My Countdown to Christmas

This year, I decided that I would enjoy the week before Christmas.

Every year, the week before Christmas is full of last-minute trips to the mall and the grocery store. Each trip starts with a fight through the demolition derby, known as the parking lot, to inch my pick-up truck into a space originally meant for a mountain bike. I’ll then walk a mile and a half across the parking lot, dodging other drivers rushing to make claims on spaces hardly emptied by those trying to leave the chaos. Obtaining a cart is the next challenge. I’ll be angry with myself that I did not get one of the orphaned carts sitting in the parking lot. Standing in line while the door greeter continues to insist that the wait for a cart is only 30 minutes, her cheery disposition grates on my last nerve. She may think that 30 minutes is not a long wait, but she forgets that she is getting paid for her time by those of us in the line, willing to spend our time and money in this establishment.

Finally, with a cart in hand, it’s time to plow through the crowds and try to find what is written on the list. The top half is written neatly and easy to read, the bottom half are the scribbled items I thought of, or saw in exiting carts, that I realized I needed after all.

There is no meaning to the disorder as carts rush in and out of isles and move in opposite directions. Didn’t any of these people drive here and park in the parking lot? Why don’t they realize cart laws and traffic laws are the same? Or at least they should be. I take my life in my own hands dealing with this madness and confusion, which is turning the happy holiday season into a major holiday headache.

This year, I decided that I would enjoy the week before Christmas. It was not an easy task, but I was able to get the out-of-town boxes shipped, cards addressed and sent. Gifts are bought, wrapped and under the tree. The refrigerator is full of everything we will need for the week, I hope.

Now, I can sit back and enjoy a romantic roaring fire with my husband, watch my favorite holiday movie or read a book I’ve been anticipating. Maybe I’ll do a little baking – if I feel like it, or taking a walk around the neighborhood to look at all the lights. Of course, there will be the pleasure of having the grandchildren on Christmas Eve, and all peace and quiet will be shattered – for a while. But the joy of the empty nest is that the noise and chaos leave when the children do, and peace and quiet return with ease.

Oh, I am going to love this week before Christmas— right after I change the sheets in the guest room, make an 8-hour trip to pick up my son from the airport, and make one last trip to the grocery store to make sure I get all of his favorite foods.


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saddlerider1 5 years ago

Christmas at the best of times is very stressful, especially if we leave things to the last minute. Being a man I am one of the ghosts that haunt the shopping mall on Christmas Eve, hunting for that last present at the last minute.

I find it all the time and it's such a pleasure to not be walking shoulder to shoulder with the herds of people during the rush periods and week-ends being the worst time to shop:0)

Enjoy your rum toddy and egg nog and a blazing fire with your hubby and put your feet up smiling and knowing that you have done it all right. Merry Christmas to you and yours and may you have a blessed safe, healthy and festive Holiday. Peace and hugs from the Saddle.


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miss_jkim 5 years ago Author

Thank you Saddle,

May you find that last gift in the peace and quiet of the near deserted malls this Christmas Eve. I will indeed, be sitting with my feet up, Irish Coffee in hand, enjoying the fire and family.

Merry Christmas to you and yours, and abundant blessings to you all in the New Year.


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epigramman 5 years ago

..well with someone like you it's Christmas all year round with your kind gestures, positive thoughts and goodwill here at the HUB to all of your peers - and that's what makes you one of our favourite angels here!


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miss_jkim 5 years ago Author

Awe Colin, you make me blush. Thank you for such kind words.

Wishing you a Very Merry Christmas and Much Happiness in the New Year.

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