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Do you believe that calling someone fat will make them loose weight ?


Ugly words have never encouraged me...

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Best Answer Christin Sander (ChristinS) says

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    loveofnight 2 years ago

    i agree with you, being in a relationship with a partner who needs to loose at least 60 pounds more for health than anything else i have learned how to encourage not judge. some people have battled weight all their lives.

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Yves (savvydating) says

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    Penny Godfirnon (Penny G) 2 years ago

    Thanks for your human answer.


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Poppy Reid (poppyr) says

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    teamrn 2 years ago

    Popper, I think they know that exercising right and eating right will help them lose but if they can't exercise, don't crucify them


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    loveofnight 2 years ago

    too often people act without thinking or just to fit in with the crowd. once everyone excepts the fact that we all are imperfect and have baggage maybe we will become more excepting of others.

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    Robert the Bruce 2 years ago

    Lol...that made me smile. :) You are right, peeples.


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Lynsey Harte (sparkleyfinger) says

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    loveofnight 2 years ago

    i have a brother who would never date someone as thin as i am but nonetheless some people are so unhappy and insecure about their weight that the simplest judgement can almost cripple them.


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Michael H (mikejhca) says

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    Sally Dickens 2 years ago

    I am glad for you that being called ugly words has motivated you to build some muscle but as someone who has been obese all my life and struggled with trying to lose it I can tell you that being told I am fat has never been a motivating factor forme


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Graham Lee (old albion) says

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    teamrn 2 years ago

    Old Albion, great tips for most wt loss, but w/out exercise,not enough for obesity. Without regular exercise, there is not enough wt loss, so exercise PLUS WHAT YOU SAY.

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    loveofnight 2 years ago

    i totally agree, they must want to first !

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Diana L Pierce (Diana Lee) says

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    loveofnight 2 years ago

    the greatest pain is that people do it without thought of another.

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    mcbel 2 years ago

    I smoked for years. Addiction is an emotional illness. Comments from non-smokers made me self-conscious and my self esteem plummeted in response, leading to a worsening smoking habit. BUT, once I stopped realized that I controlled this, I changed.

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Johana Hernandez says

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    teamrn 2 years ago

    Johana, I so much agree. "JUDGE NOT, LEST NOT YE BE JUDGED" comes to mind. A positive might become a negative AND VICE VERSA

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    Pastor Wolfe 2 years ago

    Amen


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    loveofnight 2 years ago

    i agree,, i have met some full figured people who are pleased within their own skin, it is others who have the problem with it

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hargaharga says

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    teamrn 2 years ago

    Robert the Bruce, You seem to think that obese people are obese because of a CHOICE/DESIRE to be obese. Not so my friend, but since you're insistent on tunnel vision, get out the night vision glasses because you'll need them.


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jasperbhen says

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    loveofnight 2 years ago

    more often than not the judgement makes them gain more.


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JThomp42 says

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    loveofnight 2 years ago

    i believe that it has pushed over weight people in the direction of being more abusive to themselves than help them.


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Pastor Wolfe says

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    loveofnight 2 years ago

    my old man is a big boy and i like him that way...lol

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    Penny Godfirnon (Penny G) 2 years ago

    Health care for drug addiction, smoking side effects, alcoholism, people involved in dangerous extreme sports at high risk for injury, people choosing to avoid health care until desperately needed,causing more expensive treatments hurt us all as well


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