bright light and I couldn't even see I have to close my eyes every time and it's so weird the night before I kept dreaming that I was pregnant a couple nights in a row but the girl he cheated on me with a long time ago was there then the next night it was her best friend that was in a dream with me but they were helping me that would not ever happen I don't know what that means but um me feel good because I want to have a baby with this man


Dean 3 years ago

I just had the best best dream ever, it stretched over 2 nights.... the first night I dreamt I was with a group of people I didn't know but I got to know them through the trials we were put through, we had to complete different tests in different rooms, then as we went into another room there was this girl and I did not know her, just a random girl, so anyway my dream ended after that, so last night the dream carried on, and we was doing tests, we all got to know each other, but I still did not know her, and then before I woke up she started talking to me and then kissed me, I did not back off, she was beautiful, and then the dream came to an end. I am really curious to what this means because I can't stop thinking about the girl.


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Relationshipc 3 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

Wow. It continued through two nights. That's really cool.

When dreams are repetitive, it usually means there is something you need to pay attention to - something in your waking life is unresolved or unsettled.

If that doesn't resonate with you as being true, then your dream may simply be prophetic or wishful.

You may want to a girl but feel as though you are going through a number of tests before you can finally meet her.

Or, you may be dreaming of a girl that you are going to meet after you go through some tests in life.


Lizzie 3 years ago

I have the most amazing boyfriend in the world but I recently connected with an old friend. I had a dream that this old friend told me he loves me. I smiled but I could not say it back. Also in my dream, these girls were trying to get me to date people from my past. I'd answer them with the name of people I've dated but all I could think about was my boyfriend almost in a subconscious way. (in my dream I was single). I felt so guilty when I woke up even though I didn't do anything or want to in my dream. What did this mean? Please help. Thank you. :)


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Relationshipc 3 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

To me, I think it means you love your boyfriend and your subconscious is just confirming that.

All you could think about was him (even though you were single) and even in the face of temptation, you didn't run into the arms of another man. It seems like you are done with people from your past, and ready to commit to your man.

Your guilt is probably because the dream felt so real.


Lost 3 years ago

I just had a dream I walked in on my ex lover with a female but Im married and we were still dating one another. The dream seem so real I even got violent with the woman and everything,also in the dream I beat the woman badly and my ex lover even gave her my old bras omg lol. But I left and came back and my ex and the girl was still wherever we were then I woke up. The sound thing about this dream is that I'm married in real life he knows it we had an affair but he broke it off with me. He came back to me we've had two sexual encounters and I love him bad but because I have children with my husband I choose not to leave . My question is could this dream be giving me a sign that I'm going to be with my lover but it's going to be an altercation .


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Relationshipc 3 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

I'm having a hard time understanding if you are married or if you were dreaming about a guy you are with now or an ex.

But, I think this means that the person in the dream is not a good person for you. I think that they give you problems and headaches, and getting back together with them (or possibly staying with them) would end up badly. In other words: stay away from this person romantically.


Lost 3 years ago

Yes I'm married and I was dreaming of my ex lover I cheated on my husband with the man I had a dream about I wanna be with the lover but I have children with my husband but my husband treats me bad but my lover broke it off with me for about two months he came back to me we had two sexual encounters my question was in my dream I caught my ex lover with another woman what should I do that's wat I was saying


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Relationshipc 3 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

You could be projecting your feelings about your husband onto your ex lover. Trying to tell yourself that you should be with him because of your children - and your dream is helping you fulfill that wish. However, it sounds like you still love your ex - and until you either let him go or go to him permanently, you may be dreaming about him and having confused feelings for a while.


Hopeless romantic 3 years ago

Can yiu please tell me what's the meaning of my dream?

There's this guy i'm inlove with. And we had an affair before. In my dream, he's with my grandmother and looks like my grandmother like him for me. Then suddenly, my grandma left me with this guy and i realized that time that my grandmother wanted this guy to take over my grandmother's accompany ti take care of me.


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Relationshipc 3 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

Sounds like grandma would approve of this guy for you.


Committed 2 years ago

I dreamt my fiancé and I were out and ran into some of my friends. She got into an altercation with them and i didn't defend her because I thought she was somewhat out of line. The altercation led to her getting seriously hurt and i came running to her side afterwards. What is the meaning of this dream?


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@committed - Maybe you feel as though you are not protecting her from something, even if your are not aware of it on a conscious level, your subconscious seems to be telling you that you are not standing by your fiance's side and that you may regret that decision later on.


kameran 2 years ago

I had a dream about a guy who is famous that i am in love with. I was at an apartment I had never seen before and we were sitting on a pull out couch and he told me he was sick, so I left. The next day I came back to see if he was better and he was laying on the couch again sleeping. I went over to him and just laid there next to him until his sister just randomly walked in and sat down on the other side of the bed without even acknowledging us. She was on her phone and sad music was playing so I started to cry. I didn't want them to know I was crying so I just hurried up and left without saying anything. It seemed so realistic . Like I can remember seeing him look really tired and touching his shirt and seeing his hair being really messy. May I note that both days the room seemed pretty dark.


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@kameran - Are you concerned that he is being mistreated? Sick? Unhappy? Do you feel bad for him? Would you like to comfort him, but know that you can't? That is what this dream sounds like.


kim 2 years ago

I had a dream the man i am involved wit was talkin to another women that was smart talkin me and he was still talkin to her nicely then he got mad at me and stormed out the room.Then he said to my sister that she needed to give him some sex and took off in my car and said he did not wanna be with me anymore.Then i woke up angry..Is this a sign?


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@kim - It could be a sign that you have some insecurities with your man. Maybe you feel like he is more interested in other women than you? Or that he is not siding with you on situations? It is not likely a sign that he is going cheat though. It may be a sign that he is growing frustrated with you and you can sense that.


ash 2 years ago

I had a dream that i was in an education institude where in a stairs i found my bf there,he kissed me then suddenly i put him away due to the fear that someone will see us and then he disappear.

what is the meaning of this dream.?


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

What does an educational institute represent to you? A place of rules? A place where you should behave yourself? A place where you can get in trouble and lose something you have worked for? You were in that place, so it is important to understand what it means to you personally. Has your boyfriend kissed you before? If he hasn't, then you may just be fearful about kissing him. If he has, then you may be fearful of what other people think about you and him together. Him disappearing is your desire to have him gone for whatever reason you were scared that someone would see you.


jennifer1 2 years ago

i had a dream that my friend told me that he didn't want anything to do with me & was ignoring me & i was sad... in reality i love him & want so much more than what we have


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@ Jennifer1: Probably an inner reflection dream. You love him and want more than what you have, and you are scared that it won't happen and know that it will affect your life negatively. It may be time to confess how you feel to him.


nikki 2 years ago

I have been having dreams about me being given money one was from a stranger for $600 and the other was from my brother. I also dreamed that I stole about $90 from my sister's purse and I felt really uncomfortable in the dream...one other dream I had was about my lover having sex with someone other then me what does that mean?


Guilty 2 years ago

I dreamed that I made out with my sisters husband in the broad daylight in a parking lot. It lead to more things and we ha sex in the car, afterwards he told me to not feel so bad about it that it was merely revenge, I asked did he use me and he says no I love you & your sister,but I've always wanted you.!!! What the heck is this? I woke up feeling so guilty.


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@nikki - I would have to say that money is on your mind. You may be anxious about it and wondering where it will come from...or if you will have to find it for yourself. I would suggest addressing your issues with money. Your lover having sex with someone else may just be a part of your insecurity and anxiety about money.


Nikki 2 years ago

@relationshipc thank you for the reply


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@nikki - No problem...I hope it helped a little.


Guilty 2 years ago

Does my 'dream not show? :(


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@guilty: It is about six spots up from this message and it was answered about 4 spots above this.


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Nisha Dean 2 years ago from Auckland, New Zealand

Just last night between 7pm to 8pm I had a very bad dream about my bf. In my dream I was in a holiday at my relatives house who brought me up from a baby. Then all of a sudden me and my family end up at my boyfriend's house. In that house there was a dead body of a random maori man buried under the house. So my family decided to move his body from there to graveyard. While they did that. His soul told us that my bf will be buried at that same place soon where he was buried. And my bf was saying to me something about the plant which wasn't that clear. Something to do with plant. There was a plant where that man was buried. Then I woke up with frighten. I never had a dream like this before. I really wanna know what my this dream is about. I can't figure it out but I am feeling scared. Please help.


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Nisha - I don't feel like this was a bad dream, even though it seems to be on the surface. A maori man is quite specific, so I'm guessing you have had experience with them or have been studying them, which is likely why they showed up in your dream. First, I suggest you discover what a maori man means to you, and if it relates to your boyfriend at all - kind, spiritual, different etc. Death often means change, so maybe your boyfriend is going to change into something similar to the maori man characteristics.

I would assume that change is coming for your boyfriend or your relationship with him (since your entire family was involved). The plant will likely make sense in the future, so keep your eyes open for it!


melodynam 2 years ago

I had a dream that my ex boyfriend was getting married. I was one of the bridesmaids and but I felt very bad.

The bride looked very beautiful and my ex wore casual clothes with his hair all messed up.

They got guards (my friends) to make sure that no one stops the wedding. Everyone was so happy for them.

When the pastor asked if anyone opposed the marriage, my ex looked at me. But I kept quiet cause I did not want to my friends to attack me. He nervously giggled and went on with the wedding.

He looked very disappointed me. I ran away as far as I can. I found myself in the place we first met and then a lizard that looked like a tiger walked across. It laughed at me.

I got scared and ran further. Next thing I knew I tripped and fell of a high clift. I died and it was all over the papers the next day.


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

Wow, Melody, that's quite the ending to your dream!

I would think this has to do with unresolved issues towards your ex.

Since I don't know what your relationship was like, and I don't know you, I can't say if you have unresolved feelings or not, but that is what it sounds like. If he thought that you were going to object at the wedding, then there is a possibility that you are not over him - but that fact that you didn't out of fear you would be attacked makes it sounds like maybe there are still some feelings but you are fearful to admit them. Especially because he looked disappointed.

Dying in dreams is not usually about death - it is about the end of something. So maybe your subconscious decided to stop holding onto your ex or maybe you decided to stop denying your feelings...only you can know the answer to that one.


melodynam 2 years ago

Thank you for the response. It is highly appreciated.

I have to admit you are right. I still have feelings for my ex. I have been denying it for a long time now.

I have been afraid for years to tell my friends or him. I usually ignore him or say nasty things towards him just so he would not think I am weak. I would say it has worked so far. Cause although he took it badly, he now believes I don't care about him.

He hurt me so badly, and he has apologised too many times. But I've been wanting him to feel my pain. The girls he has dated, he did so to move on. But I'd give him false hope so he can dump them. It works.

But I am tired of the games. So I had to decide last week if I wanted him back for good or not. I now decided to stop lying to myself. Be real with him and see how the new relationship works out. We are starting off as friends.


Snow 2 years ago

What does it mean when you have dreams involving your friend several nights but in different scenarios? Some of my other friends appear also but not as frequently as him. I'm also having mixed feelings about him. Please answer and thank you :).


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

Awesome Melody! It takes courage to be honest with yourself and others. I wish you all the happiness in the world.


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@ snow - It means your friend is on your mind. Your subconscious is trying to work through your feelings for him and help you decide what to do.

Pay attention to the feelings you have in the dream, whether it is a positive or negative mood, your desires and wishes, and what you really want to happen in the dream. By paying attention to those things you can help your subconscious let your conscious mind understand how you really feel and what you should do about him.


Snow 2 years ago

Thank you. I've been wondering a lot lately by what they mean. Thanks to you now I know. I will take your advice surely. Thank you again :D.


countrygirl 2 years ago

Hi i had a dream where i was lying on a friends bed fully clothed and she took her shirt off then her bra she said to me that she doesn't expect me to take mine off as we haven't been going out long then she came up to me and we started kissing and i actually enjoyed it. Even tho i got a boyfriend.


nzcountrygal 2 years ago from Palmerston North City, New Zealand

I had a dream that i was sleeping with my female friend and i was enjoying it and i realised the other day that she really us beautiful and in my dream i noticed she was gorgeous.


hooky 2 years ago

Hi i had a dream last night that i was in early stages of pregnancy i went out and bought a pregnancy test and when i got home i saw my mother there and had 3 pit bulls in our house and i realised they wanting to kill me. Please tell me what this dream means i scared of it happening.


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@country - Sounds like a fantasy dream. I've had dreams about kissing and having sex with my friends; it doesn't necessarily mean that you want them...it is just a fun fantasy playing out in your dreams.


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

nz, are you the same person as countrygirl? It's crazy that two people with country would write here.

Whether you are or are not the same person, it sounds like you may actually be attracted to her. Be honest with your feelings and you will know the real answer about the dream.


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@ hooky - I don't think your mother is going to be waiting for you with three pit bulls or has plans of killing you.Things and people in dreams are often just symbols to get the message across. It just sounds like you think your mother would be upset if you got pregnant.

How do you view Pit Bulls? Pit Bulls are often viewed as something that could cause a lot of hurt to you. So, you are probably worried that your mother will unleash words or actions that will cause you harm - either physically or mentally.

Your mother had 3 dogs, right? Three symbolizes growth. So maybe your mother wanted to scare you into growing up or stopping some sort of reckless behavior.


daymapq 2 years ago

So I keep having these dreams about this girl that broke my heart. But in these dreams we are happy and all lovey-dovey. I want to stop thinking about her but these dreams keep going on frequently.


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@daymapq - Unfortunately, as long as she is in the back of your mind, you will likely keep having dreams about her.

Try meditating on the fact that you are happy without her, and try to make it a core belief so that your subconscious no longer wants to play out the fantasy of you being happy and in love together. It may help.


jane 2 years ago

I dream about someone from my past who i liked when i was younger.

In my dream we are having sex and i'm in love with him

The thing is i'm in a relationship ????


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Jane - just because you are in a relationship, it doesn't mean you can't dream about your past. If you liked someone from your past, they are still a part of your mind, and your subconcious may bring them into your dreams for a certain reason.

How do you feel when you think about the person from your past? Is there something you are dealing with right now that the person from your past (or the experience you had with them) can help?


Hannah 2 years ago

I had a dream with a guy i'm in love with but In reAl life idk if he lives me back. In the dream we were fighting off monsters and we were a couple in the dream at the end he kissed me. Also whenever i dream about someone they always have blue eyes. Please tell ne what this means!


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Hannah...I would assume that you and this guy have to work through some issues (monsters). Maybe you will be a couple while you do this, or maybe you will just be a couple spiritually while you work through separate issues and then end up together in the end. Either way, it sounds like this guy is going to play a part in your life.

In general, the color blue represents trust and loyalty and the eyes are the window to the soul. So maybe you trust people too easily or are too loyal to people - or you feel as though people should be like that to you.

What does the color blue mean to you? What could it be applied to when you think of humans in general? How do you view people's eyes (insightful, trustworthy, or even negative) Answering those questions could figure out exactly what the blue eye color signifies to you.


sone 2 years ago

Hi,

i have a dream, i dream that i already marriage to a girl i keep admiring many year. But i don't know when i marriage her. We were together with some of my family looking for a plot into a newly settle village. The place where we are walking is toward the east valley an is beautiful with many grassland, water, pond etc.there we are full of happiness in wherever we go. On the west it is a thick forest a very very thick forest where many wilds animal live, full of thorn an we could hardly see through. Also i we don't have money to buy that land but we are planning to buy.

Just curious to know what do'est it symbolise into my life.


kayzlen 2 years ago

Hi.. I had a dream my boyfriend dumped me and asked for space... In my dream I was so hurt and I kept tellin him that I give him enough space and I hardly see him... He just couldn't reply... All he said was his sorry but its not gonna work and we have been together for 4 years please help


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@sone - It sounds like you and this girl could have a very happy, beautiful life together. The tone of the dream was positive and happy, right? It may be a prophetic dream, or just a scenario that you wish to happen.


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@kayzlen - Is your relationship going good? If it is, then it is probably your insecurities that are playing out in your dream. You probably feel like you don't see him enough and if you push the issue he may leave you, which is just a fear, not reality. I would talk to him about your concerns so that you get it out on the table. When you do, chances are your dreams will stop.


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Mason Zager 2 years ago from Wisconsin

This is an interesting hub! I've been having this recurring dream with me and my best friend (a girl that I'm like in love with, but I'm hardcore in the "friendzone") and we kiss. In the dream she kissed me and we made out. I guess I'm just really into her. Anyway, love the hub! Great info for people like me.


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@mason - it is possible to turn your friend into a girlfriend. My husband was my friend before we started dating. Check out this link: http://attractgetwomen.com/turn-friend-girlfriend/


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Mason Zager 2 years ago from Wisconsin

Relationshipc--Thanks for the link. Unfortunately it's more of the fact that she's too afraid to lose me as a friend, because we're so close. But we'll see how it goes! :)


Goodvibesonly 2 years ago

Hi!

So, im in love with this girl, but we recently broke up. And so i lost contact with her. And for the past three days I've been dreaming about her. I still love her, but before we broke up we got into a sort of fight, which is really unusual. But in the dreams all I'm doing is talking to her, nothing else. I've heard that dreams with somebody else in them means they miss you, but i don't know. What does it mean?


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@good- There could be two things happening. First, you could be dreaming about her because you miss her. You have her on your mind, whether it be consciously or subconsciously, so you dream about her at night.

Second, because you were just talking, you may actually be connecting with her and your dreams. In other words, your spirits maybe coming together night and having a conversation.

If you can get in touch with her in some way, I would ask her if she's been dreaming about you. If she says no (and she's being honest), then it is likely that you were just working through some feelings you have for her still.


Goodvibesonly 2 years ago

Thank you! (:


Jamie Simons 2 years ago

I had a dream about my old boss on several occasions and every time we kiss and one time he told me he loved me and wanted to be with me. I had and think I still have feelings for him but he moved out of state and while I worked for him, I couldn't tell him how I felt and now I'm in a relationship but still think of my old boss all the time and compare my boyfriend to my old boss. I never had the nerve to tell him how I felt about him and now he's gone but we still keep in touch. What does this mean? I just want to know if he feels the same way? We were very close and he knew I liked him but I worked for him so even if he did have feelings for me, he couldn't tell me it was against the rule to date employees. He has always shown my mom and daughter attention and treated them amazing. He still to this day asks about them when I talk to him. What does my dream mean?


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Jamie: Your dream means exactly what you said...you still have feelings for him and you don't know how he feels. Your dream is from your perspective, not his. So kissing him and having him tell you that he loves you are things that you would like to happen on some level or another.

In reality, you don't know how he feels, and you think about him all the time, so of course you are going to dream about him. He is in your thoughts, consciously and subconsciously.

He sounds like a good guy who cares about you. If you have unresolved feelings for him, you may want to talk to him about or find a way to deal with them.


nikki 2 years ago

I dreamed that I was dancing with an employer of mine from years ago and then he was holding a baby and handed me the baby but I was struggling with trying to hold him. What does that dream mean please?


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@nikki - Because it was an employer, it sounds like you may be struggling with work in some way. Maybe you don't know which way to go in your career. Because you were struggling with the baby, something that your employer trusted to give you, it seems that you are struggling with your workload or maybe the idea of what you are doing.

If you have been underestimating yourself and your abilities, now is the time to really let go and fly. Believe in yourself and what you can accomplish. Be creative and assertive, and your struggling will be over.


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Anonymous-Person 2 years ago from Land of Ass

So like my friend ships me and this celebrity together because me and him act alike apparently, and she's been having a lot of dreams about me and him together all the time. No matter what we're doing in her dream, me and this celebrity are always a couple.

Now I know you can't interpret her dreams, but I want your personal opinion of what you think they mean.


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

I think it means that she thinks about your love life a lot and pictures you and this celebrity together.


jjjj 2 years ago

i keep having dream that my boyfriend is cheating on me and it bothers me so much that i think about it and it makes me sick to my stomach i have never cheated on him ever so im not like feeling regret or anything i don't know what to do because it is almost ruining our relationship and when we talk about it some times he says i would never do that to you and i love you. and other times he gets mad about it


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@jjjj - I used my tarot cards for you, because your problem is more real than just a dream.

The message I got for you was that you have felt trapped by your own thoughts and perspectives. You've felt stuck or bound where you are, and you have felt that there is no way out. You may have tried to look at the situation from a different angle, but your life is out of balance and you are finding it hard to do that.

I don't know if there is any health concerns, even mental health concerns, but it is worth checking out or admitting.

Right now, you are finding it too hard to let go of the worry and stress, but if you did, you would find that your boyfriend is a great guy and he will meet all of your emotional needs if you just trust him! I really see him being a stand-up guy who is trying his best to put up with your accusations.

But, if you continue on the path that you are on, worrying like you do, I think that a major upset will be in your future - either a break up, relationship full of fights, or possibly cheating. Nothing good will come from staying in the state you are in.

So, you have to find a way to trust your boyfriend, who really does deserve to be trusted.


Daisy 2 years ago

I had a dream last night about an ex-lover. We were sitting together in a living room with his current girlfriend. Suddenly she is gone and he looks at me with tears in his eyes. I put my arm around him to comfort him and he says he has always known we love each other. I took a deep breath and woke up immediately. I'm having a hard time understanding this. I do still have feelings for him but he is currently with his new girl.


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Daisy - If you still have feelings for him, this dream could be a projection of those feelings. However, how real was the dream? If you felt pretty lucid, your souls could have been connecting and actually talking about your love for each other. You may be connected in the afterlife, and your souls are just having a hard time being apart. Either way, something may happen in the future. Follow your instincts with him. Internally, you know exactly what to do.


jasmine 2 years ago

Had a dream about this guy. I use to like him. He was sweet to me and he use to make me laugh.

In my dream.We weren't in a relationship,but we hung out. We enjoyed a lot of time together.

We were left alone. We got really close by being left alone. We shared a dorm with one other person. Then a girl from my past that i don't like came in our dorm and he went to lay on her. I was jealous. He just kept looking at me. When i got up to go in the kitchen so did he.then we started talking. Then i told him things that i would never say out loud. That its hard for me to do things for people i don' t care about. If i cook i only cook for the people i love. And i told him i would cook for him. He was so sweet. He was smiling and so was i. We were happy. I told him what i have never tell people. I told him i fear people getting close to me. So i told him how i keep my guard up to pertect myself. I told him i let down my guard for him.then i woke up.

What does this mean? Do i like him?


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

I can't tell you how you feel. Dreaming about a good person from your past could just mean you are longing for someone like him in your life, or it could mean that you are longing for him in particular.

Sit down, be quiet, and listen for the right answer from your inner self. You will know exactly what that dream meant if you do that.


Stacie 2 years ago

I keep having dreams with my girlfriend . Since i moved in with her its been three days and all i dream about is her . Even sexually dreams , her telling me how he feels and even her cheating on me i can't stop dreaming about her... What do you think this mean? Am i inlove? Or am i obsessed? What do you think?


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Stacie...I think she is just heavily on your mind and it sounds totally normal to dream about her continuously. If you think about her lots in a conscious state, during the day, it only makes sense you would think about her in a subconscious state, during the night.

I think you are definitely feeling very positive about her and your relationship.


PersonG 2 years ago

Hi. I have been dating with this guy we love each other but the circumstances and the place we live does not allow us to be together so we ended yesterday but last night I saw a dream that we were making out in his car(not the one he has) then another car came and saw us I quickly wore my sweater and hid from the persons in the other car cause I knew them she was a relative of mine ( she is a psychologist) and the other was a waiter near the place I work ( about the waiter I saw him in bus) but then I was at my workplace and the waiter was there and said me did you had good time in the Fiat (car brand)!! I really would like to know what does it means??


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@PersonG: It sounds like you are worried about what other people think about you and this guy together. You don't want to be caught showing your true emotions and being criticized or examined by other people. Moreover, you know that other people are aware of your relationship and that weighs on your mind.


PersonG 2 years ago

Thank you :)


Gemini 2 years ago

I have been have a dream about sleeping with my partner Friend in the dream my partner dies and then sometime goes by and then I start Hooking and in my dream my ex comes in but the friend is the one I am have sex with


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Gemini - It's hard to read your paragraph as there is no punctuation.

I think you meant you were sleeping with your partner's friend, and then your partner died. Then some time went by and you started being a hooker? Then, your ex comes but you are having sex with his/her friend?

It just sounds like you are attracted to the friend and feeling very sexual.


Blocked!! 2 years ago

I'm in a relationship and no one knows because is not too serious for now. My mum is telling me about a guy to go out with. I saw a dream that I was going to my friend at night that is near my house it was raining I went there saw my friends mom I asked her for a number but she didn't have it (this friend doesn't live there where i saw the dream) while coming home a blue car blocked my way for a bit and the boy that was in driving laughed. I continued walking to go home and I was walking on street then I heard my mum calling me to go home in short cut through a yard saying because there may be dogs. I did but a guy that was behind me did also and he had something in his hands eating it looked to me like a mud. I opened him our yard door so could pass. While entering home I saw a chicken and I closed the door to not let it in. Does this mean that I should listen to my mum about that boy because I don't know what to do?


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Blocked - The dream doesn't sound like it has anything to do with the boy (it is actually very hard to understand from how you wrote it), but it does have to do with your mum. It sounds like in the dream you were listening to your mum, so this may mean that you want to listen to your mum. Did everything feel good after you listened to her? If it did, then your mum may be onto something. Or, did everything feel strange after listening to her? If it did, then you may not want to listen to her.

Besides the dream, if you like the person you are with right now, then why not just see where it goes before you date someone else?


Blocked!! 2 years ago

I know it's messy I actually wrote it really bad but I thought it meant something because I don't know if I should listen to my mom or not.. But anyway thank you.

It's because the boy I'm with he is not really serious about us.. we even started it knowing that we won't end up together.!! But every time we end it he comes back, he can't break up with me neither can I. That's why I can't decide.!


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

Oh, I see. My advice? Listen to your heart, not your mom, your boyfriend, or anyone else. Your inner guidance system always knows what step to take next for your best life!

Try ending it and giving yourself some real time to be apart. Many times we go back to something that feels comfortable or feel like we are missing something 'great' even if it isn't because it is such a part of our lives. I speak from experience here!


Blocked!! 2 years ago

I'm just afraid that if I make a choice or another I'll regret it. I love my boyfriend but we have some things that we don't like to each other( like he's jelous or that I had a previous relationship and he said I can't be with someone who dated before that's why we couldn't be together but now he says he's ok with it!!). That guy that my mum is telling me I don't even know him and if I would want to know him i should go out and I can't do that if I'm still with my boyfriend. My confusion is because if I make the wrong decision. Eitherway Thank you and I'm sorry maybe I shouldn't have commented in here about this but I've kept it inside I just needed to express it.


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

You commented because it was a dream - so you should have commented here. :) Anywase, life is all about choices - and some of them you will regret. From my experience, let yourself make the choices that feel the most right to you at the time. Those are the choices that will teach you something about yourself, what you want, and where you are going.


Jacks 2 years ago

I had a dream that the woman i love that i thought loved me didn't love me. It seemed as if the sight of me disgusted her and i just wanted to be with her what does this mean.


random 2 years ago

So I had this dream and I loved this guys at my school and we were dating but he was a complete stranger and so we were at the school and he was in the gym and he said he was gonna sing one more song on the intercom for me and then he was gonna kill himself I went back to my class and he started singing and I just started crying my eyes out and when I came back to the gym after he was gone he had killed himself.


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Jacks - It could mean that you are worried about what she thinks about you. You are insecure about her feelings or thoughts towards you.


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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Random - It sounds like you like the guy but he may be a bad thing for you. Killing himself may not represent death but an ending. So, the chance or relationship with him may be coming to an end.


exol 2 years ago

I can't see or forgot the face or name of the guy in my dream which is my lover (in my dream)... What's that mean? I kept on thinking about what's his face or name because I think I see his face in my dream and eventually forgot it when im awake. And my dreams about relationship (which is all of them are positive and happy) is that im dreaming of it a lot.


Mystery18kat 24 months ago

Hello, I have this problem. I was with this amazing guy, and we both loved each other. It turned out we ended up attending different schools and I always have these weird dreams with him in them. Like I had 3them were he said he was gonna come back and one where he said "you mean a lot to me Kat." Then I have some were we are buddy's and another were we kissed which was something we never got the chance to do in real life. I even get theses weird coincidences that are directly towards him. When I saw him a month ago, I got to find out that he does still really care about me. Do my dreams connect to real feelings in our real lives? Or is this just me? Help please.


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Relationshipc 24 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@exol - When I was younger, I dreamt of my current husband in a sexual way. I couldn't see his face, but I could feel him and I knew what it was like to be close to him. I dated some guys after that dream, but it wasn't until I met my husband that I was reminded of that dream. I now know that it was my future husband that I was dreaming of, and I feel like this is the same for you. You are dreaming about a man that you will be with your future, but for some reason you are not supposed to know exactly who he is yet.


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Relationshipc 24 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Mystery - Absolutely. Your dreams can connect to your inner desires, fears, etc, which is what you were likely doing in your dreams about this guy. However, you can also have premonition dreams, which is probably what happened when you dreamt that he told you he cared about you.

Pay attention to coincidences, they are often signs of steps to take and things to come - Moreover, coincidences are often a manifestation of your dominant thoughts, so even if you are not aware of what you are subconsciously thinking, the things that happen in life (or don't happen) are a reflection of your inner self.


Kristine 24 months ago

This morning, i dreamt 3 times abput the guy I am interested in. We used to text a lot but that didn't last when we jad misunderstanding back in April. Then I believe he got turned off of me. But the past few days, been texting him and trying to reconnect and be close with him again.. and this morning I dreamt about him 3times. 1st, i was in a car with his mom and someone else, she is my relative but she was so vague. And i woke up, 2nd time I was in a room with him and her sister. Her sister asked for my number and we were talking about my cousin. Then he showed up and we were just all happy talking to each other. Few hours later, when I took a nap i dreamt of him and his cousin that we were going to a lunch, and then he was riding a bike, his cousin and me (we are really close friends in real life) was riding my car. And we were following him but we got lost. I was driving, and I can't find the way where I was following him. Until I asked someone then we got in the place where we're gonnaeet. He was there, sitting and waiting for us with our food that he already ordered. And we were just all happy talking. (When I was trying to find the way when we got lost it was so dark and i was scared. But when i saw him sitting waiting for us. I was so happy and i felt really grateful that he is there waiting for us. It was so real)


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Relationshipc 24 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Kristine - The fact that you are trying to reconnect with him make me feel that he is totally on your mind, and your desires are coming through in your dreams. You even said you want to be close to him again, so I'm assuming in your inner core, you really would like some sort of relationship to develop.

I used my tarot cards for your comment, and I pulled a card that signified this was an unwise choice, meaning this guy - or pursing a relationship with him, may not be the best thing for you. If I were you, I would review why you want to reconnect with him and your history with him and decide if he is really worth connecting with or if you should move on and find someone else.


preeti 24 months ago

I dream about a guy friend who asked me to find him but while searching I found a guy who i hate the most we talked and then i went off finding my other guy friend there was a dark room he was hiding in there covered with a blanket he just grabbed my hand I got scared and i shouted but felt relieved after knowing it was him I saw the guy I hate the most outside the window and my friend and I thought of scaring him my friend took an umbrella and almost hit him but it was to scare him after seeing each other facial expressions we three laughed. It was getting late my friend suggested that I should go home I said yes and followed him behind but before I could catch up the guy held my hand turned me around pined me on the wall and covered my mouth. What can this mean


preeti 24 months ago

I also dream about that guy who i hate proposed to me in a shopping mall in front of the whole crowd saying i love you. What does this mean?


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Relationshipc 24 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

Sounds like your guy friend depends on you a bit and that you have a good relationship. When the guy covered your mouth was it a bad feeling? Were you scared? Were you turned on? What did you feel? Was he being intently mean? Because you know the guy, it was probably not an internal issue that you are having (being afraid to speak the truth because your mouth was covered or something like that). Instead, you probably are fearful of that guy and should watch your back around him. He may be out to hurt you physically, mentally, or emotionally - so keep your eyes open.


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Relationshipc 24 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@ preeti - Either you have conflicted feelings about him or he does about you.


Kingdom light 24 months ago

Someone i know wrote me and said they had a dream that me and my girlfriend was married and that my girlfriend had a baby what dose that mean?


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Relationshipc 24 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Kingdom - To be honest, it could mean anything. It could mean that the person thinks your relationship is strong and is going to end up working out. It could also mean that they were having a prophetic dream and say you and your girlfriend in the future as married with a kid. Or, it could have just been a dream that came about because they had been thinking about you.


Meshellthebell 24 months ago

Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. We have still been seeing each other and we tell each other we love each other. He is friends with my daughter on FB but not me and I was on her FB last night and some woman posted a link to a concert and said she wanted to go. Well I automatically took that as her wanting to go with him and it's a possibility that this is someone hes seeing. So me being me I was a little hurt and when I fell asleep I dreamed my ex invited me to someones wedding. We were also dealing in my dream on a regular basis. Well when the bride and groom walked down the isle it was him and her and they did it as a payback joke on me for some of the things we went thru when we were together. Everybody was laughing at me. I wanted to fight everyone in the wedding party. I was so heartbroken that I woke up crying. What in th world does that mean? I can't stop thinking about it and feeling hurt like it really happened. I think seeing that women post on his Facebook threw me into that dream to begin with but I'm confused.


winney 24 months ago

Im dating dis guy. Always forcing me to have sex with him. I had a dream and we were havin sex, the next day, we had sex. Dos it mean we are meant to be? I dnt get it.

please i need answer..


Mary 24 months ago

I had a dream of going to a store with my mom and i instantly fell in love with someone who worked there. I don't know how but next thing i know i was all over him. I sat on a counter and he was between my legs. I kissed (my first kiss and i knew how to work it) him, normally and then i started working my way up his neck by biting it a bit and then i kissed him again, that time more intensely. My mom wanted to leave and i told her no. Something happened and the next thing i know my mom is driving away from the parking and leaving me alone with him. Of course i was so happy and i started kissing him again, even though i was shook with the fact that my mom abandoned me. But i felt safe with him. And then the dream just ended there. What does that mean? I need an answer.


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Relationshipc 24 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@meshellthebell - You are absolutely right - seeing the woman on Facebook (and how you interpreted the situation) is what caused you to dream such a painful dream. It's almost like you feel he is pulling one over you, as if he is seeing this woman behind your back while he tells you that he loves you. Remember, it was just a dream that was showcasing your thoughts and fears, and you shouldn't let the possibility of it happening affect you because it may not be happening. My tarot cards showed that you had some issues with this relationship because of your history - whether it be past relationships, behaviors, children, or possibly expecting something that wasn't there. I see a very strong you in the near future, but it seems to be by yourself.


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Relationshipc 24 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@winney - I don't understand your question. I don't get it either! How did you feel in the dream? Scared? Happy?

He forces himself on you in real life? Outside of your dreams? If that's the case, then you shouldn't be together. A man who forces himself on you does not respect you.

And dreaming about sex may not be about sex. It can mean that you want to take in some of the traits he has, or, in your case, if the sex was nice and comfortable, it may just be a dream about how you wish you could have sex with him - instead of forced.


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Relationshipc 24 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Mary - I actually don't think this has anything to do with meeting a guy. I think that this dream is about your desire to get untrapped from something in your life. Maybe you want to escape a negative feeling or decision you need to make.

Because your mom was in the dream, you may want to escape your mom - or the fear, anger, hurt, or frustration she puts on you. But it may not be able your mom at all. Your mom may have just been representing the situation that is the problem. For example, a decision you need to make or something you need to do for you.

Your mom left you in the dream and even though you were aware your mom had left you, your confidence was there being alone. This just tells me that you know that you'll be okay when you face the decision head on and take charge. Any confusion or fear that you are worried about will disappear.


Maggie 24 months ago

I had a dream about dating a guy that I don't know in Irl when I already have a boyfriend.For me well to me I think I'm cheating but in the dream. (we dated at school)Me and my boyfriend never really talked in dream which is weird because.In irl we talk all the time at school because (we go to middle school BTW)we have almost every period together.But on the other hand I never knew or at least I think so talk to the guy more that I don't know but.I didn't talk to my boyfriend and in the dream for some reason in my head I kept on telling myself in the dream.That,that wasn't Joshua(My boyfriends name :3) its like I knew already but I didn't really listen to my self I just did......

whatever.And when I woke up I don't really knew if I should tell Joshua what's going on in my head in my dream.And this wasn't the only day I felt like this I have had the same dream over and over and they turn out to be different guys.....to be honest I'm really done with this dream........But I'm really desperate to end these dreams (as you can probably tell)because when I do wake up to these dreams I start to feel really bad going to school.And not telling him makes me not want to go to school but I really need some help thank you for wasting your time(lol). :)


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Relationshipc 24 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Maggie - Your not wasting my time!

First, you are not cheating, and there is no reason to feel guilty or bad. Your dreams are an inner expression of the real you, so don't feel guilty for being in tune with yourself.

If you dreamt the same kind of dream repeatedly, then it is obviously addressing a reoccurring issue in your life.

For instance, you may feel guilty about something when it comes to your boyfriend. Maybe you feel bad because you don't give him enough attention or maybe you feel bad because you don't think he is the one for you and you have been contemplating breaking up with him. Or maybe you are just questioning his loyalty to you and you feel bad for doing that.

You are the only one who knows the real reason why you are feeling guilty. It doesn't have to be a big thing. It may be something as simple as not texting him back as quickly as he would like. The point is that the guilt - wherever it is coming from - is manifesting in your dreams as cheating on him. Once you address the issue in real life, your upsetting dreams will go away.


lost? 23 months ago

I had a dream of the guy I recently had a fling with. We don't contact each other or anything it was seriously just a fling. But in my dream I was back where I met him and he tells me that he wants to love me but he's scared because he doesn't know how to and then I woke up. It's weird because ever since I came back from vacation I never really thought about him I just came back to reality and boom he shows up in my dream...what does that mean?


Riley Brown 23 months ago

In the daytime I daydream about my crush. At nighttime I think and dream about him. I made something 8 pgs long about him with a bunch of pics of him.

He's super cute! During my dreams when I see a girl looking at him I give her the back-off-face. Do you think I'm crazy? Okay I'm a little crazy about him. Please make more websites and things about crushes. Thank you. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

P.S I'll find help with this. :)


Kayla 23 months ago

I had a dream a guy I was attracted to professed his love for me. I know of the guy in real life...he always stared at me in class...he say right beside me and when he would get up he would always stare....The guy was attracted to MRI could feel it I guess and one day he tried to talk to me but I was too shy to try to say something back....anyway I literally was infatuated with him from the first day I saw him until this past august...for eight months... Every night and every day for eight months straight I thought about him non stop...I thought the infatuation was over...what does the dream mean


cecemarie33 23 months ago

I been having crazy dreams the past few months and it always seems to involve this guy I was talkin to and his kid who I met. I ended catchin strong feelings for him.. and he acted like he had feelings for me, but now things are just wishy washy with us. And I had to just seriously let him go because I just don't have time for the games and ignorin me.. so I told him to just leave me alone... Ive been havin theses dreams for sometime and their startin to get more intense


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Jovilyn Marinas 23 months ago from Redondo Beach, California

My bf told me this dream he had. He said that I was in it and i attended his high-school. He said that there was an assembly after school in the lunch area. Anyway his friend came up to him and apparently in the dream, that was my ex. That person told my bf to not date me anymore because i will break up with him in a couple of months. Could that mean anything? Is it just his subconscious telling him that I'm a bad person? I'm so worried.


Nicole 23 months ago

I just woke up from a dream that has me confused. I dreamt of me and this random cute guy, he really liked me but I didn't know. He would sit very close to me and seemed interested in whatever I was saying. He was too shy to tell me how he felt so I only thought of him as a very cute friend. He seemed upset at how oblivious I was. What does this mean?


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@lost - Because he is not someone that was serious or is your present life, it is probably just a reflection on what you want. Instead of a fling, you may be looking for something more serious - or, ready to have something more serious.


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Riley - Yep, a little crazy. :) Same to you.


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Kayla - It may be a prophetic dream and mean he is going to ask you out or talk to you or try to start some sort of relationship with you. You will have to wait and see. If not, then did something remind you of him? Were you thinking about him? If it did, or if you were, then it is probably just a dream acting out your thoughts from the day about him and the past infatuation with him.


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@cece - Not sure what your dreams are about, but it sounds like they are stemming from thinking about him. Your working through your emotions in your dream life and taking off some of the pressure from your waking life.


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Jovilyn - I don't think it is his subconscious telling him that you are a bad person...I think he is probably just worried and has some fear that your relationship may end, and in his dream he was being proactive so that he ins't the one that gets hurt. Him dreaming that is a good thing though. It means he likes you enough to be worried that he may lose you. ;)


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@nicole - Did you know the guy? If not, then it could be a premonition, or it could just be something you want to happen - meet a guy who likes you. But, it could also be your subconscious telling you that it is time to stop being oblivious to things in your life and take ownership over what is happening.


Kayla Nicole Holmes 23 months ago

I think about him from time to time but it's no longer as intense as it was before.. Honestly I'm hoping it's a prophetic dream lol...if he asked me out I would say yes at the drop of a pen lol :0 but anyway thank you for the feedback


Nikki 23 months ago

In the beginning of the dream I was sleding down a hill but as I went down it made my sled go so high up I was scared of falling in the ditch further away so I fell straight down into the snow. A school bus came and I ran to it with no backpack. It's not my ordinary bus i's smaller and contains people from my grade; Devon, Casey, Carly, Tristan, and James. I couldn't find a seat because one was next to James and the other was next to Casey and I didn't want to seem like I like them by sitting by them. I didn't want to sit by Carly because I didn't want to seem weird. I finally found a seat and sat down by myself. I'm in spanish class with my grade level and some people not in my grade and some people I don't even know. My friends are there with their boyfriends but I don't sit by them. An older guy comes to learn spanish and people from my grade pick on him, I stand up for him which ended up being a disaster because I said his last name wrong. Later on we change seats and somehow James was next to me so I moved and Caseys next to me so I stay. Casey puts a silly band on my wrist and I take it off and give it back and this happens a couple more times. Then he puts a hat on me and I get mad and take it to another seat. But he opens my backpack which I never brought to school and starts looking into it so I came back and gave him the hat and sat back in my seat. (( back in fifth grade he gave me a silly band, and in kindergarten people took my hat and started throwing it around, one was caseys brother so he asked for it and then tossed it to me)) On the bus ride back home a girl was rude to me but I gave her heels I had (I never wear heels) and told her to keep them and she ended up being nice. There was this cute boy on the bus I didn't know and we got along but it didn't seemed like he liked me towards the end. We stopped for ice cream I couldn't get any cause they were closing but I got a cake. I know this was too much information about the dream so I withheld some parts that didn't seem vital. I can understand some parts of this dream but I would like a second persons thoughts on it. Thanks


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Kayla - Hopefully he does. :)


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Nikki - I think the dream was just working through emotions that you may not be aware of - or maybe you are aware of them. Fear, fitting in, guys, friends, school, and maybe even being left out seem to be the common theme, so you are facing those emotions in your dream and you are using some memories from your past (like the hat and silly band) to work through them. It's very cool that the whole dream took place on a bus that is smaller than your normal bus. It's almost like your inner-self wanted to make it smaller so that you had to deal with all of these different situations in a smaller space. You couldn't ignore anything by going to the back of the bus.

It seems like there may be too much going on in your life at once, and you need to make a decision to find balance and calm it down. If that resonates with you, and you are struggling to make the decision, then my advice is to take a playful approach to the decision. That may help you make your decision without so much struggle. In the dream, you made a ton of decisions, so it seems to fit.


cecemarie33 23 months ago

It is even normal to be having dreams about him,like this,?.. almost everynight I'm havin dreams about him, it's been like this since I met him.. and it's the same dreams all the time with him and his kid.the times when I told him I didn't want to b bothered he would hit me up..

1# dream I had was weird, it was me in the hospital. And he was callin me blowin up my phone, til I finally answered and asked why I haven't I been answerin and where was I , I told him I was in the hospital. So he came dwn with his son, and stayed with me there (in the hospital) I was laying on the hospital bed covered in a white sheet and his son came and laid dwn with me, fallin asleep after so sometime. Then the doctor came in and said "I have some news for you ", and I was ok what is it. And then she told me I was pregnant. I sat there in shocked for sometime. Then I ended up askin her if she's sure about it". She said yes and then me, him and his son ended up walkin out the hospital hugged up. And someone ened up sayin " you guys have a beautiful family.

#2 dream : we was in his car drivin somewhere, it was him, his kid and me. His son in the back seat, and ended up tappin me because he wanted to come in the front and sit with me. So he came in the front with me, we groofed around for a little and then he ended up fallin asleep we me in the( front seat). While we was asleep the father put his hand on my leg and smiled at us.

3# dream: was that we was in his car and I started cryin and told him I was pregnant, I said some other stuff but don't remember to well. But when I was tryin to get out the car he grabbed my arm, pulled me bac in and held me and kissed me on my forehead.

I had two other dreams, to were I had a puppy and I was walkin him and him and his son seen me and tried to walk away but his son wanted to touch and play the dog. ( I forgot to mention that me and him live in the same complex, and how that ended up happening is kind of weird, but I only been livin here for about a month and a half now, and we ran into each other 5times now). So I let him play with the dog, his son ended up wanting to walk him, so I said to while we was standing in front of his dad, that it was up to his father, his dad said it was yea he can, so I put the dog leash in one hand, and held his other hand and then we walked off insight were his dad could see us, in the dream it showed the father takin pictures of us playin with dog and walking. Then me and his son ended up sitting dwn taking pictures. When the son and father was about to get in the car , the son asked "when will he see me again and the puppy". The other part of the dream showed how we was in the guys house and me and his son was playin with the puppy, and me and the father was cuddled up watchin his son play. We ended up fallin asleep, and his son was cuddled up next me, with his father too..

I tryin to figure and understand theses dreams. I try my hardest t dream and this out of my head..

What do u think this could mean.


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@cece - 1st dream seems like a dream about what you may want in your life. The color white is associated with positivity and goodness - and that is what it seemed like in your dream with him and his son and even the news you got. It was all good.

2nd dream - Same thing. It seems like a projection of what would be a perfect relationship with this guy and his son. And, in real life, why wouldn't you want something like that? You had to let him go because you don't have time for the games, but inside you probably wish that the games were not even a part of the whole deal and these dreams are a reflection of what you would like it to be like.

3rd dream - Same thing. A reflection of what you would want to happen.

I would say that these could be prophetic dreams, but because you live in the same complex and see him often, the chances of him being on your mind often - even your unconscious mind (that carries your wishes and desires) - is much more likely, and so of course you would dream about him often in a way that you would like the relationship to be.


cecemarie33 23 months ago

Thank u for ur help :-) ... So the dreams are just about what I want in a relationship with him, and that's it?... I only been living in this complex for month and in half. Before I wasn't living here at all, but I came here a few times because he brung me here.( to his place). I'm in a state that I'm not originally from here and met him a couple months after being here. Online, so I donevmoved to different places since I been here, a friend of mine that I met from school asked a friend of hers if I could stay worth her for little bit, and she said yea.. and some how the girl and him live in the same complex, that's how I ended here ..


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@cece - That's quite a coincidence that you ended up moving to where he lives! There is definitely something you need to learn from him in your life (otherwise he would be in it!).

You may want to influence your dreams so you can get the answers you need.

For instance, before you go to bed, try focusing on a question you want answered. It could be something like, "Why did I meet him?" or any other question that you want answered. Focus on it, pray on it, and pay attention to the dreams you have that night. If you don't get an answer through a dream the first night, try again every night until you do. You will eventually find an answer to your questions that you may not be able to find in your waking life.


cecemarie33 23 months ago

Thank you very much?...

Do u think maybe, that Theresa something that we both need to learn something from each other?..


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@cece - I think that every relationship, whether it lasts one hour or a whole lifetime, has something to teach you.


ciaramarie33 23 months ago

When u mentioned prophetic dreams? Does that mean like, when a person dreams about something and it ends up happening in real life. Present or future?..

Could that mean a person has psychic abilities too?


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@ciara - Yes, when a person dreams about something and it happens, that is a prophetic dream. The dreams don't always make sense at the time.

For instance, I dreamt about my dog surfing in Hawaii and she fell off her surfboard and hurt her back. I took her inside and was worried about her in the dream. In real life, I went to Hawaii a few months later for vacation, and while we were gone, my dog's back starting acting up and it ended up resulting in her death.

I've also dreamt about a friend and I hanging out together by the ocean. I didn't understand it at the time, because I had no plans to go to where she was living, but later that year she flew me up unexpectedly and we hung out in a cabin that was right on the ocean.

I think we are all a little psychic. The International Academy of Consciousness agrees. Check out this article: http://uk.iacworld.org/how-do-i-know-if-i-have-psy...

In our dream life we are just more in tune to the energy around us - past, present, and future, and that's why it is easier to pick up on past, present, and future events in dreams.

And with things like tarot cards, I feel we can also connect to that energy easier than trying to visually see into the future because we have a tool - the cards.


cecemarie33 23 months ago

I'm sorry lol I didn't know til now that I put ciaramarie33... Well there both me lol I have been having dreams since forever that come true either it be today tomorrow, two months from now, so on..

So I'm tryin to figure out if what I'm dreaming and the dreams I been dreaming about him could possible mean this might happen, either present or future. Because the dreams I be having besides the ones I told u, be very real and detailed. That's why I been tryin to figure this out, I don't want to feel like I'm obessesing over him.. this has been drivin me crazy, just like how he's been actin lol

And what really drives me crazy is that I had dreams a couple years ago about me getting married to some tall light skinned dude with braids, but in the dream this persons face was blurry.

I have visited many websites to try and read things to try get a good understanding about my dreams.


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

So I'm assuming he is tall and has light skin and braids? That's quite a coincidence, don't you think? When I was about 15 years old, before I was having sex, I dreamt about making love to a man that I was desperately in love with. He didn't have a face in the dream. In the dream I was an adult. I never forgot it or the feeling, and when I made love to my husband for the first time, I knew it was him from the dream.

You can't always tell if a dream is going to be prophetic, and you don't want to look at every dream as if it is prophetic or you may drive yourself crazy. Just listen to your inner guidance system and let it guide you towards what you think is right.

If you have a problem listening to your inner-guidance, try this - Christie Marie Sheldon says say 'yes, yes, yes' to yourself. Then say 'no, no, no'. The no should feel heavy somewhere in your body and the yes should feel light. Once you go your feelings down for yes or no, ask yourself a specific question - like 'should I call him?' If it feels like a yes, then go with it. If it feels like a no, then pay attention to that. You can sign up for a free webinar here with her: http://ow.ly/GCmLN - and see if she benefits you at all.


cecemarie33 23 months ago

Yes he is, and what's scary is I have a tendency to push ppl away from me when I start to catch feelings for them, so that I won't end up getting hurt! ( yes I kno, "that's crazy!).. but I've been hurt so much growin up, I stopped trusting ppl. I have trust issues, I'm scared to actually have an emotional connection with someone. But then again I know I would give the world and try my hardest to the right person. I just have to stop letting negative get in the way. Now a day's I'm just being very cautious with guys now a day's. But something just always pushed me back towards when I really wanted to let go. Everything that's been happening has been quite a coincidence with me and him.

Thank u very much for helping me.. this truly means a lot, and is helping me understand more. Thank you also for the web links to thoses sites .


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

Your welcome! I think you will end up removing your fears and any blocks holding you back from the life you want. Come back here anytime and update me on how you are doing and what happened with him. :)


sherla 23 months ago

Hi! I have a dream of a guy whom i really dnt know who he was but it seems in the dream that i already know him..and somewhat connected. And in my dream he seems to be a lawyer. And i went to his office coz i want to help me over something. I asked a girl in the lobby that im looking for atty.javier.. The girl pointed me to his office and saw him. He smilled at me and hug me and i hug him back uttering words like "its not ur fault"..and i cried. Afterwards he said we need to go somewhere after his meeting and so i waited outside..to my surprise wen i look back he was there standing next to me smlling and i smilled back at him.

And i even woke-up w/ that smile on my face..And i realized that ive been dreaming of that guy a month ago.. It just now the feeling is unexplainable.


cecemarie33 23 months ago

I will :-)... Thank you very much


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@sherla - Very interesting. Sounds like he could be someone you know on a soul level since he is so familiar to you and he is offering words and gestures of support. He may be a huge support to you on the other side. I wouldn't be surprised if he has been a part of other dreams, besides just a month ago, you just may not remember him in them. In other words, maybe you are travelling out of your body at night and meeting him to discuss issues and work through problems.

I once dreamt about a man who gave me a sheet of paper with some information on it. The information was something that would help me progress, but I can't remember what that information said. But I remember that when he was walking away from me I had the urge to tell him that I loved him. The love was all-encompassing...something I had never felt before, and I really feel that it was an angel, a protector, or god who had met me in my dream.


VictoriaConfused 23 months ago

Hi Relationshipc!

I am hoping you can give me some insight about a dream that both my fiancé and myself are having. We have had a rocky past 8 years, but I think he would agree that we are doing better than ever. We are basically inseparable, he is my best friend, and an honest man. However, in the dream he is with another woman...and has just stopped loving me. The description of this woman in both our dreams is the same, and we both have no explanation as to why we are not together. In the dream I am also awfully crazy going after him and her trying to do everything in my power to stop it. After I woke up this morning I told him about my dream and he said that this was the 3rd time this week he had the same dream. I would assume that my dream stems from guilt, from our rocky past, and fear of losing him again. (I think! lol) I just don't understand why he has been having this same dream, and multiple times in a week before mine.

Any advice and thoughts you may have will be greatly appreciated! Thank you so much =)


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Victoria - There's two things that come to mind.

First, like you said, the dreams are coming from guilt and fear, and for whatever reason you are connecting to each other...kind of like reading each others minds or being in each others dreams. Whether it is a meeting dream or a meshing dream - it sounds quite plausible. You can learn more about mutual dreaming here: http://www.world-of-lucid-dreaming.com/mutual-drea...

Another thought? Maybe you are both dreaming about a past life. In other words, maybe you and your husband shared a past life together (which is highly possible) and you are reliving it through your dreams. Here's an article on past live dreaming: http://www.healpastlives.com/future/rule/rupdream....

Either way it's super interesting!


Dreamsconfusing 23 months ago

Hey~

I have a boyfriend, he loves me very much. But then, this guy came along and he likes me. I had dreams about this guy...

In my first dream(it seems that I liked him back) , he keeps getting close to me, I kept smiling as he was, and he kept smiling at me too. But then, my boyfriend's friend came along and puts his arms around my shoulder. He realizes that the guy who likes me is hanging out with me. He went away and told my boyfriend. My boyfriend was upset with me.

In my second dream, the guy who likes me came back. This time, it's in school. We had classes together, and he states at me when he has a chance. He puts out his hand as a gesture to hold his hand. I did it anyway.


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@dreamsconfusing - Do you like this other guy? It is okay to be attracted to someone else, but if you don't think so, your feelings of guilt may be affecting you and that is where you dreams are stemming from. Remove the guilt or worry and the dreams will likely disappear.


Auggie 23 months ago

i have been having the same dream for 4 months, i can not get rid of it. It starts with me dancing with a beautiful woman, and she has the golden and brilliant hair. and we dance until she says, "I can't.". then just as she says that a dark entity breaks into the building we are in, throwing me to the side. I see her desperate, so i grab the object near to me; a bow and arrow.

As a fire the arrow it misses, then again and I hit the dark entity. he looks to me, I grab the next two items near to me, a sword and shield( this sword and shield feel as if they are apart of me). I attack the dark force with one blow. Then it fades away. I look to her and we look at the sunset.

I have been having that dream for 4 months now. and after two weeks of the dream I met a woman who looks exactly like the girl in the dream. then the dream faded and came back again, now it will not stop. What does all this mean?


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

Auggie: I really think you are dreaming of a past life with this girl. The fact that you met a woman like her, means that you two have a connection of some sort - or she wouldn't show up in your life. Maybe your job in this life is to protect her again. Time will tell. But I definitely think you have protected her in a past life too.

The dark entity is a symbol for something bad in her life - or possibly both of your lives. She is desperate to get rid of it or not let it near her, and you are the one helping her fade it out of her life.


Crissy 23 months ago

I dreamt about my best friend that me amd him became boyfriend a girlfriens idk what it means but i was completely shocked when i woke up. And now that i see him in school its just weird.


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Crissy - If you are not interested in him that way, it could just be a fantasy dream that is playing out a scenario that has the potential to happen. It doesn't mean it will happen or you are secretly interested in him - your subconscious is just playing it out. Maybe you watched a love story or had dating on your mind, and your best friend just happened to be the guy that played the part in your dream.

If you are interested in him, it is just your subconscious taking a peek at what you two dating would look like.


jacob 23 months ago

I had a dream that I was making out with a short girl that I think I knew what does that mean?


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Jacob - It depends on your situation with her. Maybe you saw her somewhere and you are just randomly inserting her into a dream about making out.

It could also signify a romantic situation with her.

Was it morning, noon, or night? If it was morning, it may signify a new beginning with women in general, not just her. If it was night and dark or gloomy, then it could signify danger ahead with women or a romantic partner.

Also what does a 'short' girl mean to you? Is that attractive to you or unattractive? If it is unattractive, then depending on the atmosphere, it could mean you are heading into a bad relationship or situation soon. If it is attractive, and everything felt good, then it could mean that you are moving into a good relationship or situation soon.

What time of day is it? If it is during the dark it may represent danger or an inappropriate situation. If it's sunny out it may represent good intentions and well meaning.

Whatever meaning resonates as the truth with you is probably the right one.


cecemarie 23 months ago

What does it mean when u keep seeing the persons name everywhere, now that me and him r not talkin anymore.?

I had changed my number and never gave it to him, because I just don't know how to feel about things with him anymore. It's like he gives me excuses like he's been busy, and how he's sorry. But now and before this was happenin, I would see his name places like on movies, news, social media(fb) etc.. I was wondering if that has a meaning to it ?


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Relationshipc 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

Hey cece - Personally, I believe that words and numbers have energy to them, and when we see them repeatedly they are trying to tell us something.

For instance, seeing the number 421 on movies, street signs, etc, has a meaning attached to it based on those numbers. FYI - 421 meaning: http://sacredscribesangelnumbers.blogspot.ca/2011/...

My point is that when you see something over and over again, it becomes something that you need to pay attention to because it is trying to tell you something about your life.

In your case, I think seeing his name over and over again is because he is still a big part of your thoughts, even if he's not a part of your life. You are thinking of his name, and you are drawing that name to you. I think that as time passes, you will start to see less of his name because his energy will not be as connected to you anymore.

I hope that makes sense.


kit 22 months ago

I had a dream about my ex fiancé and we were in this abandoned place where everyone was supposed to be dead but were like ghost and this man tried to force everyone to worship him. I did so I could sabotage him but my ex who looked like himself but had another name refused and the man wrote that he would kill my ex and I became protective and scared for his life and was willing to sacrifice myself for my ex. What does this dream mean?


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@kit - Did you watch Criminal Minds last night, because that sounds similar to the show. If you did, then it's probably just a dream that reflects what you saw - but in your own version.

If not, then it means you are protective of your ex. Maybe you fee responsible for his actions or life direction, or maybe you just feel worried for his actions or life direction. You may not even know it on a conscious level. Try meditating on it to find an answer.


Melissa 22 months ago

My ex boyfriend is dead but I still don't know the real cause since lots of versions I get..so I now had two dreams first one we're in a house double story like the one I'm living in he had both of his feet but put one on a low table and two of myfriends came where we were but looks like they did not recognise him. ..after myfriends his friend and an unrecognised male figure. but soon as the friend who is recognised saw the dead ex he didn't want to come in and returned by the door.


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@ Melissa - Did your ex-boyfriend not have feet? I'm confused as to why that is important to you, but it is something you should consider as you try to interpret your dream.

It's hard to understand you dream, as there is not much punctuation and the words kind of run together without a complete thought. I realize you are just writing what is in your head, but it can be hard for others to understand when it is written like this.

You need to be more descriptive. Was it nighttime? How did you feel? Did your ex say anything? Where did his second foot go? Was it his friend that came in too? Was the friend who recognized him scared?


Mariah 22 months ago

Hello :) ok so there is this guy I like a lot and every time I see him I get nervous, he has a girlfriend so I don't talk to him to let him know how I feel , he works where my mom works , but I keep having so many dreams with him where we are together holding hands and kissing and we are both so happy with each other , my dreams are always similar and when I have those dreams it's not because I thought about him through the day or anything.


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Mariah - You may not be thinking about him during the day, but it sounds like he is someone that you like so he is probably on your mind, even if you are not aware of it. When you have things that take a lot of your energy, like attraction to someone, then they will be a focus point of your dreams. It's just like if you had to start school soon - you may not be thinking about it, but you will dream about it. It's probably just a fantasy dream.


cecemarie33 22 months ago

So today I had took a quick nap, after I came from work. I had a dream while I was alseep.

And like I mentioned it before, it's the guy I was talkin to and his son in the dream. This time the dream was more intense involving emotions, me cryin and him cryin. Him trying to get me to give another chance. And this all took place at a store or gas station. In the beginning its his son callin my name while him and his father is behind me in line, so turned around gave him smile, squatted dwn gave him a lollipop. His son then gave me a kiss on the forehead, then I gave him one on the cheek.. as I was walking out the store he called my name again. I turned, and this time he was in his father's arms, and he said " when am I goin to see u again"? .. and I said to him idk sweetheart, idk how but his dad ened up grabbing my arm when I turned to walk away out the door. But we ended up outside and he was tryin to talk to me but I kept brushin him off, tellin him I have to go, that I'm goin to b late for work. He was come on I know I messes things up with us, and I'm sorry.. he said how he was scared to get close too but he knew he wanted me to be in his life. He said he loved me and wanted me to give him another chance". I told him and broke down cryin saying, if you love then you will show me, instead of telling me. Because I tried to believe you before and you let me dwn.

I just keep having theses reoccurring dreams, and I'm really tryin to understand what it's tryin to tell me


Adriana 22 months ago

I've had a dream w/ the same guy 3 nights in a row, the guy is a family friends husband the first night i dreamed of him it wasn't that weird but after they got more intense What does this mean?


alysha 22 months ago

im trying to work things out with my ex which we have children together and ill be moving a lot more closer to him but i am worried everyday about doing so due to the fact he had been seeing this chick while separated.

Tonight i have had a dream where i was in a house and my ex was standing there he told me he missed me but he wasn't sure if it al work out because the chick he was seeing just told him she might be pregnant i looked at him in disbelief and aak are you serious he said yes and i grab his mobile to ring her and started screaming while a ran out the door in tears i woke up in a panic. what could this mean


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@cece - For the most part, recurring dreams like this happen because of a fear or problem that has not been resolved. They point to a situation - in your case this relationship - that is unresolved in your mind. Your subconscious is demanding that you understand the message of the dream.

If you believe that these dreams are a sign that you were meant to be together, then you will struggle with that as your relationship with him still has a negative emotional aspect to it. You need to overcome that emotional aspect, and figure out what the dream is really trying to tell you. For instance, you obviously want him to show you love - and no matter what he says in the dream, you can't believe him. This may be your struggle with your desire for him but your inability to trust him. If you can't trust him, you can't have a happy relationship, and on some level you know that - so that may be your struggle.

Letting go of the idea of being with him could help you end these dreams. In your dreams you don't want to be with him because you know it's not healthy, but have you decided that in your waking life? If not, it may be time to firmly say, "I can't be with him in this lifetime."

One thing you can do is write down the variations from dream to dream as they may give you insight into what your dream is really trying to tell you. His son seems to be a constant in the dreams, so maybe its him you are holding onto and not your ex.


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Adriana - What does he represent to you? What was your dreams about? I don't know because I don't know what the dreams were about. But, my guess is he has been in your life more, or someone around him has been in your life more - or he represents something you, such as something you want, don't have, or need. It doesn't have to be sexual, it could just be stability, kindness, or something else.


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@alysha - It could mean that you are worried about what is going to happen. Makes a lot of sense considering he was seeing another woman. Most people would have that fear that he would run back to her or have a connection with her in some way. In your dream that connection came out as pregnancy, but that doesn't means she is pregnant. It just means you have a fear that they are connected and he will go back to her.


Adriana 22 months ago

Continued.. The first night I dreamed about him It was at a family gathering and I was laying down he lays down next to me and eventually he lands on top of me ends there and nothing else happens 2nd dream was kissing and hanging out 3rd dream was having sexual intercourse w/ him all 3 dreams were w/ the same guy and 3 nights in a row! I don't know if this is bad I just find it really weird how it's the same guy 3 nights in a row


alysha 22 months ago

how should i interperate the dream now when i just got off the phone with him and his there with her and spent the night at her place


alysha 22 months ago

this what concerns me the most when i dream about pregnancy is that some how i know i dnt know how but if i have a connection with someone then. i dnt know how or y but they come. i had a dream once that a mate was pregnant. n i delivered her baby but something was wrong when i woke up i walked down stairs and told her to go to tge shop n get a per test she was like ur an idiot cause i wont be its just a dream. n then when we got it n she took it it was positive my 2 cuz were pregnant and i dremt one or the other gave birth when i rang to see they hadn't but went into labour that day i am freaking out so bad


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Adriana - I don't think it's a bad thing. It sounds sexual to me. Are you attracted to him? If you are, then you are just playing out sexual fantasies with him - things you wouldn't do in your waking life. Not bad - human!


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Alysha - Oh wow! Well - if you have had consistent results with your pregnancy dreams, then it could be a prophetic dream.

When you go to bed tonight (or tomorrow night if you get this too late) ask for the truth to be revealed in your dreams. Ask that your concerns and fears be pushed aside, and that the truth is revealed so that you can make the best choices for you.

I don't know your situation, and why he is with her still. If I'm wrong, I apologize. Are you back together or are you still separated? It sounds like he thinks you are still separated. You might want to make your true intentions clear and ask him to stop seeing her altogether.


alysha 22 months ago

your right its ok im petrified espically when im pregnant with his baby number 4 he said he wanted to work it out n that he was just friends with her n i know he has slept with her which i can over come but i wont be able to over come if she is pregnant so im stuck at cross roads i guess like i said pregnancy dreams occur when i am truly connected withthat person usually i got to spend a lot of time with them and then the dream comes i just baffled on this dream due to how it is sort of a different expeirence


cece 22 months ago

I had a weird dream i been dreamong about this boy I toldly had a crush on and he rejected me. ( in real life ) i thought i was over him and threw woth him I had to accept the fact I couldn't be with him and that It would never be It was hard for me . I cried and was hurt because i wanted him to give me that chance but he thought I was crazy and toldly rejected me. He said I was not his type and moved on with no problem. He was still single and he started to lie because he didn't want me to keep asking him or have my friends ask him. Now I'm so confused cause it's been muliple times I dream of him and woke up relizing that me and him was in a committed relationship and that we died for each other in a disactor. If I have a dream with him we are together and in love with each other what's wrong with mw why am I dreaming this????????? It has happen more than once and The thoughts makes me wonder do he relized what a lost and want another chance or what's going on.


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@cece - Your dreams stem from you, so I doubt it is about him realizing what he's lost and wanting you back.

Sounds like you were a little obsessed about this guy (maybe you still are) and that is why you are dreaming of him.

The disaster thing could be a past life dream, but because you sound very focused on him - I'm more inclined to tell you that it is just the emotional behind your thoughts about him that is causing the intense dreams.


Pennyforyourthots 22 months ago

Wow, what an interesting hub on dreams! I find it interesting how even different cultures have ways of interpreting dreams. For example, in my culture if one dreams of a family member dying it usually means they are engaged or getting married. Similarly most emotions are interpreted as the opposite in reality. If you dream that someone like a family member or friend is sad or crying, it means that they are really happy. Interesting take on love dreams here.


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Penny - From my experience, emotions in dreams are not the opposite in reality, but that's an interesting take on dreams. In all my years interpreting dreams and researching into dream insights, I've never heard that take.


cece 22 months ago

how can I get over him and and yes it may be that but I'm antisocial so he was only person I walked up to until how I feel so it feel bad to get rejected it just makes me scared not to ever try again I just wonder why is he always in my dreams and is this not occur all the time it sometimes pop up randomly. After two or three weeks I mean I be dreaming a good dream at night and I would say about an hour or two before its time for me to get up I'm dreaming about a relationship with him or being involved with him. A wedding kids etc. :-(


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

Two or three weeks is not a long time in the grand scheme of things. You are really emotional about this guy, so that emotion is going to keep him in your heart - dreams. The only way to move on is to keep moving on. Meet new people (even if you are antisocial, you have to try), do things that don't remind you of him, and let your emotional scars heal. Don't be scared to try again - that's what life is all about.


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Kristen Howe 22 months ago from Northeast Ohio

This is very interesting hub. I had dreams of love and sex in my dreams, though I'm single, throughout the years. What do you think it can mean, since I'm only in my late 30s.


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stargazer90 22 months ago

wow wonderful, insightful hub article! very well done!


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Kristen - I have no idea Kristen. The context of your life and what is happening at the time will have an impact on your dreams. Since I don't know what your life is like, I can't really say what love and sex would represent in your dreams. You can learn how to dissect your dreams here: http://behappytips.com/dreamworld


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Stargazer - Thanks. :)


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Kristen Howe 22 months ago from Northeast Ohio

Thanks Relationshipc. I'll check out that link for some ideas.


Katy 22 months ago

About a year ago this guy and I started talking. In the beginning, it was absolutely amazing. He's texting and calling and wanting to hang out all the time. Then out of nowhere he just stopped. 2 months afterwards I get a random text. "Oh you've had sex with Jake?!" I was shocked. What in the world is going on?! He was telling everyone he had sex with me, apparently trying to make me look like a slut. I confronted him about it and he denied. He was so "comforting" about it, I wanted to believe him. And eventually I did.

Time past and he started showing an interest again and again. Once he got my attention, he stay for a little while then disappear. It was a cycle. Each time he'd tell me how much he really likes me and lead me to thinking there will be a relationship that will come and I'd always fall for it. Kept making excuses in my head for him over and over. Till finally, I had enough.

Christmas came around. He wished me a Merry Christmas and I wished back. Then of course, we slowly started talking this time. But this time it was different. He started talking about family, wanting me to meet them, opening up to me, talking about his friends, telling me stuff he'd never say to anyone, texting me his misses me randomly, finding things that remind him of me. I finally asked why has he never asked me out. He replied, "There's a lot of crap that happens and a lot of crap that's stopping us from being together, but we are going to figure it out, I promise".

He plans a date and I'm super excited. But in the end, he never comes. And that's the last we've ever spoke. This happened about a month prior to my current dreams:

For the past week I keep dreaming of him constantly over and over again. I don't even think about him before bed, yet every night he's there. Every morning I wake up sad. It's just I can't believe he's that kinda guy, I don't want to believe. And for whatever reason, no matter how much I try to move on or think of all the insanely hurtful things he's done to me in the past, I somehow end up still really caring about him. I just feel like there's a reason. And these dreams of mine aren't helping. I dream of our past and potental future over and over again.


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Katy - Thanks for sharing. I have been in your situation before, so I can feel your hurt over what he has done.

The dreams? You answered it yourself. You say you are not thinking about him before bed, but that doesn't mean he is not on your mind. You can't believe that he's that kind of guy - you don't want to believe. So, you dream about him, keep him in your heart, and wait to see if it will work in the future - whether you are consciously admitting it or not.

His line - "There's a lot of crap that happens and a lot of crap that's stopping us from being together, but we are going to figure it out, I promise" - Is a load of crap! That's just his way to keep you there...keep you open to the idea of taking him in.

You need to cut the bond with this guy. You can stop seeing him and stop trying to think about him - but there is still an emotional bond that you have with him. It's keeping you connected together. Think of it like an energy bond that is holding you two together on some level.

Spiritually, many people call it a cord, and the only way to get free of him, stop dreaming about him, and move on, is to cut that cord! :)

Here's an excerpt from a great article on the subject:

"You can also tell if you have a cord if you have a great amount of love, affection, and compassionate feelings for another. Basically, an energy cord is created between two people where an energetic exchange occurred - usually formed by an exchange of emotions or thought forms. - Read more at: http://www.amandalinettemeder.com/blog/xrdmntrg87w... I highly suggest it for you Katy!


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@ cecemarie33 - The linked I suggested above about cutting cords could help you too if you are ready to release him from your life.


Jones 22 months ago

I keep having this dream that I'm making love to my ex/father of my first child. I'm married now and I haven't seen or spoken to my ex/father of my first child since I was 16. I was head over heels of this guy back then. But I have been having the same dream over and over for the past two weeks. I'm always happy in dream. It's always in a dark place and it's just sexual activity and the word love being used a lot! What does this mean??


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Jones - It sounds like you are just celebrating the connection that you have. Chances are, even though you are not connected any more in this physical life, you are still connected spiritually. Sex and love are both very intimate things that happens between two people who have a connection, so that is what it represents to me.

That doesn't mean you are supposed to be together in this life. It just means you have a connection on some level.


Jones 22 months ago

So I'm just having dreams of him because we had a child together?


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Jones - I don't know if you believe in an afterlife, but that is what I was referring to. I think you are connected on a spiritual level and you mean something to each other, something good, in the afterlife. That's the feeling I'm getting from you and your dream. The sexual connection may be a reference to the fact that you had a relationship together here to.

My point is the dream is not a negative thing because it doesn't seem to have a negative meaning to it. I also don't think it is a prophecy dream. Therefore, it is simply about the connection you have.


Rai 22 months ago

So we went camping out on the place, and I brought Krysta, and Cody and Brice and another girl, and two other girls, so we were all hanging having fun and something happened and Krysta suddenly started killing the other girls, while we're sleeping, and I was laying in my bed when she walked in and I didn't notice, and then my friend Jay walked in and asked " what are you doing in here " to Krysta and said oh well and I stood up with a knife and had Jay get behind me and Krysta charged and tried to cut me and I grabbed her and throw her knife down and I said to Jay to run and then Krysta throw me on the ground and started to cut me up and stopped and stared into my eyes and then left and when the police came to get me and help me, I saw her staring at me telling the cops someone attacked us...


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@ Rai - sounds like you don't trust Krysta or possibly you think she has ill intentions for you and your friends.


fiachra 22 months ago

Im deeply inlove with a girl whose name i shall not say for her privacy but last night i dreamt of being with another woman and during the dream i was aware of what was happening but near the end of the dream we were kissing and i was trying to hold myself back and for some reason my dream state took over and wouldn't let me stop it. Please please tell me what this means i feel guilty of dreaming of someone else but idk what to do


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@fiachra - I wouldn't feel guilty about it. It is a dream, not real life.

Did you know the other woman? What does she represent to you? Having sex with someone isn't always about sex. If you know her, she may have some qualties that you wish were in you, and connecting with her intimately is a way to intimately bring them into yourself.

If you have just started dating your girl (you never really said if you are dating or not), and you don't know the woman you slept with, then you may just have some hesitation about being with her, which is not a bad thing - as most of us question a new relationship on some level.

I found it interesting that you said you are deeply in love with a 'girl' but your dreams was with a 'woman'. Do you view the girl you love as childish or not ready for an adult relationship? If so, then sex with a woman could mean that you want something more adult.


fiachra 22 months ago

@relationshipc the girl im inlove with is slightly younger then my collegue who was the girl in my dream and there was no sexual things in there it was just a very intimite kiss which is what i feel most guilty about


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@fiachara - Don't feel guilty, unless you actually have kissed her in real life, there is nothing to feel guilty about.


Lala 22 months ago

I had a dream about my bf that is locked up at the moment but through thick n think I'm there for him. I seen in my dreams and my heart stopped and my body turned all warm with butterflies and and I woke up and it was a dream but it felt so real. What is this meaning?


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Lala - We're you around your boyfriend? Where were you? Did you look at him and THEN your heart stopped? What was happening? You say the dream was about your boyfriend, but it sounds like it was about you not him. You got to be more descriptive Lal. Thanks.


Lala 22 months ago

He is away right now. But he was in my dream last night and when I seen him in my dream I got butterflies and I was warm all around my body and I am just wondering what is the meaning of that dream


Layla 22 months ago

I'm in a relationship and I'm very happy, however I keep having dreams of meeting this guy I know from college and how happy I feel when I meet him in my dreams and then I wake up after the first meeting and I try to get back to sleep to finish the dream but I can't.

I don't know what this means but it would be great if you could help me discover what it means!

Many thanks,

Layla


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Lala - You're not giving me much to go on. I'm assuming you were excited to see him. Maybe you miss him and can't wait until he gets out of jail. If he gives you butterflies and turns you on, then it's probably a good assumption.


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Layla - I love that you try to get back into the dream. I've done that many times! Because you feel happy in the dream, it probably means that you are - well, happy! You're feeling good and you know it. The guy from college is probably just a symbol of something good to you. He could represent happy relationships, happy job successes, or anything else. When you are feeling good, you tend to dream about good things. When you are feeling bad, you tend to dream about bad things.


duh 22 months ago

So i had been dating this guy for two years but after a year he started acting weird..he would be very loving sometimes and then he would only pic my kolz when he felt like at times he wouldn't want to hear any complaints n i stopped..once i told him am breaking up with him and he begged we got bak...after a few months i couldn't put up with him coz on the while he not calling me he calls this chic several times per day amd he denied when i asked him so i decided we break up..he apologised several times and i felt really sorry for him but i decided am moving on..

But av had like three dreams, two of him moving on with other chics and i wake up feeling hurt..

This morning i dreamt we migrated from our country to the neighbouring and when i arrived he was some kind of a high ranking official in the military but then i found out it was the day he was getting married

He was marrying not coz he was over me but coz he was pushed to or something ..the girl wasn't even as beautiful as me and they were passing by, he saw me and there was a pang of guilt in his face ..

He would stop the wedding if he could i just looked at him and walked away..

Had a problem at our section so i decided i call him ,,he picked up and he was wishing i say something but i didn't, he said the hello so tenderly so expecting

Next day he sent people to bring all my luggage but one he left in his room

When he did that i felt so hurt i could cry..

I don't know how it happened but i realized later the bag he remained with was in my room and the door to my room would shut but not lock..

The idea of him being with other girls in the dream makes me feel awful

But i have moved on and in real life i wouldn't even flinch if i saw him with other women by now

What does that mean?


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@ Duh - I think your ego is contemplating what it would be like for him to move on. You think the other girl isn't as beautiful as you, which is a very egotistical thing to say.

The whole dream depicts you being hurt that he is moving on - your ego being hurt. You say that you have moved on, but there may be a part of your ego, that you are not aware of, that is a little hurt that he could find another woman who makes him happier than you did - or a woman that he makes happier than he did you. It's human nature to be a little hurt.

If you don't know what I mean by ego, this article explains it pretty good: http://behappytips.com/look-egotistical/


JeffGd 22 months ago

@Relationshipc - I had these dreams of my ex girlfriend for many years where in the dream she would be there with me and somehow she would always vanish. It was like one moment she was there and next she is not. I would try to find her but I couldn't or I would try to call her and somehow the phone wouldn't work.

After a while I became aware this would happen every time I had a dream of her so in my dream I knew it was going to happen and I would try to prevent it by always trying to keep her by my side but each time the dream still found a way to make her disappear.

We didn't ended our relationship on good terms in real life and I hadn't seen or talk to her in years. Recently we got back in touch with each other and I never spoke to her about the dreams but I did let her know I felt bad about the way we parted our relationship and I wanted to apologize for it.

Those dreams of my ex have now begun to cease but she still pops up from time to time. But my problem is even more recently another girl I had a crush on in my past has re- entered my life and we've gone on a few dates. I really like her but she is relocating to a different state very soon to pursue a new career. Anyway last night I had a dream of this girl and in it she did the disappearing act too.

It was the first time I had ever had a dream of her and it really shocked me it was exactly like the ones I would have about my ex.

I can just see this beginning to be a regular thing now since that's how it was for my ex and I don't want this to be true. Is there anything I can do so it doesn't go on for years like the dreams I had for my ex? These dreams leave me so weak inside ever time I awake from them.


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Jeff - That's an interesting dream theme you have going on. You shouldn't be upset by it. Your subconscious has an interesting way of sending a message to you. Most people don't get such a clear message.

The disappearing act signifies something that you feel you need is life is not there or keeps vanishing. It may not be the two women specifically. In fact, it probably isn't about the women. It's more likely about a connection to someone or a special bond with someone.

The dreams leave you weak, which is exactly what loneliness, fear, or a feeling of disconnect will do. Therefore, you have to figure out which negative feeling the 'disappearing act' signifies and try to overcome it. For example, if you are lonely, then find a way to feel less alone by connecting with other people more or making being by yourself a good thing. Once you conquer the emotion that the disappearing act represents, you wills top having this dreams.

But, if they appear again, you will know that your subconscious is telling you that you once again feel something is lacking in your life.


xoxo london 22 months ago

i dream i forgot who my wife was when im with her. i keep trying to think how's my wife looks like and who she was. all at the same time when im with her...such a weird dream.


Mel H 22 months ago

There's this whole situation where me and this guy first saw each other and we both could tell we got an automatic feeling of we finally met almost as if "again" but a comfortable feeling and strong vibes radiating off of each other... So I know he thought I was beautiful and he wanted to know me and I'm usually coy but it was automatic I wanted to know him as well and build the tension between us, he asked to meet me all the time and I'd shy away and make up an excuse all the time the first year I met him. Also we both felt enough comfort to vent to each other and soon enough he developed intense feelings for me, and I knew I was in denial but I had this feeling where it was not the time to be with him, so he would tell me he needed to stop talking to me because he wanted to lessen his feelings for me. So a few weeks we were back to the same thing him shunning me, it took place again for at least 4 months and then the next school year came, I had made new friends and I even started being stuck up and rediculous like her and her sister but then me and the guy I'm talking about must have missed each other subconsciously because it was almost a natural reaction to just have no questions and just be friends and this time we developed this friend group and we were all so close that we craved each others presence intensely, but the thing was that me and him were actually meeting up and even individually for smokes, talks, coffees, and skipping class together and again he always let me know his feelings that he wanted to be with me and he was in love with me he even had one favorited message from me he saved (he wasn't the one to show me our mutually best friend did) and he always told me I was hypnotizingly beautiful, I got it a lot from people at my school. But I was never able to tell him that I even could have liked him back when I knew I did but again still in denial our intense eye gazing, arm linking, inseprepable friendship continued 2 years with a few months in total bumps in the road if you could guess why again lol.. but my feelings were always growing stronger until I knew them for sure and finally told him in an indirectly way, Then now as it stands he has a girlfriend and a baby and I have a boyfriend I'm not always happy with and I'm constantly thinking about the guy I had that friendship with, but we haven't seen or talked in 4 months off and on before that and but I've been dreaming about him time to time. My dream 2 nights ago was he was off the radar and I needed to find him and I'm good at sleuthing so I found him in my old elementary school that was turned into an apartment building(in my dream) he was deliberately trying not to be found by anyone other than the guy he was staying with that I never seen before and he was happy and said "how did you find me?" And it was extremely lucid it was almost like the feeling when I first met him.. And I've always loved that warm in love with me smile he would do. There's times where I block the thought of him out but then there's the times like now I allow myself to fall back into this because I feel attached to him and he's not been around and he has his girlfriend that he knew 3 months that he got pregnant, I just even wanted to be there and meet his girlfriend and baby and make it a mature settled situation but she seems insecure and my guess is she does not want him in my life and the guy I'm currently dating don't get me wrong, I have feelings with him but I think it's the fact he's always here for me and I don't have many friends at all anymore and I know that I need to move on from the guy I've been dreaming about because he has a baby with the girl he's with so that's not just anything it's a family. Who knows maybe in the future I won't lead him on and ill he honest and we can be together if its right, I'm still very young.


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Relationshipc 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Mel - Sounds like you two have a connection. Even when he's hiding, he's happy to see you. You are right, maybe you will have something in the future when you both mature and work on any life issues that are holding you apart.


Komal 21 months ago

Hi, actually I have some problems with my fiancé form very long time, last night I dreamt that he came to me and marry me and gave me four different type of jewlery everyone is happy to see that then I woke and on the same night my mum saw that my fiancé ask me to marry him and I am very happy in my dream that's what my mum saw.


khadija 21 months ago

my mother dreamt that my crush loved me back, idk


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

Sorry Komal. It's very hard to understand what you are asking as there is no punctuation and I'm not sure if your mom also had a dream, if your fiance asked you to marry you in real life, or if your mom was happy in your dream.

However, because you have been having problems, it may just be a dream reflecting what you wish would happen.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@khardija - Your mother's dreams reflect her wishes, desires, problems, fears, etc. So, she probably just wants you to be happy, and she knows that your crush liking you back is what would make you happy. Hence the dream. :)


Komal 21 months ago

Thanx a lot


kenneshnesh27 21 months ago

I've been having reoccurring dreams they're all different though.

first off I will say what my real life is like so

*my ex first boyfriend was nothing but a drug addict

Broke up due to distance and my mom tried to get with him

*my second ex treated me ok. He was atheist but ended up cheating on me with his "dream girl look-a-like" best friends. I got suspicious when he went to a church retreat with her and his mom had a cook out and he left without saying goodbye to me but said it to everyone else. I broke up with him because of that

*my ex third boyfriend was an abuser emotionally and physically we broke up because he found a new girl claiming i was clingy but still told me he loved me and now has a kid with this girl

and now

*fourth boyfriend that I still am with now.

MY CURRENT bf he treats me amazinghe's always there for me he loves me we live together now he has cheated in the past on his ex girlfriend

I've never cheated a day in my life on anybody. Ive always been the girl who gets cheated on.

my dreams have been showing that my current boyfriend cheats on me with one time it was Taylor Swift one time it was his ex girlfriend and this last time that I had last night he cheated on me with my best friend.

I invite them people over (Taylor Swift , his ex girlfriend and my best friend) to our place and I end up leaving them alone to go get some sodas or something and i come back and my current boyfriend in my dream was naked next to her (whoever the person was at that time) and then I get really upset and I ended up beating the crap out of the the girls and killing them and one of my ex's show up and would take me away and be supportive and nice and funny thing everything's going to be okay but they haven't even done that in my real life in the past.

Last nights dream was my best friend sleeping with my current man and my cousin warning me not to leave my friend alone with my boyfriend because my friend would seduce him to having sex with her. But i left anyway and when i came back he was breathing heavy and in his boxers and my friends was in her bra and underwear looking pleased. I dropped all the things i was carrying and jumped on my friends punching her and then finally slitting her throat then i turned to my boyfriend and asked him why would he do that to me and asked his why he would want to hurt me.then i walked toward the door and opened it and there stood my first ex and he asked are you ok, let's take a ride and we would talk about everything.he told me everything is going to be ok and he would take care of me and would take care of everything. Meanwhile my current bf would be calling and blowing up my phone.

This dream occurs at least twice a month.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@kenneshnesh27 - My bet is that you have a lot of trust issues and that is what is playing out in your dreams. So, Taylor Swift probably represents someone pretty awesome to you, his ex-girlfriend was someone he once had feelings for, and your best friend is someone you don't want him to have feelings for. It makes sense that they would be the girls you are scared of him cheating on you with - and that they would appear in your dreams.

Work on your trust issues with your new guy and your bad dreams about him cheating will probably disappear.

And please don't think about going back to a jerk ex. Give this new guy the benefit of the doubt unless he proves you otherwise. Life is a lot more fun that way.


Pam Grey 21 months ago

Hi i hope you can help me with this one. I had this dream last night that i slept with the man from my past (my first love but we didn't have a formal relationship and the last time i saw him was 7 to 8 years ago). We don't have any contacts aside from fb and his gf now is a friend of mine. Then in my dream we slept together and the girl posted that i'm a relationship wrecker. I'm kinda guilty because of what happened. I'm now happy with my current relationship. What could this mean? thank you


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@pam - It could indicate that you are feeling disloyal in your current relationship or maybe even to your friend. It doesn't have to be in a sexual way - maybe you told a small lie and you are feeling the guilt. Or, maybe you didn't something that you feel guilty about.

The fact that it manifested as something big (like cheating with this guy) doesn't mean that the lie had to be big. Your subconscious just played it out that way to get your attention.

It could also mean you feel like you are lacking sexually.


cecemarie33 21 months ago

I had the weirdest dream lastnight, in the dream was a light skin guy with green eyes and hair... That i was together with in the dream.. And whats makes this weird is that my friends just got hired at this job today.. When she came bac she was telling about her handsome boss who has green eyes and hair ..


dreams 21 months ago

I just dreamed that i was at school and it was a break, so i went to the bathroom and met a friend of mine, and she told me "i know that you and Viktor (the guy in my class im dating) are dating or something, why don't you just ptove to everybody you are together. Then i said "no one knows about us it will be a shocker" and then she told me "that way you can stop rumors about you two" by the time we went out everyone was outside the classroom even the teachers. Then she whispers to me "i dare you to kiss him infront of everyone" he was standing with a lot of friends so i went to the circle of people and kissed him, but he bit himself on the tongue or lips so he began to bleed, everyone was in shock so i took him to the bathroom and he was kind of angry.

Can you please help me?


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@cece - oooooohhhhhh - keep me posted to whether something works out.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@dreams - Sounds like you might be nervous or unsure about what people think about your relationship with Viktor - or unsure about what Viktor thinks about what people think about you - like does he want others to know, is he embarrassed, or whatever.

The thing to remember is that it doesn't matter what other people think...it's your life, your relationship, and your happiness.


kenneshnesh27 21 months ago

Omg your spot on. I do have allot of trust issues. But i really dislike taylor swift haha but that makes allot of sense thank you


Patricia 21 months ago

I need help please. I dreamt that i was with my classmates and they had food and we ate together and they decided to camp at my house and later i went to my friend house but i fell down the stairs and when i went up my friend grandmom said congratulations and i hope he doesnt hurt u again and i said yea he wouldnt.

Can you pls help me enterprate this dream?


Patricia 21 months ago

The congratulations part was when i notice i was engaged.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Patricia - It's hard to tell what that dream means without context of what your classmates, food, spending the night, and your friend's grandmom means to you. But I used my tarot cards to come up with an answer - see if it makes sense to you.

Your family life is strong, secure, and peaceful. This means that your relatives, whether they be blood or chosen (friends) are who you draw a lot of comfort from and you are aware that you are extremely blessed with all them.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Patricia - I saw this comment after I gave you the thing, and the card I drew makes even more sense now. It is about abundance and lasting success. Your family and friends want the best for you, and it seems as though it may be coming.


cecemarie33 21 months ago

What i wrote about the guy with green eyes and hair and how my friend just got a job.. And she came back that same day and told me about how handsome her boss is and how he has green eyes and hair.. What could that mean? Because that he so weird


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@cece - It sounds like a pretty big coincidence, right? It probably means that he is going to be in your life. That's why I said keep me posted! :)


artsyxasha 21 months ago

Hello! Interesting that you posted this. I was wondering if you could help me interpret my dream I had the other night. So I'm in love with my best guy friend who I think is actually my twin flame. Numerology and everything adds up, we even have a 9 year age difference. and I rarely dream, but when I do, it's about him and normally the dreams come true or are true/important info to tell me. He knows I'm in love with him and he said he won't be with me because of fear. Well one of his other best girl friends that he's claimed he has been in love with for a few years now, because she is his oldest friend, was in my dream recording a video of him and she said "I love you" to him, but he didn't say it back, nor really reacted to it, he seemed to not care. I know he doesn't express emotions but he has with me more than her and he has this huge fear of losing me. I wasn't sure if the dream meant he may be finally over her and isn't in love with her anymore or what. I know she has a boyfriend and never felt the same way for him, she did say she "sorta" liked him before but it was 3 years ago. Any help would be appreciated :) thank you!


maria gutierrez 21 months ago

I had a dream of my ex boyfriend. We were in mexico, this is a happy place for me, and we decided to give us another try but he was dating someone (this is his current girlfriend). We kissed a lot in the dream, and I felt so happy. It made me miss him when I woke up. Also, I wanted the dream to be real. Can you tell me what this means? Please help :)


Patricia 21 months ago

Tnx Relationshipc


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Art - I strongly feel that you are just dreaming about what you want to happen. I feel like there is more going on than meets the eye with him (stuff he's not telling you about this other woman or why he won't be with you), and you may be sensing that on some level - but wishing that the opposite were true...and that is what manifested in your dreams.

If you are waiting for this guy, I would have to say the timing is very poor. It feels like if you got into a romantic relationship with him, it would go downhill fast and you could lose him forever.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@maria - You answered it yourself. You want the dream to be real. You want to be happy with him, be in a happy place, and have a good relationship with him. That doesn't mean that you will get into a happy relationship though.


maria gutierrez 21 months ago

Thank you so much! Now I just have to figure out if I want to let him know about the way I feel.


artsyxasha 21 months ago

Thank you! It sounds right and makes sense!


Love 21 months ago

I dreamt about my ex boyfriend. He was my first everything but that was when i was in Liberia. Now im in the states. He was with me in my room and we were talking. After that we went in the bathroom and we were sitting on the floor and i could see his whole private part. He started flirting with me and i yelled at him and told him to stop and then i notice that my lil brother was at the door spying n i got mad why he should spy on me and i woke up.


Danielle 21 months ago

I dream i was with my graduating class and then they were chanting over me and then i try to fight back and then i woke up


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@love - sounds like you might be seeing something you shouldn't or feel guilt about something in your life. The ex boyfriend is probably just a symbol of comfort, and the weirdness around it means that something is affecting your comfort level.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Danielle - What were they chanting? Were they being physical with you? Why did you have to fight back?


Danielle 21 months ago

It was like an evil chant thats why i fought back.


Paige 21 months ago

I had a dream that a team of about 5 men came into my house and killed my whole family while I was upstairs, they then found me but wouldent kill me, they wanted me to kill myself by strangling myself, I just wouldent die, one of the men tried to suffocate me and it also didn't kill me.

I woke up at 5 am and was to scared to fall back to sleep.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Danielle - It would be interesting if you could remember what they were saying, but it doesn't really matter. If it was negative, then you have some sort of fear or worry around graduating. If you are in high school, you could be fearful about the future ahead of you. If you are in college, you could be fearful about your classmates doing better than you. The point is there is likely a fear there. The good news is you are fighting back, so you are probably going to move forward through your fear and come out OK.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Paige - I know it was a scary dream, but the fact that you wouldn't die shows you have strength inside of you. You may be moving into a situation that would take other people down - mentally, physically, emotionally - but not you. You are going to keep going no matter what it or they do to you.


Melina 21 months ago

I had a dream that when I was at school my friend asked me out and I said yes, and we were hanging out a lot, and just being amazing to each other. What does my dream mean??


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Melina - It could mean a lot of things. For example, it could just be a reflection of your desire to date your friend. Or, it just could be your desire to have that kind of relationship, if you are lacking that kind of amazing relationship. It could also mean that school is turning out pretty good for you, or it could mean that things will get better, and more amazing, at school.


nicole 21 months ago

I had a dream I was sitting in a car with my friends brother. And my best (guy) friend drove by. And we made eye contact and my heart dropped and I just had a certain feeling in me. A feeling of missing him being around (my fiance bans us from being friends and he is totally against us being friends with him I'm trying for all of us to be civil together) but that dosent happen. Everytime it ends in a fight. But back to the dream, we made eye contact and I got knots in my stomach and his brother stared at me this whole.time and then said after he drove by "I can tell what your thinking just by looking at you" &.it felt like I loved him but I wasn't sure. But obviously he knew. And then it hopped over to I was in a car with said best friend and we were catching up and talking and I got the feeling I was talking to myself what on earth does this mean


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@nicole - It doesn't have to mean that you love him romantically (only you know that for sure), but obviously your subconscious is missing him and the love you have for him as a friend. The talking to yourself part just shows that you feel a strong connection with him, as you do with yourself.

I'm assuming that you are going to get married, and you will have to let this guy friend go out of your life for the sake of your relationship; however, he is obviously an important part of your life. I'm assuming you will have dreams like this for a while as you deal with letting him go.


Kayla Holmes 21 months ago

So I just started talking with this guy. I really feel like he likes me and I like him too...like a lot and I could really see myself with him..we connect really well and I feel like He's my best friend so a week after us talking I had a dream he went on a date with one of my friends...I was at the restaurant befor they got there and I wasn't jealous in the dream more so nervous like I didn't want him to see me...I didn't get the vibe that my friend was trying to take him away from me, but i got this confident almost cocky give from him when I saw im him in the restaurant in the dream. I don't get what this means. And if it makes any difference I like cocky/ confident guys lol...he also saw me in the restaurant and im pretty sure he knew who I was but never said anything to me or acknowledged me


Kayla Holmes 21 months ago

Also I told him about the dream and his words were "that's lame...you should've lied and came up with a better dream" also he always talks about meeting up with me and wanting to see me but im so scared to...I've never dated and I'm pretty socially awkward..and shy...he knows all of this though and accepts it. I don't want to lose him cause I really like him and he likes me too..he's said it anyway. Like when I was thinking about us one day I started crying.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Kayla - I feel it's just a dream playing out your feelings for him, nothing more. As you said, you didn't get a sense that your friend was trying to take him away, and you sensed that he was playing a confident role in the dream (which you like) - so the dream was just reassuring that you like him (in case, you weren't totally aware of that). :) Him not saying anything fits in with the cocky vibe.

It could also be a dream derived from your fears. Maybe deep down you are a little worried he will 'play' you on some level. However, from what you say, it sounds more like you were just reaffirming that you like him, he has some charming qualities, and he is someone you want to get to know better.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Kayla - He does sound confident in a cocky way! Just make sure he's not too cocky, because when a guy crosses that line from confidence to cocky, he could end up hurting you emotionally. If he's cocky, he will put you and other people down to make himself feel better and act like he is the king of the world. A confident guy knows he a catch, but has some compassion and humbleness to him too.

Anywase, move past your fear. Everything you want is on the other side of fear! Trust me, if you don't just go for it, you WILL regret it down the line.


Tiffany 21 months ago

Okay, I had one of those cheesy love dreams where the guy I supposedly loved was leaving the country, but through a surprising turn of events my friend was able to get him back and they stood at my door. What surprised me was my actions; I leapt into his arms and started crying, but I feel that that's not how I act in real life. I'm not that affectionate, and I haven't been in love, but it's because I haven't been in love that I can't predict how I WOULD act in this situation. Did the dream just show how I would reall act if the scene was played out in real life, or is there more substance to it...? Thanks!


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Tiffany - It is probably not a reflection of how you would act in real life.

There are a few reasons you may have dreamed this.

1. You saw this kind of behavior in a movie or show or maybe in real life and you are just acting in out in a dream with you as the star.

2. You are passionate about finding real love, and your dream just reflected that passion.

3. You want to be more affectionate with the people in your life, and the dream was just an exaggeration to show you that fact. This is an interesting interpretation because you seem to be contemplating the affectionate side of the dream.

It could also be a combination of all of the above. Whichever one resonates as the truth to you is your answer.


brittany 21 months ago

I been having this dream that my husband is cheatin on me with his ex wife its often it could be trust issues but it feels so real when we seperated before we even got married they slept together he said it wasnt nothin he was just horney but when we got back togethee i knew something so he finally told me but we got married work through things and now im a soon to be mother but then the dreams started coming in since im pregnant. I dream of my ex its like i cant get him out of my head when im dreaming. Then him and his ex wife is there i catch him cheating and then i see this child that i im haveing problems delivering and i look at my husband and he is holdin my hand i tell him i love him and he replies i love you then i see nothing its like i died but im waking up its like an every night dream and im so confused what does it mean


Brittany0910 21 months ago

The one above is mine i just created an account


Tia229 21 months ago

I had a dream last night that I had two children, it was probably like a 4 yr old boy & 2 yr old girl (I don't have any kids) and I was watching them by myself & the little boy wouldn't listen to me & for some reason I didn't have the Dad's phone number. I asked the 4 yr old if he had his Dad's Cell Phone number in his cell phone (super strange that a 4 yr old had a cell phone, I know) and he did so I called the Dad from the 4 yr old's cell phone to tell him that the little boy wasn't listening to me. He said he was in a town (it was a town around where I live, I knew the town but now that I'm awake I 'm not 100% sure what town it was but I have a few ideas) and that he would come there, I told him he didn't have to and we got off the phone. A short while later he showed up, he was drop dead gorgeous & so nice to me. He kissed me on the forehead & then helped with the kids. I just remember him being so calm & so nice. Then I'm not sure where he went but I was talking to him again on the phone & I said "bye" and he said "bye, I love you." and I said "I love you too" and that was the dream. Why would I be dreaming about children I don't have and a man that I don't know? It has had me confused all day - I would love your input. Thank you so much!!


Sarah 21 months ago

Hello, recently i had a dream about two people who really love each other but they couldn't find their way towards each other ( they're two random people i haven't seen nor looked familiar ) but in the dream it felt real, like i was able to feel/see their love towards each other. but for some reason it just doesnt work out between them..


stlBluesgirl 21 months ago

A few days ago i had a dream About a guy that I don't ever remember seeing in my waking life. I can't recall exact facial features etc but there are features i do recall like build hair color etc. It was a simple dream we basically were just going to get Chinese food, but the feelings i had during the dream and waking up were of comfort bliss and love. And in my dream I felt like he was the one. I've never really seriously dated anyone so I'm not super comfortable with it but i wasn't sure if this was maybe a sign that i am becoming more comfortable with the thought?


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Brittany - You say your dreaming of your ex too. That may be why you are dreaming of him and his ex - you feel guilty on some level of thinking so much about your ex.

So guilt could be a reason.

Trust could be a reason.

Repetitive dreams reflect an issue that needs to be worked on. It's like your subconscious shows the problem repeatedly until you find a way to work through it.

Plus, I'm not a pregnancy expert, but your hormones are likely doing a little dance right now, and that could play a part in the emotional aspect.

Just have faith in your husband, your future, and yourself. Visualize yourself happy and secure in your relationship. Focus on the good and let go of any worry or other negative emotions. Chances are those dreams will fade away.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Brittany - Okay, welcome to HubPages. :)


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Tia - That's quite a dream!

It could just be a reflection of something you saw (or a combination of things you've seen) in real life or in movies. Sort of like your own movie that you are playing out.

It could also be a reflection of your desires. A good man, some good kids, etc.

Try going to bed tonight and ask what the dream was about. Let your subconscious know that you would really like an answer, and then pay attention to your dreams to see what comes up.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Sarah - You sound like a good storyteller. That sounds like the story of love that has been played out in many great plays and movies. It may just be a story that your subconscious made up.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@st - When I was young, I had a dream and felt the comfort and love from the man I was with. I didn't see his face either, but I saw his body and felt his specific presence. Now, I'm married to him.

Your dream could be prophetic, but the fact that you think that this is a sign that you are becoming more comfortable with dating makes that theory the most likely. Trust your first instinct because it knows.


Tia229 21 months ago

@Relationshipc Thank you so much! Do you have any advice for how I would ask my subconscious that? And then remembering my dreams? I'm new to this.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Tia - As you start to get into a more alpha state (the state you are in when you are daydreaming), start to ask yourself a question. Be specific with it. For instance, "Who was that guy in my dream?" or "Why did I dream about watching children I didn't know?" Just pick the most important question you have about the dream, and concentrate on that question as you go to bed. By doing this, you are planting the thought in your mind and are likely to dream about it. If at any point you wake up and think you remembered something, write it down. Have a pen and paper handy, because you may not remember it in the morning.

It is like watching a scary movie before bed. The scenes that stand out in your mind are likely to turn up in your dreams in some way. But instead of randomly seeing scary crap, you are asking a question that your subconscious knows.

Here's a more detailed explanation of how to do it. :) - http://healing.about.com/od/dreamexplorations/a/fo...


tir 21 months ago

Hello, I found this hub to be pretty interesting and wanted to hear your take on my dream earlier this afternoon. So, in my dream I bumped into one of my high school bullies and I pretty much unloaded myself on him saying how he ruined my Life. He looked guilty as I said all of this, and it jumps to the next scene where he looked emotional and his other friends seemed to have gotten wind of the situation. Anyway, another bully started talking to me, invited me to a bar he works at and apologised I think, but he made it seem as if it was a offhanded gesture kind of thing. He passes me a drink which I realise later on is spiked; I've never done drugs but the heart palpitations and massive headaches made the pain feel so real. It felt as if I was going to die! I don't know, it seemed like the dream was a way of telling me that standing up to myself to the likes of those possibly tied to gangsters is a huge mistake...


nka 21 months ago

hello, I a had a dream about this boy I knew from primary school, and we were having a party somewhere with other people, he asked me to dance with him and I said yea ok then we dance to Bruno mars song, then as we dance, he kissed me and I woke up being in love... I keep having different dreams about him. what does this mean?


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@tir - I think you interpreted it right. Especially if you are talking about guys in a gang.

If you have other bullies in your life, like a boss or coworker or even a family member, the dream may mean that standing up for yourself is good because you obviously have an effect on them and how they treat you, but then putting your trust in someone who is a bully is not a good idea as bad things can happen.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@nka - It means you probably have some sort of romantic feelings for him, or for someone else in your life, but for some reason he is the star of your love dreams. It means that you got boys on the mind!


stlBluesgirl 21 months ago

Thanks for the response. May I ask how long after the dream you met your husband?


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@stl - 10 years. I had the dream when I was 15 - a time when I was very intuitive. I met him at work when I was 25!


fiesty1227 21 months ago

I had a dream my fiance had a baby with someone else I have 2 kids and in my dream I left him and he was begging for me backn... it was horrible I woke up upset lol whay does this mean?


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@fiesty - There are a few possibilities.

If you are not having too many problems in the relationship, or just a few bumps here and there, it could mean that you are having some sort of trust issue with your fiance. It doesn't have to be about cheating or anything like that. If you are suspicious of him in any way, that could translate into a dream where your fiance did something wrong and needs to beg for your forgiveness.

If he has cheated on you in the past, then it could just be a fear that you have lingering around in your mind.

It may also be a fear or trust issue going on somewhere else in your life that caused the dream to happen. For instance, it could be something like you don't trust your co-worker or fear that you are going to fail again (just examples), and for some reason the dream played out with your fiance. Likely because he is so close to you and the pain would feel the most real in the dream, which is what you needed to feel to realize there is a fear or trust issue going on in your life.

If you are not sure what the issue is, meditate on it. Ask your subconscious to clearly show you the issue and hold that intent in your head as you go about your day. It will become clear soon enough.


Lee Mel 21 months ago

Ive had dreams where i'm with a guy? (I cant see his face, its a blur) and its in random places, like one i remember it was at a school? And he carried me

Over a puddle and it felt like an amazing relationship i loved how

It felt...not too long ago i had a dream with a guy and we were just laying on a bed and i felt him just hold

My hands and again it felt amazing and lovely.. It bothers me because i cant see his face!! &i loved how romantic and sweet it felt. Why cant i see his face?


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Lee - The guy in your dreams is a positive thing. He is a gentleman who carries you over puddles and holds your hand. He is romantic. Right? There are a few things that are most likely.

First, he may be a reflection of yourself. Because he has no face, you may be trying to deal with issues that are a part of yourself that you are not really familiar with. For instance, have you had a loving relationship with someone like that? If not, you may be testing it out to see how it feels in your dream. In short, you may be testing out your romantic and loving side to see how it feels...and it seems to feel good.

If you are showing him affection too, which you didn't say in your dream, then you could be embracing your romantic needs. Reaching out to them - so to speak. Ready to head into love!

You could also be crushing on someone and be in a loving kind of mood, which would result in a loving kind of dream - even with a guy without a face. You may just not want to put 'his' face there yet.

And, like I said above, I had a dream about a man who was loving with me when I was 15. I remembered all the details of how I felt, and 10 years later I met that man. How do I know? I had never felt like I did in that dream until I was with him. So, it could be prophetic. But, take a look at the above suggestions and see if they fit first.


Lubna 21 months ago

I sometimes use to see my boyfriend in my dreams whom I've never met.. We kissed in dreams too.. When I used to tell him he just laugh and tease me up. Is it like he miss me that's y I used to see him in my dreams?? Please tell me.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Lubna - I'm having a hard time understanding what you are asking.

You said you dreamt of a boyfriend you never met but then you told 'him' about it? Did you meet or not? Did you date?

Then it sounds like you are talking about an ex-boyfriend at the end?


Lubna 21 months ago

It is a long distance relationship.. Its been more than a year and we have never met. We did sex chats ofcourse.. I seriously crave to meet him but due to some issues he can't come now.. And I miss him. So I used to get dream about him like meeting him kissing him?? I heard the person we see in our dreams actually miss us ?? Is it true?? And that's what I am asking in my previous comments.


Lovelyladii 21 months ago

I have been on the verge of ending my relationship with my boyfriend and I have made him aware of this. Just recently I had a dream that he committed suicide (I didn't witness this act) I was told the day it was done. While discussing this in the dream a friend of ours told me that he only wanted to be with you. Now, that same day my cousin also committed suicide (in the dream ) I didn't witness that either. Normally when I dream of death they come true but I either see them dying or witness the shooting and it's never the person in the dream that dies in real life. I'm confused as to why it was a double suicide and what is my dream trying to tell me about my relationship? Is my cousin in danger?


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Lubna - Oh, I see why you have never met.

Personally, I believe that your dreams are about your wishes, desires, intents, problems, ect., not someone else's. So dreaming about him kissing you is likely just because you want to meet him, be physical with him, touch him, and kiss.

I know what you are saying about missing. The saying is when you dream about someone, they are thinking about you. And that could be true. You could be connected to him while you are dreaming. But I think it's much more likely you are just playing out your desires in your dream.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Lovely - Probably not.

Suicide is a symbol of ending something yourself. So, because you are on the verge of ending your relationship - suicide would be a likely symbol to play out in your dream.

I'm not sure how your cousin would play in. Maybe you are considering changing your relationship with them too, or maybe it is just driving the point home that something in your life is ending, done, finito!


laney 21 months ago

I don't have dreams about the man i am with. I have had dreams about all my past relationships. This is odd. I will have a dream and the events come true word for word. All but one thing in the dream..... That is only reviled in the true events. But i don't dream of him what is wrong


Matt 21 months ago

Hello, recently I had a dream I was with my friend in a car it was dark but could still see. I've had feelings for her for some while now but she's known for a while now too but we still continue to be friends. In the dream she told me she slept with an old past friend that me and this certain person aren't on good terms anymore. He never wanted anything with her but my female friend in the dream really liked him for a while.

Does this mean what I think?


Lubna 21 months ago

Well i guess you are right. i want to meet him, n like every relationship i want to be physical with him that's also because he wants that.. and i want to fulfill every of his desires regarding anything i love him ofcourse. So thankyou :) i got my answers.


Brittany 21 months ago

Las night i dreamed that 4 men broke into mine and my husband home bt he was at work and i started to run because they was trying to kill me bt then i was jumping off a cliff before i hit tge bottom i woke up crying as i fell back to sleep i dreamed of fallin off the cliff and yet again before i hit bottom i woke up crying my husband started to worry after the third time bt the last time i was standing over myself at my own funneral and vefore i entered my body i woke up screamin sayin no after that i was awake and i couldnt fall back to sleep what does that mean gunneral


Marie100 21 months ago

Can you please help me with my dream? I dreamt of a celebrity, but in my dream he wasn't considered a celebrity if this makes sense. I was standing in a line waiting, and the next thing you know he come walking up laughing and joking with other ppl. He and I smiled, and I turned back around. All of a sudden he comes behind me and embracing me and whispers a poem in my ear. I loved it so much I turned to face him and he fell in love with me. My mom was over on a bench waiting, and I didn't care if she watched me feeling mushy. Then he walked me to my class and left. Then the dream went on. I woke up feeling so in love for this actor, that I have never had feelings for. I am married with children. What does this mean? Thankyou


Beauty&Brains 21 months ago

Can you provide some clarity to my dream? I had a dream that a male friend of mine that I am truly in love proposed to me. We have been friends for over 10 years and 2 years ago we decided to date briefly. I shared my feelings and things were going well after that however he was trying to get over some ex girlfriend issues. 2 months later we had no additional contact. He reached back out at the beginning of the year after almost a year and half of no contact. He shared a lot of change and adjustments with his current life from family life events. We have been in constant communication but I am not sure how he feels about me. We have always had a inner connection and I just had this dream last night after asking God to guide me through what to do regards my feelings toward him.

What can my dream of the proposal mean?


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@laney - you probably don't have any issues with your current boyfriend, so there is nothing to resolve or work through there.

Sounds like you are prophetic on some level in your dreams. Embrace that talent - ask for it to stay around. That is an interesting gift to have.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Matt - what do you think it means?

I think it means you are dreaming about a woman and her not returning the feelings for you. This may be something you need to come to terms with in your waking life.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Brittany - Sounds like you are running from something that you find threatening in your real life. Something you have to deal with alone.

Since I don't know you, I can't say what it is...but think of something or someone who has been scaring you, trying to bring you down, trying to end something for you.

The funeral doesn't have to be a bad thing. Dying just means an end to something. Because it was in the same dream - it likely has to do with what or who is trying to bring you down or end something for you. In other words, it will end, and you will move on from the situation. Because it is a traumatic end for you, it may not end well. But, all ends lead to new beginnings.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Marie - It may just mean you really like this actor's qualities! He may have some traits that you really like (such as being poetic, a good communicator, or touchy/feeling), and because of that, he is a really attractive person to you. In other words, you like the guy - he's someone that you think would make you happy and be fun to be with. Doesn't mean you are going to act on it. It just means he's got traits you would like to see in your life, especially in your husband.


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Relationshipc 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Beauty - Because you asked for guidance, I think you got your answer. It may not mean that he is supposed to propose to you, but the underlying theme is that you two could be in love and together forever. I would talk to him about your feelings, see what he says, and maybe test out dating again to see what happens.


Marie100 20 months ago

Thank you so much!!!


priyaankaa 20 months ago

I saw my lover as a groom and i am standing beside him not as a bride, but like friend, what does that mean.


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Relationshipc 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Priy - Are you having problems in the relationship? Are you a little fearful of him leaving you? Do you have some trust issues with him on some level? Be honest with yourself when you think about that, because it sounds like you are not seeing yourself as his lover, but rather his friend.

It could also mean you feel he is 'married' to something more than you. For instance, if he is addicted to his work or something else, and would rather spend time doing that stuff than hanging out with you, then you may feel like you are not as important as that aspect of his life.


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Mia Namaste 20 months ago from Amman, Jordan

Hello, i just had a dream about my mother while she was getting ready to enter the ambulance to go to the hospital and give a birth. But the weird thing that she was pregnant of me :) and i was watching from a distance that no one noticed me.

Thanks


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Relationshipc 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@mia - To me it sounds like you want to experience something new with your mother but don't actually want to have the talk about it or confront her about it.

So, think about your relationship with your mother. Do you feel as though you want to form a new type of relationship with her? Maybe have more trust with her or better communication? Do you want her to be more understanding or supportive? Are you scared to tell her these things?

I'm assuming she is alive, but if she has passed, then your dream may be a signal that you wished you could have had a different relationship or spoke up. If she is alive, don't wait until it's too late! Talk to her now.


Tee 20 months ago

Please I need your help...

I have been dreaming of my first love I have been ignoring it for years but cant anymore I feel my dreams are trying to tell me something. This dream I was at high school again I saw my first love and my old friends they were flirting with him. I didnt want to stick around and watch that so I decided to walk home my sister and others followed me. When I looked back my first love was following I ignored it and kept walking and he kept following he stopped and my sister looked at me like I was being sad to him so I turned back and he turned back I gave him a hug and he said he doesnt want me back I got upset and sort of embarrised thinking why are you following me then. Then I turned away and started running home. I could hear him running towards me but I just kept going because I just wanted to get home. He caught up to me grabbed me and said to me "I will always love you, I have always loved you more than the stars and the moon". I was at abridge that we had to cross to get home I looked down at the water then my dream ended.

We were high school sweet hearts, we were each others first love we had a baby and he died of cot death our lives changed flipped upside down when we lost our baby we seperated it was me I felt I couldnt be with him anymore I was scared of feeling that loss again I changed I ran from anything that could hurt me. We have had multiple unsuccessful relationships, I have always had this feeling that he always thinks of me. Please help me interpret this dream.


confused 20 months ago

I had a dream last night that my ex and I wanted to have sex. I wanted to wait till we got somewhere like a house. We parked street side and he kissed me(we never kissed much) both our eyes were open, I closed mine. I didn't want to in the car but once started I didn't stop. It was dawn and sun was fully up by finish. Random people I know walked out of the house and saw us, my brother and friends even walked up opened door and tried to get into the car! Then it was another day and I was in my apartment and his new girl was inside my home telling me he died(I dong know cause of death), and showed me this ring he'd given her which was similar to the one he gave me only smaller(no rings in real life). We went somewhere together, there were a few other women also. He left everyone something only mine was the best of all(which is weird considering we are not together and he is with someone else in real life and she's in the second half of my dream, in the first half she was not involved in my thoughts or brought up vocally). Anyway, back to the dream. I was leaving the place happy then made myself wake up. What could this possibly mean??


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Relationshipc 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Tee - The last part of your dream, looking down at water, has significance. Because it is a river, it could signify always moving - never staying in one place (and that is where you dream ends). It symbolizes that your relationship is never going to stick, stay, and be still.

Because of what he said, I think that you realize you and him are never going to be the way you want to be or were, and you haven't dealt with that yet.

Maybe you still think that you will get back together because there is a bond there that you don't think can be broken, but sometimes a bond like that is not enough to hold a relationship together. Your subconscious may be trying to tell you that so you let go of the idea of having a successful relationship with him and allow yourself to move forward without that desire in your mind.


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Relationshipc 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Confused - The first part of the dream sounds like exposing an aspect of you and him to everyone. It sounds like you may believe or know that they already know about this aspect. It doesn't have to be about sex. Maybe it was that he didn't respect your wants (which is obviously an aspect of the dream - not wanting to be in the car.) It sounds like you don't want them to know about this aspect, but they do.

You also seem to feel that you have some sort of importance to him over other people - even his current girlfriend. This could be wishful thinking (the ego part of you wants to feel like you are the only person he really loves), which is quite normal by the way, or it could be true. Only he knows that for sure.


Unsure 20 months ago

I had a dream of my friend we were in my bed and I was naked and she was breathing heavy. She was holding me and she said to me why did you lie to me. I asked her what did I lie about before I could get my answer. I woke up. What does this dream mean


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Relationshipc 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Unsure - Are you and your friend having issues with your relationship? Even a small issue? The 'lie' aspect may have just been a symbol of problems in the friendship.

Because you were naked, it sounds like you were showing her everything...so to speak. So it could just mean that you feel like you are holding up your end of the friendship and being a good friend, yet she still doesn't believe it.


alittlefreakedout 20 months ago

I had a dream i was holding a baby and it was minei was filled with joy and it was playing with my earrings what does this mean


Unsure 20 months ago

Well I haven't asked her that. Than I had another dream behind that one we were out having a good time and I was laughing in the dream but than she was behind me just walking and it felt like she was standing off from me so to speak.


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Relationshipc 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@alittlefreadout - It could mean that something new is coming into your life. A new project that is in it's beginning stages, for example. It sounds like it is going to fill you with joy and feel great!


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Relationshipc 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@unsure - Well, I would examine your friendship with her. If you have any concerns about it, I'm assuming that's where the dreams are stemming from.


needsunderstanding 20 months ago

I had a nap dream in which my ex was in. He kept coming to visit me and feeding me negativity about his new gf. One sticking out the most being she scratched his new car in the identical way I had his old. He would keep showing up at my job with all these random stories I kept wondering why? I would tell him I don't know what to say or why he's telling me of all people, n that if he's so unhappy maybe he should just leave, but he just never responded to my suggestions like he didn't even hear me. During the last visit i before I woke I was fixing myself an ice cream cone which is my favorite but I put something edible in between the scoops which struck me as weird as I have never done that in real life. I offered him one, he declined but I remember thinking to myself it was the best ice cream i,'d ever eaten


needsunderstanding_dream2 20 months ago

I had another dream involving my ex overnight and this time we were actively dating in dream. I'm starting to worry that every time I sleep he will b there which is needless to say annoying but mostly just leaves me wondering....Anyway here goes:

Me and bf move to a new city and were house hunting, but I didn't like any because the architecture had too sharp edges. Some lady recognized I wasn't from there and distracts me away from my family. My bf runs off with another woman. He's happy there and won't come back. The distracting lady helps me get a place in like the ghetto. Then his new gf overdoses on drugs, but doesn't die. Her mom comes to get me from my house. I go to hospital for support. Mom suspects my ex got her on drugs. I assure her that can't be true he would never touch that stuff. She was pregnant, but lost babies(yes multiples),crying. He comes back, we move again. This time the houses are nice, I like them. I remember driving and liking the fact that the strip malls were modern and friendly, you could see into them from a far. But I extremely liked the forestry and space from one strip to the next, reminded me of when I was growing up. Some places for rent even, thinking I could open the business that i been wanting to. Then, we were shopping furniture for the house and I wandered not far but into a bunk bed set that I'd always wanted for my kids; but even though it was the last one and cheap my spouse didn't want it. So we kept shopping. My daughter pointed out a ponytail and brush set. I remember thinking the pony holders looked cheap(like they would break easy) but the brush I'd had before and was very durable. Was going to buy just for the brush - then I woke. I'm still wondering what this all means. Can you help please? Thanks in advance.


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Relationshipc 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Need - Your nap dream sounds like your subconscious trying to tell you why he possibly broke up with you - or maybe why you think he broke up with you or felt negative about you. The fact that he never heard you tells me that you were not talking to him, but possibly to yourself. The ice cream could represent you trying to change or give him something positive, maybe after you broke up, but he didn't want to accept it.


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Relationshipc 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@need - Your dream is all over the place. It just sounds like you are trying to work through some issues you had with your ex and probably yourself, and possibly where you want to go in the future.


Josh Ford 20 months ago

Hello, I had a dream that my my girlfriend and people who we knew was went for a walk. Then this guy turnt up who they kiss each other on the cheek. She starts walking with him, then she runs up to me a little later and says 'I'm sorry about all that, he's the guy I told you about who was in my presentation at university, but I like him and he does like me to' that was her exact words. Then I woke up, what does this mean?


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Relationshipc 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Josh - It probably means you are insecure about your relationship. Maybe you are constantly insecure, or maybe something happened recently to cause you to be insecure. It doesn't have to be related to the guy from the university; however, it could be. Only you would know the truth about where you insecurities are.


mimi 20 months ago

I had a dream about this person (man) coming home to me. I never met him but there's a feeling like I've known him in my dream. It's weird he got out of the car and I'm inside a house and I see him from the window and he came to me tap me on my shoulder and started kissing me and telling me he loves it when I kiss him. I ended a relationship and I'm the process of healing and idk if it has anything to do with meeting someone who appreciate me.


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Relationshipc 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Mimi - I think you are right. I think the dream is a vision of what you would like in man and the feeling you would like to feel.


flowergirl12 20 months ago

I just came across this site, and it seems really helpful. I started talking to this guy about a month 1/2 ago, and things have gone smoothly. I had maybe 1 or 2 dreams about him before, but I don't remember much important-just that he was in it. But last night I dreamt of him, and I had told him something about myself. (it was something about me liking older music, like the older love songs). And he told me I blew his heart away. That he was feeling that way for me. ..I know that may not be much to go off of, but he made me feel really happy and warm in my dream, and I smiled a lot when it was said. I do like him, and it seems he likes me too (in real life), but does anyone have any insight about my dream? Could he maybe like me more than I think, or do I like him more than I thought? Thanks everyone!


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Relationshipc 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Flowergirl - Your dreams are usually based off your emotions, problems, achievements, and life. So, the dream is likely a representation of the progress you are making or would like to make with him.


alexis 19 months ago

What does it mean if i keep dreaming about my babys daddy we are not together no more but i do still love him i think he feels something too but we now both have a new relationship with others , the thing is i keep dreaming every night that he tells me he loves me and just love dreams about him i keep asking god to give me sings if ima go back with him or not and my dreams are obviously telling yea yes but i dont know it can maybe mean something else and i think of him all the time every day , we had alot of trouble in our relationship before thats why we broke up but we did wanted to go back together i just said no beacuse i was scared he wouldn't change so as time past by now he has his new girl pregnant but i can tell when he sees me he still loves me i dont know its so complicated but i dream every every night about us what can that mean


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Relationshipc 19 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Alexis - If you think of him all the time, and you want to get back together with him, I'm sure the dreams are just a refleciton of that. Instead of looking to your dreams for signs, look for signs while you are awake.

However, to be brutally honest, by the sounds of it, he is probably not the best for you. I don't get a good vibe with the whole thing.


Amanda 19 months ago

Growing up, I always had realistic dreams. tonights event blew my mind. 1yr ago I dreamt I was sitting in the car w/ fiance.i read this word on a board in my dream the word "smog"in the same dream i took out my eye liner an wrote my intials on the cement of a handicap pole and told me bf in the dream i put it there so I remember i was here. had no idea what smog meant, i asked my bf explainded to me what it was then asked how.i knew the word seeing i never been to cali. Blew it off. By sept we moved to cali, dec we went homeless bout a month ago, i walk into homes and go.places i seen in my dreams. i met a friend who i know realize i seen a dream, n tonight it happened. The dream i spoke of in the beginning IS HAPPENING AS I WRITE. WEIRD PART IS AFTER I SEEN THE WORD SMOG I MOVED MY CAR OVER AND A.M WAS WRITTEN IN BLACK ON THE HANDICAP POLE! AND IN EVERY DREAM, SSOMETHING ALWAYS WENT WRONG, BUT IN REALITY THE BAD NEVER HAPPENS, WHY? WHAT DOES THAT MEAN FOR ME? IM SCARED AND FREAKING OUT!


amandamarie20 19 months ago

When i was 13, i remember a dream where o waa in the hospital. I looked at the door my friends stood arthuarthur, caitlyn, nick and last inline was a faceless man i didnt know. He wore green. Alli remembered, 8-10-09 i was in a very bad car accident, i almost died that night. About 3wks being in the hospital on my first trip, it was deja vu. But the man i didn't know in my dreams was my friend tanner. Too weird. Plus this very EVENTFULL night as every passing second in my reality, is the dream i had a year ago. A couple friends ive made here in cali , ive walked.into their homes 1st time, knowing ive been there at one point but couldnt remember! Opened up the silverware draw w/out them telling me where it was. And whats crazy is because every dream is both good and bad, i can never tell. My feelings get mixed. Please help.


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Relationshipc 19 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Amanda - I don't think there is anything to freak out about. It sounds like you are on the right track, as things are playing out as you have seen them in your dreams.

It's like a reminder that you are here, doing what you need to do, moving in the direction you need to move - and you are in total awareness of that.

The things going wrong in the dreams could just be your fears manifesting - but in reality fears hardly come to life - so it makes sense that they are in your dreams and not in real life.


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Relationshipc 19 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Amanda - I find that many people dream of future events when they are young. Personally I believe that most of us are connected to the universe in ways we are not when we get older.

As far as the 'know where things are in people's houses', I've had that happen too. It could be that the house is set up similar to somewhere you have been before, but, for me, I simply pay attention to whether the feeling is good or bad because something that powerful is something to pay attention to.

If it's good, I feel that I'm in the right place and making the right choices.

If it's bad, I feel that I'm in the wrong places and making the wrong decisions.

Don't let your dreams dictate your feelings - they are just messages to help you change, grow, become more aware. What may seem bad could actually be good. For example, death can simply represent an end to something bad in your life.

Instead, pay attention to the feelings you get during your waking life and let them guide you towards what is best for you. You sound more in tune with your inner self than many people, so take advantage of that and pay attention to any messages you get.


amandamarie20 19 months ago

Well how do you know, if like its the sign that your doing good or not? If its like a game.. Cause theres times where i walk into a situation and i feel fine, good even. But in my head, i remember something bad always coming. And i wait for it to happen but nothing.

And then ive had one bad vibe persay once. And things did go wrong, im homeless. I just lost my fulltime job, i have no family or friends. just my fiance. And when i go to "work" it happens the most. I remember pieces of the home, their belongings and i just, gah i cant tell if im dreaming.. If im like watching my dreams come true? If im going to die today, tomorrow or lose my fiance, is this going to happen. And idk why but daryl keith hutchings and mary angela mcbeath come to mind, ive heard the name, never seen a face, know his address, seen his home. Like who is he, why do i feel the need to drive up summit rd and visit this man? I fear for my life when i think of the name, but yet i feel like im suppose to have met /meet him.. Im scared that I'm going to die soon.


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Relationshipc 19 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

You answers your own question. It's not about what's in your head, it's how you feel - the vibes you are getting. Trust your instinct (that gut feeling) and get out of your head.

I don't know about the guy, but if you fear for your life, then ask yourself is that because of your thoughts (are you over thinking this and that's why you're starting to get worked up about it) or your instinct (where you feel in your gut something is wrong, even though there is no reason to think so). If it's because of your instinct, then don't go looking for him.


Meg 19 months ago

I had a dream I was in love with someone he Dident give me his phone number though


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Relationshipc 19 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Meg - It sounds like you are feeling rejected in some part of your life. It doesn't have to be about love. It could be at work, school, with friends, or family members.


Christina 19 months ago

I had a dream I was waiting on my girlfriend to get to the party and I ended up having sex with my ex that was there. She ended up coming late then it switched to me and her in an empty house and a girl appeared I asked her how she new my girlfriend and she said I should ask her. I've been having dreams about my girlfriend with other girls and lately we haven't had sex in real life and I've been hurt and cheated on . So idk if I'm freaking myself out .


cecemarie33 19 months ago

Last night I had a weird dream. I don't remember all of it, but the part I remember a little bit. I was around some of my friends and family and someone said to me your "pregnant," and was pointing at me. I felt like I was actually in the dream.. Everyone was smiling at me .. What could this possible be


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Relationshipc 19 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Christina - Sorry it took so long to answer you.

Yeah, it sounds like it is just your fears are manifesting in your dreams.

I find that when I am worried about my relationship (even just a little not happy with it or satisfied with it), I have dreams about my exes as well as dreams about my husband cheating on me. It all represents the same thing - worried that the relationship is not as solid as we want it to be, and fear of what could happen.

For me, once I recognize the dream as just a fear based dream, I start to let go of the fear in my waking life and start doing something about making the relationship better, stronger, or happier. Then the dreams go away.


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Relationshipc 19 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@cece - There's a few things. You could be pregnant. You could want to get pregnant. Or you might have a new positive idea or goal 'growing' inside of you.


gin 19 months ago

Went on vacation recently to visit a friend. While there, I met my friends best friend and developed a crush on him pretty quickly. Last night, I dreamt that he was in the town where I live. It felt very real and made me very happy when I woke up. What does this mean?


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Relationshipc 19 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Gin - It probably is just a reflection of your thoughts and feelings about him.

However, only time will tell. Maybe he's coming to town and you will find out soon.


cecemarie 19 months ago

I have wrote to before about the same guy I was seeing and his son.. The reoccurring dreams I was having with him in it. At the time me and him was in the same state for a year and a couple months. But I had came home in the middle of March, since I been home he has told numerous Times that he misses me and he actually told me that he loves me and when I left that it bothered him. In April he was in NY for work and told me to come see him.. So I did for three days..

But ever since I left in March I been having a dream that I'm picking him up from the airport. What could that mean.

I forgot to mention that I broke things off with us because I was feeling so emotional about things and how we are in two different states. It really hurts me..


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Relationshipc 19 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@cece - Because this is an ongoing thing, I would have to say it just means that you desire to pick him up and have him at home with you. You've always been quite passionate about him, and I know you want to think that these dreams are premonitions; however, because you feel things so intensely about him, it is likely more a projection of your hopes and fears.

In short, you want him to be where you are. You want to be with him. You may not want to admit it, but you do.

Try working things out with him and see how that goes. If not, you are going to have to give up on him, end things, stop talking to him, keep distance between you - or else you are never going to stop dreaming about him and wondering what it means.


lesly 18 months ago

I just had a dream about marriage but i didint get to see it it was a little girl telling her father come on lets go outside so you can get married & he never went outside what does this mean?


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Relationshipc 18 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@lesly - Marriage generally means commitment, so is there something that you are having to commit to in your life and feel like you are avoiding.

The little girl could have been your subconscious who knows that you have to get outside and commit and the father could have been your consciousness which is scared to get out there.


Becca 18 months ago

The night before last I dreamt that my boyfriend has cheated on me. I could see the whole thing as it was happening, but while i saw i didnt react in any way because i was sort of removed; i wasnt really me. The girl he cheated with was a character i saw on Gilmore Girls lol... And he came to me saying that he was sorry. We were at the beach and were staying in aeperate houses. I was so mad, but i was trying to forgive him. Then last night i had a dream about someone i know but i cannot remember who it is. We were falling in love and he was kissing me. We were able to have fun and laugh without jealousy. Then he kind of turned into a dog and was stolen by some water witch in a swamp and i was floating along with him because i loved him. Totally wacked. What in the world do these dreams indicate?


LOLA 18 months ago

I had a dream about a friend from high school we will call him T(we went to primary and secondary school together. In the dream We met up somehow, but later on at a stone wall where you can sit on it T told me he loved me and I was happy we embraced and we kissed. We then held hands and walked off together. In the dream I remember feeling warmth , security and deep love romantic love for him and he felt the same way. Then I woke up


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Relationshipc 18 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Becca - I love the ending! lol.

My impression was that you are questioning whether or not you want your boyfriend. Maybe something came up that made you feel a little less than loving towards him or maybe there is just a small issue that needs to be dealt with in your relationship. The thing that struck me most is that you said you were able to laugh without jealousy with this new guy, so that may be the issue in your current relationship.

The whole dog/witch thing may be from something you watched, but the fact that you were sticking by him tells me that laughter and trust are big issues to you. Work on that in your current relationship.


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Relationshipc 18 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@LOLA - It could mean that you are going to meet up with him and fall in love. Or it could just mean you are going to meet someone (maybe not him) and fall in love. Either way, you are looking for warmth, security, and deep romantic love from guy - so make sure you don't accept anything less!


jax 18 months ago

I haven't seen or talked to my ex in a year now. And recently I've been wanting to get a hold of him just to say hi and see how he is doing. But when I'm thinking of doing it I have dreams with him.. 1st .He called me and told me he still loves me but I need to move on . 2nd that he is happy but to me he doesn't sound happy. He tells me his plans with his girl . That he is living a great life. What does it mean?


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Relationshipc 18 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@jax - It means you are thinking about him - he's on your mind. I think maybe subconsciously you think that he is better off without you or you are better off without him. You may not be able to fully admit that yourself consciously, but that is the message I get from your dreams.


Nani 18 months ago

I had a dream of this guy I know. I recently heard from him 3 days ago and I haven't heard from him for over a month. He is currently in a relationship that has many problems. Anyways, I dreamt he was standing in front of my driving talking to his gf while I was standing there. Not sure why I dreamed of him.


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Relationshipc 18 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Nani - Sounds like you dreamt about him because he recently called you. You may not be thinking about him consciously, but subconsciously he might be on your mind. You were just observing him, right? He's just on your mind.


geeeeeeeek 18 months ago

I'm in a situationship with this guy for about 8 months now, and i've had two dreams about him.

One was a couple of months ago. I was at the club that we frequently go to and there was an upstairs leading to his room. When I walked in, I saw him lying in bed with a random girl (couldn't see her face) and out of nowhere another two popped up and lied down next to him as well. I got upset and when I asked him why he was doing this he said to me "You got me mad" and he started cuddling with them and then i woke up.

The other dream I had today and although I don't remember details about it, he told me he loves me. Saturday night we were with one of his friends and he kept telling him that he should hold onto me and that I love him, which I do but I won't admit to him. I don't know if the dream had something to do with that?


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Relationshipc 18 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@geek - Hey, if I were to interpret it off my feelings, I think you are worried that he may disappear from your life if you do something wrong - have a wrong emotion, say the wrong thing, act in the wrong way, etc.

I also did tarot on your question and got back a card that represents you desire to improve your situation. You may be unhappy with the current state of your relationship and know that you need to make some changes in it. But, the card signifies that you are committed to making these changes and giving yourself the best possible shot at success with the relationship.


Haydee 17 months ago

So I had a dream about this guy,I like him.We were in class and i dreamt he told some people he liked another girl in my class.What does this mean?


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Relationshipc 17 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Haydee - It probably represents your fear that he doesn't like you back. It doesn't mean that he likes the other girl, it just means that you are worried that he does. In other words, you like the guy and you want him to like you back! :)


Suzannawadlow 17 months ago

Ok so really weird dream about having sex with my sister's man. I hate the guy with a passion hes an abusive jerk and cheater. In the dream he came onto me and i let him...it felt really good and i woke up wanting sex. The whole time during the dream i was worried about my sister finding out or catching us. What does this mean? I love my sister so much and would never do this to her and I'd never cheat on my husband


Still confused 17 months ago

Hi i had a dream about my ex who i still have deep feelings for showing up to my house with his current girlfriend which he got pregnant and the whole time they were in there he was ignoring me and like kept throwing it in my face that he was with her now what does this mean.?


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Relationshipc 17 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@still - It is a reflection of how you feel - so you likely feel that he does not respect you, love you, or care about you.


Redhead_n_luvingit 16 months ago

lorful & real-life like also I always remember them) that I was visiting a old Navy command that I once was stationed at 13 yrs ago. My dream was in real time for me and what I imagined the command would be like now if I was to go visit it. I walked into the building went to the front desk and asked the Petty Officer who was manning it if there would possibly be some people here that would have been here in 2000-2001. She started naming some people that I didn't know but then said a name of someone that I was extremely close to mentally and physically when I was stationed there. I haven't thought of this man in many years. We haven't seen or talked to each other since he left the command in late 2000 with new orders to Italy. Both of us married had a very intense, pleasurable affair with each other that would have not ended if not for him leaving. I have briefly thought about him every now and again through the years wondering how he is but like I said a couple sentences ago it's been years since I have until I did in my dream. We reconnected sexually in my dream but in all new ways and in all new places that my dream state mind took me.


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Relationshipc 16 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@readhead - just because you have seen him in a couple years doesn't mean there isn't still a connection there. So, something may have happened (a smell, a thought, a type of feeling) that triggered you to dream about him a familiar setting.


anna 16 months ago

I had a dream last night in which a boy i had not seen before was crazily in love with me and he is ready to go any extent for me......but im ignoring him and feels like he is making my life miserable by forcing me into a relationship that i dont want t......please reply me what does this mean


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Relationshipc 16 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@anna - Something may be going on in your life that other people think are good for you (and may even be good for you), but you don't want to do it. What other people think is good is not always right for you, so pay attention to what's going on in your life and make your own choices.


India 16 months ago

My boyfriend/ child's father/ first love/ first lover first pretty much everything just broke up recently and he says it's because I let people run over me and that it is unattractive. And he says he also doesn't believe in titles like girlfriend and boyfriend. I want us to work it out and be together. Even when we were in a relationship I would always have dreams of him dumping and I would try to get him back but he doesn't want me back. Now I am still having dreams like that. What am I to do? It's it a sign that I need to move on or what ?


Username1 16 months ago

I had a dream last night that I went at my aunts' home( I've seen that house in mu dreams before never in real life) and there was this guy I went on a date that my relatives introduced me (he was living there) and when he talked to me he had big teeth and started to tell my cousin it's good when my wife makes me work (like show me around the place) and wouldn't let my hand go even that I pulled my hand to go away...!!

It was weird and complicated but does it mean anything that I cannot decide between this guy and another one that I know whom to be with???


hars 16 months ago

I am single and have never had a real loving relationship. I am from India- a country where they do arranged marriages if you can't find someone yourself.Obviously I only believe in marrying for love but recently I have been despairing and have given up.

Anyway so after years of negative thinking I finally had this dream, and of course it represents what my life has been so far and what I want in d future.

Its a dream thats mostly sad but in the end I was so gobsmacked because it was so beautiful. None of the people in d dream are real.

So basically i am living somewhere with a family that's cruel to me. And basically I am just living there for food n shelter and not because I belong there. And then one day I do somethng wrong and they decide to punish me. I don't remember what I did wrong.But they chain me naked to the front gate where all the public can ridicule me and I learn my mistake.

I know that I haven't made any mistake and that I've been wronged.And everyone is making fun of me and laughing for days. And then finally he comes- a kind soul just like me and he picks me up and takes me away. I know it sounds like a fairytale and a load of bull, but it was really beautiful anf powerful.

Although Ive never been in a healthy relationship, Ive loved two guys before so I know what love means.I just don't know what its like to be loved in return. i did not even get love from my parents as a child, so probably thats why I seek it elsewhere when I am an adult.

Anyway,so when this guy picked me up-it was so beautiful- his strong kind face lit me up and gave me strength. and even though Ive had such good dreams before, this has been the most beautiful.Its the closest Ive come to experience love from a guy and I just can't forget about it. for some reason I felt its a message from God to wait for the right guy instead of compromising my happiness by marrying just about anyone. I know it sounds silly but it really was all that powerful and ive never felt anything like it.

So I wrote it down in a diary and I had tears in my eyes when it did. I am someone who has been through too much in her life (I know- who hasn't?) But i really have.I guess thats what the chaining represents. And in my mind i guess the guy represents what I want in the future.

But the main point is the dream has made me positive that maybe I will find someone kind and who understands me. Ive been so negative about it all so far and given up.But maybe this was just God's way of telling me to hang on. I am not very religious but I do believe in a higher power.

I am a fractured soul which is in need of love.

P.S.: I know love comes from within and one should not rely on others for happiness etc. But just humour me please and let me bask in the dream! Lol


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Relationshipc 16 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@India - Sounds like you expected him to break up with you for a while. And, it sounds like you know a relationship with him is not going to work out. Yes, I think it is your subconscious telling you that you need to move on because - in the end, he's not going to want you back.


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Relationshipc 16 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Username1 - From what I got from your dream, sounds like you are being pulled into a relationship that you don't want to be pulled into. I think it's important to follow your heart in relationships and go where it tells you to go - not where relatives want you to go. The big teeth aspect is interesting. If that is an unattractive quality to you, then it may have just been there to emphasize the fact that you don't want to be with him.


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Relationshipc 16 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@hars - You interpreted your own dream beautifully. You have hope within. You know where you have been. You know what you want. And you know that your convinction is right, not wrong.


hars 16 months ago

Thank you so much for the feedback! Feels nice to see other people with real, lovely stories and dreams!


Username1 16 months ago

Thank you so much. I'm trying to realize what my dreams mean and every sign what should I do because it's not that it is all against my will and I don't want to but I don't know what I want!! I want the life that I always thought of and that can happen with the guy that my relatives introduced me but in other hand I'm so free and so myself like I never thought I could be with the guy I know.!

Eitherway thank you for interpreting my dream it's really helpful :)


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Relationshipc 16 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@hars and @username1 - Your welcome! Thanks for sharing.


AwkwardDreams 15 months ago

I dreamt that my brother called me and smiling told me you know why I called and he meant for a blow job( that's weird and gross) and than I said I know but when I touched his hair and looked at him I remembered the face of my ex (recently we decided to break up but we end up together again.. we did so many times ) that I touched his hair like that and I couldn't do it. Than we were like having sex but with clothes on

This is really awkward for me even to write it because he is my brother but I would like to know does it mean anything..?


CuriousMale 15 months ago

Hi, this one might be a bit weird (it's definitely slightly off the beaten track as far as interpretations go).

Recently, I've had dreams of sharing my girl, never put much stock in it rather than it being a fun dream. As a general rule, I'm quite adventurous with an active imagination so largely put it down to this.

I had a dream last night where she was with her ex intimately. I was watching (or aware at least, I think..it was kinda conceptual rather than explicit) but not angry at all, more that there was a sense of trust and general acceptance in it. I woke up fairly shortly into it so can't claim to see where it went or if I reacted but it didn't feel bad in any way

Would love to know if it means anything, I feel I'm still on a journey of self exploration with a lot of areas in my life so I know there's room to know myself better. :-)


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Relationshipc 15 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Awkwarddreams - I'm so sorry. Your comment got automatically thrown into spam - I'm assuming because you wrote blow jobs.

Anywase, most sex dreams are not sexual. Because you thought of your ex, your brother may have just been on your mind and substituted your ex for whatever reason. Or maybe your ex is starting to become more like a brother to you than a lover. There are many interpretations rather than you want to have sex with your brother.


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Relationshipc 15 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@curiousmale - The first thought I had was that you trust your girlfriend, and this dream was a reflection of that trust, love, etc...possibly combined with some sexual fantasies mixed in. It doesn't mean you want to do that in real life, but - come on...it's fun to think about those kinds of things and there is nothing wrong with fantasizing about them.


ciaramarie33 15 months ago

So i been having the same dream. Reoccurr, once i left this dude i Was seeing. I had moved back home, since things wasnt goin to well for me out there where i met him.

In the dream it shows how he sees me at the gas Station, he ends up comin up to me tryin to talk to me.. We was goin bac n fourth about issues that was affectin us when was seeing each other. I tried to play Tough, meaning not tryin to show emotions but ended up tearing up and he started to tear up his self . i ended up drivin off after i told him , he acted like he didnt care".

Another part of a dream i keep having is, that i was heading home i guess i had went grocery shopping .. When i got home and started taking the grocerys in the house. When finished, someone ended up ringing my bell and left flowers on my step.

Ever since i left all i see is his name everywhere. When i dont think about him some how this name pops up either in a movie im watchin or someone ends sayin the name, or this seafood truck with his name on it ends im goin pass me when im out n about?.. Another funny thing that keeps poppin up is the state he is from, i keep seeing the licenses plates everywhere.. Please help me understand if this is a sign..?


Maybe 15 months ago

So I had a dream


Confused 15 months ago

Hello. I am married & actually going through a separation right now. I just recently forgave my husband for everything & have finally let go of some resentment.

I literally just woke up from having this dream:

My husband, myself, & my husband's friend are at our house. The guys just got done hanging out & im walking with them out of the door. My husband goes out first & stands out there as he smokes a cigarette. My husband's friend (who is also my friend. We were friends before him & my husband were) is the next to head out but he turns back abruptly & writes on a piece of paper "I love U grl" then turns around & goes out. I laugh it off & ball up the paper & throw it away. Then my dream skips to the future & it's my husband's friend & myself looking for a house (he has gone with us house hunting before). My husband is gone & I feel as if at this point in the dream we are separated & I am looking for a house to live in alone. Husband's friend then pulls me close & whispers he has always loved me. We turn the corner of the hallway & my family is sitting in the living room with a child. We walk towards the front of the house & see my husband walking towards the house from afar. Then the dream ends.

Pleassssssee help me


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Relationshipc 15 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@ciara - It sounds like you and your ex are playing games with each other and you know it. Instead of being upfront and honest about how you feel, you are 'acting tough' and 'acting like you don't care'. To me, it sounds like your subconscious is telling you to contact him and talk to him so you can get what you need to say (and hear) out in the open - whether it is good or not for your relationship. Be honest and ask him to be honest.


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Relationshipc 15 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@confused - Just sounds like you are moving on. Dreaming about his/your friend being romantic with you means you are open to moving on to someone else besides your husband. It doesn't mean you will be with that guy, but it sounds like your subconcious is saying, "I'm ready to move on!" which is a good thing.


ciaramarie33 15 months ago

Thank you.. I ve tried that and i get nowhere with him..so i dont really know ..


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Relationshipc 15 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@ciara - Here's my opinion - it's time to move on once and for all. If honest communication doesn't work, then it's a sinking ship.


luvly 15 months ago

Hi there, I had dream about a married man who I know. In the dream he kissed me and told me he loves me. The dream was so real .I told him you have a wife and nothing can happen. I woke up then the went back to sleep,and continue the dream. When I did get up for the day I repented and I was asking why I am I dreaming about this man . I have not look at him in that way because he is married.


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Relationshipc 15 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Luvly - I hope you don't see your dream as a sin. It's not. It's an expression of your subconscious, and it doesn't necessary mean you want to get with a man who is married.

Maybe you are longing for love, and he just happens to be the guy who symbolized a romantic partner in your life. Maybe you are longing for more meaning or love in your life, and - again, he was just a symbol of that.

And maybe he is just really attractive and you were fantasizing about him! Nothing bad about that. It's not like you are physically acting on anything.


Tamaa 15 months ago

Had a dream I was at a party,wearing a white dress...I saw my ex n his close friend there too at a distance,,upon seeing them,I stained my dress wit de drink I was holding,,,,I realised he wanted to talk to me but he didn't know how,,then he finaly said "Madam uve got some stains on your dress..."


Sophie 14 months ago

I dreamt a guy that i don't know who he is, and it occured once. And i also saw his face, he's not good looking tho.

Then, the next month I MET THE GUY but during that time i didn't yet realised he was the guy from my dream. But we're kinda close at work. Not that much. But i can feel something from him. At first, he disturbed me while i'm eating. WHICH I DIDNT UNDERSTAND when there was his friends beside him in group. I just kept silent. He also asked me some questions. And also about how well am i behave with my parents. Kinda weird. My friend also said he's weird lol.

There were the time where i was looking at him, he realised and he smiled himself. And also the other day, he gave me this really scary look, like he wants something from me and its really weird.

When he left for a while, i suddenly realised he was the guy i dreamt, while i wa eating.

But from all above, i like him. He seemed curious about what i'm doing and helped me when i'm doing a quite dangerous work. His friend even teased him infront of me, that HE LIKES ME. But he denied that lol

But we no longer met after he moved. Although he moved, i still saw him outside at the road.

Can you tell me what is this all about? What the dream told me?


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Relationshipc 14 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Tamaa - sounds like it was just a dream about your ex. Could be how you feel about him - as if you are always doing something like staining your dress. And the way he talked was kind of hoity-toity which may indicate you view him as a snob.


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Relationshipc 14 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@sophie - Sounds like you had a premonition dream. You dreamt about him before you met him. Because you didn't give many details about your dream, I can't interpret it. But, if you have a good feeling about him, then go for it!


Sophie 14 months ago

To the author, i remembered that i ONLY saw his entire face including his teeth. After that, i was shocked, i quickly woke up. I told myself, who's that guy omg... Never had this kind of dream before. Never imagined that i was going to met him at my new workplace.

He's nice actually. I want to told him about the dream but, i refused because it's impossible for me to do that. Now i don't know if someday i might met him again, because i always remember him. Is this some love sign? It has been 8 months (from February) i develop this feeling, even he has gone to somewhere. This is crazy. I also wish to let it go, not thinking about this again but i keep remember him.


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Relationshipc 14 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Sophie - I think you are connected to him in some way. It may not be love. It may just be a spiritual connection. But I definitely think there is a connection there. Just enjoy the fact that you are connected.

I have an ex-friend who I was very close to. We haven't talked for years, but not long ago I dreamt about her home in detail. I also dreamt about her being with a certain man (when we stopped being friends she was married). Thanks to the magic of Facebook, I found out she had divorced her husband, married the guy in my dreams, and lived in the house that I dreamt about. We are spiritually connected even though we will not be friends again in this lifetime.


Tamy4 14 months ago

I had a dream that I was with a guy who I can't remember who he was, but I think we were dating. We were in a building and I told him I loved him and he jumped out the window, then I woke up alarmed. What does this mean?


Marisar 14 months ago

Hi,

I had a strange dream that I was in a house and going upstairs there was a lady who looked homeless she was dirty. But in my dream she wanted to tell me something but right when she was about to tell me something, my husband woke me up so I didn't find out. As I took my husband to work that morning, me and my daughter were driving by this neighborhood looking at houses and I couldn't help but notice a house that looked like the one I dreamt only in my dream it had a back porch and in real life it didn't. My daughter convinced me to take a look so as check it out we notice the door is open and the house is on renovation so we open the door and I it was exactly as I dreamt it with the stairs in front of the door that led to the room where the lady in my dream was. Anyways, I asked a neighbor about the house, she had said that there was a fire in the house maybe that's why it was being renovated and someone died. I'm guessing the lady wasn't a homeless last but the person who died? But I could be wrong and it might it be related. But what does this mean? Is it really possible to dream something that you've never seen before and actually see it in real life a few hours later?


Confused...part 1 14 months ago

Hi I just had the most fascinating dream. It felt so real. I woke up with my heart pounding and my body sweaty. Okay here it background. I am in some sort of relationship with my boyfriend. My first love. I fell in love with him about a year ago. I was innocent and he was older so I said the words I love you. Our relationship at least to me was always more emotional. We were and are hardly physical but I always felt I loved him with a deeper passion than he did me. That I truly loved him and he only kind of did. You see he's been verbally and emotionally abusive. He says he has mental issues and I have done what I can to help. I promised him I would love him forever and never leave but he's hurt me so many times my soul felt like it had a permanent cut.

The dream:

I was walking with a group of people and a professor/guider (female) who was guiding the trip. It was spiritual in a way. It was at night but didn't feel creepy. It felt exciting. She was saying who is someone you would be with.


Confused...part 2 14 months ago

Everyone mentioned someone. And then they all felt close. I was next to a friend. Someone I've been close to at college with classes. Before the forest I was talking with him and the group at school. Well so he looked into my eyes and he kissed me with such a passion that I have never felt coming from someone else. We were very close. Then I get wet in water. My face does and I want to talk to everyone about my boyfriend. She and everyone stops and looks at me in horror. I think for a brief sec it's because they know I have a "boyfriend" but then realize that they see someone else's face. They see a twin of my boyfriends that did something horrible and was shunned and expelled. Before leaving I was in front of a big man. He made me feel safe. I said I loved him and he said he couldn't get hurt anymore that sorry but we were over. This was not my friend. He was u recognizable. I said that I too was hurt right here. Showed him a place only chest which has hurt over the last year of my relationship. I urged him that impulses hurt him that I was hurt too. That I loved unconditionally. But


Confused. Part 3 14 months ago

He didn't respond. I was left leaving in tears feeling the same deep pain in my chest I've felt for over a year. I left as my boyfriend though for some reason. I adored him passionately. I gave him my love and my family treated him like a son. I'm starting to feel like I was wrong. That I was wrong to have loved him but I loved him somehow. When I woke up from my dream I was happy. I was thinking that I had to leave my boyfriend. That I didn't love him as strongly anymore. The heart can only take so many knife jabs you know? I lay my hand where I pointed to my chest in my dream and I felt an overwhelming sense of peace it was surreal. I did it again later but the feeling wasn't the same. I do not know what this means. Why was my friend in it? We are classmates. Why was I not accepted by the safe man I deeply loved? please help


Confused part 3 14 months ago

But he said that he had been hurt too many times that he couldn't get hurt again. I said I wouldn't hurt him. That I love unconditionally. ThTs true because I never treated my boyfriend badly. I always forgave him as best as I could. I was begging him to stay with me. I said I was deeply hurt as well and showed him a place on my chest that has hurt for a long time. I told him I loved him and I left crying feeling the same deep pain I have felt for a yeAr. Then I woke up feeling happy. What does this mean? Will I be forever alone? Is mr love too much for a human to handle. Can it never be reciprocated? Is the dream something totally different. More happy? Because I felt content when I awoke. I felt anew.


Luna 14 months ago

I dreamt that I needed to obtain information on my husband's laptop, but he was being weird, and holding it at an angle so that I could not see. I grew suspicious, and took it. There were loads of porn, gay porn included. He then went on to tell me that he has been with men, and shares an experience with me, he seems very unbothered, when just moments ago he was trying so hard to hide it. I begin to freak out, grab scissors to slit my wrists, and start grabbing his face, hitting him with a ruler. He again, seems unbothered. No reaction. Just like he doesn't care. I have had other dreams beforr where he lies or cheats, and I attribute that to my insecurities, but I don't understand the not caring part. I will be freaking out, and he is so nonchalant. These dreams often wake me up shaking and in tears. Hoping to get your opinion and some resolve. Cheers!


Alonement 14 months ago

I had a dream that my guy friend was parked in an opened field and was leaning out of the door of his vehicle. I was getting off of a bus or something and he called my name, but i kept walking to some kind of building. A girl that was in the vehicle from which i came from hollered his name and ran over to him and was leaning on the front of his vehicle and they were talking. I cant remember if he was still calling my name or if he was looking for me to come to him, but i was looking out of window at the two. Nothing happened between them while i was looking out of the window. I like him more than he knows, but im not ready to show that side. He does have other females and im fine with that, but im not sure if its right for me to show my real feelings towards him. What is this all about? I need help understanding.


Jenn 14 months ago

I have had 3 dreams in the last week where my lover asks if I trust him. My answer is always yes, or of course, or completely. He never says much else....but always looks happy with my response. But a few minutes later he will ask again if I trust him, and again I will tell him yes. What does this mean?


sofia 14 months ago

i had a dream that the guy i like told one of my bestfriend whom he doesnt know in real life to tell me that he loves me what does that mean pls tell me


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Relationshipc 14 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Tamy - Could mean that you don't think you are worthy of love. Or it could be simply from an experience where you felt rejected - it doesn't have to be a huge experience and it doesn't have to do with a man (although it could.)


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Relationshipc 14 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Marisar - Sure. We are all connected through energy, and you may have tapped into the energy of that house for whatever reason - and the woman who was left behind. Too bad you didn't get to hear what she said. I hope you dream it again because the message will be the most important aspect of understanding why you had the dream.


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Relationshipc 14 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Confused - Wow. Thanks for sharing so much with us. First off, just from your real life story, you should leave this guy. Nobody deserves to be mentally or emotionally abused. And your confidence and self-worth will diminish the longer you keep putting up with it and putting him on sort of pedestal.

I think that 'confused' is the optimal word here. Your dreams shows a bunch fo different men and forms of relationships and emotions, and it is a sign that you are struggling to make sense of your relationship and where it's going.

The peace you felt was likely because you were focusing on being centered instead of overthinking. Of course it would feel peaceful to stop worrying, thinking, wondering, etc.

Your love can't be too much for a human to handle, unless you are being possesive, jealous, and obsessive. Are you?


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Relationshipc 14 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Luna - Him not caring is part of your insecurity. I mean you were trying to slit your wrists, which is someone quite troubled would do. The fact that you saw him doing nothing tells me you don't think he really cares about you. I would work on that in your waking life.


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Relationshipc 14 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Alonement - You basically answered your own question. In your dream you hear him but pretend not to and go hide in a building to watch him interact with another woman. Obviously you don't feel ready to show him how you feel. If you weren't too concerned in the dream (depressed, sad, etc) then you are probably just playing out how you feel. If you were concerned, it may be time to do something about it and let him in a little.


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Relationshipc 14 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Jenn - If your lover is an actual real person, then it means that you might be suspicious of him, despite your belief in your trust.


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Relationshipc 14 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@sofia - It means you like him and are playing out a fantasy of him telling you that he likes you.


love29 14 months ago

What does it mean when you dream about getting married and then your fiance says no and leaves


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Relationshipc 13 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@love - You are either dealing with rejection somewhere in your life or worried about rejection.


Drgneyes 13 months ago

I had a dream that my boyfriend and I were having sex, and out of nowhere this guy walked in who looked excately like him! The other guy stood there for a second said something like "thank you now I know" to my boyfriend and walked out shaking his head. I was so confused that I wasn't even sure if the guy I was having sex with was my boyfriend now. I said i have been nothing but faithful and honest to you our entire relationship how come you never told me you had a twin? I was crying and then I woke up and was crying in real life. I don't understand this dream at all. Please she's some information as to what this means.


Angi k 13 months ago

Like yourself, i too have had a fascination with my dreams since i was 6 years old. For the most part i know what my dreams mean and why i have them. Sometimes i can go back to sleep and finish a dream after waking.

I would like to share with you the dreams that I've been having lately to get your opinion, and to see if it's the same as what i think they mean.

In day to day life i am a single 42 yr young woman and haven't had a boyfriend, or dated for that matter, in a few years. For the past month or so i have been having these romantic dreams. I meet a man and suddenly we have an instant connection and we are both very passionate about each other and very attracted to each other. There isn't any kissing or sex, is much deeper than that. They are true feelings we have for one another. We are touching in the way that he is standing behind me with his body against mine and i feel safe and protected. Each dream that I've had, it's been a different man, but the other things are still the same. The scenarios may be different, but the basis of the dreams are the same. I have a theory about this, but i would also like to know what your thoughts are.

Thank you for your time.


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Relationshipc 13 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Drgneyes - Sounds like one of two things:

1. There is something about your boyfriend that you don't trust. Something he is portraying to you.

2. There is something that you feel your boyfriend doesn't trust about you. It's like he caught you doing something and was able to see the truth clearly outside of his body.


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Relationshipc 13 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Angi - My first thought is that it is a simple reflection of your desire to get into a relationship that makes you feel safe and protected. Possibly you don't feel like you have any relationships as protective like that right now.


Hayley 13 months ago

Hello last night I had a dream that I was walking in a place I didn't know and I was carrying a box,full of things but I don't know what,I then see I was being followed by a man,I got away from this man,and I sat down to rest,then I see a group of people and the man in the group fell over,I jumped up to go help him and he had hurt his shoulder,he was ok and thanked me,I then went into a public toilet for a wee,and while in the toilet 6 girls jumped over the toilet door saying that I had to go with them to be killed,I then woke up,what does this dream mean please.x


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Relationshipc 13 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Hayley - try to look at your life and interpret it yourself. I would say that you are unsure of something because there were a lot of unknowns. Also, right when you were finding relief you were disturbed for a serious reason, so maybe you are feeling unrested or unable to relax.


Mary V. 13 months ago

I had a very odd dream, at least for me, the part that I remember was being out in I'm guessing like a sort of party, when I left with one of my friends in a jeep, going through the forest I was stopped by a guy I know, (he actually is my manager and he's made a couple of advances to me, but I'm married and even though he is a tractive I know he's no good and I would never cheat on my husband) to keep the story, he stopped us by standing in front of the jeep and getting me out of the car, took me far from the car to hug me from my back, while he wispered with his face touching mine, he wispered to please stay with him, to choose him. And suddenly my phone was on a call from my actual husband who was asking as well, then I just woke up.


Andrew0616 13 months ago

Hi, good day! I really need your help. Before, I dreamt of a girl whom I'm close with, 4 days in a row! That was a few months ago. Now, perhaps a random day I'll dreamt of her again but the funny thing is, I have a girlfriend. The girl in my dreams is not my girlfriend but my bestfriend. Now, I seek for help because my dreams with her crossed the line! Last night I dreamt of her in which we were at a gathering of our fellow high school friends in a condomenium then she went out, I followed her and she was sitting next to the pool. She was, as far as I can remember, removing the back part of to what she is wearing ( I don't know. I hate it when I can only remember half of my dreams) then I told her to stop because I can see her and its awkward until she asked me to scratch her back then I did and then I can't remmeber what happened next but we ended with a kiss and went back to our friends like nothing happened! Now, while thinking about this dream, I remember those 4 dreams with her. Each of this dreams resemble a story in which, let's say the first one is I'm just with her, the 2nd one is that I'm giving her a ride on my back, the 3rd one is that we're holding hands and the 4th one is that she kissed me on my cheeks. The other ones I forgot then the latest which is the condomenium and kissing next next to swimming pool. I don't know but this girl, my bestfriend, she's kind, beautiful, and smart but she's not my type and my bros like her so bros before rose. Please help, I'm so confused about this, I can't take a hint except for the fact that my dreams with her resembles a love story of us :/

P.S I don't dream of my girlfriend, I don't know why, hahahaha. Thank you for the help :)


Smith 13 months ago

Hey so I keep having these weird dreams I am a female and I am married to a female but in my dreams im always with my wife but she is different always is very distant and annoyed with me and she tells me she dont love me and then by the end of the dream I see her dating a man and cheating on me and she dont leave me she just always says she dont love me and I will deal with this. I try so hard to interpret the dream but I get nothing but bad things and I just want to know someone else's interpret I know for a fact there is no way she is actually on me we are together all the time. Please help me.


Hrdnipz 13 months ago

Hi I'm not sure if this forum is still up or not but if you could give me your insight on this I'd appreciate it - normally In my dreams I'm running from something or fighting something But I just had this dream I was in this girls house and we were together surrounded by people I perceive we're our friends and I think her dad it was a beautiful house nice back yard dream house basically it was hers or get family's inside the light was bright almost I don't know perfect I was obv in love with her but I kept going from the living room where she was and the kitchen where our friends were. Everyone was happy and then halfway through or more towards the end she was on the couch arguing with her ex boy friend it was more like he was mad about something I assume me and he kept arguing with her it felt like she was just trying to get her point across and finish what ever she was trying to say but he kept arguing with her like he wanted her back or something but she wasn't having it. I couldn't hear anything they were saying but I kept going from the living room to kitchen I felt like she didn't want me to inturpt because at one point when the ex or what ever got more mad I felt like I was about to smash him or something like that but I just went back to the kitchen were our friends were because she wanted me too and was handling it This whole time the sun was shining in like a perfect Sunday morning and everyone was happy. But then I woke up because the phone rang Now in this dream I knew I loved this girl but I've never been in true love befor and I felt like she was pregnant. What do you think


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Relationshipc 13 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Mary - Just sounds like you know he likes you and would be willing to do something with you if you chose to. Doesn't mean he's in love with you or anything. It just means you are aware that opportunity is open.


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Relationshipc 13 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@andrew - I don't dream of my husband that much either. Our dreams reflect our fears, thoughts, desires, etc. So usually our partner is not in them if we are happy and fulfilled with them.

So she's kind, beautiful, and smart, but she's not your type? That sounds like a lie to me - one you may not even know you are telling yourself. I think you have an attraction towards her and your potential 'love story' is playing out in your dreams.


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Relationshipc 13 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Smith - It sounds like you are insecure right now and that is translating to your relationship in your dreams. You may not be insecure with her, but somewhere in your life - work, friends, etc. Or, you may be insecure with her and no admit it to yourself. Gotta get honest!


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Relationshipc 13 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Hrdnipz - I think that's not your real name and that punctuation makes things MUCH easier to read.

But, about your dream, I think that you could be having a prophetic dream. The feelings you had for never being in love are pretty accurate, so only time will tel on this one.

It could also be a reflection of a movie or story you heard recently. But, if you can't think of one, then it is more likely prophetic or past life.


Hrdnipz (Adam) 13 months ago

Lol I'm sorry about the punctuation I was on a trash old iPhone so give me a break. How often have you known prophetic dreams to actually be true. I only ask because when I woke up I was sad the way you feel after a break up but magnified I assume if it was your true love. This whole dream and experience was really powerful to feel that in a dream when you haven't befor, like I said I don't have good dreams I'm always running or fighting something and I usally wake up just befor I die or might die. A few times I've woken up but couldn't move and then when I was able to move or come out if it I had to almost catch my breath. But I have real awqweard sleep patterns and I only sleep in a few hour bursts which I thought you had to be asleep for a good amount of time and at the end is when you reach REM sleep and start to dream. Also I don't watch live story esq shows so I don't know. Any way thank you for you insite.


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Relationshipc 13 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Adam - I totally get the old iPhone! lol

I've said this before on here, but when I was young - around the age of 14, I dreamt about being in love with someone passionately and being intimate. I hadn't been intimate yet, so it was weird to have such intense feelings - like you said - powerful. Anyway, I dated a lot in my younger years up until my mid-twenties, but never felt the way I did in that dream, even though I sometimes thought I was in love. Then one day I started dating the man I'm with now, and we had a moment that was exactly like in the dream. I felt the same passion. I felt the same physical connection I had in the dream. I really believe when we dream of something we don't have the experience yet for, it is prophetic or past life.


MommyYam 13 months ago

Hi! I just had a dream earlier that my husband is talking with his guy friend and he told the guy that we are no longer together. Suddenly i woke up after that dream and i was thinking why i dreamed like that. Me and my husband are still together but we are in a long distance because he's working in other country.

What do you think about my dream? Thank you in advance.


Adam 13 months ago

Love really is the strongest emotion it makes me feel a bit weird saying that considering how I experienced it. But I know that's what I felt lol you're very reassuring I just feel the structure of the dream was strange about her arguing the setting and knowing she was pregnant lol. I've never been open like this befor # life class and thank you


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Relationshipc 13 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Mommy - you are worried or insecure about your relationship.


jd 12 months ago

Hi any interpretations for this:

I had a dream I was with an ex. we were quietly chatting im not sure what about in an evening setting outdoors then he fell asleep. we kind of fell asleep next to each other in the dream then I woke up or maybe i didnt sleep and watched him sleep and stole a cigarette from him and then walked away and kind of watched him again from a distance smoking my cigarette. then he got up, i felt like he looked around for me, lit up a cigarette too and then was looking at me from a distance but also pretending not to be at the same time and i was sort of doing the same thing, watching him but pretending not to it was weird.


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Relationshipc 12 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@jd - Sounds like a movie scene to me. Just want to make sure that you didn't watch a movie that had this kind of scene in it and that's why you aer dreaming of it in this way.

But, it also sounds like you are reflecting on your relationships with him. The iconic smoking while thinking is a huge symbol of reflection, so he may just be on your mind. It doesn't sound like there were any intense feelings (quietly chatting, smoking while watching him) so I'm guessing it is not an intense feeling you have about him.

By the way, if you smoke, quit. So bad for you and so not cool on any level.


Ja 12 months ago

Last night i had a dream that my boyfriend left me and drove away then i started looking for another guy i seen a cute guy and then i gave him a hickey but he said he couldn't date me then i seen this guy that i really liked but i never seen him before in my life and we made out and then we walked to his house and we were with his little sister and brother and i put my hand near his private parts and he told me not to do that cause his siblings were there then his little sister told him something about that a funny joke about him and then i woke up but now i cant stop thinking about him cause i love him and hes the perfect guy for me but i never met him before. btw ive had dreams before of my boyfriend and me cheating too


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Relationshipc 12 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Ja - There's two things: First, your not sure you want to be with your boyfriend on a subconscious (or maybe conscious) level and your looking for something better - hence the guy that you really like. Second, your insecure about your relationship and you are trying to protect yourself from getting too upset about what he might do. Whichever one resonates with you is likely it.


Hayley 12 months ago

Last night I dreamt that I was walking to my car to get into it and I was beckoned by a lady who gestered to a tree, when I looked up, one of my earrings was hanging in this tree out of reach, I asked her to help me, but she wouldn't, and told me to jump to reach it. After a while of jumping and trying and struggling to reach it, then my friend appeared offering a chair and i managed to reach it.

Can you tell me what does this mean?


SJ 12 months ago

There's a boy in my class I've caught looking at me for quite some time now. Safe to say I'm attracted to him; but we have never spoken because I'm too big of a wuss, and perhaps, he's shy as well.

Now, last night, I dreamt about how I was in school. We had to stand in line to go home for some reason and I coincidentally stood behind him. When he glanced over his shoulder, I flashed him a smile (I do this to everybody), and he smiled back, then turned around completely, saying, “You know why I look at you? Because I find you very beautiful.” I was so ecstatic, I held both his hands. The last thing I remember is the both of us talking on the phone before I finally woke up. He didn't seem to care about my existence in school today, however, which left me rather disappointed.

What could this dream mean?


SJ 12 months ago

P.S, I forgot to mention. The dream felt so real, it took me a few seconds to process it hadn't actually happened to me in my waking life!


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Relationshipc 12 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Hayley - I would interpret it that your friend is on your side and is there to support you.


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Relationshipc 12 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@SJ - It doesn't mean that the likes you (but, he might so don't rule that out!) It just means that you want him to like you. You are dreaming about what you want to happen. The fact that it felt so real probably is because you were so focused on it and excited about it because it's something you've been thinkng about.


Hayley 12 months ago

Thank you.


Sven 11 months ago

Had a dream my girlfriend was unfaithful to me,I took her out somewhere with me, we got seperated, I looked for her n found her kissing some guy I know in real life she likes,

what does this mean?


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Relationshipc 11 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Sven - It means you are worried that she will cheat on you with a guy that you know she likes. It doesn't mean she's going to cheat. It is your fear being projected into the dream.


Danielle Az 11 months ago

I had a dream that me and this boy that I go to church with were at a movie and we were cuddling and kissing until my mom showed up and was curious if we were dating and then I went to his house and I felt so in love and we were kissing again and I said I love you and I got kind of embarresed but then he said I love you too.... What does this mean? We are usually flirty with each other at church.. I woke up so dissapointed because I thought it was real and I was so happy


aida-garcia 11 months ago

Excellent article!


Alanis Elmore 10 months ago

I had a dream about my ex In the dream I went oto my dad's house he showed me messages between me n my ex thay were inappropriate then I went to my room and my ex was there I went to use the bathroom I came back he was in my bed I jumped on him and I rubbed his back then I kissed him and he kissed back I was hesitate at first bc he has a gf then it led into more sexual things like him fingering me and I was about to give him a blow job but my friend came through the door we both stopped and I'm like we were doing something and then she left the room and we continued what we were doing then we had sex and it went into another dream he left with his dad to go to my cousins house so I went over there too and then it turned into my mom's house and idk what it means I love my ex but he has a gf we dnt tlk anymore he has been on my mind alot I miss him I wanna text him but I'm wairing for him to text me bc that will show me that he misses me I don't wanna be the one always going back seeming desperate I just want him back what does my dream mean?


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Relationshipc 10 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Danielle - It means you like him.


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Relationshipc 10 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Alanis - You answered your own question. He's been on your mind a lot and you want him back, so of course you would dream about him. You're putting a lot of thought into your ex, so you are dreaming about him - both how you might like it to be (or how it was) and about other people knowing. It just means your thinking about him.

By the way: You need to use punctuation when you write. It is VERY hard to read that long of a paragraph without punctuation.


MaxD 10 months ago

I had a very strange dream i dreamt that i fell for a girl that pretended to not like me but i could tell she did and this was all around in and on top of the tallest tower in the world and with one of my closest freinds i love high towers big things and climbing high places are also a big thing for me and in this dream i worked for her dad and he didnt like me very much but i liked her a ton and there was a bit of parkour too which i dabble in and like too its awesome and in the end we escaped from the skyscraper with her and her little sister and i woke up before anything could happen i was wondering if you could provide a little insight ive never ever dreamt about falling in love before thanks and let me know what you think

-Max Derby


Hayley 10 months ago

Hello I had a dream last night that I was walking down roads with a friend and we got to this big dome we walked in and stood in the middle of it and it had different tunnels that we could go down.I looked down the different tunnels from where I was standing.But did not go down a tunnel,as I was scared of getting lost.what does this mean I took it as maybe I have some decisions to make and don't know which pathway to follow? What do you think it means? Thank you.x


jasminesmith44 9 months ago

I had a dream last night that i was at a get together with some of my friends and the guy that I've been friends with for a year was in this dream. (Me and my friend have been having sex every few weeks for the fast few months and am unsure if i have feeling for him or not.) In my dream we were being very flirty and playful together and holding hands and stuff. At the end of the dream everyone was watching a movie together and me and my friend were sitting beside each other on the couch. The couch cushion i was on was a little bit lower than his was so i had to look up at him to talk to him. I looked on the TV screen and saw red a pink hearts on it when he suddenly reached down to grab my hand and looked into my eyes and said "i love you". I was shocked but felt very happy and excited about this and then he kissed me passionatly, and that's when i woke up. I am confused as to what this dream could mean. I also has this dream on valentines day if that means anything. What do you think this could mean?


Bobby 9 months ago

Hi, I had been looking all over the Internet for an occurrence that I cannot explain, I think it was my premonition, but it sort of stopped me in my tracks when this happened. I am a single 23 year old male and an artist and I had this dream about a girl I sort of knew in high school never really talked to her because I was kind of quiet. Just ddnt really know her as a friend more like a fellow classmate in my graduating class(this was freshman year in high school). I never really had a girlfriend at all throughout my life, just because I never really thought of it. I was just real focused on my art career through high school and college. I have some friends on Facebook and Instagram and this girl was one of my friends, but ddnt think of too much of it. I remember she'd always comment on an art piece I'd post on Instagram and I'd say thank you. All of a sudden I had this dream about how I saw her at the beach, I was with my family sort of but I just went and checked out an area sort of walking around a different area from my family. And it wasn't just us there were other people around it was like a carnival on a beach sort of like a Santa Cruz beach boardwalk kind of thing only more peaceful and not as many people. Anyway I remember seeing this girl there at the beach and it was kind of strange because it was like I always knew her in my dream and we sort of ran away together on the beach and I remember looking back at her face and seeing the orange glow of the sunset glistening on her face and we both looked at eachother with such passion and love. All I remember was this peaceful feeling and nothing mattered but that moment right there with us two. I've never felt a feeling like this before in my life nor have I ever had a dream about a girl that was so clear in identity to me in a dream. It was the best feeling I've ever felt in a while, a more fantasy calm and peaceful dream. I also remember her and her kids (she has kids) were there and I remember playing with the kids and letting them use the crane machine to get a toy they wanted. Then when I woke up I just remember feeling like that was one of the best dreams I've ever had. Here is the trippy part, I went to school today and the dream I had was yesterday night and as I was in class I remember liking one of her doodles she had on Instagram from being in her own class. When I liked it she direct messaged me and asked if I liked her crappy doodle and I just told her I do the same in class but I liked the cross hatching, but I am pretty good when it comes to doing artwork and hers was a little amateurish, but I never tell anyone that. I know that it's hard for people to draw if they've never had as much practice as me. But anyway she was saying she remembered me in high school and remembered that I was very quiet and she wanted to talk to me, like have a real conversation. Because she told me its something she really wanted as far as getting to know me. I told her that I was going to an art event in downtown Fresno sort of where my school was and I invited her to go with me. She told me she had to get a baby sitter for her kids and I said ok. She asked me if I knew she had kids and I asked her if those were hers that she posted on Facebook and Instagram a lot, and she said yes. I never thought too much of it and I said ya that's fine, I just said if she couldn't find a baby sitter I could always let her know if there was another art event I could invite her to. It's sort of a drink and draw thing where models pose for us and we draw them while hanging out and having a drink. This is where I had this weird feeling inside and I remembered the dream and sort of trembled and stopped me in my tracks and everything was sort of blocked out in class when the teacher was talking and I started to shake. This happened because I ddnt even know that this was happening it seemed so surreal how it was all happening. I remember shaking in fear of the coincidence because I was so shocked that it was happening because how it was all happening at once. The whole day I just felt paralyzed and weak and without expression. If someone had said somehting to me I might of blocked it out because I was in such shock. I still am feeling this way a little and pretty much every time I think about it. And she just messaged me that she could go and asked if I could send her a picture of myself so she could draw it, because she like to draw just by looking at my art on Instagram. I needed some way of explaining this to someone because I can't hold in this feeling or what I experienced. If someone could give me some guidance I'd really appreciate it. I am just feeling so shook up by all this and need someone who is maybe experienced in such a manner of premonitions or dreams. Please I need help because I feel very weird of it all. Should I tell her at the event of what I experienced? I don't know what to do. If I can get a response it would make my day and my life. Thank you


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Relationshipc 9 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@max - I literally cannot understand your question because there is no punctuation.

I think you don't know the girl you dreamt about, which tells me it is just a fantasy dream. Wishful dream. Maybe influenced by a movie you saw or story you heard.


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Relationshipc 9 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Hayley - It sounds like you are right. You have some decisions to make. But because you didn't know what was down the tunnels, I think it is more about fear of moving forward then not making a decision. Moving past fear and going down any tunnel is better than standing still.


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Relationshipc 9 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Jasmine - The biggest part that struck me was being lower than him on the couch. Almost as if you are inferior to him in some way. Maybe you feel like he has to be the one to decide before you can decide yourself. Sounds like you want him to like you that way, and that you like him that way. I think you are just scared to admit it to yourself or him.


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Relationshipc 9 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Bobby - Don't feel weird about it, embrace it. It's like getting a sneak peek into what is right for you in life or - what is your right next move. So, obviously, this was meant to be for right now.

I feel like if you tell her, you're going to be weird about it and scare her off. You can tell her, but don't act weird about it. Don't make it into something where you shake and are in awe. Act like it is an interesting dream that correlates to your interaction. Be cool about it.

Also, saying things like "it would make my life to get a response" makes me wonder how overexaggerated you are about stuff. Me answering won't make your life - and if it does, you need more of a life! ;)

I just want to warn you that most girls are not attracted to neediness/over the top, and that's the energy I'm getting off you. They want to know that they are liked and wanted, but not that a guy is not going to be able to breathe because they are not around.


Kar.rn 9 months ago

So I have these CONTINIOUS dreams, and this boy I don't even know. I forgot how he looked like and we fell in love. But then I forgot about it. What does this mean?


aria 9 months ago

I dreamt about a person who has a crush on me . It was at night and we were walking on the road near my locality and there was a child who is my relative and we were walking together (me,my relative,and the person who has a crush on me)and while we were walking my relative told me that he wants to tell me something and told me not to be angry at him if he told me and I also said ok I won't be angry then he told me that the person likes me and I said ok thank you and I was about to shake the person's hand when he told me that the person wants to be in a relationship with me and I didn't shake the person's hand anymore and the person didn't even say a thing to me and I also didn't say a thing to her what does the dream means?


angel 9 months ago

hi , i have most unusual dreams :) , for 2 nights i have dreamt of being taken away by 2 unknown beings , they were masked &wearing orange clothing with shining brass or copper looking mask, i was hiding under a blanket but they found me .1 of the beings lifted the blanket & put his mask to my belly , within seconds i could actually smell what seemed to be gas & air.i could feel myself becoming so light headed & paralysed, i of them carried me downstairs .the next thing i no im awake on the settee , i knew I had legs but could not feel them , but when i could i went outside it was daytime & i met a man with a stubly beard , he smiled at me held me close to him & he yold me he loved me , i felt blissfully happy.the next nights dream .was that me and that man was together wearing black astrnoughts clothing, we seemed to be always together & happy.we looked into the dark night sky were it was full of beautiful stars , we watched the stars change shapes as yhey went from a big wheel to a areoplane to a huge rabbit. a man them came up to us but i didn't see his face but he told us that we was going on a journey. any thoughts would be grateful, thankyou


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Relationshipc 8 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@karin - It could be prophetic or it could be a sing that you want more love in your life. You are going to have to wait and see if he shows up.

@aria - Hard to understand what you are saying. But, it sounds like you are scared to be in a relationship.

@angel - Wow, I love the dreams. I often dream of stars dancing and moving into shapes, and I've never had anyone else tell me of that. Personally, I feel like that is a connection to my spiritual side, so I strongly believe that your dream is simply about the journey that you are on. Especially because your dreams seem to be about space and being far away - which is a disconnect from the daily grind and what we focus on in our daily lives.


spencer 8 months ago

Hi,I am 14years old and one night I dreamt about a girl whom I know as we are studying in the same school. So my dream starts with me walking in the night time with her and my relative who is a boy and is younger than me. We just walk and didn't even talk to each other and as we were walking suddenly my relative told me that he wanted to say something to me and not to be angry at him if he told me and I also I said yes ok I won't be angry. He said that the girl likes me and I was about to shake her hand to say thank you to her and suddenly again the boy (my relative) said that she wants to be in a relationship with me and I put away my hand and I didn't shake her hand anymore and she also she just smile at me and was blushing. And I went to my own house and I went to sleep and when I woke up I saw the same girl again and she was smiling at me and looked down and I also I walked away and the dream ended. What do you think does my dream means?


spencer 8 months ago

Hi again it's me spencer I forgot to mention that when I slept in my dream and I told you that I wake up and I met again the girl It was schooldays and i went to school and I met her in school and I don't know why I dreamt like that because I am straight and please author please tell me what my dream means


Bobby 8 months ago

Thanks for the advice. And I ddnt really mean it would make my life, I was just a little bit freaked out because of how everything was put together in the dream I had and how it was connected with real life in a way. I know ppl that have had premonitions before and told me about them. It's somehting beyond our understanding. A higher power that can speak to us or tell us if something is going to happen to us. I thought this was something like that, apperently not. Well anyway I took her out to a pub for an art event one night and I showed her a few things as far as drawing. She is a great person, I just don't know if I want to continue with a relationship with her. She's obviously had more life experience than I have had having 2 kids as a junior in high school. I don't mind being friends with her, but I feel like she wants something more. And btw I have a great life, great friends, family, and the only reason I'm still single is because I'm still looking for the right one. I'm not in any hurry. I'm sorry if my "overexxageration" was a waste of your time. I'll find another source. Thanks


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Relationshipc 8 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@bobby: I never said that you were wasting my time. Sounds like another over exaggeration? And the last comment sounds like an overreaction. I'm just pointing it out because, while it may not affect you chances with me, it will affect your chances with women.


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Relationshipc 8 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@spencer. I don't understand why you said you are straight. The way I'm reading your question, you are a guy who dreamt about a girl liking you? Or are you a girl in real life?


spencer 8 months ago

No I'm not a boy, I'm a girl and again I'm telling you I'm straight and I already have a boy who really love me in my life and i also i really love him back .But I really don't know why I dreamt like that and the girl that told me that she likes me in my dream I think that she likes me in real life although I'm not sure about it . Please author tell me what my dream means


Kia 8 months ago

So our surroundings I was not aware of we were siting most likely in a Catholic church and my friend and I were speaking but then she rhyms and says I like you then I got excited hugged her and said I like you too but after a awhile of speaking and turning away to other people to talk I reach an try to hold her hand but then she pulls away really fast?I felt s rush of confusion an sadness (I'm bi)(idk what sextant she is)


Angel 8 months ago

I keep dreaming about my ex who is currently dating. In those dreams both of us are very aware he's dating and he keeps showing/telling me he still has feelings for me but we cant be together because of his current girlfriend. And the last dream i had he told me loved me but i couldnt say it back, even though iknew i love him to. I cant get over him and these dreams arent helping.

What does that mean. Please help :(


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Relationshipc 8 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@spencer: You answered your own question. You think she likes you in real life.


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Relationshipc 8 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Kia - Sounds like you like her in real life and you are not sure if she likes you. It could also be a more general thing, where you are having a hard time figuring out if girls are bi or gay or straight, and that could make you sad on some level. The fact that you were sitting in a Catholic church is telling of worry that you are going to lose a girl who likes you because of her beliefs or the beliefs of people around her - like the church.


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Relationshipc 8 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Angel - Your dreams are just a reflection of your inability to get over him. It doesn't mean he wants you back, especially because he is in a relationship or dating other people. Once you work through your feelings for him, the dreams will go away.


MJ 7 months ago

I dream about someone last night. In my dream, I go back in my home country and meet my old officemates. We were eating on that time and this guy (he is trying to be close to me before) transfer on my side and sit beside me. We took group picture, then I'm telling them that I need to go back to my work country after that day. He stared at me and hug me so tight then kiss on my cheeks two times. I am so shocked, he also told me that there are certain things that he can't say right now but someday he will tell it to me. (In my dream I feel secure and happy)

What is the meaning of this dream of mine?


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Relationshipc 7 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@MJ - I'm assuming this guy was your future lover. The kind of guy you are looking forward to having, but for some reason can't have right now. He's the kind of guy that's going to make you feel valued and loved and safe. It just means he is going to come, eventually, so until then do what you need to do with work, yourself, etc.


spencer 7 months ago

But what does it mean does it means that the dream is trying to confirm that she really likes me even in real life?


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Relationshipc 7 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@spencer - Your dream is not a reflection of what SHE feels. It is a reflection of what YOU feel. So, as I already said, 'You think she likes you in real life.' That is what YOU believe. It has nothing to do with her.


hope 7 months ago

Ok so i saw this attractive guy in school a d i was too shy to go up to him so my friend did it for me and she gave him my number and he said he would call/text. He did seem like he was interested in me but i dont know what happened that he never texted or called me. Ive had numerous dreams where he goes to school(in college) looking for me and we end up talking and everytime he asks me why i didnt text him back and i tell him that i never recieved a text from him even though he did and he shows me the texts he sent me and the dreams are always about the same issue but they are different senerios. Could this actually mean something?


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Relationshipc 7 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@hope - Ask him! Don't let time go by and regret not asking him to find out if your dreams are right. If your shy, get your friend to ask him why he never texted. That will let you know if your dreams are on point or not.

But, your dreams could just be you trying to justify why he wouldn't text - as in, there must have been a mix up.


Cecemarie33 7 months ago

I'm sorry to send it again, but whatever you wrote me I wasn't able to see. And it was just showing me what I wrote to u.

I been having this reaccuring dream for the past few months, ever since I moved back home after being down south. And that was last year in march. The dream keeps showing me picking him up from the airport, and vice versa when he's picking me up. I seem to be jumping in his arms and kissing all over his face,(vice versa) happy with some tears (Both of us). Idk what to think about this because we're both in different states and on top of that we haven't really talked to each other like that because he's done confused me for sometime, we done argued so many times. I feel he's really cares and loves me but is just scared .. He means a lot to me, and no matter how much I try to not think about him and go about my life. It just doesn't stop.


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Relationshipc 6 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@cecemarie - I hadn't even responded to you yet. So you were seeing what you wrote, but it wasn't like my answer was invisible - I hadn't responded.

You need to listen to me this time. Your dreams are a reflection of what you feel/think. So, your dream about picking him up from the airport is a reflection on what YOU WANT. You want to be with him and happy. You want him to be happy.

If this is the same guy you've been talking about on this thread for over a year, it's time to either go to him and ask him outright if he wants to be with you and start building a relationship or stop torturing yourself and move on. Otherwise, you will always have dreams like this.

Again, they simply are a reflection of how you feel and what you want.


Cecemarie33 6 months ago

Okay sorry, I get emails from this account whenever anybody write on here. And o had received an email a couple days ago, so I thought you wrote me back..

Yes its the same guy and thank you for the advice


Manikin 6 months ago

I was in love with this guy while i was in high school but we never had an affair. Now i was in college and I'm currently in a relationship.

Now this dream i had last night showed that this guy, (let's just name him George) whom was in love while i was in highschool, wants to court me. I think we even hugged. The kind of a hug only a couple do and we hold hands. I know there that i was cheating because i know that i am in a relationship with my current boyfriend.

Before that dream, i also dreamt about this guy, i dont know him though, because his face is kinda blurred. after we hugged (i think i like that hug) he forced a kiss to me. that was abrupt. I never expect it to happen. Then i cried because i also know that i was in a relationship with my current boyfriend.


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Relationshipc 6 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@manikin - Are you wanting out of your current relationship? To me it seems like you are dreaming about being in relationships with other people, but the fact that you feel guilty makes me wonder if you are struggling with your current relationship - or at the very least, whether or not you want to stay in it.


Grace 5 months ago

Hello! I am a highschooler who has never had a boyfriend.. I thought you should keep that in mind. I was wondering if you can interpret my dream. About a year ago I,myself, have been trying to interpret my own dreams. But there is this one dream I've recently had and I don't really know if it means anything. Or if it's just a 'fantasy' dream.

I just want to point out that first it starts as day and my dream never ended at night. Although, it felt like a whole day. In the dream of course.

So, I was at school, and in my dream there was a guy that I never liked or loved before. He was somewhat of a friend I guess? But before I continue, let me point out that even though I don't know him that well, I used to think he liked me because he would make me laugh, I'd catch him staring at me,etc. ANYWAY, let's continue on to my dream.

Again, I was at school. We were in home room (1st period) class and it was the last day of school. Which was the only class we had with each other. Just like in real life.After that, he would try to catch up to me to smile or say a compliment. But in my last class of the day, for some reason in the dream, he was part of my class. He sat near me. If I recall,I think it was right in front of me. Because I remember before we were talking and he was making me laugh, at one point he turned around (Which means he was in front of me), and said he loves me. And said he'll only love ME. I stayed quiet because my emotions were all over the place at that point. So the dismissal bell for school rang, I went running out of the school, and went straight to the parking lot, but he went running after me. I was running so fast I fell. When he caught up with me, he saw me laying down on the ground. I could move, but my 'gut' told me I shouldn't. Then he got on his knees, and kissed me.i resisted but then I just kind of let go. Sorry if that made no sense. For some reason I felt just a teeny bit sleepy after that. LOL. But I was mostly uncomfortable and happy. It was a weird feeling of course. And then he help me got up and my dream ended.


Grac 5 months ago

Oh, sorry if I confused you! But just an FYI, I know the person in my dream in real life. Like I said, he's somewhat of a friend.


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Relationshipc 5 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@grac - Such a detailed dream! Wow. I did a quick tarot card pull for you and got the three of wands. I think it really does relate to your dream. It shows that you have opportunities ahead of you and that you need to become more aware of those opportunities. Because it was your last day of school and last class, this fits in well. He was an opportunity that you noticed and even chased you down to show you how much of an opportunity he was!

In regards to dating, this may mean that you should look at guys like him instead of guys that you are currently dating or interested in. Or, if you haven't been dating, it may mean that you need to open up the possibility of finding someone in life now.


Stephanie 5 months ago

I am a highschool rude ft who hasn't even had my first kiss or dated before. So last night I had a dream where I kissed a boy. What bugs me is that I knew how it felt to kiss in the dream. I don't remember the boys face in the dream, but I think he had brown hair. We kissed in the day time in a room that's all that I really remember. I hope you can help me.

Oh and just a question. What are some tips on practice how to interperet dreams and becoming a lucid dreamer?


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Relationshipc 5 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@stephanie - I have no idea what a highschool rude ft is, sorry. I seriously can't figure it out.

It sounds like you are just dreaming about your interest in boys. Brown hair doesn't mean anything, unless you know a guy with brown hair and have been focused on him. Day time just means you were doing it out in the open and not ashamed of it. And, without a description of the room or context, it's hard to say what it meant.

I would go out and read as much as you can about interpreting dreams and lucid dreaming. Too much to explain here.


Cassie Gallagher 5 months ago

OK so this is kind of long.

I have these two people that come out as a parents as teachers group that hands out papers on would development and helps show activities you can do with your children so on and so forth.

Well I've been day dreaming about the guy that comes here because the woman (not in a relationship with each other)

Will not come some times.

Well just last night I had a awesome dream that I woke up and cried from because of wishing it was reality.

I'm married (unhappily) with 3 kids involved.

The dream started off whete he just randomly stopped in amd told me hes been emailing me and had no responces as i told him ive been busy between raising 3 kids and work its been hard to sit down for 5 seconds. Well i started looking at my emails and i remember i had a smile on my face as i was reading and replying to the messages i couldnt see what the messages said or what i was replying. The next week we had a normal house visit where we were playing with the kids and than we started talking and the kids just disappeared and he told me he needed to tell me something. He leaned in and wrapped me in a hug and I remember feeling his stubbles from his beard on my cheek. I remember hearing something about being glad I got his messages and than everything faded as if I went to bed. Well next day I remember being at my moms and walking in on my parents having sex I immediately walked out the house and as I started walking up the road he was driving up the road and stopped to see if I was ok. I told him I was just going home from my moms and he asked if he could meet them. I told him not right now and told him why and he chuckled and we ended up together in his van just driving. He held my hand and I remember just feeling relief and calm. Well after he dropped me off I remember him telling me to shoot him a message tonight and that we should start hanging out more. Only thing is that's when I ended up actually waking up. I literally woke up and when I opened my eyes and looked around I cried. Idk why this dream couldn't of been reality (minus my parents). Please help me.


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Relationshipc 5 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@cassie - You've answered it yourself. You want something better than what you have. You want a man who will make you smile, hold your hand, make you feel relieved and calm, and want to be with you. I think you're dreaming about this guy because he's in your life, but he's just a symbol of what you want. You might like him a bit, but really it sounds like you are just longing for something more than you have.


SAMMY 4 months ago

This is awesome....but what does it mean when you see yourself sleeping in your dream?


Lynn 2 months ago

I had a dream about a guy I used to be friends with years ago. The friendship didnt end well. I sat in a room very upset about something that had nothing to do with him and trying to calm down. He came over and sat by me. It was awkward because he wouldn't talk to me. I tried making small talk after he finally said "what" to me. He didn't reply to me but seemed very tuned in to me. I was putting drops of lavender in a bottle and I could smell the lavender so strong. I started to feel very calm and pleasant and he seemed to sense it. He suddenly took my face in his hands then pressed his forehead against mine. We stayed that way for a long time almost like we were in a trance. It was like we were deeply connecting to each other's minds. The pull to him was so intense and I knew he felt the same way. We felt each other's feelings. Then he said he liked candles. It seemed to be an odd thing to say. I could not pull away without being drawn right back to him. Then finally we broke away and he left the room without a word. I still felt happy though and someone told me "that was so tender." It was a very pleasant feeling while we connected. I was surprised by that dream because he and I are not friends anymore and no longer talk.


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Relationshipc 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@sammy: It depends on the context - what else is happening in the dream, what has happened in your life, etc.


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Relationshipc 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Lynn - That's an interesting dream. Have you been working with lavender lately? It represents love, among other things, so it's kind of neat that you were putting it in a bottle and it calmed you and him - kind of like a potion. I'm just wondering if you've been thinking about candles lately, specifically lavender candles. Because that could be all the dream is about.

Alternatively, and this may be too far fetched for you, it could be that this guy is a part of your life spiritually, and you just reconnected in your dream. For the emotions to be that intense, it's a possibility.

Lastly, it could just be yearning for a simpler time when you had a connection with someone, possibly your friend. Or he may just be taking the place of someone you've had that kind of connection with.


Dream struck 82 7 weeks ago

I am dreaming of someone I don't know well, dreams is almost as we're carrying on a relationship in dream world, becoming closer. Just had a dream where I was crying and he wiped tears off and said I'm scared too. Weird.


BrittW 11 days ago

Just looking for some answers, I have been With my husband for seven years married for 3. Throughout our relationship we have overcome so much most people wouldn't have the heart to deal with. We both have our faults but his are most hurtful he feels the need for someone new every so often, he has left me 3 times and claims it's because he wants to see if he still has i?? Whatever that means. Anyway my whole point here is as of recently we have been doing very well except for an incident a lil bit ago where he left a ffemale friend of his stay in our house for a night. I was not okay with this and let him know b.c. he had been talking to this girl when I first met him. The next day she left but came back while I was at work and took a shower alone in the house with my husband I was very furious over this, till this day I'm clueless as to if anything had happened between them. Since than I have been having horrible dreams of him cheating with the girl he left in our home and one of his exes he refuses to stop talking to dispute all the problems she has caused for us. These dreams are beyond real it makes my chest hurt. The past week he had woken up saying he had had a dream that he caught me cheating and I laughed an shrugged it off b.c. I know it's bogus and in a way I feel it's his own guilt but than that next night I had a dream that I was standing in front of him watching him touch his ex and he kept saying it's okay it's okay and I left it alone an just watched, deeper in this dream she had left and he was standing over a sink washing his hands with his back turned I grabbed his phone an it was a message sent to his ex saying that just touching her made him aroused and that he couldn't believe he got away with touching her the way he did, going on to say that he needed to see her more later. As I laid in bed I was dreaming this but it was like I was awake like I knew what I was dreaming and it was breaking my heart but I wanted to keep going I wanted to know more and what it ment but I ended up waking up it was so surreal and I really jjust have not a clue what any of this means.... Please help me get some answers, and how do I control these dreams??


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Relationshipc 11 days ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@Britt - I think at the end there you had a lucid dream. That's where you know that you are dreaming, so you create your dreamscape in a way to help you get answers. You just couldn't hold onto your lucidity in the dream for some reason, which is fine. (If you want some insights into having more lucid dreams, check out this article: http://behappytips.com/lucid-dream/ )

Anyway, you can't control the dreams outside of a lucid dream. They are a reflection of you. Which means you have to control real life in order to control your dreams.

Personally, I think you intuitively know something is happening. The fact that she spent the night and took a shower in the house alone with your husband is a big warning flag. My intuition tells me something happened, I don't know about yours. I don't think you are as clueless as you say you are.

His dream of you cheating could absolutely be from his guilt. He knows that he did it to you, so he fears that you could do it to him too. Remember, dreams are a reflection of our fears, fantasies, thoughts, etc.

If he's left you three times and won't stop talking to his ex that you don't want him talking to, he's getting away with treating you poorly. You are taking him back, letting the issue go, and teaching him how to treat you.

It's not until you put your foot down and demand more from him both in words and in action that you will start to feel good about yourself and stop dreaming about him cheating. That may mean you need to leave him. I don't know. But stop letting yourself be used by someone who doesn't respect you enough to treat you the way a wife should be treated.


gel 3 days ago

I've been missing my twin soul desperately .. and this morning I awoke thinking of him sadly ... I fell into a 10 minute sleep whereby he fetched me from my office , and in the dream , I knew I was dreaming , and I was so excited to see him , when he stopped outside my house, I refused to leave the car , but he smiled his beautiful smile and says babe you have to go now the kids are waiting for you , I looked at him and touched his face and he leaned in and gave me the kiss I'm used to I woke up so happy that I cannot believe it ... what does it mean ?


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Relationshipc 46 hours ago from Alberta, Canada Author

@gel - Is your 'twin soul' someone you know in real life or just someone you feel is out there and you haven't found? Do you have kids with him?

Anyway, it was obviously a good dream. I would say it means that you are connected, and you got to connect in your dream for a few moments, which felt very good to you.

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