10 Ways to Support Our Military

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One of my pet peeves is when I hear people thanking a veteran or active duty member. This usually happens in airports when men and women in uniform are moving through the country. Sometimes it happens when two people are chatting and one finds out the other is a service member or a vet.

“Thank you for your service,” they’ll say.

I understand what people are trying to do. Maybe some of them truly are grateful because they have the firsthand experience of having served and understand the hardship and sacrifices involved.

But to my ears, it sounds trite and insincere. It reminds me of the time immediately after 9/11. The Patriot Act had been passed and everyone was sporting flag lapel pins and slapping magnetic yellow “Support Our Troops” ribbons on their cars. Politicians were trying to outdo each other to prove who was the more patriotic, although few of them had ever served themselves or had children serving.

The fervor has abated over these many years we’ve been fighting the War on Terror. Politicians still wear the requisite red-white-and-blue lapel pin but veterans and their needs are forgotten until a scandal like the Walter Reed neglect or Veterans Affairs delayed patient care comes to light.

We ask a lot of our military and their families. With Veterans Day coming up, here are 10 ways you can show a vet or active duty member your gratitude that goes beyond buying a service member a meal or giving up a first class seat.

Here's How You Can Support Our Military

1. Write your member of Congress and tell them you want services to veterans and wounded warriors protected, especially for those experiencing Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Traumatic Brain Injury or other injuries.

2. Donate your time to the USO. Many airports have a USO Center where military members can relax between flights, take a nap, place a call or play a video game. If you can't donate your time, make a monetary donation to help keep Centers well-stocked.

3. Collect lap blankets, coats and toiletries. I know one woman who makes lap quilts for several months to donate to veterans in nursing homes and hospitals. Another group collects clothing for veterans who are homeless or going through rehabilitation.

Yoga for Warriors can teach veterans how to regain their peace.
Yoga for Warriors can teach veterans how to regain their peace.

4. Buy Yoga for Warriors. Through December 31, 2014, for every copy of Yoga For Warriors purchased through the Give Back Yoga Foundation, the organization will gift a free matching copy to a veteran or active duty service member. The book, written by Beryl Bender Birch, provides tools for warriors adapting to a peaceful life at home.

5. Send a care package to a service member or military unit. Find a unit or platoon through organizations such as anysoldier.com, operationgratitude.com or adoptaplatoon.org. Or just Google “military care packages.” And think beyond the traditional winter holidays.

6. Donate to one of the many organizations designed to support troops, from active duty personnel to wounded warriors to families of the fallen. Find one at http://www.military.com/spouse/military-life/military-resources/how-to-support-our-troops.html?comp=7000022934837&rank=1. Or try http://www.ourmilitary.mil/resources/community-support-for-our-military.

This Able Veteran partners veterans with therapy dogs.
This Able Veteran partners veterans with therapy dogs. | Source

7. Support organizations such as This Able Veteran and Patriot Paws that provide therapy dogs to veterans who need help coping with the visible and invisible trauma of war.

8. Hire a veteran. Transitioning to civilian life isn't easy and an MOS (military occupational specialty) doesn’t always translate to civilian job skills. But leadership, honor, integrity and a good work ethic - learned in the military - are invaluable in any workplace.

9. Support a military member’s family. Not every military family lives near a base with support services, especially if the service member is part of a National Guard unit. Offer respite childcare so the military spouse can take a break, invite the family to share a holiday or help with a repair around the house.

10. Befriend a military child, especially if you have a child their age. When dad (or mom) is away, you can fill a void in their life while providing friendship to the stay-at-home spouse.

I realize not everyone can or wants to serve in the military; at the same time, there are many who are eager to join, for any number of reasons. Still, we can be a “grateful nation” and show our true colors when we go beyond a simple handshake and verbal thanks.

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tirelesstraveler 2 years ago from California

Very good ideas. The families of soldiers and sailors need support and lots of love.


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AliciaC 2 years ago from British Columbia, Canada

You have some excellent suggestions for helping veterans in this hub, Danette. The suggestions are important at any time of year, but now is a great time to raise people's awareness about this topic.


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Danette Watt 2 years ago from Illinois Author

Thanks for taking the time to read this and leave a comment, tirelesstraveler and AliciaC. I just read on Military Insider(military.com) that Sen. Tom Coburn, R-Okla is questioning the retirement and disability pay some veterans receive. There is a small percentage who receive those along with their Social Security. While I can sort of see his point, I remember this is coming from a man who will retire with a big retirement check of his own along with medical benefits for life and he hasn't even served. So it's almost like the pot calling the kettle black.


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tirelesstraveler 2 years ago from California

@#% politicians.

If someone is receiving Social Security it's because they worked long enough to be vested in SS. If you think Coburn is bad what about the California legislators? They term out, get retirement, then move to the other house term out get retirement. After they are no longer eligible for the legislature they run for some kind of state office, like insurance commissioner, get another retirement on top of the retirement they got from being on the San Francisco board of supervisors and various other city jobs.

Some of those retirements need to go to our military.


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Perspycacious 23 months ago from Today's America and The World Beyond

And those in Congress, average age is what?, have their own Social Security and pay into it at only 6+% getting creditable quarters at high income while in the Congress. Thus they get their benefits from serving in Congress, plus their Social Security benefits, etc. It's the few who definitely aren't hurting, looking hard at those who also served this country and some of whom are hurting. and then not exercising their own oversight responsibilities to make sure what they promised our military is being fulfilled. There's enough shame to go around on The Hill.


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Danette Watt 23 months ago from Illinois Author

I agree Perspycacious. After just one term, they're set for life. Unfortunately, there are so few in Congress now who have actually served so they don't have a real understanding of the sacrifices members and their families make nor do they have children who serve. So there's no real "skin in the game."

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