Bried, I can not heal Him but God can! God has ordained marriage. It is within the context of marriage that a man and a woman can learn how to properly relate intimately, emotionally and physically! There is a healthy bond that can develop and grow… This is why it is important to pray for your spouse, meditate on the Word, consult the Lord and seek His direction.
Anger, fear, anxiety, hatred all attribute to developing and reinforcing strongholds. A soul tie is a form of a stronghold. “God is Love!” There is no power stronger than God! Begin to pray and intercede on your husband’s behalf.
An unhealthy soul tie is when a person is manipulated and controlled in some unhealthy way! Previous or current improper sexual relationships, abuse, low self esteem, broken promises, immaturity are only a few of the many unhealthy behaviors to reinforce the improper relationship…
Marriage is important to God! How we relate to one another is important to God… Trust God and ask Him to open your understanding. You cannot change what has happened but you can go forward allowing God to guide you….This takes strength and patience allow the Light of the Lord to shine through you.... The Word of God is powerful it is “ALIVE” this is why it is so important that we use it constructively in all situations. The Lord has given you His Holy Spirit as a Guide which is also His Comforter.
I suggest reading Psalms 1, it contains the prescription to be Blessed, Galatians 5, contrasts the works of the flesh and the Fruit of the Spirit, Galatians 6 Restoration and Ephesians 6 Spiritual warfare! and more. Be encouraged! God truly is able!
I hope this is helpful! In HIS service, Peace & Blessings!