Mexico's "Dia de los Muertos." The Day of the Dead.

A delighful excuse for a party

Did you miss me, son!?
Did you miss me, son!?

November 2nd Big Eats for the Dear Departed

The living don’t have much to celebrate about unless you’re Chinese this month; if they were conscious, the West’s dead might be happy they are that way and out of it!

That being the case or not, they have their day as far as the Mexican departed are concerned as that country celebrates the yearly “Dia de los Muertos,” or “Day of the Dead” on November 2nd .

The Mexicans are far more fatalistic about the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune which constantly beleaguer mere man, including his eventual and certain departure of this mortal coil. They don’t dwell on their eventual death; accept it when it comes to a dear one and may even play and make jokes about the departed, even while they weep.

This philosophy is showcased in my favorite Mexican song, “Valentina,” dating from the Revolution in 1910. The singer has an appointment with his lover, Valentina, but will expose himself to danger in seeing her. His last words in the song are, “If I may be killed tomorrow, let them kill me today,”

Each November 2nd is a national holiday. But death is with one and all for days before and days after. You will see the Grim Reaper ogling you from bakery windows, where special “panes de muerto,” bread of the dead, in both animal and human form titillates the taste buds. Skulls with tinselly eyes grin invitingly from candy stores.

But the markets are the best place to see the full inventory of articles and food prepared for the dear departed. Here are the special candlesticks, censers and candles of all sizes and colors; amusing toys for the kids such as little coffins from which a skeleton jumps at the jerk of a string. You can see full funeral processions in miniature with priests or mourners carrying the coffin, all made of black matte and shiny paper, with heads made of chick-peas. A multitude of paper-mache masks and dancing skeletons on sticks.

Want an emotive present for your best bloke or girlfriend? Buy a necktie pin with crazy, glimmering eyes, exposed ribs and fleshless thighbones.

This is the day for satire, too, as sheets called “Calaveras” are sold printed with insulting or amusing verse and cartoon figures of the unpopular in public life - the police always get a good drubbing and, for some reason, are addressed as “tecolotes” or owls.

In some of the large city graveyards, the dead are buried by class, from first (the rich) to as many as 6 levels, the last being the resting place of the indigent. All are visited and flowers, toys, small gifts, sweets and food, etc., are left for the dead to enjoy as best they can. At this time, priests stand by to bless the graves for a small tip. Impromptu parties flare up outside the cemeteries around vendors selling goodies for the permanent inmates as well as the traditional marigolds, called “flores de los muertos,“ or flowers of the dead, ever since Aztec times.

Householders are convinced their dead will come and visit them on this eve, so they prepare “ofrendas,“ or delicious dishes and drinks for them, trying to remember what dishes they liked in real life. The dead are not expected to really partake of the food by the pragmatic hosts, but to do so symbolically: the family tucks in with a will after evening prayers at the graveside, so nothing is wasted.

The previous day, November 1st, All Saint’s Day, is reserved for the “angelitos,” or little tots; some special treats are added to the fare for the adults and fireworks remind them of the event and addresses.

All Saints Day is also the celebration for the departed adult’s souls, who might come at any time on the eve of October 31st,.

A ceremony largely discontinued in modern Mexico, was for the men and boys to go from house-to-house to sing “albanzas” to the dead who were enjoying their offerings. They are offered a drink at each house, so arrive home suffused with more cheer.

As with all Mexican fiestas, lots of booze is available and consumed, often leading to some pretty exuberant celebrating (enough to wake the dead!).

The late author, Octavio Paz, rather cynically, pointed out that all too often these parties have ended in homicides, as old blood feuds surface, adding to the number of the dear departed for next year!


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Austinstar 5 years ago from Somewhere in the universe

El Dia de los muertes. Es mi favorito dia en Mejico.


diogenes 5 years ago

Hi AS: I used to enjoy all the color, too...Bob


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frogtalk 5 years ago

I think it's a pretty depressing day in Mexico. They exalt death so much. It's La Santa Muerte (the holy death) that is exalted more than people's dead relatives are remembered. It's a highly Satanic day...what is represented in this essay is a very sugar coated dia de los muertos, In my eighteen years of living in Mexico I've seen more of the dark Satanic, idol worshipping, santa muerte part of it then what is portrayed here...although this might have been what it was originally.


David Mandich & Dr. Rosa Pena family photos 5 years ago

Indians in India are celebrating something sim. too. Biggest holy fest. of the year per my Hindu amigos. CNN or BBC? did a story on the Mexico dia recently - everyone drank, ate and sat around on the patio awaiting the dead family members to arrive. Gentle breezes, the drift of incense smoke, a door creaking etc. made some believe the spirits were there. It's just another excuse to party for some - Like Cinco de Mayo or St. Patrick's Day.


diogenes 5 years ago

One man sees gold, another, dross, I guess. The real negatives are your comments, Frog...Bob


diogenes 5 years ago

Hi Davey: Every day is a day for the dead in the UK...Bob


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Nelly A. 5 years ago

Hi Bob. Great caption for the pic.Here in the Philippines,we celebrate all souls' day in the cemetery. We generally don't celebrate on Halloween eve, although there'll be a little celebration in my house on Oct 31st, it's my birthday!lol. We go to a cemetery every Nov 1st at afternoon, spend the night there, and get back home the next day.It doesn't feel creepy,i swear.Cemeteries here will be crowded - and sometimes tend to be TOOOO crowded.Well, great hub.


diogenes 5 years ago

Hi Nelly: That's interesting. It might not be so easy to do by yourself, although there's nothing to be feared except maybe snakes and catching pneumonia. Is it true that certain places over there speak Spanish? Excuse my ignorance...Bob


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BobbiRant 5 years ago from New York

I always learn a lot from your hubs. I'd heard of this, but never knew that much about it until now. I liked learning what it is all about. I love learning of other cultures, expands my horizons, which we all need.


diogenes 5 years ago

Thanks Bobbi...I wish I could expand my horizons as easily as I increase my waistline! Bob


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Hello, hello, 5 years ago from London, UK

That is an fascinating hub about the Mexican celebration. Thank you.


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Debby Bruck 5 years ago

Hello Diogenes ~ It all quite macabre, gruesome, and morbid. But, I guess this culture knows how to celebrate the dead with fanfare. My daughter and I went downtown when she was in middle school taking Spanish, and we frequented all the stores in a neighborhood that we all decked out for Mexico's "Dia de los Muertos" Day of the Dead holiday. We had such a super time together. The best to you, Debby


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diogenes 5 years ago from UK and Mexico Author

Hanna Thanks for kind comments

Hi Debbie: It's none of those things to the Mexicans but rather a nice way to remember the dear departed and have a fiesta at the same time..Thanks for visit...Bob


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Debby Bruck 5 years ago

Dear Diogenes. I guess the skeleton costumes that on the surface appear gruesome. Mexican customs differ from what I'm used to and they must find this an honorable and celebratory way to show respect to the departed. Blessings, Debby


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diogenes 5 years ago from UK and Mexico Author

Hi Debby. I guess the skeletons especially can be a bit shocking for the uninitiated. Thanks for return visit...Bob

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