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Tamara Wilhite says
EXACTLY! But this scenario is very common in multichild families. Oldest children oftentimes financially support or assist younger siblings who are QUITE CAPABLE of supporting themselves but they WON'T & even EXPECT to be supported financially!
Doing that makes people dependent & lazy. Why should you sacrifice your life & lifestyle? They should do for themselves period!!
I don't know, Grace. Mum worked hard all her life. My brother too. My Sister is in Houston with cancer type 4 and still works hard. My other brothers and sister are all working hard and helping others. If you're resentful, you will not be happy.
Of course, people ARE resentful. They aren't supposed to SUPPORT GROWN PEOPE who OUGHT to SUPPORT THEMSELVES. That is what wrong w/family. An INBUILT welfare system- EACH TUB SITS ON ITS OWN BOTTOM. If family REFUSE TO WORK, they SHOULD STARVE!!!
Some of your questions seem connected. Of course you have my Love. I do not wish to change, just inspire. Continue with the way of Love, not submission or rejection. Perhaps a whole new kind of inner spring-cleaning is required. I bid you much Peace.
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