The Truth Shall set Us Free: Acceptance and Forgiving
Everybody makes mistake;
For some these mistakes are minor ones and can easily be ignored;
But for others, these mistakes could mean major changes of events and situations of their lives; and major loses as well;
In any case, mistakes bring about consequences that are beyond repair and so painful to bear; most consequences are so painful especially when we lose our love ones as a result;
Then we ask why and how did it happen?
Most common defense is, “I did not do anything wrong, I just did what I am supposed to do in a given situation”
Nobody would like to accept personal mistakes or weaknesses;
We, humans, have built-in defense mechanisms that are actually causes of our own downfalls;
If only we will try to examine ourselves, examine the deepest motives of our hearts and be assertive in any given situations as we give values to ourselves and to all concerned then these broken hearts could have been avoided;
A happy and contented life could only be experienced if we will try to assess our own values system and assert our moment by moment interactions with people and things that are dear to us;
One wrong step will delete everything good that we had worked hard in the past in order to achieve the dreams for happiness;
Life is full of twists and turns;
If these twists and turns come without us being aware of its appearance then it’s high time for us to acknowledge and accept our ignorance of the situation;
By just acknowledging our ignorance is already the first step to learn and to improve our lives in all aspects; be it in relationships, money matters and in everything that we value in life;
Everybody makes mistakes;
It all now depends with the individual if he would acknowledge his mistakes and learn from it’
Acknowledging mistakes does not necessarily mean blaming ourselves;
The fact that we all make mistakes only mean that we accept our being human and here we can have the chance to practice real forgiving;
We can then be compassionate with ourselves, forgive ourselves then accept ourselves completely including our flaws and weaknesses;
If we are capable of forgiving, accepting and loving ourselves despite all the flaws and mistakes and inaccuracies then this is the only time that we can also forgive those who we feel and think had done us wrong;
The act of true forgiving both ourselves and those who had done us wrong is a virtue that could open us the door to more blessings as a reward;
Try forgiving and life would be good to you.
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