This I want if I get sick
I had a stroke five month ago. The treatment at the hospital is finished. There is nothing else they can do for me. I can hear. I can understand and remember the verdict. However, I cannot talk or communicate at all. Everything is taking place in my brains only. The stroke does this to humans. Force them to stop living a normal life. Part of my brain is so damaged it will never heal again.
The thinking, hearing and emotional part are still working. My eyes can convey a message to my family, and they try so hard to understand. I am so grateful to all my children because now when I need them so, I am glad we had a really good relationship between us. They can figure out what I need and want because they know me so well.
My bed room
Sometimes, for fun and just for conversation, I said to my family, that when I am old, all I need are my computer and the TV. They smiled but realized that there was a drop of seriousness in the statement. Even if I am an old woman now, I love the internet and to build homepages and blogs. More than other Grandmothers, I know about html, GIF and photo shop. Unfortunately, my hands are not cooperating wo well any more because of the stroke. However, I have got a new monitor that reacts to my fingers, and it works ok. I have no other options, do I?
Start to talk about it while you can
Tell your family what you need
Even if it is hard say it now
Assure them you love them
Talk about hobbies
Tell them wile you can that you love them
Tell what you would like to do every day
Talk about ensurances and budget
Statement weither you want to stay in a home
Clear instructions about what is important to you
If possible, inform about the will
You do/do not mind to stay at a nursing home
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