Top Uses for Funeral Songs and Music in a Funeral Memorial Service

Funeral Music Healing to the Soul

It's no secret that music speaks to our soul. You can certainly find music for any occasion, mood or genres and this is especially true for funeral services. There are favorite funeral songs and music that are selected and chosen by surviving family members. The choice of funeral music for a memorial or funeral service ideally should be made by the immediate family. If the deceased had certain songs, they loved, it's essential to keep that in mind. You need also note the type of music the deceased preferred.

Generally, funeral music is comprised of more religious and faith based lyrics however, any type of genres is appropriate if it had particular meaning to the deceased. Funeral music can be played throughout the service and can be played in the prelude, the middle of the order of service and the end.

When choosing funeral music, you may want to decide if you will be making use of an instrumentalist such as a pianist/organist or playing music and songs from a CD. If you have a funeral home, you may want to check with them to see if they provide the use of an instrumentalist as part of their package. There are generally CD players available but it may be wise to inquire about it as well.

From the officiant's point of view, the easiest option may be to use an organist or pianist. You will only need to select the music for the organist to play. The rest of their responsibility will come in the form of timing and cues just before, during and after the ceremony. Usually, at most funeral homes there is an organ present in the room where the service is held. If the service is held in a church or other facility, you may have to enlist the help of a friend or hire an instrumentalist for this purpose.

Playing music from a CD is relatively much more convenient. You are able to play a variety of genres direct from a favorite artist. A portable CD is simple to bring to the funeral location. If you have music from a variety of sources, you can burn them on a music CD and have them all on one disc.

You may need to delegate the task of playing and stopping the music on the CD to a friend or discuss this with the funeral director. Another option for music would be to have a soloist sing accapella or with a CD instrumental. If you have someone in the family or a friend who is gifted in singing, you may want to ask them to provide a solo for the decease, if they are able. Or you can also hire a soloist for this type of service.

There is nothing that restricts you from the kind of music that can be played at the funeral service. It is all a matter of preference and personal taste. You will normally want a musical selection to be approximately six to eight minutes for the funeral service opening music and about five minutes or so for the closing or exit music.

Including music at the Committal or Graveside Service may or may not be preferred. You may want to discuss this with the officiant. Some families opt to sing a hymn or a song at some point in the during the committal.

Understanding how to music and songs plays into a funeral service can be a part of the healing process. Often when we hear particular songs, we can be reminding of a time or place or being with a loved one. It can keep their memories alive in our hearts everytime we hear a song. Music lyrics are also powerful and can be a way to formulate our words or emotions during a time of loss. Hymns are especially noted for this effect in religious services.

The lyrics or words in a selected songs can be placed within the funeral service programs so that all attendees are able to read and participate in singing, if desired. Even if they are not participating, the words are written and can still have a powerful impact to a grieving heart. If you are able to provide some form of music at a service, it is recommended that you enlist the help of a friend or other family member to gather the music pieces and if necessary, burn it on a CD.

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Maynard 5 years ago

Maynard i just want to say thank you for being a good man to me and my dad we will miss you

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