50 tips to self counselling , confidence improvement, motivation, self esteem and life coach

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If you are reading this hub, it means that you are looking for counselling, you are thinking that you need some self help. So you are just on right page. I am planning to write 50 hubs about mental health improvement, confidence improvement. And all of my tips are so easy to do, they are not time consuming, you can do some of them under a minute, some takes little more. But these tips will give you confidence, motivation, self esteem. You can think this is a kind of life coach, but you are going to be your life coach. These tips will improve your self confident rapidly. These self help tips will help on depression. This kind of life coaching is so simple and very effective. You will change your life in seconds. And you will see it is working. Personal development should be one of the important things in your life. These tips change my life, and I am sure that they will change your life as well as mine. This kind of personal development, I mean self improvement,  is very important for everybody. That is why there are many self help book in the market. When you go a book shop you will see many books self help, you will see many book on self help. Some of them about laws of success, some of them about personal growth. I have read many of them, I am sure you had also. These self help books can help you to improve individual development.

May be you heard about online self help groups. I don’t think so they work well. Since it is self help why do you need a group? This is just a personal thought, it may work for some, but I think I am better on my own.

Lets turn back to self development. It is really important to one have self respect. Some of these tips will improve your self respect as well as they will help your personality development. Now you want to help your self. I think you are in right track , you will help your self, you will be more confidence. Since some of these tips are about confidence building.

That is enough for introduction I think. 

First tip: 1 minute dreaming 5 minutes thinking.

This is a good exercise. Okay let’s dream about how you see yourself in 5 years. About one minute. But you need to dream with details. Let’s give an example; if you are dreaming to be a café shop owner in 5 years, you should be dream about café shop as well. Any way this is the dreaming part so you better enjoy it for a minute. After this you will think about it like 5 minute, if you be a shop owner, how would be your day? What will you do each day? Step by step. For example will you need to negotiate with dealers? Will you need to organize your workers? Will you need to deal with legal issues? After you find some of your daily routines you need to focus on one, such as legal issues. Then you need to ask yourself, are you ready now? If you are in charge of legal things, can you manage them? So in this way you will be realising your weakness. And you will see which skills you need for your dream. I strongly advise you to write your dream and which skills you will use in that situation. And try to learn them. Step by step you will build your dream with this way.

Thank you for reading. Please write a comment if you have any thought about it.

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Comments 7 comments

Fatima mehboob 4 years ago

Well.it was really interesting.to get over the psychological problems of life we need to follow such means which will help us to be strong.


mohammad mia 3 years ago

well, thanks from you that you have shared these advantage advices with us, in two days i have only read 4 tips which it has brought lots of differences to my life just in 2 days. I feel very successful, but only one problem which I have faced to it was " I can't find the other tips to read, so if you help I will be really happy,"


man singh negi 3 years ago

Tips 1

It is very nice article I have read first tip and it is really effective and impressive and person can change his/her life he they opt this article in practical life.


man singh negi 3 years ago

It is very nice article I have read first tip and it is really effective and impressive and person can change his/her life he they opt this article in practical life.

man_069@rediffmail.com, i am also in face book too.


Nazmul Hossan 2 years ago

It is really effective. But to be maintain it seriously.


Mago Answar 18 months ago

Very Helpful, atlist I've taken some minutes thinking where i want to be in 5 years


khushboo tiwari 16 months ago

well the tip was awsome i felt very positive while reading for sure will try n lets hope for the desired outcome....yayaya bingo!

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