Mother's Day is a Celebration of Maternal Bonds
Mother’s Day is really a national holiday that recognizes maternal bonds. These bonds are between all mothers everywhere and have existed for a long time, but the holiday almost wasn’t to be.
Women’s peace groups were the first organizations that worked to establish a national holiday for mothers. The women’s peace groups organized and met as a bonding that was established for women that had lost sons in the civil war on both sides. The first recognized observances were locally and nothing at the national level. These early Mother’s Day celebrations were during the 1870s and 1880s.
Ann Jarvis fashioned a committee to make a national holiday for a Mother’s Friendship Day. Her purpose was stated as a form of bringing together families that had been divided during the great Civil War. Unfortunately, Ann Jarvis didn’t see her dream come to be, she died in 1905.
The Mother’s Day that we know and celebrate in the modern era was established by Ann Jarvis’ daughter Anna Marie Jarvis. Her mother’s memorial was held on May 12, 1907. Following her mother’s memorial she held the first Mother’s Day that was recognized nationally and then internationally. West Virginia was the first state to recognize it followed quickly by the rest of the nation.
Anna Jarvis was fighting the commercialization of the holiday. Nine years after the first Mother’s Day commercialization took over the holiday to her dismay. She didn’t like the greeting cards tied to the holiday and anything else that touched on commercialization of the holiday. She spent the remainder of her life and her inheritance fighting to bring it back to what her intentions of the holiday initially were- an observance of motherhood and maternal bonds.
The holiday today loosely resembles its beginnings but is celebrated by the world every first Sunday in May. Mother’s Day is for mothers that are here with us today and those that are no longer with us. http://hubpages.com/hub/Giftidesforthismothersdayinremembranceofyourmother
Americans spend millions of dollars on flowers, candy, and pampering gifts like pedicures, restaurants having holiday breakfasts, lunches and dinners along with greeting cards each year. Mother’s Day is the busiest day of the year for the phone companies. The jewelry industry loves this holiday more than Christmas. More than 10% of annual jewelry sales are for this popular holiday. One of the favorite gifts for the giving is mother’s rings. These rings are for mothers and contain the birthstones of all of their children.
Could this holiday have went on being battered down and never saw the light of day with the commercialization of the observance? It’s quite possible. Millions of dollars that are spent in our nation for this holiday are a testament to the retailers promoting the day and making certain that it continues. America is built upon capitalism and this holiday is capitalism at its best.
We must remember what this holiday was created for, the celebration of motherhood and maternal bonds and celebrate it for what it was created for, mothers and the spot they hold in this world.
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