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If you're an adult oldest child, do you STILL shoulder most of the financial responsibilities


for your original family, even financially supporting grown younger siblings even paying their bills, much to the detriment/chagrin of your spouse & children? Are you expected to shoulder most, if not all the financial responsibilities while your younger siblings DON'T? Are you your family's constant ATM? In multichild families, adult oldest children are expected to carry their original family financially.It isn't unusual for adult oldest children to FOREGO their, their spouses', & even their children's financial comfort to financially support GROWN siblings. Oldest one, I feel YOUR pain!

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Tamara Wilhite (tamarawilhite) says

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    Grace Marguerite Williams (gmwilliams) 8 months ago

    EXACTLY! But this scenario is very common in multichild families. Oldest children oftentimes financially support or assist younger siblings who are QUITE CAPABLE of supporting themselves but they WON'T & even EXPECT to be supported financially!

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Grace Marguerite Williams (gmwilliams) says

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    Grace Marguerite Williams (gmwilliams) 8 months ago

    Doing that makes people dependent & lazy. Why should you sacrifice your life & lifestyle? They should do for themselves period!!


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