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Are you at your desired weight ?

  1. Ardyssbodymagic profile image60
    Ardyssbodymagicposted 7 years ago

    Medical Studies state that 9 ot of 10 person are obese. I believe that not everyone is meant to be slim but you should strive to be healthy. I believe in natural or organic foods and natural remedy to get to my desired weight. I used to go to the gym 5 times aweek and still did not lose any weight. I have tried so much dietary supplement that never worked for me. I am absolutely so happy with my natural way of losing weight. My husband has always been supportive but know he is telling me how good I look. Share your secrets with us on what helped you lose weight and keep it off.

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      Maximus591posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Wow... just what are these medical studies you refer to? 9 out of 10 people are clearly not obese... unless of course you live in a southern US state. You can't move for fatties down there!

      African females are certainly fatter tho. But that's more of a culture thing. African men like fat women! Some African countries the men even 'fatten-up' their females prior to marriage because they like a big woman!

      1. rebekahELLE profile image90
        rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        hey London, I live in florida and with the outdoor lifestyle here, healthy diet, exercise, and good genes, I am my ideal weight. 5'8" - 130lbs. cool

    2. Maddie Ruud profile image83
      Maddie Ruudposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      89% of all statistics are made up on the spot.

      1. rebekahELLE profile image90
        rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        that sounds about right. I've never heard 9 out of 10 before. hmm

        people just need to move more, since I am home now, I'm not moving around as much, sitting at the computer all day is not healthy. I'm back on the treadmill, taking longer walks, doing outside stuff, movement is essential, and more fruits and veggies. big_smile

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    Am I at my desired weight? HAHAHA Afraid not I was 125 lbs and want to be that once again but because of birth control pills and other eating bad eating habits I have gained wight..now 140lbs so I will betrying to lose that before Christmas and keep it off. Oh and Ardyss, WELCOME TO HUBPAGES!!!

  3. shriash profile image61
    shriashposted 7 years ago

    I am. But I don't believe in BMI.

  4. Ivorwen profile image84
    Ivorwenposted 7 years ago

    No!  I was underweight when I got married 11 1/2 years ago, and now after having five children I weigh ten pounds less than I did when I got married, and have more muscle.

  5. bgpappa profile image85
    bgpappaposted 7 years ago

    If I were eight feet tall

  6. zadrobi profile image60
    zadrobiposted 7 years ago

    Nothing more satisfying than making it to the gym 3-4 times a week and or running 3-4 times a week. I like to eat healthy through the week but allow myself things like pizza on the weekends. If I don't feel like going to the gym one morning before class, then I just make it up later. Going to the gym or running can be a pain but it can be a great experience if you go about it the right way.

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    Ghost32posted 7 years ago

    I think I'm at my desired weight.  Not absolutely certain since I haven't hunted down our scale since we moved here last April, but my jeans keep sliding down so I have to hitch 'em back up. big_smile

    And yes, Ardyss, welcome to HubPages.

  8. Cheri Schultz profile image67
    Cheri Schultzposted 7 years ago

    I could stand to loose about 10 lbs, but I do work out 5 days a week and watch what I eat.  I do not always like gettng up at 5:10 am everyday, but it gives me the energy and stamina to get through the day and plus I feel good.  I have not jumped on the  scale in years.  I just base it on how my clothes feel

  9. RedSonja94 profile image60
    RedSonja94posted 7 years ago

    Not by a long shot.  But due to medications I have gained the weight and can't seem to get it off now no matter what I do.  Exercise, while making me feel better, doesn't drop the pounds.  Eating differently hasn't done anything for me either.  I eat less now than ever in my life and it doesn't make a difference.  If someone has a clue how I can get rid of this weight I'm willing to listen.

    1. Jane@CM profile image59
      Jane@CMposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Medications do that to me also.  My doctor said to counter act the weight gain, I HAVE to do 30 minutes of aerobic exercise EVERYDAY, drink 8-10 8 oz glasses of water.  One of my meds side affect IS craving sweets (true), so I've been extra - extra careful with sweets.

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    poetlorraineposted 7 years ago

    weight gain and weight loss sure is a complicated subject.

  11. Jane@CM profile image59
    Jane@CMposted 7 years ago

    I'm a tad out of shape, but much better than I was in January, weighing in at 98 - 100 lbs.  Now, thanks to the good doctors and the meds they prescribe, I'm about 119.  My ideal weight is 113.

  12. Fresh_Flower profile image61
    Fresh_Flowerposted 7 years ago

    Hmm, I'm quite tall and slim (191 cm 79 kilos). Many people tell me I'm to skinny and should put on more weight. But actually I don't care what they say, so yes I am happy with my weight!

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    Hell no!

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    Uma07posted 7 years ago

    I think I am...but look underweight.I just went thru ur bio...have u any suggestions?

  15. myownworld profile image80
    myownworldposted 7 years ago

    well I am (I weigh 53 kg and am 5'5) but I work pretty hard at it...nothing beats exercise!

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    bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago

    I think I'm doing ok, but I'm still fleshing out

    1. myownworld profile image80
      myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      hey..! so u've returned from the dead! good to see u...(um...even with a face like that!) smile

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        bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Good to see you too... Like my new face?

  17. Francis911 profile image61
    Francis911posted 7 years ago

    No.
    But I think I'm healthy.

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    Poppa Bluesposted 7 years ago

    I'd really like to be 10 pounds lighter at least! Ideally though 140 -145 which would make me 15 to 20 pounds lighter.

  19. hoodieweather profile image60
    hoodieweatherposted 7 years ago

    I'm not at my desired weight. I work out about three to five times a week and still struggle with my physical appearance.

    I should eat better. But I lovvvvvvvvvveeeeee food.

    smile

  20. Stacie L profile image87
    Stacie Lposted 7 years ago

    i'm very close to my ideal weight...does that count? lol big_smile

  21. ocbill profile image74
    ocbillposted 7 years ago

    9 out of 10 are obese and people believed that?
    9 out of 10 are not their optimal weight, Yes, I agree.

    I have to say respectfully, that I have never seen that report for 9 out of 10 being obese.

    In the USA reports say it is 1/3, in the UK it is 3 out of 4. This is largely due to the bready diet, less vegetables and fruits, too much red meat and all the preservatives.

  22. NaomiR profile image87
    NaomiRposted 7 years ago

    I'm not even close to being my ideal weight. I was underweight as a teen and have struggled with my weight for most of my adult life. And it's not for lack of trying -- I've tried every diet, lost, gained ... I even managed to get into good enough shape to do a 20-mile charity walk a couple of years ago. Right now, I'm trying to find a balance between food, exercise and just living my life. I've been keeping a food journal and walking more, which has definitely helped. One thing I've learned in my journey is that there's no "magic" solution.

    I do not like being called a "fattie," though. There's so much more to my identity than my appearance.

  23. Wonder_Woman profile image61
    Wonder_Womanposted 7 years ago

    Honestly i have always been the type to lose and gain weight. once i feel disgusted with myself id have a more strict diet and work out. i love working out to be honest, i just hate actually getting ready for the gym but once im there i can be there for 1-2 hrs. my problem is my bf is really laid back, once i get out of work he just want to sleep in and watch movies. So we just need to work out a plan where we can go be more active together lol. i guess just blanacing each other

  24. Eaglekiwi profile image73
    Eaglekiwiposted 7 years ago

    Dont think Ive been at my desired wieght since I was 9 yrs old lol

    Still Im perfection in the making ..haha

  25. i_am_Legend profile image61
    i_am_Legendposted 7 years ago

    Yes i am

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    bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago

    I've got the body of a svelt preteen Swedish boy......
    (In the closet)

  27. europewalker profile image83
    europewalkerposted 7 years ago

    I'd like to lose 10 pounds, but I also like wine and chocolate!

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    Maximus591posted 7 years ago

    I think this thread encourages responses from those who are either at their desired weight or close to it, rather than from fat people. This is not representative of the population as a whole. There are clearly more fat people than individuals who are at their perfect weight.

    Here in the UK, females are fat. (More so than men.) Not just a little fat, but fat. Not obese fat, just regular fat.

    The depressing statistic is that the average body size for a female in the UK is a size 16. This comfortably falls into the fat category. Females in the UK are becoming less health conscious... they are catching up to their North American cousins and soon will overtake them, and they just simply don't care.

    1. Wonder_Woman profile image61
      Wonder_Womanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol i should move to the uk. sometimes it nice always having to be reminded about diets. cant even eat a damn bag of chips without seeing 5 commercials in a row on how to be a size 1

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        bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        You look fine, I wouldn't worry about it.

        1. Wonder_Woman profile image61
          Wonder_Womanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Thank you, but as a girl it is Genetically instilled into my brain to always think about my weight

  29. kirstenblog profile image76
    kirstenblogposted 7 years ago

    I have not weighed myself in ages so I am not sure but I do know that all my clothes are hanging off me. Time to go shopping HA! I think it would be safe to say that my body is comfortable within the range that is healthy for my height, age, sex etc. I just don't get as hungry as I used to and feel full much quicker, like the signals from tummy to brain are more efficient, making it harder to accidentally over eat and feel over full.

  30. myownworld profile image80
    myownworldposted 7 years ago

    EXERCISE people! it's key to maintaining weight...(as if u don't know already!) u see, the thing with me is I looove sweet things....and so I figured that the only way i can eat them and still stay slim is by working out at the gym! works for me!!

    now where did I put that chocolate cake of mine? wink

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    bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago

    I read a while back that studies have shown that your body burns an average of 200 calories everytime you achieve an orgasim.

    1. myownworld profile image80
      myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      LOL!!! now why am I wasting time at the gym??

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        bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I have no idea...<snipped - inappropriate adult content removed>

        1. myownworld profile image80
          myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          oooooh blood, u're asking for it!!! though I must say I laughed my head off at that!! ok...tonight is gonna be the night...... wink

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      Maximus591posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Hot, frenetic sex is a well known calorie burner. Studies have shown it's almost as good as a 30 minute aerobic workout.

      Perhaps it's something all the chubby chicks should indulge in more often.

      ... assuming they can find a man desperate enough to want hot, frenetic sex with them.

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        bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        It's gotta be closing time somewhere...

      2. myownworld profile image80
        myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        ha ha....but why just the chubby ones? hell....the slim ones deserve that treat too....! wink

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          bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I'll take care of keeping the slim ones skinny....

    3. Wonder_Woman profile image61
      Wonder_Womanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol hmm... i wonder how many calories can be lost during sex... does it depend how long, how Vigorous, etc?

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        bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I'm sure it does, the thing I read said that body burns 200 calories on the orgasim alone.  Everything else is just cardio.

        1. Wonder_Woman profile image61
          Wonder_Womanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          yea sure, id be a size 2 by now :p

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            bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I just know what I read...

            1. Wonder_Woman profile image61
              Wonder_Womanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              lol okay i'll investigate and confirm

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                bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                We'll be waiting for your report.  Just try to keep it clean.....

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    bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago

    Whoever said that working out had to be hard and boring?  I guess it does help if it's hard though

  33. myownworld profile image80
    myownworldposted 7 years ago

    LOL....ok. people.. moral of the story:....no more gym...no counting calories..just have sex till u're ready to drop dead! now who could resist that? wonder if we'd have any fat people left in the world...

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      bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I think the population explosion would take the focus off of the fat people

      1. myownworld profile image80
        myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        lol....don't be naive...I'm sure we can work out some kind of a thick condom that can last thru marathon sessions and still give pleasure...!
        (ooops...will i get banned for that??)

        1. Wonder_Woman profile image61
          Wonder_Womanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          the numbing ones (that are suppose to make him last for marathon sex sessions) dont work at all. numbing means loosing feelings, which means going down. my bf and i avoid them and the heating ones, lol its hot enough.

  34. myownworld profile image80
    myownworldposted 7 years ago

    hey people...it's getting hot enough in here...I think I've burnt a few calories already! wink

    1. Wonder_Woman profile image61
      Wonder_Womanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      LMAO ~

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    bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago

    We're gonna have to change the name of this thread to 'The Sex Sauna'...

    Opps..I mean 'The Sauna'  (Gotta keep it clean)

    1. myownworld profile image80
      myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      big_smile big_smile

      just get some towels and we're done!

  36. NaomiR profile image87
    NaomiRposted 7 years ago

    You know, you guys might find making fun of overweight women amusing, but as a plus-sized gal, I really don't find it funny at all. My husband and I have been married for almost 10 years now, and I can assure you that he wasn't "desperate" when we got together.

    Looks aren't everything and I'm disappointed to see that on a board full of mainly intelligent people, that some of you would still resort to junior high-level insults. I'm sure that you all have at least one overweight person in your life who you love, be it a friend or family member. How would you like it if they were being mocked? Or if not that, then I'm sure that all of you have something about yourselves that's less than perfect.

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      Maximus591posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Nope... I know of no individuals who are chubby. My whole existence is spent living in a chubby-free zone. It suits me well.

      Making fun of chubbies is a 24 hours a day occupation for some. You may consider it brutal and unkind. In a way it is... but what else can be done to prevent the explosion of chubbies in the world? The world is getting chubby not slim. That doesn't make it right. That doesn't make it acceptable. Soon, the average human being will be fat. Not a little bit fat, not a little bit chubby, but fat! The implication of humungous fatties walking this earth could be catastrophic! Should the slim be forced to pay for gastric bypass operations for fatties? Should the slim, who exercise and have a high level of mental discipline be forced to pay for the chubby slackers, who end up in hosptal because they have never done a days exercise and who think eating healthily is a fat dripping bacon buttie? 

      It's appropriate that fat people are made to feel guilty due to there wide load. Being nice to a fatty just means they will maintain their negative behaviour and never change. Loading them with guilt, might force them to see their way of living needs to change.

      1. torimari profile image81
        torimariposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I started laughing at the sarcasm...than I realized it may be serious.
        I mean maybe if a 16 year old boy wrote this it may be serious, but you must be joking because your avatar sure doesn't fit the part. :s

        If not it is even the more funny!!!

      2. Wendi M profile image82
        Wendi Mposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        BUT IS "NEAR DEATH" A PRICE WORTH PAYING TO STAY THIN?  And I am nowhere near being even slightly overweight!

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          Maximus591posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          What has being thin and 'near death' got to do with it?

          Unless you mean the opposite end of the spectrum : the super-thin or anorexics. But then, the fat female doesn't spend much time worrying about those kinds of females since she's probably too busy eating them... inbetween her cream buns, gooey cakes and jam tarts that is. 

          Pretty depressing being fat and consuming three anorexics right off the bat... not much protein there for Miss chubby chops eh?

          Anyhow, I digress. Being fat is more an issue of discipline and self control. Basically, the fat woman doesn't have any! The anorexic woman, on the other hand, is the antithesis of the fat woman (in more ways than one) her psychology is very much at the mercy of excessive control and discipline. She's also suffering from a mental illness.

          In an ideal world, the fat female and the anorexic female would get together (assuming the fat female can temporarily hold off from eating the anorexic) and educate each other. But ideal worlds don't exist....

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            Star Witnessposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Little harsh sounding in tone, there, guy.  I think that's what people are noticing.  Though I realize you're being witty, etc., etc., too.

            But I would point out that there are many reasons people are overweight...it isn't just simple psychology.  Heredity/genetics, general inactivity levels due to the current
            Western lifestyle, our processed, scary foods, and impossible female standards of beauty all have something to do with it, too.

            And I'm not at all over weight; rather a proponent of voluntary calorie restrictive diets for optimum health.  It's just that with judgments on people I tend believe in "through a glass, darkly."

  37. myownworld profile image80
    myownworldposted 7 years ago

    ok...so wonder has her thing to try out...i got my husband (he won't know what's hit him!)...so what abt u blood?

    1. Wonder_Woman profile image61
      Wonder_Womanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      well my bf and i have been together for 5 year. so.. maybe we can do a chart with our weight and the amount of time we have sex. its very scientifical stuff we are dealig with here

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        bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        You might even beable to get a research grant from Northwestern or somewhere.

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    bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago

    I'm sure my wife will be willing to help me lose few pounds...
    Who knows, she might even like it...

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    bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago

    I'll even try to get my eye to stay in my head!

  40. myownworld profile image80
    myownworldposted 7 years ago

    LOL....I just fell off the chair people!!! (u reckon that's another few calories?) ok....we've got a mission before us.... I don't know abt u guys, but I'm looking fierce here...!!

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    bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago

    If we're not carefull, we could end up in the medical journals with this one..... Or at least in Playboy

    1. myownworld profile image80
      myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      big_smile enough talk! I mean business here...ok....catch u later...have to prepare the ...ahem...bed and all....

    2. Wonder_Woman profile image61
      Wonder_Womanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      hmmm... I have a goal to get to, my bf wont know whats comin lmao if he screams for rape is that an additional calories that should be deducted?

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        bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        That depends on how much you have to struggle to keep him there.

        1. Wonder_Woman profile image61
          Wonder_Womanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          lol its a struggle, hes 5'11 and im 5'2 but it did defenetly help when i went to the gym and worked out my arms lol

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    bloodnlatexposted 7 years ago

    Have a great and productive night!

  43. kmackey32 profile image81
    kmackey32posted 7 years ago

    I'm at my ideal weight but I don't make fun of others who are not. Its not nice.

    1. rebekahELLE profile image90
      rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      not nice at all, I also am my ideal weight and have never had a problem with weight, but it's really not nice to be so harsh.

      I do wonder sometimes though, at check out and see what some obese people are buying...hmm  it's no wonder they're overweight.
      the really sad part of obesity is the huge health risk it is to people's lives and those of their children.

      just get moving, humans aren't designed to be so immobile.
      a good workout, however we get it, always works. big_smile

      1. kmackey32 profile image81
        kmackey32posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I really think its another addiction.

  44. girly_girl09 profile image75
    girly_girl09posted 7 years ago

    I have more of a desired clothing size....not weight. I got rid of the scale a longgggg time ago. Right now, I know I'm not at my 'desired weight' because my pants are feeling really tight! smile So, I probably need to lose about 10 lbs to fit comfortably in most of my wardrobe again. (I refuse to purchase new clothes because I gained a little weight this year lol)

  45. R P Chapman profile image61
    R P Chapmanposted 7 years ago

    I'm at my desired weight, but I've got a few extra pounds with me too, just in case! big_smile

  46. NaomiR profile image87
    NaomiRposted 7 years ago

    I take full responsibility for being overweight. I know that no one forced a pint of ice cream down my throat. I'm not saying that being fat is something to be applauded - it's not. But I'm still a person, not someone's punching bag.

    I think most people have some sort of vice, be it gambling, drinking, smoking, etc. or some thing that they just don't like about themselves.

    I can see, however, that no matter how I try to explain my point of view, that those who are inclined to make fun of others are going to continue to do so. So I'm backing out of this discussion.

  47. elisabethkcmo profile image78
    elisabethkcmoposted 7 years ago

    I was at my desired weight for most of my life,
    except for the last 5 years in which I've gained 25 lbs

    But I've decided that of all the things we can be unhappy or dissatisfied with.. our job, our crazy family, our economy, whatever..
    at least for me, my eating habits and my weight is one thing that I can have control over and do something about.
    just need to get motivated...

  48. fishtiger58 profile image83
    fishtiger58posted 7 years ago

    Yup finally I am. Have lost 31 pounds in the last year. Just take a walk, it does wonders for your weight loss and your energy level.

  49. Shealy Healy profile image59
    Shealy Healyposted 7 years ago

    Yes

 
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