Self Realization is the Solution to Family Cohesion.
Self Realization is the Solution to Family Cohesion
Families consist of people with same genes or living under same roof. It is ideal and wishes of every member to live in cohesion and happiness. They should be a source of support and encouragement. This does not mean all will be well all the time. Conflicts are a part of family life. A minor issue or an incident can become cause for misunderstanding hence strain in relationship. We notice in our own or other neighboring families cohesiveness and harmony missing. We then wonder why and how family congenial environments changed. We look for reasoning and solutions and seek for advises. There are of course institutions, psychiatrists, books and individuals whom we approach for bringing back family cohesion and happiness.
Often in corporate world, also a big family, aim is to achieve win-win situation in any deals to maintain cohesiveness and harmony. They will be creating cause and effect diagram for each of their actions and bring about idealized situation to achieve result. It is also known in corporate world individuals are asked to do self evaluation visa-vies his colleagues and peers. This is to bring in self realization in him to adjust his behavioral pattern to homogenize with surroundings and corporate policies. Success of organizations' goals is linked to employees that are its family members. Therefore top priority in corporate world is cohesiveness and harmony amongst family members.
A family is a conglomerate of people with own perceptions of him or her. Husband, wife and children behavioral pattern is influenced by the perceptions they carry about themselves. This will result in qualifying other person using adjectives like egoistic, selfish, jealous, envious, dull, and good and so on. This is to say I am ok you are not ok. We get into arguments and create tensions. Each one of us in our loneliness realize the situation could have been different had we behaved or moved differently. Often such realizations can be consciously put to practice by individual members. These self realizations are more effective solutions for family cohesiveness and happiness.
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