What's Your New Year's Resolution?

My New Year's Resolution is to change my way of thinking.

I can get really caught up in a negative way of thinking letting my fears take over which makes it hard for me to move forward in any situation. I have recently let go of thinking this way. I've been trying to see the bright side of things and find the beauty in everything I do and see. It has made me more happy.

For some reason I'm the type of person who always wants more. I get bored with the ordinary and need to be inspired and challenged in order to feel alive and passionate. I am very passionate by nature, but it dims with fear, depression, and regrets. I always think well, things could be better. So, I am going to try thinking in the new of things being already good and see where that takes me.

My life last year was very different than this year. It changed in an instant and I couldn't control it. It's funny how life does that to you sometimes. Last year, I was working at a magazine as their designer and art director. I also wrote articles for them from time to time. The company closed down at the end of summer and I was left dealing with being laid off going back to freelance work. It hasn't been the easiest transition. I became sort of depressed and kind of lost as to where I am going to go to from there. I decided to start my own business and magazine which I am working on now while freelancing and volunteering.

In a way I think life throws you these curve balls to keep you on your toes. I wasn't happy at that job even though it was somewhat fulfilling creatively. My boss was inappropriate and to some degree I felt creatively stunted. As I look back on it, it was a pretty toxic environment even though it seemed glamourous for awhile. So, I am glad for this opportunity of changing my life even though it is a challenge. I think what you focus on becomes your priority and your passion drives it.

I am also trying to be more healthy in my lifestyle, eating, etc. I started doing acupuncture last May through the summer for stress and to see how it made me feel. At the end of every session I always felt refreshed and more clear with my life focus. I also started doing yoga and was going to start taking more classes maybe becoming a yoga instructor. I always had a passion for it. I also love Ayurveda. My family was always into a more healthy lifestyle. My grandmother from a young age took me to health food stores and I always loved natural remedies.

Another thing I am changing is trying not to get down in the winter months, which has always been an obstacle for me. I don't like how dark it gets so soon. It always made me sort of depressed. Exercise really helps with that.

The number one thing is to love myself more. Pamper myself in anyway possible and to just be happy. Life is short.

I know I've been told if you focus on one thing it usually doesn't work out and backfires on you, but if you change your way of living and lifestyle, I think that's a totally different thing. What are some of your resolutions for the New Year?

Wishing you a Happy New Year and all the best in the upcoming year!


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Cara.R 4 years ago from New York

I can relate to your hub. Are you a Scorpio too? :)) This New Year I look forward to starting my life with my Fiance. Even if the world does end :)) I'll get a few months to spend with my husband. And not have to say goodbye at the airport yet again. I have a lot of things I need to do, there all on the list but he's at the top.

Best wishes to you for a Happy New Year.


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Deborah Brooks 4 years ago from Brownsville,TX

The winter months gt to me too.. I know what you are talking about.. I have had a lot of changes and it's not easy.. especially when you are my age.

Happy New year to you My dear.

I voted up and awesome


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carolinemd21 4 years ago from Close to Heaven Author

Hi Cara, no I'm not a scorpio! I'm a gemini. I should be one though! lol. That's great that you're seeing your fiance and actually get to spend some time with him together. I am so happy for you. When's the wedding? :) Happy New Year to you and yours!


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carolinemd21 4 years ago from Close to Heaven Author

Hi Deborah, Thank you for stopping by and reading. I know those winter months can be hard. I wish you a Happy New Year to you Deborah!


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Cara.R 4 years ago from New York

Thanks Caroline...My Finance is a Gem too! :)) The wedding is next Fall. It's not easy having such a long distance relationship, it's hard on the heart, so when our wedding comes around I want a week long party! We have been going back and forth for almost three years.


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Wr1t3r 4 years ago from Oregon

Take life by the reins and gallop on. Thank you for sharing. I think we need to hear more about how we pick up and move on. Life happens to everyone be it good or bad. The good helps us to feel successful and happy, but it's the bad things that really make us grow and become better. Without the bad everything would be boring and plateaued. Make a New Year's resolution, keep it or not, but make it.

Happy New Year and good luck in the coming year!


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Perspycacious 4 years ago from Today's America and The World Beyond

Hoping Cara.R didn't just have a Freudian slip when she wrote that "My Finance is a Gem too!:))" Check out the Hubs on Seasonal Affective Disorder (S.A.D.) and keep the gloom out of the room.


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Cara.R 4 years ago from New York

Caroline is a Gem isn't she. ;)


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Sky9106 4 years ago from A beautiful place on earth.

Truth , truth and more truth , it simply melts me on the inside it can't hurt , it's energy and energy is good. Where ever it's coming from is always a place , to be cherished and protected and also nourished. It's also quite simple, what truth wants in return .

The answer is also quite simple . It wants again just the same energy that it conjured up to use as strength, to put out something so precious and dear to us all .

Believe it or not that's the very ingredient our world is dying from a lack of. More sincere and meaningful truth.

I pray that the Most High God shows you that way all through the coming year and for all times beyond .

Great truthful hub Caroline.

Stay truthful to yourself always . Be certain that whenever you place it outside of yourself , know what it commands in return.

Bless.


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ishwaryaa22 4 years ago from Chennai, India

Interesting Hub! Your hub shows that u are a strong person and u are determined to come out of depression through yoga, excercise, etc and enjoy your life to the fullest. Vote Up.


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cherylone 4 years ago from Connecticut

I am inspired by your hub. I need to do just that, but sometimes I feel like life has thrown a metal net over me and the wires are cutting into me. Maybe I should begin carrying an "metal cutter" with me? Hope your resolution keeps growing. :)


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epigramman 4 years ago

.....top ten resolutions for epi's new year : (2012)

10. Keep reading CAROLINEMD 21's hubs

9. Hopefully she'll keep coming over my way too

8. ...because it's always great to see her

7. continued good health - relatively speaking

6. to seek my happiness

5. ...and for others too!

4. keep writing up a storm and maintain my creative freedom

3. look after and love my two cats

2. perhaps get published; get famous - become a rock star - lol

1. and when in doubt through all of that - keep on reading CAROLINEMD 21's hubs

lake erie time ontario canada 5:55pm wishing you sincerely a healthy and happy new year in 2012.


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dare2baware 4 years ago from UK

NONE!! Why would I need the New Year as an 'excuse' for change? So my resolution is not to have a resolution. Same than every year. ;-)


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always exploring 4 years ago from Southern Illinois

My resolution is to continue with a healthy lifestyle. I have always been into fitness. I 'kinda let it slip for awhile when i started writing so much, but i'm back..The winter months can be depressing. Staying close to family and friends tends to help with that. Good luck with your new freelancing endeavor. The acupuncture is interesting. I didn't know it was used for depression. That would be an interesting hub..Thank you for sharing..Cheers


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carolinemd21 4 years ago from Close to Heaven Author

@ Cara I would want a week long party too! lol You're a gem too!

@ Wr1t3r Thank you for reading and your comment! I totally agree with you life goes on, just make the most of it! Happy New Year to you too!

@ Perspycacious thanks for reading and the advice.

@ Sky thank you my friend for stopping by and for the great advice! I try to stay true to myself everyday. Happy New Year to you!

@ Ishwaryaa thank you for reading and the great compliment!

@ Cheryl maybe try to cut the metal off and make life as simple as you can for yourself or make the best out of the metal with you. lol Hope it all works out. Happy New Year to you!

@ Hello Epi! Thank you for the great compliments on reading my hubs! lol I always stop by and read yours as well. That is one of my resolutions also! I hope you get published. You're poems always put a smile on my face and are awesome. Happy New Year to you!

@ dare2baware LOL good point. We should want to be a better self everyday of the year. Happy New Year to you!

@ Always I will think about that as a hub. Acupuncture treats a lot of conditions. I wish you a lot of success in fitness and the New Year! Thank you for stopping by. Always good to see you!


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Sunshine625 4 years ago from Orlando, FL

Entertaining hub and comments Caroline! I'm going for a new resolution this year...to not make a resolution:)


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carolinemd21 4 years ago from Close to Heaven Author

Hi Sunshine! Thank you for the compliments. LOL Good resolution. Happy New Year to you!


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dare2baware 4 years ago from UK

Thanks Caroline. Happy New Year to you too ;-)


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SubRon7 4 years ago from eastern North Dakota

Beautiful hub, Caroline, the things you said about yourself made me feel good too. About four years ago I was "let go" from my job. For awhile I was devastated, then a rural neighbor offered me a little employment. From there I bought a laptop and finally the internet, and have taken my writing from the last 35 years, updated it, self-published, and people are actually reading and liking my work. But I needed that slap in the face first. As for the New Year, I haven't actually made any resolutions, but I also haven't looked back. Thank you, Caroline, for this wonderful hub.


Sueswan 4 years ago

Hi Caroline

I wish you success with your resolutions.

I don't make New Year resolutions.

Voted up and away!


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carolinemd21 4 years ago from Close to Heaven Author

@ Dare thanks for all your support!

@ SubRon Congrats on getting your work out there! I'm glad you are doing what you love. Thank you for reading and commenting. Glad it made you feel better.

@ Suewan Thank you for reading and your comments. I wish you success in the new Year too!


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Lady_E 4 years ago from London, UK

Lovely Hub. Sorry to read about the Magazine issue - you must have loved writing there.

Thank goodness its spring now and then it will be summer. Uplifting weather for you. I like your resolution about pampering yourself. One of my resolutions is to read one book a month. It's march, I've read one. lol....

Good Luck and thanks for sharing.


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carolinemd21 4 years ago from Close to Heaven Author

Hello Lady I am actually happier now then at the magazine! lol. You sound like me with the book reading. Take Care. :)

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