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  1. days leaper profile image50
    days leaperposted 5 years ago

    Why won't you answer this post?
    ...or at least write your own subject on it????

    1. Theresa_Kennedy profile image81
      Theresa_Kennedyposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      There are many books on this topic- what about codependency are we supposed to answer????

      1. days leaper profile image50
        days leaperposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        err, I'm not sure!

    2. Freegoldman profile image59
      Freegoldmanposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Codependency (or codependence, co-narcissism or inverted narcissism) is a tendency to behave in overly passive or excessively caretaking ways that negatively impact one's relationships and quality of life. It also often involves putting one's needs at a lower priority than others while being excessively preoccupied with the needs of others.[1] Codependency can occur in any type of relationship, including in families, at work, in friendships, and also in romantic, peer or community relationships.[1] Codependency may also be characterized by denial, low self-esteem, excessive compliance, and/or control patterns.[1] Narcissists are considered to be natural magnets for the codependent.

    3. Obscure_Treasures profile image59
      Obscure_Treasuresposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      a set of *maladaptive, *compulsive behaviors learned by family members in order to survive in a family which is experiencing *great emotional pain and stress.

          * *maladaptive - inability for a person to develop behaviors which get needs met.
          * *compulsive - psychological state where a person acts against their own will or conscious desires in which to behave.
          * *sources of great emotional pain and stress - chemical dependency; chronic mental illness; chronic physical illness; physical abuse; sexual abuse; emotional abuse; divorce; hypercritical or non-loving environment.

      As adults, codependent people have a greater tendency to get involved in "toxic relationships", in other words with people who are perhaps unreliable, emotionally unavailable, or needy. And the codependent person tries to provide and control everything within the relationship without addressing their own needs or desires; setting themselves up for continued unfulfillment.

      Even when a codependent person encounters someone with healthy boundaries, the codependent person still operates in their own system; they're not likely to get too involved with people who have healthy boundaries. This of course creates problems that continue to recycle; if codependent people can't get involved with people who have healthy behaviors and coping skills, then the problems continue into each new relationship.