Peace of mind or inner peace

Peace of Mind - what is peace?

A lovely cup of tea in my hand on a warm sunny afternoon I wonder if this is peace of mind or is it contentment. I look around and find people so busy that they have no time to enjoy the success they achieved, is it worth it working so hard for something that you never enjoy? Sipping my tea, listening to the birds chirp as they pick off the last few fruits off the tree before sunset, stuffing themselves up and enjoying every bit of it, contentment. Is it peace of mind or contentment?

Are humans ever at peace, the birds seem content enough, give a dog a bone and when he is through he seem content enough, the flowers shaking their heads in the gentle breeze seem content, the squirrels colleting the nuts seem to be in absolute peace within themselves and with their environment.

Then my questions is why not humans?


What is peace of mind?

Ha! I have the answer. Oh yes I guess so. We humans are in search of so much, we want all that we see, especially all those things that we don’t have but our neighbors or coworkers or relatives have.

I am reminded of a neighbor who had a small utility vehicle that was best suited to her business. Then another neighbour bought a swanky car which all of us openly or secretively admired and that was it. I suddenly found my neighbour who had the SUV drive in a swanky car; only this one was not new. This car proved to be a guzzler for fuel and was a great burden and soon jealousy extracted a price.. the neighbour was left minus the car depending on public transport. I wonder if people stop to think and ask themselves if they really need the things that they hanker after so much.


Peace of mind is not about having things, or being happy and not fighting with others, it is a state of mind that is always balanced, happy, filled with joy and inner peace. It is about being able to live with oneself.

Finding peace of mind


Organize your mind

I have seen many people who have their TV or the music /ipods or some device blaring at them during all all waking hours, they seem to need noise to be alone. Time alone is time to organize the mind so it can be at peace. Sparing the time to organize your self internally is the hardest thing for most people to do. We organize our rooms, our homes, our desks and throw out the garbage, keep only what is needed, file and put away stuff so that the place is in order.

The kind of garbage we collect in a day in our minds is amazing; I recently saw discussion on HubPages on what is the worst insult you have ever received. Not only do we collect garbage we have them around for decades and air them out at any given opportunity.


We need to get rid of the negative emotions in our minds. Especially the insults we receive or the unkind words people say in anger or the garbage that has come from an unthinking person. We hurt and bleed internally sometimes even without knowing it, some of us are even dying from it. These disturb our peace of mind and prevent us from functioning to the fullest potential.

We need to get over of those past experiences that plague us, it is not easy but we need to do it for our own good.


Overcome negative emotions and negative thoughts that destroy your peace of mind


Let go of all that is negative, we need to realize that people have situations and circumstances and moods that they are dealing with and they react from that place, so do we. The more we hold on to such negative words and ruminate on them the more we are hurt and we in turn hurt others.

Forgiveness may be considered as a great virtue, but I would like to look at it as a necessity. Yes you need to forgive more for your sake, than for the sake of the other if you need to keep your balance. Forgiving someone takes the weight off your chest, reduces the hurt and the pain and lets it go by.

Forget the negative words or actions

Forgetting is the last step of cleaning up, it is like throwing out the waste and getting rid of it once and for all. This means if you let go, forgive and forget you bear no grudges at all and you can have a new beginning.

You allow you self to move ahead and grow without hold ups.

Do not revisit negative thought and emotions Self pity is something that people should avoid. I have seen those with emotional problems as I work with them everyday, people who face the problems head on are the ones that are able to overcome their difficulty, those that indulge in self pity get stuck in the same place and are overwhelmed by their problems.

Replace the negative thoughts with positive thoughts


Do not tie your growth to others. I have seen people complaining but she did that or he did not do that.. as if your mind is controlled by the intentions and actions of others.

Do your best and move on, this would help us keep our focus on ourselves and our growth.

Filling your mind with positive thoughts is filling your mind with hope and motivation. So spend a few minutes to fill your mind with pleasant thoughts about each of your endeavors. This helps you get through your day smoothly.

Believe and act. Believe in yourself and act on it. Approach every job with hope and belief that it will work out well, believe that you can do it.

Believe in people around you, don’t be biased about people from your first or limited time with the person.

Keep an open mind learn new things.

Refuse to entertain doubts and let life stress you out .

Do not be apologetic about everything, some people seem to apologize for the very air they breathe, remember you need to know that you have a right to be, to do as everyone else.

Be self confident and hold yourself in high esteem plays a huge part in being happy or keeping your peace of mind

Laugh, smile and make the most of every situation. To put it simply lighten up, don’t take yourself more seriously than you should. Don’t make it as if everyone is watching and weighing you out.. they have their own selves to deal with. Laughing releases endorphins the body’s feel good chemicals that send messages of wellbeing to your brain, it has the power to relieve pain. It naturally boosts your immune system and fights all germs and diseases. It relaxes your body and as you laugh all tension and stress leave and you mind is free and recharged. So go ahead see the funny side of things even about yourself and laugh your head off. I always make a joke of myself so it does not hurt when people say the same things..

Happiness is a state of mind peace of mind is a way of hold on to it while making the best of your life. It is a learned attitude, though it seems difficult at first it is not impossible.


How to maintain your peace of mind?

There is a passage from the Bible that says a lot about how to maintain your peace.

Meditate on what is positive

Philipians 4:8 ... meditate on ( or think only about) whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy.Basically it tells you keep your mind on all that is positive to find and keep your peace of mind.

Love, oh yes, it is the most wonderful thing one human can give another, it has the power to nurture, build nourish, grow, change, protect..etc.. Use it. You will not only make other happy but will be filled with inner peace.

Cultivate your peace of mind through spiritual meditation. I believe that as we organize our minds, get understanding, grow in maturity, peace of mind and spirit envelops us completely.


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It is always good to hear from you ...... 20 comments

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carrie450 5 years ago from Winnipeg, Canada

This is a beautiful hub sofs. Well written and very informative. rated up


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sofs 5 years ago Author

Hi Carrie, good to see you, glad that you found this informative. Just drop the baggage and enjoy your life is what many of us need to know. Thank you for rating it up and your comment, it means a lot coming from you! Thank you and may God Bless you with excellent health and peace of mind!!


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timorous 5 years ago from Me to You

Hey sofs. Another terrific hub article. You're right, we all need to 'chill out'..stop and smell the roses. Wise words my dear. :)


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sofs 5 years ago Author

Hey Tim, good to see you back. I like the way you put it, yes we need to chill out, enjoy life and live in peace with ourselves and the world around. Thank you for the kind words and the constant support! I do appreciate it Tim, God Bless!


mtsi1098 5 years ago

great job sofs - I agree. There is too much concentration on negative energy that there is no time for the positive little things that life has...I liked the part on organizing the thought process and this works well for me to filter all the negative things...


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sofs 5 years ago Author

Mtsi! good to see you (at least virtually) and wonderful to hear from you. You are on the dot, there is so much focus on the negative that we often forget to be think positive.

I agree with, you organizing thought is something I like to do every day or perhaps several times a day when I stray into the negative.

Thank you for the comment and for stopping by!


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richtwf 5 years ago

An excellent hub and I enjoyed reading and chewing over these thoughts in my mind.

Peace of mind is the most powerful sleeping tablet! If our mind isn't at peace then our hours of rest will be uneasy - tossing and turning here and there. Peace of mind is what we all need to achieve - a great message and one which many should take note of to make their lives more peaceful and less turbulent.

Cheers for sharing and God bless!


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sofs 5 years ago Author

Ritchie, always great to see you and hear from you. Isn't peace of mind the most searched for commodity.. oh how much we need it, but how easy to get it, all within our power. Our mind is the Limit!!

I really appreciate your comments and a big God Bless to ya!!


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fucsia 5 years ago

While I read your Hub I thought that from animals we should learn to be simply what we are and to love life for what it give us. Only thus we can truly rejoice of things, only when we are able of being happy even without this things. Very interesting page, soft!


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sofs 5 years ago Author

Love life, embrace it, enjoy it... yes and to do it we need to let go of all the negative strokes we collect and hoard within us, throw out the garbage, laugh and lighten up. So simple and yet so difficult for some.

Fucsia interesting comment, I appreciate it, thank you!


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sandy27m 5 years ago

Hi sof,

One more wonderful hub! You're right in saying many of us do not even know what we want.As you have rightly put it many of us want to keep ourselves buisy because staying still will bring many questions which we do not want to face.I agree we have to learn to stay still and enjoy the beautiful things around us and be at peace. Great hub!

Sandy


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jantamaya 5 years ago from UK

Sofs, you're absolutely loved for this what you have written.


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sofs 5 years ago Author

Hey Sandy, thanks for the visit. We agree on many things don't we? The simple things in life bring us so much joy and peace if we will only take the time. I know you are learning to stay still and be at peace within your self.

Love and God Bless!


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sofs 5 years ago Author

Thank you Jantamaya,You are greatly loved too. I understand that you believe in the same things that I do and it is great to have you visit and endorse views!! God bless !


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CMCastro 5 years ago from Baltimore,MD USA

I like what you have written. You are very sensitive to others and you are wise to what you are saying. I hope that others as well as I consider your thoughts and find peace with in themselves. CM


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sofs 5 years ago Author

Thank you CM Castro, I am sensitive to others and greatly aware of what happen within myself. I have found peace and continue to enjoy more and more of it a I try to practice these very same things. I hope you will find your peace too! God Bless!


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Eiddwen 4 years ago from Wales

oh yes sofs you have got it spot on here;also written so sensitivly; take care my friend and enjoy your day.

Eddy.


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sofs 4 years ago Author

Eddy, Thank you. This is one of my favorite hubs written a long time ago..Thanks for looking it up. Have a lovely day yourself :) God Bless!


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haikutwinkle 4 years ago

I like your words 'Do not tie your growth to others.'

I absolutely agree with this - 'as if your mind is controlled by the intentions and actions of others.' Especially when it is within the family or friends circle, those who intend to control the minds and actions of each other.

There are good advice here...

keep writing!


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sofs 4 years ago Author

Thanks for stopping by and leaving a comment. These are some of the lessons I learned from life and thought it worth the sharing. Have a great day!

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