Take a look at your Hubpages profile page - you are the answer! Busy, busy, busy; 'compelled' to experience everything; mentally active (writing); thrive on the hubbub of many friends. You don't have time to Age. Your photo fills in the rest of the puzzle. Here you sit, alone on a bench in a snowy park yet perfectly happy, an almost zen moment. While you thrive on the excitement of your 'compelled' side, your meditative side completes the picture.
Gracefully just implies what others think of you. Do you really care, as long as you don't upset them, cause harm, or impact them in any negative way? Perhaps appearing ungraceful can shake them up a bit and add some spice to their lives. In other words, Don't accept it!