Learning Stand Up Comedy as Mental Health Therapy: Rediscovering laughter

Our final bow, enjoying the standing ovation.
Our final bow, enjoying the standing ovation. | Source

Left to right: Myself, Laurel Lemke, D'Arcy Figuracion, Shari Gylling, Ann Rider, David Granirer, Jaycee Moon, Cat Barnaby, Stacie Suinn, and Joanna Free as Nicci Tina.

Discovering and creating comic relief

Because of the stigma of mental illness, many people laugh at and mock with derision people with mental health challenges behind their backs (and sometimes to their face); or they make derogatory and disparaging comments. Well, now we who struggle are giving them something to laugh about. We are making them LOL and LMAO. And they are going to have to eat their mocking, derisive hats. Would they do what we've done?

For twelve weeks, I joined nine other women as we met for two hours every Wednesday to learn stand up comedy. Your average John or Jane Doe would never think of doing such a thing. You would think we with mental health challenges would especially be the last people on earth to attempt such an endeavor. But my friends and I found out we can, and we did exceptionally well. Carol Burnett once said, "I think the hardest thing to do in the world, show-business-wise, is write comedy." I so agree, as I know my comic friends would agree. Performing was not nearly as difficult at writing. The blessing was having each other to do it with."

This class and comedy show were made possible by an organization called Stand UP for Mental Health. David Granirer, professional counselor, author, and comic, who also has a mental health diagnosis, is the founder of this organization and has offered classes around the country, and internationally as well. David is gifted in bringing out the funniness in people. And let me tell you, David has a phenomenal ability to come up with punchlines in the blink of an eye. Amazing!

Life is worth living as long as there's a laugh in it.”

— L.M. Montgomery, Anne of Green Gables

David Granirer comedy on the stigma of mental illness

What is Stand Up for Mental Health?

David Granirer started Stand UP for Mental Health as a means to fight the stigma of mental illness; to build confidence in people with a mental health diagnosis by challenging them to do something they never would have imagined doing; and to see the lighter side of life and laugh at themselves. It serves as a great therapy in the recovery process.

Various mental health organizations hire David to run the classes via Skype. At the end of the course David joins the class and they perform in front of an audience. Yes, it's a bit scary, but it is also liberating, showing the participants and the audience that people who have mental disorders are capable of doing something most people would not attempt, and phenomenally challenging that brings smiles and laughter.

Stand Up for Mental Health has a DVD out called Cracking Up, a Voice Award winning documentary (see trailer below). It follows a year in the life of a group of Stand Up for Mental Health students. In it will you can see a group of people with mental health challenges overcome many obstacles to train and perform stand up comedy about their lives with mental illness. And of course viewers witness the performances. Watching people who struggle with anxiety, fear, depression, lack of value and self confidence reach into themselves to find and use a natural talent they never knew they possessed or thought they could use, is inspiring, heart warming, and side splitting.

*In Cracking Up trailer there is one slightly off color remark. Forgive it and enjoy the heart of the story.

Trailer to Cracking Up Vidoe

Laughter and tears are both responses to frustration and exhaustion. I myself prefer to laugh, since there is less cleaning do to do afterward.”

— Kurt Vonnegut

LMAO!

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Highlights from our comedy show

We performed to a packed house - standing room only. The audience was fully charged and had a great time. My friends and I pulled out all the stops and did our best. These ladies are a hoot. Here are a few jokes by our comics:

♥ Ann Rider "They tell me I'm high functioning. Apparently this means I can fix my own meals, pay my bills, and escape from four point restraints in under three minutes."

♥ Gina Tkacs: "Speaking of kids, I like them. All those exaggerated stories, manipulative schemes, and lies. But once they hit five, I can't get away with it anymore."

♥ Shari Gylling: "So I'm bipolar, and I have OCD, and I'm raising a child who has ADD, ODD, and he's a hoarder. The therapist recently told us if we get one more diagnosis we get free services."

♥ Ja Cee Moon: "I grew up a little confused. Well actually, maybe a lot confused. My mom had oppositional defiant disorder, and my dad, he had co-dependency. When I went to school I didn't know whether to slap the janitor or help him clean up the mess."

♥ D'Arcy Figuracion: "I got robbed the other day. The robbers stole my estrogen pills. It was easy to pick them out of the line-up. They were the ones that were saying, 'Does my butt look too big in these jeans?'"

♥ Cat Barnaby: I figure holidays were started by schizophrenics. Hear me out. Take the Easter Bunny for example. You have a six foot Bunny that hops around, gives kids candy, and his trade mark is eggs. That's not a holiday, that's a hallucination. If everyone were on meds, we wouldn't have Easter anymore.

Then you've got Santa - a fat guy in a suit that rules over a bunch of little people that cater to his every whim. Sounds like a fat version of Donald Trump to me."

♥ Nicci Tina (played by Joanna Free): Nicci shares about her efforts to quit smoking. "For me it was a love hate relationship. I loved them (cigarettes). But they took my money and threatened my life. I tell you, I've unfriended people for less than that."

♥ Laurel Lemke: "My last boyfriend told me I was a keeper. Unfortunately that was after he watched an episode of Hoarders."

♥ Stacy Suinn: "One time I was on the psyche ward because I was suicidal. I heard a voice say "Jump!" I didn't know Candy Stripers were allowed to say that."

Lori Colbo: "I've been having a lot of problems with my hearing lately. It's so frustrating...I knew it was really bad when I had to ask my voices to speak up. (With trembling lip) It really hurt my feelings when the voices screamed back at me "We weren't talking to you."

♦ A funny thing happened after I ended my set. At the end I told the audience not to miss my HBO special. It was meant to be an obvious joke, since the audience knew this was our first time ever and of course I would not qualify to be on HBO with my own special.

Strangely, after our final bow we went and mingled with the audience. A women came up and said she really enjoyed my set and asked "When is your HBO special again?" I said, "Oh my, I don't really have an HBO special. I was just joking. This was my first ever stand up comedy act." She was crest fallen. "Well, do you think you might have one soon?" Two others came up and asked me the same thing. Then another comic called me over with a smirk, "Lori, this lady over here wants to know what time your HBO special is on." Now that made me LOL.

We laughed all the way home wondering who from the audience would tune into HBO the next night with the hopes of seeing my special.

Laughter is wine for the soul - laughter soft, or loud and deep, tinged through with seriousness - the hilarious declaration made by man that life is worth living.”

— Seán O'Casey

What a difference a laugh makes

My life has become full of laughter and become a healing and strengthening force in my life. My sense of humor I attribute to my family. My father was hilarious. He was loud, silly, and a great story teller. He had us in stitches often when he was on a roll. I found myself emulating that side of him from an early age. My mother was also very funny, but in a quieter way. Mom was good at seeing the absurdities of life. My mother loved to be in front of groups emceeing or doing something in the spotlight. This side of her came out more in her later years. Our home growing up was not really full of hilarity on a steady basis. It just burst in from time to time.

Taking this class, however, has been like a hidden well of hilarity I'd long forgotten about, rise to the surface. I spent a great many years battling depression, but I've come a long way in moving forward, and laughter, and making people laugh, has been on of the the greatest tools. Erma Bombeck said of laughter: “There is a thin line that separates laughter and pain, comedy and tragedy, humor and hurt.” What an incredible insight and truth. I have always enjoyed laughter with others who are hilarious. However, there were years lost when life seemed gray or dark. Laughter was there from time to time, but now it has become a great, therapeutic balm in my life. Part of this is my relationship with God has become so much closer and intimate. His help through the struggles has allowed me to find the fun in life, even through hard times. Carol Burnett once said, "Comedy is tragedy - plus time." That touches a cord in me.

I still struggle and experience heartaches, disappointments, frustrations, and anxieties, as we all do, but the Lord and laughter are there to lift me. I highly recommend it.

Did I happen to mention I'm having the time of my life?

Three be the things I shall have till I die:

Laughter and hope and a sock in the eye.”

— Dorothy Parker, The Complete Poems of Dorothy Parker

© 2014 Lori Colbo

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27 comments

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billybuc 2 years ago from Olympia, WA

Bravo! You have more guts than I've got my friend. This is just so cool, and I applaud you for raising awareness about mental health.


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Lori P. 2 years ago from Southern California USA

What a wonderful program! Love, love!


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Faith Reaper 2 years ago from southern USA

Awesome Dear Lori! I am so thrilled for you and your life full of laughter now. What a great program indeed. Loved your stand up!!! Great job.

Up and more and away

God bless you.


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parrster 2 years ago from Oz

Public speaking is fear numero uno in most peoples book. Combine that with the soul goal of making your audience laugh, and I'm sure most would sooner eat braised rat. My hat goes off to you, as well as my applause. Well done for your comedy, your courage and this hub, all exceptional. Voted up and everything.


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lambservant 2 years ago from Pacific Northwest Author

Karen, thanks for stopping by and thanks for saying "who cares about the diagnosis." I wish everyone felt that way. Blessings.


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Karen Lorenzo 2 years ago from Denver, Colorado

You are very much welcome, after reading this hub, I came to a realization that all of us will face some challenges in life, and no matter how hard it is, we should not forget to laugh or even smile :) It is a good therapy and exercise as well.


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Purpose Embraced 2 years ago from Jamaica

Lambservant, thanks for sharing your informative hub. Your sharing your journey gives me further insight on mental illness, and how laughter and stand up comedy can make a difference.


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MsDora 2 years ago from The Caribbean

Lori, you are beautiful woman, and an inspiration. Thank you for sharing this commendable "Stand Up" project. I watched your video; you were good. Hope you get more opportunity and have fun doing it. Voted up!


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lambservant 2 years ago from Pacific Northwest Author

Dora, you are a sweetie. Thank you for your support. I have already performed again at a church. They had a "hilarity" night where I and another comic were able to perform. I broke out my new Sunday School jokes. I have a date for June, July, and August. Blessings sister.


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teaches12345 2 years ago

What a wonderful post and message! I laughed at the jokes posted and your video is so awesome! You are one fantastic lady! God bless you!


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lambservant 2 years ago from Pacific Northwest Author

Teaches, thank you for your affirming words.


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lifegate 2 years ago from Pleasant Gap, PA

Wow Lori,

Thanks for letting me know this was up. You were fantastic! All this hidden talent right in front of our eyes. Truly, you were a blessing to the audience and to us. Thanks for sharing this with us.

Now I have to go back and see what other hubs I might have missed - and then check out HBO.


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lambservant 2 years ago from Pacific Northwest Author

thanks for your kind words Bill. It was a blast.


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AudreyHowitt 2 years ago from California

Love, love love this! We all have something you know? And sometimes, you just have to laugh! Kudos to you!!


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lambservant 2 years ago from Pacific Northwest Author

Thanks Audrey. Life is lame without laughter.


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jhamann 2 years ago from Reno NV

This is an awesome hub! Brilliantly put together with information and sincerity. Well done. Jamie


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DealForALiving 2 years ago from Earth

Laughing is great for the soul, so imagine how great the cause is when you make someone laugh.


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lambservant 2 years ago from Pacific Northwest Author

DealForALiving, you are so right.


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chef-de-jour 2 years ago from Wakefield, West Yorkshire,UK

As a drama teacher I know how difficult it is for some people to stand up in front of others and speak, let alone perform, solo! Well done brave soul, I have nothing but admiration for you and your crazy gang sharing your energies and making people laugh. How challenging is that?

There should be a movie and a book, then a t.v. series, followed by a documentary and a children's book, followed by a fly on the wall video, a before and after photo album and a DVD.

Votes and a share.


lambservant 2 years ago

Chef, you are funny. There is actually a documentary out, I think I referenced it in the hub about the first SMH comics. Oh, and actually, a guy named Kevin Tomlison took some footage for his documentary in the works called "Crazywise." Very glad I didn't make the cut. Thanks for the encourgement. I don't plan on a career in comedy at this late stage in my life. I am just glad I know how to laugh again.


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Adventuretravels 2 years ago from London UK

Fabulous - I need to remember to laugh more!!


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Adventuretravels 2 years ago from London UK

The trailer to Cracking up was very interesting indeed. It's important work.


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lambservant 2 years ago from Pacific Northwest Author

I found it interesting too Adventure. I actually watched it before I began the classes.


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chato2010 22 months ago from Port Charlotte

Loved it... I have done this 3 times at the DBSA conference with Dave. here is a link to my 2013 act: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AhFL0pjlh6Q feel free to add it or any of my act to your hubpages. :)

I'm going to link to you in my updated profile...lol it's been 5 years since i was last here... so I think it time to update, besides I like some of the new buttons... :)


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lambservant 22 months ago from Pacific Northwest Author

Chato, what a thrill to meet a fellow comic from SMH. I love your acceptance part especially. Thanks for sharing. Maybe we'll meet up sometime at a show.


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chato2010 22 months ago from Port Charlotte

That would be cool. I just getting back into the Hub. I think it about time. I should see if I can change my name. :) 2010 But you are my first friends.. so I am AWESOME! I should stop while I'm ahead the game.... :)


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lambservant 22 months ago from Pacific Northwest Author

chato, I saw your profile and you have no content. Dude, start writing and amusing your audience. Usually if you can do standup, which takes some writing, you can write humorously. Just jump in with funny stories aand observations about life or what it means to you to do comedy. The writing bug will soon bite you.

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