I'd start by investing my money elsewhere rather than where i have been investing. 3 years could've changed things significantly with the right investment.
I just came out of a 3 year relationship and at the time when i met her i also had met someone else that i had stopped talking to because i fell so quickly for her. i might've given the other girl a little more time of the day to find out if we could've had something deeper, closer, everlasting.
I may have not have made a few purchases i regret.
i may have chosen the road less traveled in certain regards like where i went on a friday night that is my usually spot giving up my chances for adventure in trying new places and meeting new people.