My best memory is my wedding. I had been in several weddings as a bridesmaid, and seen brides so keyed up and exhausted they couldn't enjoy themselves. One of my best friends got the photographer to redo portraits of her because she looked so stressed at the actual wedding. I decided that would not be me. My wedding was one of the most fun days of my life - I let nothing bother me, and I was thrilled with the man I was getting married to. My family was also great, and that is not the case with all families. Weddings can bring out everyone's issues, and not all deal with this well.