Smile! Seven Simple Steps To Attract More Love Into Your Life

Do you ever feel alone and wish there was someone special in your life? Someone who you could relate to on a soul-to-soul- level? Someone whom you can relax with and share special fun times? Perhaps you already have a wide circle of friends, a fulfilling job and warm family ties, yet deep down you wonder what it would be like to have a Special Mate; Someone who you could come home to, after a challenging day at work and just sit quietly with each enjoying the moment.

As humans, we desire to belong, to be part of a family or community setting. This can take the form of a sports club, religious organisation, self-help group or even an on-line community. You may belong to different types of groups or organisations which reflect different aspects of your being and personal/professional interests. Within this matrix, you may feel happy, secure and accepted.

However, if, like many other people you do not belong, feel part of a group or family setting, what can you do to attract more love and happiness in your life? Perhaps you have tried to join organisations in the past, attended work social functions or family gatherings, yet at the end of the day you still you feel alone and looking for something extra to add to your life.

If you are looking to attract more love into your life, but aren't sure where to turn try adding the following seven steps to your daily routine.

One: Look after your health. A strong body and a healthy mind are vital to ensure you function at your best. Find some kind of physical activity which you enjoy and stick with it. The benefits of exercise are known to help you feel better about your yourself. The more you exercise, the more oxygen is pumped around your body. This helps to energise and strengthen your body. The stronger you are, the more energy who have to do the things you enjoy. People will be attracted to your energy and sense of vitality.

Two: Take time to care and nurture yourself. Take regular informal "Me Time" breaks. For example, light a candle, add a few drops of your favourite essential oils to your bath, turn of the phone and chill-out; go for a walk in your local park or walk along a quiet tree-lined street in your neighbourhood. Breathe deeply as you walk. The colours of nature and the fresher air will add a natural bounce to your step. You will feel lighter and radiate a natural "happy aura", which will attract like-minded people to you.

Three: Smile and laugh often. Share happy thoughts and jokes with others. Laughter instantly elevates your mood and makes your eyes sparkle. You will feel more at ease in yourself and not worry so much about trying to fit in. Everyone is attracted to a happy smile and friendly face.

Four: Be open and honest with your feelings. Learn to trust your instincts. If you feel unsure, unhappy about something or someone has upset you, be kind and let them know how you feel. That way, you clear the atmosphere and can move on.

Five: Honor your personal space and enjoy your own company. Sometimes, in an effort to be nice to others or feel accepted by them, you lose you own identity and engage in activities or conversations which don't feel right for you. This type of activity drains and lowers your energy. When this happens, it is better for you to take pleasure in your own company and develop your own interests. In the long run, this makes you a nicer, more creative and interesting person to know.

Six: Have a vision of how you want your life to be. Maybe your present life or relationships isn't what you seek. Don't worry. The clearer you are about what it is you desire, the easier it is for you to seek advise and support from others who can help you make the changes you want in your life.

Seven: Love yourself and take time to get to know yourself. Congratulate yourself for taking the time to discover your inner thoughts and feelings. The more you know yourself, the easier it becomes for you to be comfortable and at ease with yourself. Your sense of self-acceptance and gratitude for your life will flow through you and touch all you meet.

The more you practice the above seven simple steps, the easier it becomes for you to develop a greater sense of appreciation for your life and the relationships which exist already in your life. The law of attraction and abundance is activated, your heart opens and you attract more love and joy into your life.

Try it and see! Let me know how you get on. I would love to share in your happiness.

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Paraglider 8 years ago from Kyle, Scotland

Greetings - that's a good seven point list. It's al too easy to neglect basic things like exercise and relaxation, especially in busy times.


nadeen 7 years ago

life is too short!

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