Betraying my ignorance, I am a 42YO male who (I believe) has a BPD mother. How can I know for sure?

All of my life, I was "stupid", "a dummy", "would never amount to anything". Even today, I constantly doubt my self-worth and ability to do 'anything' right. As a result, I have become (what I feel) is an over achiever and a bit of an OCD neat freak. The person I'm currently seeing goes on and on about how impressed she is with me, my ''smarts'' and such but I just don't see it. I have never had a successful relationship with another person - albeit friend or otherwise. Not that I *blame* my mother but tearing a child down never builds them up. How do I know if she's BPD vs. just a bitch?

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