Christmas Party Do's and Dont's

As much time as we spend at work, we really get to know our coworkers. We are thrown together for 40 or 50 hours a week with nothing in common but our job. Outside of work, our relationships with our counterparts can be tricky. At some point, somebody came up with the idea of a company Christmas party. A get together for a merry time off the clock. The results can be hilarious, disastrous, or worst of all, just plain boring.

I remember going to an office Christmas party at my boss's house in my early 20's. After some prodding (and some delicious eggnog), I did a full on Michael Jackson impression. Being young and not knowing any better, I followed this up with doing the worm down the hallway.

Monday morning came around and guess who was the talk of the office? Yep, the guy who decided to break dance at the Christmas party. So with this in mind and the Holidays coming up, I thought I would put together a helpful list to anyone planning on attending their office Christmas party.

Do’s and don’ts of office Christmas parties

Do: Be prepared to have a good time. If you are going to come, be a good sport and ready to talk to coworkers and their significant others.

Don’t: Sit in the corner and sulk. Nobody likes a Debbie Downer, It’s a party, have fun.

Do: Make sure you have a safe ride home if you are drinking. Plan in advance.

Don’t: Get sloshed and do something you will regret. Remember, you work with these people. You may not want to take shots in the kitchen and decide to dance on the table.

Do: Bring your wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend if they are welcome.

Don’t: Bring a sketchy friend that may take shots in the kitchen and decide to dance on the table.

Do: Be cordial to that person that drives you crazy at the office. It’s the holidays so try to put on your happy face if just for one night.

Don’t: Decide it’s a great time to tell them what you really think. How you are sick of him/her not pulling their weight. Speaking of weight, do not mention how he/she could stand to lose a few pounds.

Do: Keep the conversation upbeat and casual

Don’t: Get into office gossip and rumors; it’s easy to fall into this trap. Work is common ground so inevitably the conversation will be work based. Try not to talk about Nancy’s boyfriend or the fact that she’s going through her third divorce. I would also leave politics out of the discussion.

Do: Dress nice, unless there's a theme, stick to the basics.

Don't: Wear a shirt with profane language. Wear clean clothes, these are still your coworkers.

Do: Talk to your boss or host. If it’s at your boss’s house, thank him or her for having you, it’s polite.

Don’t: Decide it’s a good time to talk about a raise or Christmas bonus. Maybe bonuses were cut this year, if you are deeply upset by this, maybe you should sit this one out.

Do: Leave the kids at home. Unless they are specifically invited, most of these parties are for adults.

Don't: Load up the kids, bring them over hungry and ready to be entertained. These parties can be a nightmare for young kids, no toys, no friends, and being stuck inside with boring adults talking about work.

Do: Offer to take the office picture

Don’t: Facebook the picture and tag everyone in it without their permission. Some people are very private and don’t appreciate being posted online for everyone to see.

Do: Remember this should still be considered a work function. Although you may not be at work, and you may have a drink in your hand, the same rules apply.

Don't: Tell off color jokes, or make suggestive comments to an attractive, or for that matter, unattractive coworker.

Do: Have a good time and be a gracious guest.

Don't: Be the last to leave. If your host is yawning and looking at his watch while you're eating the last of the meatballs out of a crock pot while telling yet another joke you read in Reader's Digest, take the hint and find your coat.

Company parties can be a good time. It's the holidays and people are generally festive. Some companies are really close and like family. Others are not so close and would rather not socialize after hours. You have to use common sense and act accordingly. Here's to a safe holiday party, good times, and minimal Monday morning stories.

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DeborahNeyens 5 years ago from Iowa

Excellent tips. As an employment attorney, the office Christmas party usually led to more work for me because someone was always doing something stupid that created potential liability for the employer. Gosh, do I have stories ...


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MarloByDesign 5 years ago from United States

I wish my company had the funds for a Christmas party!


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weestro 5 years ago from Virginia Author

I'll bet deborah, I love the stories though!

Sorry to hear Marlo, although I wouldn't recommend hosting.

thanks for reading guys!


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blairtracy 5 years ago from Canada

Great tips! I love the set up of the do's and don'ts.


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weestro 4 years ago from Virginia Author

Thanks blair!


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Daisy Mariposa 4 years ago from Orange County (Southern California)

Pete,

I love your sense of humor! What a great article!


dreamseeker2 4 years ago

Great advice for those who work in an office. Found it very useful and full of proper protocol! : ) Voted up!


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Alecia Murphy 4 years ago from Wilmington, North Carolina

I haven't been to an office Christmas party yet but I'm sure they're going to be happening soon. Voted up and shared!


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Sunshine625 4 years ago from Orlando, FL

I wish you shared a video of your breakdancing and doing the worm! Excellent tips. One for the women...don't be a Ho, Ho, Ho :)


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Jeannieinabottle 4 years ago from Baltimore, MD

I am with Linda.... I want photos and a video of your amazing breakdancing skills. :-) I have to admit, I love it when someone drinks too much at the holiday office party. It is like a Christmas present to me... hours of entertainment and then awesome office gossip for weeks.


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weestro 4 years ago from Virginia Author

Thanks Daisy, I appreciate it!


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weestro 4 years ago from Virginia Author

I learned the hard way so I figured I would share. Thanks for reading and voting!


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weestro 4 years ago from Virginia Author

Now you're fully prepared Alecia, Thanks!


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weestro 4 years ago from Virginia Author

I must have missed that one...take heed ladies!


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weestro 4 years ago from Virginia Author

That one wasn't filmed, but I'm told there's one of me at a wedding reception floating around somewhere! Thanks Jeannie!

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